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 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 76
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Somehow, I think if your not getting off from penetration alone, then your not taking the man balls deep. That's what I don't get is how so many woman say they love a man with a sausage that you could drape a flag off of, yet some can't even take him balls deep. They may only get 6" in at best, but there's another 3 or more inch's of vacancy left. Same thing in porn. What's the point of a man being so well endowed, if your not gonna accomodate the full length?


There is no point beyond being "well endowed" for the Girth! If a man is LONGGGG...but THIN,that just tends to hurt our cervixes anyways.So keep that length away from me! Useless.

If you ask me,anything over 3 inches in is overkill if your intention is to get a woman off via her G-spot.It's not at the back wall of her vagina!! Girth is much more important,than length!And fingers are better tat stimulating a G-spot as it's "crooked upward towards the front top wall of our vagina's.During penetration,the straight in and out thrusting,at least for me,completely misses that area.Now,if a man's Penis was curved up like our G-spot vibrators are,we'd be in business.You can keep all that "deep penetration" for your own orgasm,but don't think going "balls deep" is doing much for us.Not to mention,when grinding your pelvic bone against our clits,it's not only painful,
it's WAY to aggressive for the most part against our clits.


To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.

Now,that being said,some women can feel that G-spot stimulation during penetration,but for some of us,that area
feels "hidden" from the range of pleasure and the only way to come is via clit stimulation during penetration.



Baffling...I've never been able to understand how women can't orgasm from sex. I've gotten off literally every single time with every single woman I've ever been with yet 3/4 women can't come from penetration. I just don't get it.


Your anatomy is COMPLETELY different than ours.Your entire D*ck is covered in nerves,and penetration alone IS what get's you off.So it's no surprise that you come every time! We are a lot more complicated in our anatomy.
How about your try coming without stimulating your Penis AT ALL and see how that works for you.

It's ALL IN YOUR HEAD.You should be able to get off, like men expect women to, without any friction.

I'm much more curious if you actually are getting the women you have sex with off,and they aren't faking it,than if you as a man can get off! That's a given.I have never been with a man who could come,but I have been left hanging by every single one of them.

I wish we could exchange genitals for a week and show you just how it feels to be a WOMAN!

I'd be more than happy to exchange my p*ssy for a d*ck permanently just for the orgasms ease!!!

Why do you think women have penis envy? It's not because you get to stand up and Pee! lol
 Sublime_Kisses
Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 77
Orgasms from penetration alone
Posted: 3/24/2013 5:25:03 AM
Here's my opinion, for your consideration:

Oral Sex as foreplay will almost always lead to a greater experience for both a man and a woman. Personally, I love to bring my lady to one or 2 orgasms before we unite and I love it when she stimulates me with her mouth and tongue. And yes, every once in a while, if she wants to complete me orally, I will usually have an intense and deeply satisfying orgasm. Surprise BJ's are nice, too! Of course, good hygiene is a must for both, don't you think?
 Hamilton12345
Joined: 3/29/2012
Msg: 78
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Posted: 3/24/2013 5:44:01 AM

Somehow, I think if your not getting off from penetration alone, then your not taking the man balls deep


You don't seriously believe that do you? Wow must have a lot of women fake it!


Baffling...I've never been able to understand how women can't orgasm from sex. I've gotten off literally every single time with every single woman I've ever been with yet 3/4 women can't come from penetration. I just don't get it.


Hearton I am pretty sure he was joking. At least I hope so. However apparently there are men who feel that way.

Yes I know that some women can orgasm from penetration alone, but the rest of you ladies who are faking it, please stop! It makes it harder for us all when guys think we are the smallest minority because "every woman they have been with came for penetration"
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 79
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Posted: 3/24/2013 6:43:31 AM

Hearton I am pretty sure he was joking. At least I hope so.
However apparently there are men who feel that way.


I can't tell when someone is being sarcastic,so I respond assuming they are sincere.


