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 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 22
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All the issues you have mentioned with an exception of the job situation will exist forever unless SHE decides to change her ways. Allow her the time to re-boot her life, it sounds like the relationship is not helping her one bit, it is causing her to focus all her energy in the wrong direction.
You need to back away. In the meantime you can plan on being completely miserable with her, some people can remain positive under the worst of circumstances and others give up completely at the first hurdle. Have fun.
 usmaleagain
Joined: 8/1/2013
Msg: 23
Confused to the max!
Posted: 8/12/2013 8:28:11 AM


- She lost her job seven months ago, this is old news and not the problem.

- The problem with her is not lack of love for you - you are the one saying you need space. If she was falling out of love, she would be the one asking for space, not you.




I know she has been on medication before


- This the answer, right here. To be good relationship material, people need to be mentally healthy. For a happy, long term relationship, you need sanity.

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