Dated on and off but he would always cause some weird drama and then blame me. When I would try to discuss it, he would turn it around and make it my fault every time.
Control and manipulation. Players, abusers do this to keep you off emotional balance. If they have you going backwards in your head then you don't think about what their doing.
Then recently, I discovered that he is still in a relationship with his baby mama (they have adult children together so this is a 20+ year relationship!).
Why are with a guy that Proves he's a liar and a cheater? Your just dating him. Get out now. Learn the game!
The big question is: WHY do people do this sort of thing? What makes a man (or even a woman) say they want an exclusive relationship but do the complete opposite while they are practically still living part-time with their baby mama AND dating other people while lying their @ss off about it?
Do you really think he'd get laid if he was honest? Men (and women for that matter) can be players at any age. Again this relates to my comment above. A player knows how to work a woman's insecurities and her desires. He sells you a dream, your dream! For sale to all women who'd rather live in the clouds than see through the game. All he really wants is his cake and eat it too. Your dreams aren't for sale!