Yes I know that some women can orgasm from penetration alone, but the rest of you ladies who are faking it, please stop! It makes it harder for us all when guys think we are the smallest minority because "every woman they have been with came for penetration


I have never faked it.But I did do what I needed to do to come on my own during sex if they chose not to concern themselves with my pleasure.
 nikkisenko
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 80
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Posted: 3/24/2013 9:06:17 AM
...for the women that say they have "vaginal" orgasms......are those supposed to be completely separate from clitoral and G-Spot orgasms?? Another thing I'm wondering is this: When I orgasm it's very distinct and powerful.....there is NO way I could keep having sex right after I orgasm because I am JUST WAY TOO SENSITIVE IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS. .....so I have to stop everything for at least 5 minutes, preferably 10


I actually don't think they are entirely separate, rather more like one functioning system. I can have orgasm strictly from clitoral stimulation. But, it is nowhere near as good as when I have penetration too. In fact, I've gotten to the point where I really dislike a "just clitoral" orgasm. I feel like I only half-way get there when that happens.

I do think you have to have some clitoral stimulation for a vaginal orgasm to happen. Again, they are part of one system. So, what happens to one part has an effect on another part. But, if you are having sex at the right angle, you are getting both stimulated. Most guys have no problem letting you lead this if it gets you where you need to go. And, they are quick learners for the most part when it comes to this.

I can continue to have sex after orgasm, but cannot handle any direct stimulation at that point.
 golfer_dave
Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 3/24/2013 9:29:47 AM
can any of the ladies get orgasms for having their nipples gently played with?
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 82
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Posted: 3/24/2013 10:29:50 AM
^^^ Read the whole thread to get your answer. And for some, "gently" isn't needed. Although you'd better check with the woman before you go beyond gentle
 kookywoman1
Joined: 3/20/2013
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Posted: 3/24/2013 6:46:16 PM
I'm lucky to be of the 25% that all I need is a touch an I can orgasm. My drive is so high I have multiples. Pretty nice really but ya have to have the rt partner also that can hold back and let you enjoy that before he bursts his load!!!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 3/24/2013 7:13:11 PM

So...for the women that say they have "vaginal" orgasms......are those supposed to be completely separate from clitoral and G-Spot orgasms??


For me, I consider a vaginal orgasm a Gspot orgasm....but I also can have a very deep orgasm from (what I learned here) my Aspot!! Whether or not that is the "technical" term......who knows, but it's a completely different type of orgasm than a Gspot orgasm.


Another thing I'm wondering is this: When I orgasm it's very distinct and powerful.....there is NO way I could keep having sex right after I orgasm because I am JUST WAY TOO SENSITIVE IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS. .....so I have to stop everything for at least 5 minutes,......


I can hammer out Gspot orgasms continuously!!
Clitoral orgasms.......depends on the day!
Sometimes I can multiple instantly....sometimes I'm so sensitive it hurts to keep touching it!
 *Dr_Hugnkiss*
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 3/25/2013 3:14:09 AM
The deepspot orgasm and the A spot are very similar (and hit pretty much the same spot inside) The deepspot does this via the vagina and the A spot via the anus.

Some people can orgasm as the penis penetrates the vagina, this is quite rare though. I'm aware of over a dozen types of orgasm for women and half a dozen for men...lol
 bass6969
Joined: 2/4/2013
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/25/2013 3:32:28 AM
maybe i just got lucky with the women i have been with but i have had very few women that did not orgasm multible time during intercourse with me. but mind you i start for play before we get to bed touching kissing teasing for hours on and off. so by the time we actually have sex they are so turned on physically and even more important mentally they often orgasm as i enter them or not too soon after. but i also am very long last, er myself that helps because some women just need time .
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 87
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Posted: 3/25/2013 3:56:28 AM
Penetration alone 12

I can only orgasm from penetration

and for me, it's all about the Gspot and it being stroked "just right".

I have orgasms from intercourse without any other stimulation, mostly in the missionary position.

I can orgasm from penetration alone, nipple stimulation only

I have orgasmed from giving my bf head lots of times. No clitoral stimulation. I have orgasmed from oral, fingers and penetration. 15-20 is the norm during a session.

I have multiple orgasms from penetration, easily and quickly.

During sex, the deeper and harder the penetration; the harder I cum.

I am capable of orgasming from penetration alone

Well I can cum from penetration alone,

I prefer penetrative sex over clitoris stimulation

I happen to be in the group in which penetration is way better than anything else.

I'm lucky to be of the 25% that all I need is a touch an I can orgasm.



I assume most of these are G-spot related orgasms?
Versus the below that are Clit orgasms.




Penetration with Clit stimulation 6

I can come with clit stimulation during penetration.

I have never had an orgasm from penetration alone... I have needed some clit action

My anatomy doesn't allow for penis in vagina orgasms without manual stimulation.

