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 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 126
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Yeah well, you can't have everything and all of that, but when a man doesn't fulfill us sexually we walk away. Which appears to be what OP did.
 raisehill
Joined: 5/2/2016
Msg: 127
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 7:48:56 AM

Yeah well, you can't have everything and all of that, but when a man doesn't fulfill us sexually we walk away. Which appears to be what OP did.


Women walk away from men because they are not bonded as a pair. Sexual comparability is of course one of the elements that helps a couple bond together . . . making love an absolutely crucial element, but far from the only important element. Sex could be great . . . or not . . . and the couple still are bonded or not regardless.
 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 128
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 7:59:10 AM
Raise,as of late it appears NJ has given up on finding the right man .
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 129
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 8:02:01 AM
When sex is good it makes up only 20% of the relationship. But when sex is bad it is 80% of the problems in the relationship.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 130
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 8:13:19 AM
Some people need to locate that gigantic stick lodged firmly up their posterior and give it a good YANK !
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 131
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 9:29:54 AM
"When sex is good it makes up only 20% of the relationship. But when sex is bad it is 80% of the problems in the relationship. "

LAG, I hadn't put that sentiment into words, but...I think its a good observation. and maybe there's a correlation, when there's no sex in a friendship, it turns into 80% of the problem as well :)
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 132
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 9:38:07 AM
Lol GTO!! Always killing me with your humor :)))))
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 133
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 10:43:48 AM

Women walk away from men because they are not bonded as a pair. Sexual comparability is of course one of the elements that helps a couple bond together . . . making love an absolutely crucial element, but far from the only important element. Sex could be great . . . or not . . . and the couple still are bonded or not regardless.

When sex is an Absolutely Crucial element, and it's falling short -- their bond will wilter away. So it can be not great (and then some), and that bond can wilter. Human nature. I agree that it doesn't have to be Great -- that's dependent on the couple themselves and everything else going on in the relationship factoring into things.

I think its a good observation. and maybe there's a correlation, when there's no sex in a friendship, it turns into 80% of the problem as well :)

Absolutely! "Babe, did you Really think we've been 1-on-1 friends because I like watching and talking about Real Housewives of New Jersey?? Tick tock, tick tock! It's been 3 months! Am I in, or am I not in ya?"
 eg0724
Joined: 4/19/2016
Msg: 134
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/26/2016 2:15:12 PM
I really liked DaynaDaze's reponse to this. Message 13, I think.
My opinion? End it. You tried, he tried, things aren't changing, so chances are that it will continue this way.
 raisehill
Joined: 5/2/2016
Msg: 135
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/27/2016 3:55:40 AM
Women all over the world fall in love with and marry disabled guys. Paralyzed, multiple sclerosis, neurological diseases. I assume sex, any sex, is difficult in those cases.
 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 136
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/27/2016 10:42:38 AM
Partially paralyzed men have a working neck and tongue raise.
 glenn58john
Joined: 5/12/2016
Msg: 137
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/27/2016 11:14:03 AM
For all you ladies out there who have a man that refuses to go down on you there is a solution.

I'm available weekends and Mon-Fri 5pm to midnight. No fee. Satisfaction guaranteed.
 skwint
Joined: 3/16/2016
Msg: 138
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It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/27/2016 11:18:53 AM
Get yourself a man with a small penis, lets say 4 inches erect, and he'll go down on you every day and more!
can i apply for that job please!
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 139
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/27/2016 3:44:35 PM
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
 skwint
Joined: 3/16/2016
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Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/27/2016 10:23:45 PM
@ NJgirl116
Actually i wasn't being a riot though but any giggle is welcome LOL, i really do have a very small one and like most guys with a small one i bothered to learn stuff to really please the ladies. :-
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 141
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/27/2016 10:37:32 PM
Do you text them a pic of your thumb?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 142
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 6:56:14 AM
well, he's honest, he's got my respect for that. Even if he looks like Raymond Reddington in his picture :)

maybe his screen name should be Timex. :)
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 143
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 10:31:06 AM
Come to think of it, I don't know why penis size isn't one of the catagories on male profiles.
 raisehill
Joined: 5/2/2016
Msg: 144
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 1:12:42 PM

really do have a very small one and like most guys with a small one i bothered to learn stuff to really please the ladies. :-


You are an F__ing ahole, and I hope whoseever photo you are using finds out and sues your rear end off. You can always be found through and IP address unless you were smart enough to use an anonymizer . . . and I'm guessing you aren't.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 3:27:09 PM

You are an F__ing ahole, and I hope whoseever photo you are using finds out and sues your rear end off. You can always be found through and IP address unless you were smart enough to use an anonymizer . . . and I'm guessing you aren't.

How was he being an f-ing ahole? I don't get it. Suing him for what? He was clarifying that he has a small pee-pee and thus had to learn the ropes all around better than your average bear, to please a lady. I don't find that offensive. I think it'd be rude if he was saying that about another member, but not himself.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 146
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 4:20:48 PM

Come to think of it, I don't know why penis size isn't one of the catagories on male profiles


Only if POF also adds breast size on women's profiles.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 147
Lol last 2 pages are a riot
Posted: 5/28/2016 4:25:59 PM
^^^^ Tits for tat ?
 ginghamgal
Joined: 2/13/2016
Msg: 148
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/28/2016 4:36:29 PM

Women all over the world fall in love with and marry disabled guys. Paralyzed, multiple sclerosis, neurological diseases. I assume sex, any sex, is difficult in those cases.


Not saying it never happens. But I think it's more likely a woman fell in love with a man ( or vice versa ) before (s)he became paralyzed or developed a mental/physical handicap.


Just like there are some people that like giving oral much better than receiving it.


I'm one of these people. Not receiving oral isn't a dealbreaker for me. Other sexual issues can be though.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 4/24/2016
Msg: 149
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/29/2016 6:59:23 AM
Well, hate to say it--you could power scrub your vagina, and it still smell horrific.

I've had friends tell me stories of wanting to go down a girl, catching a waft of the smell (post shower, no less), and then not even being in the mood for anything, afterwards (let alone, sex). Some women just smell horrible down there, and no amount of washing can fix it.

Its your body odor, so you may not be aware of it.

If he's that adamant, and its that important to you--if its worth ending a relationship over, then just do so. Demanding he goes down on you, will get the most half-effort he could conjure up.

Kind of like a guy trying to pressure you to have sex with him, when you're really not in the mood.

You'll get the: "You're happy now?!" type of sex, which is just a notch over pity sex.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 150
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 5/29/2016 7:24:34 AM
Such girls may want to go on a pineapple juice diet 3 days before the hot date?
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