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 DomG79
Joined: 3/12/2011
Msg: 38
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I had an older one before, 10 years older to be exact. She didn't drive, I paid for everything. Age is just a number. All we had in common was physical attraction, which worked at the time.
 SpankYouVeryMuchly
Joined: 9/8/2013
Msg: 40
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Posted: 9/11/2013 8:50:45 AM

i couldnt help but get a giggle over the comment we mature women have expiration dates?ive never been compared to a carton of milk before.if anyone would like a date,i guess we ladies can be found chillin in the dairy section..:)


You have never heard the expression that "men age like wine and women age like milk " ?
 BabblingBrookes
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 41
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Posted: 9/11/2013 12:30:55 PM
Bah, that's some people. Some men/women age well, while others age poorly. Genetics play a role, but it doesn't hurt to live a healthy lifestyle and protect your skin.
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/12/2013 8:51:36 AM
^^^^+1!

Fine wine, Fine women...fine times. :)
 SoliDeoGloria07
Joined: 9/21/2012
Msg: 45
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Posted: 9/14/2013 5:51:35 PM
I'm a young guy that's into dating older women, & the very reason why is because they know what they want. they're not always confused by if they like this guy or that guy & start to become an emotional wreck. not only that but they handle things that come in life pretty confident. they're very independent, drama free, & no offense on this part, but don't want your money. I love older women, I've dated a couple & they're the best because once we decide not to see each other again, then it's no stress, no heartbreak. none of that happens because it's a mutual thing. Know what i mean? They just want to have a good time, even if it means just going out to dance, drink, etc. doesn't necessarily mean all guys are into "milfs" or whatever. i'm 22 years old, & for my age to be dating older women such as 30 & over, really isn't a big deal to me. I think it all depends on who you get involved with & their level of maturity they're in. I mean, i think that's why this website is here for lol. to get to know each other first.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 46
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Posted: 9/14/2013 8:53:01 PM
^^^^^ That's why many other guys including me wanted to date older women when we younger .. There just wasn't much to worry about. I never worried about her being clingy or start the talk about kids or getting married out of no where.
Only thing for me now is that I would not want to date that older woman who is 10-15 years older then me. Dating someone in her late 50s or early 60 today is not something that I look for.
As for women dating younger men,, Why not if they want to date younger.. Why not date who you want to date. Younger guys would date an older woman as long as they see what they like. Same thing when an older guy wants to date a younger women. As long as both have what they want they are happy.
 BabblingBrookes
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 47
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Posted: 9/15/2013 7:54:10 PM
Heh, that's exactly why I don't date men in their early 20's Solide. Many view older women as a "phase" and "temporary" fun. It's a beautiful thing when a man and woman are on the same page. The chances he and I would be on different pages would be high. Now, if I were 70 and unmarried...maybe. :D
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 9/16/2013 6:04:04 PM

Many view older women as a "phase" and "temporary" fun.


When we all should realize "life" is "temporary" and we sure as phuck better be having "fun" while we are here. Don't care how old you are, this is reality.
 cesska
Joined: 11/7/2011
Msg: 50
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Posted: 9/16/2013 8:56:04 PM
I don't want to be used and disgarded
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 51
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Posted: 9/17/2013 5:51:12 AM

I don't want to be used and disgarded



Ever look at a body when it's laying in a coffin???? Does it look fresh????
 cesska
Joined: 11/7/2011
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/20/2013 8:48:37 PM
husband was younger cause women live longer
well guess who is dead
age really doesn't matter
 tongs420
Joined: 1/31/2014
Msg: 53
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Posted: 10/21/2014 12:24:16 AM
I love older women..
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/27/2014 3:35:04 AM
I just saw a profile in my general area of a woman whose headline says she's 42, but likes younger guys. Her profile age is listed as 18. Her pictures were ok, but she was a very old looking 18 year old.
 licanin
Joined: 11/10/2014
Msg: 55
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Posted: 11/30/2014 8:10:55 PM
I'm lucing45-55 for date women Windsor Ontario.
 licanin
Joined: 11/10/2014
Msg: 56
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Posted: 11/30/2014 8:13:15 PM
I'm lucing45-55 for date men.
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 57
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Posted: 11/30/2014 11:26:15 PM
Why not? Can't see the subject matter an issue
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 58
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Posted: 12/1/2014 3:35:03 PM
When I was in my early and mid twenties I found it very easy to have sex with women a few years older than myself, especially if they had been married and had a child or two.

Some younger men may perceive you as easy, I imagine.
 Eternityboresme
Joined: 8/20/2014
Msg: 59
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Posted: 12/1/2014 3:57:35 PM
I'm a young guy that's into dating older women, & the very reason why is because they know what they want. they're not always confused by if they like this guy or that guy & start to become an emotional wreck. not only that but they handle things that come in life pretty confident. they're very independent, drama free, & no offense on this part, but don't want your money. I love older women, I've dated a couple & they're the best because once we decide not to see each other again, then it's no stress, no heartbreak. none of that happens because it's a mutual thing. Know what i mean? They just want to have a good time, even if it means just going out to dance, drink, etc. doesn't necessarily mean all guys are into "milfs" or whatever. i'm 22 years old, & for my age to be dating older women such as 30 & over, really isn't a big deal to me. I think it all depends on who you get involved with & their level of maturity they're in. I mean, i think that's why this website is here for lol. to get to know each other first.



There is no way I'd consider a man your age relationship material. Not at all. Not ever. You're not remotely mature enough and fully prepared to handle any relationship- orientated discussion on any mature level, or engage in a committed relationship with somebody of my maturity and caliber, as far as I'm concerned. You have nothing to offer me (and I, not you), based on these standards.

I'd have absolutely nothing in common with you in terms of perspective, interests, and desires...and shame on me the day I ever rocked up to my daughter's flat ( my daughter is 23 and her fiancé is 26), with a young man your age, and introduced you as my lover. I lived my twenties and I don't want to relive them by bevahing that way and dating somebody who is at an age now which is a bygone age for me.

The natural progression for me is to find somebody my own age with similar interests, perspectives, and level of maturity.

Feel free to date whomsoever you choose as befitting. I don't know what your real motive is, but you can't possibly believe you can have a sustaining relationship at your age with a woman decades older than you without a modicum of decency and honesty. (They deserve entirely better.)
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