As far as penetration, that is the only way I can have a the big "O". However, there has to be some clitoral stimulation with the position

As for having one, with just penetration it us very rare but can happen. I can orgasm pretty easily in general if I am on top (cowgirl) as there is clitoral stimulation.

I can have orgasm strictly from clitoral stimulation. But, it is nowhere near as good as when I have penetration too


Well,if this was a study of the "average" female,women are coming via penetration alone 2:1 or twice as many as that don't.

It seems the 75% that don't is way off.
At least on POF.Interesting.

I think I would like sex more had I not had to work for every single orgasm I've ever hand in my life.
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 2/25/2013
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Posted: 3/25/2013 12:47:40 PM
Well,if this was a study of the "average" female,women are coming via penetration alone 2:1 or twice as many as that don't.


Three possible reasons:

1) the title you chose will be clicked on more often by women who can orgasm from penetration alone.

2) the women who are saying they can orgasm from penetration alone are likely discounting the natural clitoris stimulation inherent in certain positions (eg., female on top, typical missionary). They can only (really) say that if they can come doggie or at an angle in which there is never any contact with the clitoris, with no prior clitoris stimulation either. Pretty much, it would have to be a bend over, no foreplay ordeal. That would be a true indicator of who can come with no clitoris stimulation. If you approached each of the people who responded that way with the above scenario and asked if they could, I'm guessing you'd get some, "Oh, well, in that case, no, I can't (or haven't)" Some do seem to be able to, though, from what they say.

3) the 75% feel no need to speak up, since they are the majority, not the minority. It would be like making a post asking who can't cum from oral. Those who can't might chime in, those who do would likely feel little need to add to the lists of "I can" responses.
 BabblingBrookes
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 89
Orgasms from penetration alone
Posted: 3/25/2013 12:49:57 PM
I've always envied women who can orgasm from penetration alone. I won't be getting anywhere fast without clitoral stimulation. I've had penetrative sex for eons, and nada...while I'll orgasm in 2 minutes through oral sex. Just the way I'm built I guess. *shrug* If you can orgasm through penetration alone, you are LUCKY. That's what most guys want to do, so you're both happy. :)

Back when I first had sex, I would fake orgasms just to get the guy to stop thrusting. I tried being honest, but he seriously thought if he kept trying it would happen. Ugh. :(
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 2/25/2013
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Posted: 3/25/2013 12:58:09 PM
I've had penetrative sex for eons, and nada...while I'll orgasm in 2 minutes through oral sex


There seems to be some loose connection being shown to this, that those that orgasm so easily one way have a harder time getting to orgasm the other way. As I mentioned, I can easily with internal stimulation, but have not ever with oral, no matter how good or how long 'he' was at it. A 'pure' clitoral orgasm (only) feels like a 'forced' orgasm and is both painful and unsatisfying to me. I'm sure there are people who can do both easily, but I'm seeing evidence of some trends in the off-center counterbalance in many of the posts. Perhaps if that is true, that there are some patterns with that, then there really is a physical 'wiring' difference between groups of females.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 3/25/2013 2:32:34 PM

1) the title you chose will be clicked on more often by women who can orgasm from penetration alone.


That's a good posibility.Not that it matters,it just helps cure my long standing curiosity about how other women orgasm.I wonder if I could change the Thread Title now.Probably not.


2) the women who are saying they can orgasm from penetration alone are likely discounting the natural clitoris stimulation inherent in certain positions (eg., female on top, typical missionary). They can only (really) say that if they can come doggie or at an angle in which there is never any contact with the clitoris, with no prior clitoris stimulation either.


I have tried in EVERY position possible and not once has thier been any G-spot orgasm and certainly not clit stimulation that felt anything close to having orgasm making potential.I read something once about the C-V distance and that some women's clits are placed farther away from the opening of the vagina,thereby rendering them incapable of feeling clitoral stimulation.

http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-hew-ordistance11feb11,0,2763149.story

During intercourse, the female orgasm can be elusive. What frustrated woman hasn't wondered: Am I simply, um, put together differently than other women?


Kim Wallen, professor of psychology and behavioral neuroendocrinology at Emory University, is busy doing the math to find out. And, yes, he says, simple physiology may have a lot to do with orgasm ease -- specifically, how far a woman's clitoris lies from her vagina.

That number might predict how easily a woman can experience orgasms from penile stimulation alone -- without help from fingers, toys or tongue -- during sexual intercourse.

