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 dmzvisitor
Joined: 3/25/2011
Msg: 63
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Stop and think about it, OP. Someone contacts you and you have no interest in dating them. You can send no reply, or you can let them down "easy" by pointing out some "problem" that would not matter one single hoot if you were attracted to them.

I cannot believe how many people think that they are being rejected for some reason OTHER than the most obvious one: the "rejector" feels no attraction to you.

Don't take it personally, but do understand that 98 out of 100 people will not be attracted to one another. You just gotta slug it out until you find the one.
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