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 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Dang most men peak right after 3 AM but women after the age of 35 for sure but only after their morning coffee...no coffee no peak, just a mess all day.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Guess you really do hit your sexual peek after 30..
Posted: 9/27/2014 7:48:46 AM

As for topic, my peak has never stopped since I first hit puberty. It's the partner that opens and closes the floodgates. No problems there.


I think this is the key.

Physically we all peek at some age, but most of the time we don't know it because we don't have a partner to peek with. When we find the right partner, then we think wow, I haven't reached my peek, this is awesome. But if we met that same partner at a younger age, it would have been even more intense.

Most of us don't have a good frame of reference to determine sexual peek over a lifetime. It does vary with health and individual temperament, but everyone peeks at some point.
 Vohaul
Joined: 2/20/2014
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Posted: 10/5/2014 2:00:28 PM
I think it's a bit of a psych thing, and the age of peak for women is steadily lowering over time. I think my generation (around 37) is the last one to have a bit of a late peak, as I've noticed more women maturing into a genuine interest in sexuality (as opposed to almost pure attention-seeking... though there are still a good number of profiles geared toward getting fans on instagram) toward their mid to late 20s now. Less shaming, more positivity.

Although certainly there may be a physical component. I just about went through a second puberty after a life-threatening illness scrambled my hormones a bit. A couple of months being absolutely asexual and then "Oh god, I remember this from high school."
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 5/3/2014
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Guess you really do hit your sexual peek after 30..
Posted: 10/6/2014 2:35:11 PM


Posted by OP:
"Guess you really do hit your sexual peek after 30..."

Yoo-hoo! No peeking you naughty girl!


I thought I was the only one that caught that. It made me laugh :)




the guy would say something I couldn't un-hear. This is why I would tell men it's not necessary to use words while being intimate - not because it's romantic but because I feared he'd talk himself right out the door.


Being a man, I have never made it to the bedroom and then turned down sex because of mere words. But I have made a note to myself, “Never go back there again!”


I loved WIP's quote. It was perfect. Just like the things you can't unsee, I totally get what she means by the words you can't unhear.

and Ohenry, I hear you too :)



and to answer the OPs question, after 40 actually, not after 30.
 Paladin1649
Joined: 7/13/2009
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Guess you really do hit your sexual peek after 30..
Posted: 11/4/2014 6:44:08 PM
Wonderful comments, Karma.
Care to chat?

--K.O.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 11/4/2014 7:14:27 PM
^^^^^ Karma prefers younger guys. You're out of luck.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 11/4/2014 7:51:50 PM
I can tell one thing for sure about sexual peaks.

Whatever the age of the poster is, whatever the gender, their sexual peak is just happening.
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