In fact, there's even an easy "rule of thumb," Wallen says: Clitoris-vagina distances less than 2.5 cm -- that's roughly from the tip of your thumb to your first knuckle -- tend to yield reliable orgasms during sex. More than a thumb's length? Regular intercourse alone typically might not do the trick.

Wallen is not the first to check into this "C-V distance." In the 1920s, Princess Marie Bonaparte, a French psychoanalyst and close friend of Sigmund Freud, grew fed up with her own lack of orgasmic response. In her professional practice, she saw plenty of patients with the same complaint ("frigidity," in the parlance of the day).

She blamed physiology, not psyche.


Nice to read from a psychologist.



Pretty much, it would have to be a bend over, no foreplay ordeal. That would be a true indicator of who can come with no clitoris stimulation.


Not necessarily.At least not in my case.I feel virtually zero clit stimulation during intercourse in any position.
Mine is on the other side of the room obviously. lol


If you approached each of the people who responded that way with the above scenario and asked if they could, I'm guessing you'd get some, "Oh, well, in that case, no, I can't (or haven't)" Some do seem to be able to, though, from what they say.


This is just a very general way to see what the "norm" is out there.I was just noticing that there were twice as many women responding to being able to come via penetration,but MOST of them also needed clit stimulation.
So really.............No one could actually come from penetration alone,now that I think about it.


3) the 75% feel no need to speak up, since they are the majority, not the minority.


Well...believe me bringing up this topic was tough enough,considering it leaves you feeling and seeming sexually dysfunctional in some ways and after all the men's input about how it's ALL IN OUR HEADS just made it all the harder.If you think I have been "proud" of this reality,think again.

I have felt TOTALLY DIFFERENT than what I assume most women were about orgasmically speaking my entire life."Broken" somehow.So if anything,the reason some might not want to admit to it,is out of "shame" that they don't come "normally".

I figure,the only thing to fear,is fear itself.Plus...I actually have "balls" under my skirt. :)



I've always envied women who can orgasm from penetration alone. I won't be getting anywhere fast without clitoral stimulation. I've had penetrative sex for eons, and nada...while I'll orgasm in 2 minutes through oral sex. Just the way I'm built I guess. *shrug* If you can orgasm through penetration alone, you are LUCKY. That's what most guys want to do, so you're both happy. :)

Back when I first had sex, I would fake orgasms just to get the guy to stop thrusting. I tried being honest, but he seriously thought if he kept trying it would happen. Ugh. :(


It didn't take me long to realize that I wasn't going to get oral in my youth or marriage,so to compensate,I had to learn to incorporate manual stimulation with penetration.I REFUSED to fake it for thier sake!

I appreciate your input.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
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Someone FIX that sh*t.

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Orgasms from penetration alone
Posted: 3/25/2013 5:42:40 PM

I'm lucky to be of the 25% that all I need is a touch an I can orgasm. My drive is so high I have multiples. Pretty nice really but ya have to have the rt partner also that can hold back and let you enjoy that before he bursts his load!!!



I can hammer out Gspot orgasms continuously!!
Clitoral orgasms.......depends on the day!
Sometimes I can multiple instantly....sometimes I'm so sensitive it hurts to keep touching it!


Whew! Sounds too nice, for a woman to be like that. A guy better watch out. Need a hard-hat. Safety harness. Better bring all the PPE...Personal Protective Equipment. And practice riding the mechanical bull at the cowboy bar a few times first. And you best be sound-proofing the room...ya'll ever have the cops called on you? Bring an I.V. with gatorade for her too.

Hey, if it don't get all over the place, it don't belong in my face.
 nikkisenko
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 94
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Posted: 3/26/2013 3:06:25 PM

Isn't THAT the truth! lol I really try to not be so explicit in the forums when I'm talking about sex but sometimes it's difficult. I always have this fear in the back of my mind that someone I know IRL is reading my forum post, someone that I would be some what embarrassed discussing my sex life with, like an old boss, or neighbor, etc


Lol, I know! I try to avoid the sex forums for that very reason. But, sometimes, I find it to be a really good discussion, like this one.
 ChocolateSugarRush
Joined: 7/9/2013
Msg: 95
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Posted: 8/15/2013 9:51:28 AM
Oh...and just wondering also,who here has faked it in order to not bruise a man's ego?


