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 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 101
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Poor Mixed misty in West Hollywood,maybe your location is the problem.
 geekgrrrl
Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 102
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/17/2016 10:37:48 PM
Honestly I don't know why people rebooting these old chats.

This is an easy one...nothing says I'd like my d!ck sucked like lickin' the cooter. If he's not then message delivered.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 103
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 7:40:26 AM
I know it's an old thread. But people in this situation have 2 choices. It's unlikely he is going to change. Either accept that you won't get oral or end the relationship. Some people don't like giving oral. Just like there are some people that like giving oral much better than receiving it. Or people that don't like either giving or receiving oral.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 104
well doesn't that suck. or i guess it doesn't
Posted: 5/18/2016 7:54:58 AM
lickin' the cooter? is that how the Duke boys kept getting the General Lee repaired?

Maybe those of us who enjoy doing it, should rent out our services to those who can't stomach it:

Partner got you down b/c you won't go down?

Turn out the lights, call us day or night!

We'll sneak right in, so then you can stick it in!

No job too big....or too small!
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 105
well doesn't that suck. or i guess it doesn't
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:07:38 AM
“My guy and I have been together for almost a year and he will not go down on me, at all! “


A year ?!!!!




“ I've done the patience thing”


No argument there !



“ I've done the don't bring it up thing, I've done the politely ask and beg thing. Nothing.”



And this result surprises you somehow ?????




“ A few month ago after month and month of begging he finally tried doing it, licked for 2 seconds and stopped. It still made me so happy because finally I thought he was trying and I felt so much closer to him. “



This made you happy ?????
You should have punched him in the liver !!!

Stopping after only 2 seconds is an INSULT !
Do you stop eating chocolate after only 2 seconds ?
What does that tell you ?




“ But of course next time came and he said "I don't want to do it now, next time"...and next time came and still the same excuse. “



And you STILL didn’t punch him in the liver ?????




“Yesterday I told him that he doesn't understand how important this is to me “



After all the begging and pleading you did I don’t know how he couldn’t know ! ….is he special ?



“and to probably any woman who is in love with her partner. “




Actually and unfortunately this isn’t true. I’ve known more than one woman who couldn’t care less about receiving oral.



“I told him every time he tells me next time and there's no next time I feel like he doesn't care and that he doesn't find me attractive enough to want to please me. “



B I N G O




“ He said he thinks I am the prettiest girl he has ever been with but he just has always hated doing it. “




That was your cue to say “ cheque please ! “



“ I am honestly considering breaking up with him over this and it feels petty but our amazing sex life doesn't feel so amazing because of the continuous lack of oral. “



Then why would you refer to it as “ amazing “ at all ?



“Was I wrong for yet again confronting him? Should I just drop it?”



Yes, you were wrong to not dump his a ss a long time ago !



“Ps: I am very clean and wash myself especially before we have sex so me not smelling good is not the issue here.”




Didn’t seem to matter did it ?


“ And also I give him head for hours and frankly I'm tired of him not reciprocating.”



You allowed him to let him get his and not yours repeatedly. I hope you learned something since you posted this .
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 106
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:20:37 AM
If the OP is still with her guy, the one year has now turned into four! Curious how this situation played out three years ago. Is he now carpet munching or not?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 107
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:27:48 AM
^^^^^ Check her history dog, she has moved on repeatedly since.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 108
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:45:51 AM
Some people would be happy just to have sex.
 allaboutagoodX
Joined: 4/25/2016
Msg: 109
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:48:48 AM
Leave that child.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:52:23 AM
Thanks Chuck. I should have checked her history.

She did say she gives lots of oral...bonus! Does she spit or swallow?
 2016summer2016
Joined: 3/18/2016
Msg: 111
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 1:05:43 PM
Stupid reason to break up IMO, especially if everything else is going well in the relationship.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 112
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 1:37:38 PM
I thought this was about oral dissertations.

Those can be quite brutal.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 113
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 1:38:15 PM
I'm glad you boys handling this delicate subject in such good taste! Lick the cotter.. that should be on a t shirt.
Funny AF she would give him head.. He would have gotten exactly what he gave.
What is it there is no carpet?
Who are these women who could care less?
Back from the dentist.. still frozen and drooling.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 114
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 1:41:21 PM

Lick the cotter..


Now we're talking!!!! I'm ready to print placards, round up people and stand in front of the CNN building with those signs. Yeahhh!
 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 115
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 2:07:46 PM
Lots of flavors in the shops.

Everybody likes to feel special now and then....

No spitting,you're killing my babies. :)
 benartflick
Joined: 3/8/2012
Msg: 116
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 3:57:11 PM

"Lick the cotter.. that should be on a t shirt."


I recall seeing 'Kiss the Blarney Stone' on a t-shirt.

I heard it called a lot of things but never 'cotter' or 'Blarney Stone'.

A British slang for it is 'minge'. Perhaps it's called mangez-moi in French.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 117
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 6:17:07 PM
There will come a time when he won't be able to stir the gravy and will have to lick the s poon....
 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 118
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 7:15:52 PM
Yule....is that you? :)
 ThatGirlNamedAlli
Joined: 12/28/2013
Msg: 119
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 8:16:17 PM
Maybe he plays the saxophone. #seinfeld
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 120
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 8:42:59 PM
I wouldn't be giving him any more oral until and unless he reciprocates. It has been a year and he is not likely to want to do it now. If you want to put up with his selfish ways, stay. You probably cant change his mind on this issue.
 LLove2LaughToo
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 121
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/18/2016 9:34:45 PM

I wouldn't be giving him any more oral until and unless he reciprocates. It has been a year and he is not likely to want to do it now. If you want to put up with his selfish ways, stay. You probably cant change his mind on this issue.


This thread is (3) years old, the OP is in a new relationship.

 backcreek7
Joined: 12/2/2014
Msg: 122
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/19/2016 4:42:35 PM
I think I've come upon the solution ~ sounds like a clear case of the auditory meatus, disrupting your relationship with his pinna tympanic membrane. In other words, his bone is very hooked into his skull, creating mental discomfort. Try putting whip cream in your eustachian tube, you know - right below your lovelobe.
OMG OMG !!!! just re-read this, you said oral, not aural ( dern it ~geezy peezzy !!! )
 kalasmontreal
Joined: 2/26/2016
Msg: 123
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/21/2016 4:07:47 PM
I've never understood women who stick this long with a guy who wont go down on them, but to each their own
 rrrwilsonrrr
Joined: 3/8/2016
Msg: 124
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/23/2016 8:30:43 AM
I think I love you....
Bob
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/23/2016 5:31:57 PM

Stupid reason to break up IMO, especially if everything else is going well in the relationship.

I don't think so. If it's a staple part of one's sex life to be fulfilling, then it's just as "stupid" or "smart" as parting ways due to an unfulfilling sex life in a sexual relationship (=beyond platonic relationship). Notably when the other party won't open up on something mainstream in the bedroom when it's important to the other person. And after a year of being patient with them. Throw them to the dumpster. No sense of dragging on a relationship where you're incompatible.
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