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 Lovinglife4me
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 82
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First of all Happy belated birthday and congratulations on your pregnancy. I wish you much luck with your pregnancy. Me. Can be stubborn at times. It sounds like he may be going through some personal stuff right ow. My suggestion would be to stop texting him and give him some alone time. I know that ou want him there to help you raise your child as he should be but give him time an don't stress as that is bad for you a dour unborn child
 ivegotitgoingon
Joined: 1/20/2013
Msg: 83
Why is he ignoring me
Posted: 3/15/2013 6:50:59 PM
New flash, there is a reason he is ignoring you. He just is not into you.
When he gets bored and lonely, there you are whenever he reaches out.

He doesn't want you, just when he is bored.

Stop being an option.
 afarmenian
Joined: 1/26/2013
Msg: 84
Why is he ignoring me
Posted: 3/15/2013 8:26:08 PM
You people are ****ed up in the head literally. You don't know a damn thing about me, judge all you want. I'm not losing any sleep.


Yeah yeah y0u say that but yet one of us on this forum is a knocked up soon to be unemployed whore who was dumb enough to intentionally get pregnant before marriage and 100 of us are not. That one also ironically has posted and responded on this forum more than anyone else.

Now guess who is the that one person.........oh come on guess.
 vera2u
Joined: 2/21/2011
Msg: 85
Why is he ignoring me
Posted: 3/15/2013 8:54:40 PM
OH!!just can't imagine that, he really doesn't sound like a responsible person at all.dont try to get him back,let him go,i am sure you will meet a better man in the future!!and dont message his sister,both them are not responsible person.Life is too short,keep away from the ***hole.you give me a lesson, dont have baby before married.i just wondering,are you going to kee the baby?

anyway, hope you are fine there,good luck!
 ksayer1
Joined: 1/1/2013
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/15/2013 8:58:35 PM
The OP, this thread, the guy above me using the word whore.........
Is like a train wreck, i want to look away but i just can't.

I really hope crazy pants is lying about being pregnant.
 Voni_boo
Joined: 1/28/2013
Msg: 87
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:02:33 PM
Why would I lie about being pregnant? You are crazy who would even waste time playing around like that? You need to stfu. It's still funny how you all haven't found nothing better to do besides reply to my thread:)
 Voni_boo
Joined: 1/28/2013
Msg: 88
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:07:07 PM
@ loving life- thank you for giving kind advice and not judging. My child's father and I talked about things today and everything went well. Our child would be fine. So all of you judge mental sick people can go find another thread because my life is going good, so you people can take your negativity elsewhere:)

@-Lurker/jerker- get a life. You are pathetic. You are blocked. I don't have the time nor energy to argue with a little boy online. Sorry.

And FYI- a lot of you are wrong I was NOT a virgin when we met, He is just the only guy I recently had sex with, before him i didn't have sex for almost 2 years. so that's how I KNOW FOR A FACT HE IS MY CHILD'S FATHER. However it's none of you people business about MY personal life. Read the post before you just jump to conclusions. Now I'm officially done with this thread. My child's father and I talked. It went well so you people can STOP posting. I'm done here bye.
 Pengu-home
Joined: 7/26/2011
Msg: 89
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:20:09 PM
There is something amiss with your post... unfortunately it may be true that you are pregnant and you were a virgin when you first met the father, and even that you planned to start a family... What I think is wrong here is your claimed age, I cant believe that you are 25... my thoughts are that you are possibly 8-10 years younger than you claim to be. If I am correct, then I would suggest that you need to approach an adult that you can trust to help you through this difficult situation, if you don't have anybody then contact your family doctor. Everybody else, STOP, do not continue with this onslaught of "helpful" suggestions and negative comments about this confused young person's judgement and ability to make decisions. All the best.
 Deadliest_Snatch
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 90
Why is he ignoring me
Posted: 3/15/2013 9:21:55 PM
there is NOTHING he can say or do to get me back. I'm done.





@ loving life- thank you for giving kind advice and not judging. My child's father and I talked about things today and everything went well. Our child would be fine. So all of you judge mental sick people can go find another thread because my life is going good, so you people can take your negativity elsewhere:)


My my. And you think the guy who you believe to be the baby's father is bipolar?



What I think is wrong here is your claimed age, I cant believe that you are 25... my thoughts are that you are possibly 8-10 years younger than you claim to be. If I am correct, then I would suggest that you need to approach an adult that you can trust to help you through this difficult situation


You may be on to something. She certainly exhibits the thought processes and behavior of a teenager.
Man, that guy is screwed.
 afarmenian
Joined: 1/26/2013
Msg: 91
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:29:27 PM
haha it's funny cause the op is stupid.
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 3/15/2013 9:41:02 PM
Ms Boo, sorry some posters have been unnecessarily rough with you: sort of like when you are witnessing someone about to get run over by a train, the urge is to SCREAM . . . .

You seem to be under the impression that because you started the thread, that you therefore have some control over the tone or the length. You don't.

Insulting people because you don't like what they say is simply counter productive.

I wish your little family-to-be good luck, because, as I said, you are really really going to need it. The baby especially.

And yes, I'm old. Really really old. An yanno? I didn't get this old by putting my head in a grinder. . . .
 Voni_boo
Joined: 1/28/2013
Msg: 93
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Posted: 3/15/2013 10:11:15 PM
@ flamingo- LOL you found what you're looking for? Meanwhile you are still on a dating site I don't care if it is just for the forums is your life really that boring and miserable? You have to judge people on forums? Wow sit down somewhere cougar.