I have OP. lol

OP, I'm going to tell you a story about me and orgasms. One day I was rolling a blunt and the paper wouldn't stick. The more I try to make the paper stick the more I get upset. The more I got upset the more I felt that a tingling sensation. By the time I figured out what the sensation was I had the orgasm.

My point is some women can have orgasms at the drop of a hat.
 lookinfouryoutoo
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Posted: 8/15/2013 5:54:32 PM
I've only met a couple women who couldn't orgasm through penetration alone. A couple things to keep in mind, if a woman uses toys a lot, I've been told it makes it harder for a man to get her off. One of my good friends will stop using her toy when she gets a man for this reason. I also think that, like someone else mentioned, a man tends to get off sooner than a woman, so she may never reach orgasm. I'd suggest you meet a guy that can do it right and last long enough to get the job done.
 Visionaryone
Joined: 5/16/2013
Msg: 97
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Posted: 8/16/2013 7:07:40 AM
Very interesting question as I JUST, at forty one years old, found out that women can have 10 DIFFERENT tyoes of orgasms!! Blew my mind!! Here goes:
1.Clitoral-self explanatory
2.Vaginal-only 25% of women have these because they have a short distance between their clitoris and urethreal meatus (whatever thst means...I'm paraphrasing these from a site)
3. G-spot-located just behind frontal wall if vagina, very intense and causes 'squirting' (ooh am I allowed to write that on here??)
4. A-spot-achieved by stimulating 3-4" deep in the front wall of the vagina (once again, whatever that means)
5. Deep spot-acheived by stimulating the deepest back wall of the vagina right before the cervix
6. U-spot-achieved by stimulating a small area that contains sensitive erectile tissue located directly above and on either side of the urethra opening
7. Breast-some women can orgasn by just having their breasts stimulated (side question: is this why I hear some women that breastfeed can feel a tingling sensation 'down there'?)
8. Oral-pretty self explanatory but includes kissing too
9. Skin-some women reach orgasm by touching their skin, getting a massage, or a facial
10. Mental-some women reach orgasms during auditory or visual stimulation like watching a movie or reading sexual content, or by watching others have sex

I got these from mamiverse.com

I would definitely let my partner know which one I was because why waste time on areas that won't affect me! Lol
 whippedboi
Joined: 3/12/2013
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/16/2013 7:34:32 AM
I love it when my woman has an orgasm that is 43.234% vaginal, 23.7087% G-spot, with the remainder clitorally-based.

in my research & study I have identified over 187, 956 types of female orgasms & 54.982 male types
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 99
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Posted: 8/16/2013 12:38:46 PM
How do you most easily come during sex?


For me, it is more important that he treats me well outside of the bedroom, in order to be to be able to get into it, in the bedroom. I cannot enjoy sex if they caused for me to be upset about something, if they want to delay talking about something, or something that I feel caused me to lose respect for them. If that is the case, no matter what they do, I won't be able to orgasm.

I have sex with my mind. I can block myself from having an orgasm, the same way I can trick myself into it. I can even orgasm and not enjoy it, if my mind is set to it.


Clitoral or G-spot?
both


Oral or manual?
both


Penetration alone?
yes


Oh...and just wondering also,who here has faked it in order to not bruise a man's ego?


yes, but it wasn't to prevent bruising their ego, it was more so that I can go to sleep sooner than later. After some time, you know what to do or say to make them orgasm faster.

Another is if I'm upset and don't want them to enjoy it much, I start employing short cuts (whispering in their ears, kissing their neck, licking forcefully a specific part of the neck, looking at them straight in their eyes as they thrust, looking at their d*ck as they enter me, etc, etc), things that if done right, will have them orgasm in a matter of minutes. Nothing makes a man more upset than coming too fast, and you having a look on your face like "wtf was that?" I'd do that precisely to bruise their ego, for having made me upset.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 8/16/2013 1:16:58 PM

Another is if I'm upset and don't want them to enjoy it much, I start employing short cuts (whispering in their ears, kissing their neck, licking forcefully a specific part of the neck, looking at them straight in their eyes as they thrust, looking at their d*ck as they enter me, etc, etc), things that if done right, will have them orgasm in a matter of minutes. Nothing makes a man more upset than coming too fast, and you having a look on your face like "wtf was that?" I'd do that precisely to bruise their ego, for having made me upset.


Huh?
If you're that upset.......why are you having sex in the first place?
Why not work out your issues so you both can enjoy sex?

Sounds more like a mind-fuk than a good fuk!!
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