will definitely be going back for seconds....and thirds...fourths....
the reason being that besides the cumming issue, he was an excellent lover in every other way...and we were TOTALLY on the same page when it came to kissing (ie: not sloppy like some ppl are, perfect amount of lips/tongue/moisture, let me come up for air when I needed to, etc) . And kissing is very sensual, sexy and important to me. Plus he was not trying to rush me....he definitely values foreplay as much as I do. And we took our time, letting things build.
Talk to him before the next time, fortunately you know why it didn't happen. Sometimes it's a big no for me and I couldn't tell you why, everything is right, it just doesn't happen. But that is okay because it is still good. Don't need the big O on every outing.
And this is for both of you, relax and let go, whatever happens, happens.