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 jtaries1984
Joined: 6/19/2011
Msg: 30
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!Page 2 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
okay one sex is not everything in a relationship for the people who are that shallow to end a relationship cause the other mate was not good at something are just shallow and deserve to be single i have been with a female who i was her second and she was not good at allot to start with but brought spark and brought interest out of me to bring the little devil out of her while in bed and while spending time with each other the people who thinks sex makes or breaks a relationship should post on there profile they are shallow and wants a whore to be with better yet want someone who is exp. in bed and all aspects i can point out 6 women standing at the corner of my street all day long who could do what you want a relationship is about talking spending time and enjoying the time sex comes and goes a great friendship is key and yes some i had read mentioned about the sex was not great but it was not the only thing they are not together now so there must of been something else honestly my point of view everyone is new to things no one is a expert in any area of anything in life it is part of being human we are always learning just matter on are we willing to learn some it takes time to work with each other and others wont give the time to work on a person the people who complain normally are the ones who are not looking for anything long term there looking for the 1 night stands and get out type of deals
 HowRJ
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 31
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/12/2013 3:12:58 PM

What about woman who sucks at sex



go for her younger sister......
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 32
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/13/2013 9:07:45 AM
All sex is good it's just that some women are batter at it than others. I'd rather have a bad day of sex than a good day at work. lol
 Rapunzel1964
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 34
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/27/2013 11:00:14 PM

Ah well, be dead soon and won't care then


That is a scary statement.
 smpl_love
Joined: 1/1/2013
Msg: 35
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/27/2013 11:29:38 PM
Maybe we don't talk about it as much because it is just so common for women to suck at sex. That's why you date many and stick with the one who's good at it, leave the rest for others.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 2/3/2013
Msg: 36
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/27/2013 11:55:38 PM
I hate it when women SUCKS at sex too. lmao
 HomeAlone_-
Joined: 2/24/2013
Msg: 37
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/28/2013 5:38:32 AM
If your women sucks at sex, then your the problem, If a women cares for you she will make you happy
 brinaalina
Joined: 10/26/2011
Msg: 38
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Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/28/2013 11:20:43 AM
Ugh I knew a guy who was so put off because every woman he dated just lied there in bed and let him do all the work.
He just assumed most women didn't ever put any effort into it.

Do people really do that???
How awful.

Also, sometimes women (as well as men of course) can just be really selfish regarding sex.
Like, 'if I don't get off, you don't get to either'.

What a horrible mindset.
 Morespam
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 40
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/29/2013 9:12:01 PM
Dude, stop picking up chicks at the morgue.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 3/30/2013 1:03:33 AM
You can't fix stupid
 wolftxusa66
Joined: 3/13/2013
Msg: 42
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/30/2013 5:27:00 AM
OP, I disagree with the premise of those questions (men or women). They make sexual prowess seem like a stat similar to height and weight. Granted, some people are inexperienced or have inhibitions. Some may have physical issues. But to me, most of sex happens in my mind and is about how my partner and I feel about each other. Techniques and preferences vary, yet when I'm very close with a partner, the sex is always good. The same person who doesn't do it for one partner could be a porn star to another.

If I had to evaluate myself, I could not give an honest answer. I don't claim to be God's gift to womankind, yet based on some feedback I'm not a dead fish either. On a scale from 1-10, that would leave me somewhere between 2 and 9. Rather than point to the partner's abilities you should focus on how well you match and how intense the relationship is.
 beaverlicker41
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 43
RE: Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/30/2013 2:50:36 PM
At least you are getting some be it good or bad. Try being married and getting it once a year whether you beg or do nothing. And no, once a year isn't just a saying or exaggertaion, thats the actual number. Apparently I signed up to be a bhuddist monk. :(
 jamie_lee_1963
Joined: 3/27/2013
Msg: 45
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 3/31/2013 9:56:23 AM

why can't the horrible at sex people get together and leave the ones of us that are great at sex alone?


LOL Too funny.

I prefer to take someone under my wing and take them from terrible in bed to awesome.
 fun_real
Joined: 11/21/2010
Msg: 46
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/1/2013 10:25:41 PM

I think some men don't know how to find what gets a woman going, they're just there for their own enjoyment not realizing they're not doing a damn thang for that woman to cause her to want to be more involved.


A bit selfish don't you think? How many times did you offer the boy a thread of romance?
Women who sit back and blame the man for a failed love life are clearly not ready to be in a relationship, and need to be single for a few years to uderstand that it is a 2 sided street, if it sucked then you both sucked, and more so from her side because, had she put in her side of the romance, he would have rocked her world and you would still be together instead of racing off and looking for greedy new beginnings... Truth be told that, for now you will hate me but in time you will have learned this to be true and then will be able to have a descent relationship......

