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 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 51
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So basically, its a gal you're interested in banging guys other than you?

Shoot, been doing it all my life and didn't realize it was cool :) lol

maybe the thrill is finally getting the women others want so bad. Been there, too. THAT I could understand, but its easy enough to do without having to search the back of the free magazines for partners. Its all in how you frame your mind to achieve what you want in life. How many horizontally dance with their long time partner while imagining its the new hottie at work?
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
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Posted: 8/29/2013 8:03:17 AM
I'll take a pass on this.
While my developed brain can understand the angles of the kink etc etc...I dont think my lower brain would respond well to it.

:)
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/29/2013 8:40:41 AM

Getting off by being humiliated? Pass

Cuckold doesn't always include humiliation. Porn will tell you it does. Real life isn't porn.
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
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Posted: 8/29/2013 10:52:54 AM

Real life isn't porn.


Wait a tick....you mean I'm NOT supposed to have sex with the first woman who walks through the door?

That shopkeepers, waitresses, nurses, librarians, meter maids, dog walkers, girls on the beach, police women, and fast food girls AREN'T uncontrollably horny?

That women CAN actually be too tired, not in the mood or simply not interested?

ASTOUNDING!
This explains all the harrasment , sexual assault, and lewd and lascivious behavior charges that mysteriously rack up when I get out of bed.

Maybe tomorrow I will just try saying "hi".

LSB


PS. This was a joke post. I just couldnt resist a little goofy fun. :)
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 8/30/2013 5:53:22 AM
Unless this fetish includes being given his Amex card and told to shop til I drop, I ain't interested.
 honeycognac
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 56
Is there anybody else out there who thinks the cuckold lifestyle sounds so hot?
Posted: 8/31/2013 11:06:49 PM
I had a boyfriend who had this as a fantasy and I found it a turn-off especially the part where I'd have to mock and humiliate him. I find it psychologically fascinating on a few levels but then I have a psych degree and I find human sexuality very intriguing. I was watching a woman on a webcam site last week, and she's normally into submissive fantasies but this time she wanted a bull to cuck her husband - so she'd be dominated by the bull but at the same time she'd be in Domme mode with subby hubby. I'd never seen that side of her before and it obviously got her pretty revved up.
Not my ball of wax but still a hell of a lot more interesting than vanilla.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 9/1/2013 7:06:49 AM

I haven't seen cuckold porn before so I can't comment, but the whole purpose is for the cuckold is to know his partner is having sex with others whether he's present during the act or not. Humiliation on some level must play a part here.

I good friend of mine is into cuckolding, and not at all into or interested in being humiliated. His interest is more from the envy side. Please note, envy... not jealousy. In a lot of ways, he is my cuck. We will (probably) never have sex. We live on opposite sides of the country. He wants to hear the dirty details of my sexploits, sparing no detail, and to be reminded that he can't have it himself.... not because he's not good enough, or big enough, or wouldn't be able to satisfy me, but because he lives so far away. He's happy for me that I'm able to experience great pleasure at the hands of someone else. That's a generous thing for someone to give. He wants to be able to do things with me that my current guy does, experience the things my current partner experiences.

A friend of mine summed it up far better than I could:
"Envy happens when you want something that someone else also has. For example, feel envy when a friend wins a fortune.

Jealousy however is a feeling of resentment that another has something that you feel you more rightfully deserve. For example, feeling jealousy when someone lands a job you feel you deserve more. Jealousy often stems from a place of insecurity and fearfulness. Whereas with envy you don't want to take anything away from anyone else - you just wish you had it too."
 63T
Joined: 5/28/2006
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Posted: 9/1/2013 10:35:24 AM

Jealousy however is a feeling of resentment that another has something that you feel you more rightfully deserve. For example, feeling jealousy when someone lands a job you feel you deserve more. Jealousy often stems from a place of insecurity and fearfulness.

If I may be permitted,
Jealousy is a complex state, encompassing a fear of losing someone or something to someone else (abandonment) or rage (emotion of fear or anger) and can even involve a state of humiliation.