@ Afarmenian-Oh look the confused tranny steps in once again.
 afarmenian
Joined: 1/26/2013
Msg: 94
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Posted: 3/15/2013 10:14:44 PM
Could be worse, she could be an undesirable unwed preggo posting on these forums.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 95
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Posted: 3/16/2013 12:20:18 AM
Anyone still think we are not dealling with a troll here?
There's no boyfriend. There's no pregnancy. Just an immature little brat desperately in need of the spanking she never got as a child.
 darkmascara
Joined: 1/26/2013
Msg: 96
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Posted: 3/16/2013 5:03:14 AM
I was in the same type of situation when I was 19. It dawn on me that I became so needy and i stopped contacting him for good. I realize that I had to change my approach on dating men. I started to ignore them sending out slow responses. It takes me 3 or 4 days to respond back, sometimes weeks. lol However, they became really needy afterwards.

Why is he ignoring you? Well, there could be many reasons as to why he is ignoring you. A smart guy once said, "He is ignoring you because you are his back up girl, he is seeing another female behind your back. He only responds to you when he gets bored of the other females."
On another note, he's not ready to handle this responsibility.

If I was in your situation, i would list my options:

1) Decide if you want to keep the child or not.
2) If he still wants to be in the child's life, make him marry you
3) If he does decide to flake on you again, get child support. (remember to get his legal name)
 lostinalostworld
Joined: 2/2/2013
Msg: 97
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Posted: 3/16/2013 1:35:38 PM
^^^^^ 2).................."make him marry you". Hmmm, that can't be so hard based on his performance so far. Don't forget the house with the white picket fence!
 ksayer1
Joined: 1/1/2013
Msg: 98
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Posted: 3/16/2013 1:59:02 PM
''Why would I lie about being
pregnant? You are crazy who would
even waste time playing around like
that?''

To minipulate him back into your life long enough to get pregnant for real, hopefully trapping him. ''because he will stay if you can give him the baby he wants''

So are you done with this thread now?
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 3/16/2013 2:09:02 PM
This sort of thing can be solved...

Do not date men or women who don't want you other than some side sex unless you are also out for only casual sex

Do not ever, never, get pregnant unless you are in a committed, stable relationship with someone who wants a child with you. No ridiculous excuses about accidents

Do not pretend someone likes you the way you want them to unless they actually do

Do not attempt any sort of serious relationship when you are young and immature

Do not make unwanted babies!

Do not ever think someone will fall in love with you if you trap them

Do not play games with your own head and lie lie lie about what you are really doing
 charliesmom21
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 100
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Posted: 3/17/2013 6:12:20 AM
^^^ I am guilty of a boring life too. I was married when I got pregnant and knew who the father was without having to go on the Maury show and have 10 men tested. Yes, traveling the world, owning a home and raising my kids to go to college, I guess I am boring there too. I worked and supported my children who did not get pregnant in high school and know that if you want something, you need to work for it. Yes, I raised my son to respect women and that having sex is a responsibility.. and there are consequences if you are not mature enough to use protection, maybe you are not mature enough to have sex. Some of us are just so damn boring!!
 sexymama211991
Joined: 1/21/2013
Msg: 101
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Posted: 3/29/2013 11:33:03 PM
i in no way know you but i sympathize with you your pregnant scared and obviously want he dad back or to be with you sounds like he realized he made a mistake by wanting you to be pregnant but whats done is done your child is growing in you his child you and him need to talk does not matter if hes ready or not you need to find out most of all where he stands with your baby he is prbably very scared at the moment realizing oh god this is real so you need to talk things out is the first step the next step is whats best for the baby will you be able to raise him/her on your own if need be? if not consider adoption give it to a loving family who can raise it rightnow your relationship with the father is not priority that baby and that babys future is and goodluck
 Nardo28
Joined: 12/19/2012
Msg: 102
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Posted: 3/30/2013 3:00:53 PM
Don't feed the trolls!!!!
 Tiggiebear
Joined: 1/31/2011
Msg: 103
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Posted: 3/30/2013 11:52:23 PM
Sounds to me like you should be smart to make a decision and move on. He has mental problems.
 Terramay
Joined: 7/14/2012
Msg: 104
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Posted: 3/31/2013 12:00:52 AM
You remind me of a relative who dated a man who was using her.
Her car broke down for one day, he dumped the fck out of her and told her that he never loved her. And was only using her for her car.

Now shes in a relationship with some man. A few months into the relationship she tells me they're planning on having kids!
This is coming from a woman who tried to abort the last kid she had. And has already aborted two other kids.

Please, please, (And I don't believe in abortions at all,against my religion, against the way I was raised)
Please do not have this baby.

I feel like a****for telling you. because I'm a kid.

Take it from the mouth of a babe.
 gogogo66
Joined: 2/4/2013
Msg: 105
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Posted: 3/31/2013 4:00:39 AM
Old post i know,nope not jealous of your presumed lifestyle,(when do you find time to actually work?)but you stated that you need these sites to keep you entertained,yet you have a good man beside you?
Had men too,married once etc,another 7 year year relationship,and oh no we never needed"these sites" to keep us entertained,maybe your life is boring?
Just an observation,nothing more nothing less.
 barnabyjames1
Joined: 1/11/2013
Msg: 106
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Posted: 3/31/2013 8:41:32 AM
You probably annoy him op, or talk too much, are too nosey, it could be a myriad of things. Men get tired of listening to women ramble on and on about useless,
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