Romance is not reserved for women, men like to be engaged too once in a while, and men most ccertainly could use some romace too. even the ones who cannot admit it...
Good sex does not come from the body, those are cheap orgasms and can be matched or beaten with masturbation!
Good sex comes from the mind, and to come from the mind you both have to be present, sounds like the poor guy didn't stand a chance... The second your mind left the relationship and the fact you did not romace the boy... Makes me say that he did not stand a chance.... I suggest you go back and give him some romance and you will see sparks as no other can ever deliver.... But that is just me.....
 MrMeSir
Joined: 2/17/2012
Msg: 47
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 6:15:37 AM

It's really quite simple...you GET what you GIVE...


what? lol

Other than that and the next paragraph, i agree with you completely.

There are people who add nothing and those who really do make things LESS enjoyable, nothing can be done about those people, just walking away or pointing them to someone new and equally as boring.
 fun_real
Joined: 11/21/2010
Msg: 48
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 8:32:11 AM
It's really quite simple...you GET what you GIVE...


Nicely put.
And nice one Jamie... It is, it is, about 2 efforts....
I romanced a lady for years and her sex was great, but she did not give back romance or initiate sex, ever, and eventually I gave up trying and then she started complaining that her sex life sucked. Was I wrong to give up?
And then does she reserve the right to complain?
 ErichWild
Joined: 8/24/2012
Msg: 49
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 8:42:54 AM
is it just me or is this the worst written post ever
 Needingaladyfriend
Joined: 2/25/2013
Msg: 50
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 11:42:24 AM
loll well a long time ago my dad married this one woman which made her my step mom,I was around 15 at the time they married. It was some years later after they divorced that me and my father got into a conversation about women and sex,he ask me if I remembered PAT wich was my step mom at one time. I told him yes,and that was when he started opening up about his and sex life when married. He told me she was like screwing someone while they were reading the news paper,all she did was lay there motionless no sound or reaction at all while he humped away on her. He said it was like doing someone who was dead. He went on more and more about it while I was trying not to die laughing and spit my beer all over the place It was bad loll. I myself have never had any that bad,but I have had a few that seem to be a little dead in bed but not like really bad. Some women are like some men when it comes to sex,you do have the ones that are strange about things and worthless.
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 51
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 12:36:52 PM
If sex sucks then I am all in. Because the sucking is the good part!
 Schatzi2015
Joined: 3/3/2013
Msg: 52
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 7:03:06 PM
Maybe, you weren't pleasing them in bed. I would lay there too, if it sucked.
 just1guy1234
Joined: 2/28/2013
Msg: 53
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Posted: 4/2/2013 8:53:22 PM
Q: Maybe, you weren't pleasing them in bed. I would lay there too, if it sucked.Q:
Takes 2 to tango......why is it the mans responcibility to be king of the jungle every time ?
Doesn't matter how good one or the other is.....if one sucks at it.....well....it'll be no good for both.
Do your best.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 4/2/2013 10:07:29 PM
I don't bother with bad lovers.


is it just me or is this the worst written post ever


It's pretty bad.
 fun_real
Joined: 11/21/2010
Msg: 57
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/3/2013 7:29:40 AM
Maybe, you weren't pleasing them in bed. I would lay there too, if it sucked


Typical........ Try tossing the greed out the window and giving the man some romance once in a while and then you might find someone who will stay with you for more then 5 years.... Doooohhhhhhhhhhhh
To all that still do not get it, try simple math it is like this... 2 people give 50% and one would expect 100% in the end, but you do not, you get 50% because you both gave half assed, 2 give 100 % then you get 100% out of it because it was given to you... But the typical of a guy giving 75% or more and the girl enjoying the ride with her 10% input might work a bit and for short time but he will eventually give up... Not only do you have to romance the boy, but you have to initiate sex half the time too and show you are interested... Or else he will only have a half effort to your 10% and then you are right sex will suck...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/3/2013 7:52:20 AM

Maybe, you weren't pleasing them in bed. I would lay there too, if it sucked.


Huh...what?!
Why would anyone just laying there accepting bad sex??
How about communicate to your partner it's not working.......or better yet, flip him over and show him how to do it right!
If after communicating your needs and trying to show him what works, he still puts no effort into learning what trips your trigger......then end it and find someone willing to make it a Tango for Two.
 fun_real
Joined: 11/21/2010
Msg: 59
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/3/2013 7:59:02 AM
You tell em MsMicki.... Grab hold of that there stick shift, put that boy in high gear, and and GET IT ON...
YEEEEEEEEEEHHHHHHAAAAAWWWWWWWWW. You have to spell it 100 times for some people...
It take two baby, it takes two baby.... me and you! Some times its in the song...
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