Insecurity is a state of being (belief) and not a feeling or emotion.
One does not have to be insecure to be jealous. Indeed, one can be secure and the state of jealousy can be expressed in a productive and constructive manner while recognizing it's physiological effect of fear or anger.
When one thinks that they deserve more, it is an expression of a state of entitlement, not a feeling, or a state of jealousy.

Resentment or bitterness is a feeling born of persistent negative emotions such as anger coupled with the meaning, belief applied to the emotional event(s).
Jealousy is a complex, emotional state. Resentment is a feeling. Jealousy and resentment are not synonymous nor are the terms interchangeable.
Jealousy subsides after the emotional event has dissipated. Resentment lingers long after the emotional event has dissipated and may have been present long before the emotional (jealous state) event.
I will refrain from commenting on your "relationship" given the context of the thread.
 Iseedudpeople
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 10/27/2013 6:26:40 PM
I don't think most women would mind an arrangement where they have the freedom to screw any man whenever they want while their SO remains faithful always.
 chill78
Joined: 10/13/2013
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Posted: 10/29/2013 6:53:34 AM
I'm not interested in it. But some men actually enjoy watching their wife with another man. In particular when it fulfills some fantasy she might have. A younger fit man or a man from a different race etc.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/30/2013 9:26:54 PM

Would this be humiliating enough for you?

http://mycuckhusband.tumblr.com/

I don't think the OP would like that - LOL. I guess cuckolding is not just letting your significant other bang other dudes while you watch... but where you're always restricted bigtime! Wow... crazy sh!t:

"I have kept my wimp cuckold husband locked in a chastity cage 24/7 for nearly 2 years now. His penis has shrunk to a fraction of its original size. I milk him with his large prostate butt plug and rarely allow him to play with himself. I **** other men while my cuckold hubby stays home and does his chores."

Yeah, the OP should sign up for that... ;)
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
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Posted: 10/31/2013 7:41:35 PM
I don't really think it is so hot, but the way women treat me, I'm sure they would gladly do it anyone else BUT me, so it would probably work out that way anyway.
 Scott.S.
Joined: 8/11/2012
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Posted: 11/12/2013 2:30:09 AM
I have definitely had my thoughts about it and would love to experience it
 basilisk123
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Posted: 9/16/2014 7:03:29 PM
Just the thought of the betrayal makes me rage. I would not be able to take it if someone did this to me IRL. Hell, I might just violently rape them both on the principle alone.
 sunsetsam
Joined: 8/25/2014
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/17/2014 12:40:33 PM
I used to know someone who was in this type of relationship. He was a friend of a friend, not someone I knew too well.

I’ll never forget this one night when we were at his place , just hanging out , and his wife coming home at like 2am or so. She said hello to us then looked at him and said “ coming to bed soon , dear ? I have a fresh creampie for you “

I looked at one of the other guys and asked what that meant ?

I was sorry I’d asked !

lol
 fuglygirl
Joined: 8/28/2014
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Posted: 9/17/2014 3:32:49 PM
so many guys are already living this lifestyle..& don't know it . I guess it's not as "hot" when they don't know about it? don't know they are being cuckolded? that another man is doing their wife

is it also being a "Cuckold" if the wife is having sex with another woman? curious..
 basilisk123
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Posted: 9/17/2014 8:04:08 PM
"is it also being a "Cuckold" if the wife is having sex with another woman? curious.."-fuglygirl

cuck·old
ˈkəkəld,-ōld/
nounarchaic
1.
the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.
verb
1.
(of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.

google definition says yes.
 NikonGuy007
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Posted: 9/17/2014 10:11:00 PM
IRL? Hell to the nawl.

Some of the porn is 'interesting' though.

About 15 years ago, I met a white woman who told me that when she was married, her and her white husband went out to a nightclub, for the express purpose of finding a black guy, to bang her in the back seat of their car, while the husband watched.

