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 anita_lay
Joined: 12/19/2012
Msg: 47
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Beautiful post, MutedEnthusiasm. Thank you.
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 48
Loving a person who turns out to be a verry horrible person
Posted: 6/14/2013 6:09:40 PM
Doll - you need to get him out of your world yesterday.
For the people who said nasty things about you - ignore.
You do need to talk to a neutral person who can provide you with some tools to help you cope if this happens again
For the B3tch who said attacked based on looks, you need more help than this poor child does. Vile. Some people are just vile.
 Happy_gal2013
Joined: 12/30/2012
Msg: 49
Loving a person who turns out to be a verry horrible person
Posted: 6/14/2013 6:39:49 PM
Yes I a gree with Anita lay and ouija.

For the people who said nasty things about you - ignore.


OP sorry your going through all of this YES your a beautiful young lady. Please listen to MutedEnthusiasm because he is correct. Reach out for help hon, you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain.
Good luck and best wishes...
 stayrealok
Joined: 4/24/2013
Msg: 51
Loving a person who turns out to be a verry horrible person
Posted: 6/14/2013 7:12:03 PM
OP you've been given some great advise from some great people. Take it and get the help you need.

On a side note I've seen the best advise given on this post that I've seen in a long time. At the same time I've seen the worst case and you should be ashamed of yourself.
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 52
Loving a person who turns out to be a verry horrible person
Posted: 6/14/2013 9:14:54 PM
First Stop Centre in Braintree provides support services to a wide range of needs and offers some counseling. They would be able to offer help or direct you to other support services.
Telephone 01376 346535
29 Bocking End
Braintree

Here’s a few more that would be able to help you or direct you to other services:

*Community Legal Services
(Free Helpline):
0845 345 4 345

*Victim Support
(Helpline):
Essex 0845 456 5995

*Samaritans:
08457 90 90 90

*Counselling & Therapy Clinic, David Jon Bryan
6 John Ray St Brantree, Essex CM7 9DZ+44 1376 552774


Also Essex Gay Men is probably very aware of other local resources. They might be one of the first places I’d go, regardless of gender or orientation, just because of the kind of needs they’re accustomed to responding to.

EGM
Tel: 07967 447323
Text: 07949 348820
Email: info@essexgay.org.uk
 annywn
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 53
Loving a person who turns out to be a verry horrible person
Posted: 6/14/2013 10:52:58 PM
Op~ All us old farts are telling you these things as you simply can't see how you have been brainwashed. Please take the advice and see a councler asap, just for a few times. You're going to need help navigating this to actually put it behind you. A forums board can't offer you the solice you need.
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