Not sure why she felt the need to "share" that, but it was a titillating story.
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 9/18/2014 11:01:23 AM

About 15 years ago, I met a white woman who told me that when she was married, her and her white husband went out to a nightclub, for the express purpose of finding a black guy, to bang her in the back seat of their car, while the husband watched.

Not sure why she felt the need to "share" that, but it was a titillating story.

Do you honestly not know why she told you?
 NikonGuy007
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Posted: 9/18/2014 11:51:42 PM
^^^Honestly, I do not.

Here is why I type that: I keep hearing and reading about women, and their highly tuned "intuition".

Over the years, I have been told numerous times (and I agree), that, in person, INITIALLY, I come across as very formal, serious, and borderline intimidating. At 25, people called me, "an old soul". The reality is............I am the King of practical jokes. I am the guy that keeps a group, the office, a date, any scenario loose and laughing. I am great at making people feel comfortable. However, I am a fairly straight arrow when it comes to 3-somes, gang-bangs, one night stands, F-buddies, etc. If a woman has done these things, then it's her body................but I don't think it's flattering and I don't see it as something for her to advertise.

I met this woman through a personal ad (in the city newspaper, NOT through a swingers or casual encounter's venue). When it comes to women, I am fairly 'old-school'. Yes, she can be a freak, but not too freaky and not with too many people. Yes, I am judgmental like that. Over the past few years, in my various interactions with people, I am learning (very thankfully), just what a (so-called) boring life I've lead.

I typed all that to mean, I don't know what she saw in me, that would have made her think that story presented her in a flattering light (to me).

If her intent was to get rid of me, then it worked.

I am highly attracted to the type of woman who is into ONE guy, and who has no interest, in the interest (sexual, or otherwise), of anyone, who isn't THAT guy.
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 9/19/2014 11:08:03 AM

Honestly, I do not.

Let me help with that.

She was hitting on you. Not to put too fine a point on it.. and maybe you didn't know this... you're a black man. She just stated clearly that she enjoys sex with black men. For some, it's a fetish. Interracial sex. It's a thing. Truly.

As for the rest of what you wrote, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with wanting the things you want. Just remember that other people are allowed to want the things they want too. Even if that means it's not the same thing you want.
 sunsetsam
Joined: 8/25/2014
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Posted: 9/19/2014 11:31:30 AM

Just remember that other people are allowed to want the things they want too. Even if that means it's not the same thing you want.


I totally agree , even if it is a husband who gets off on eating another man’s sperm out of his wife’s vajayjay right after he’s sat in a chair in the bedroom watching her ride another man and tell him she needs someone with a bigger dik , for example, none of my business what other people wanna do.
 fuglygirl
Joined: 8/28/2014
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Posted: 9/19/2014 1:21:15 PM

Just remember that other people are allowed to want the things they want too. Even if that means it's not the same thing you want.


and, hopefully providing that these 'things' do not involve children, animals or otherwise unwilling and/or not able to give valid consent participants. generally speaking, hopefully they do not involve felony criminal activities
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 9/19/2014 6:04:45 PM

I totally agree , even if it is a husband who gets off on eating another man’s sperm out of his wife’s vajayjay right after he’s sat in a chair in the bedroom watching her ride another man and tell him she needs someone with a bigger dik , for example, none of my business what other people wanna do.

Exactly. Because some people find that kind of thing incredibly arousing. I'm not a fan of adult babies or diaper wearers... but my not liking those things doesn't mean that the people that do like them shouldn't be allowed to pursue them if that is what it takes to make them happy.

As for the illegal things and those unable to consent, obviously that is a thing and shouldn't have to be said. As the gaming authority says.. "know your limits, and play within them".
 basilisk123
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Posted: 9/19/2014 6:54:53 PM
The husband watching his wife get plowed and eating the creampie because he is aroused by it, is not being betrayed. That is just his kink. That is not the essence of cuckold to me. The wife is not being unfaithful if she is fulfilling the husbands fetish.
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