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 2whiteangoras
Joined: 8/6/2014
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dee4166 wrote:

I ALWAYS offer to pay for myself...and if the guy insists on paying, then I let him...

No biggie either way for me...

Oh! And that goes for even PAST the first date or whether or not there's going to be anything more...
Not everyone is rich and I have been paying my own way a long time now and am not looking for any kind of "free ride"....lol


I totally agree with this! I don't expect the man to pay for my meal at any time!
 dwmitch
Joined: 12/31/2009
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/7/2014 5:39:21 PM

I totally agree with this! I don't expect the man to pay for my meal at any time!


The last girl I dated was like that. What's worse, if she wasn't paying for herself she'd pay for the both of us, often by grabbing the check directly out of the waitress' hand.

It might be because I'm archaic in a lot of respects, but I find it highly emasculating when the woman pays.
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 5:15:16 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Sometimes.....it just feels like there's NO winning...
lol
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 129
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 7:36:10 AM

Before this takes off into another "who should pay" thread, of which there are 1,487,552 threads on this topic....Tumuchfun was just joshing and so was I. A little play on the post and a little play on the good catholic/bad catholic.


To be fair, most of these threads were deleted because it turned into name calling.
 PirateJohn09
Joined: 1/7/2009
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 9:06:46 AM

To be fair, most of these threads were deleted because it turned into name calling.

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!
 babiebird
Joined: 10/20/2014
Msg: 131
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 2:58:16 PM
Go with what Eric Summit said.
That's a Great reply Eric.
OP- know your date well.
Don't set a 3 date limit, make it a maybe''' kiss maybe not after 3 dates.
keep your options open.
A gentleman wouldn't try anyway.
Don't kiss all your dates on the lips.
A kiss on the cheek is welcomed, and often enough.
 Supersoulson
Joined: 10/21/2014
Msg: 132
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 3:00:11 PM

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!


Oh yeah ?

I fart in your GENERAL direction !
 PirateJohn09
Joined: 1/7/2009
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 4:41:31 PM

Oh yeah ?

I fart in your GENERAL direction !

I don' wanna talk-a to you no more!
 Supersoulson
Joined: 10/21/2014
Msg: 134
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Posted: 11/8/2014 4:43:28 PM
^^^^^^ OUCH !

That hurt !

Don't worry...it was only a ?
 Szaszaspasz
Joined: 11/13/2012
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 11/8/2014 6:19:57 PM
^^^^^^

"Now go away before I taunt you a second time!"
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 136
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 1:44:23 PM

I haven't had sex since 2008. I'm a born again virgin and I've decided that sex is going to wait until marriage this time. So he'd better put a ring on it and marry me before he gets any.






Hmmm, OP still here , now the big 4 0....I wonder if panic is setting in yet and has caused a change in attitude ?
 sun___flower
Joined: 5/8/2015
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 2:42:45 PM
^^^ I'd panic if you hadn't kissed me by the third date, BCC.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 138
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 2:46:11 PM
If we hadn't kissed by the 2nd date there wouldn't even BE a third date




Re the OP...I wonder if motorboatin is allowed before marriage ?


haha, I couldn't resist
 sun___flower
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 2:52:15 PM
Ooh, I'm glad you agree.

Baha @ MOTORBOATIN.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 2/11/2017
Msg: 140
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 2:56:17 PM

Born again virgin? How does that work? Time machine?


Hymen reconstruction surgery. Without the surgery, its like a guy with a bicycle trying to convince you his other car is a Bentley.

Personally, I think that is like putting a price tag back on a thoroughly used thong, and selling it full retail (since its black, the skid marks won't matter).

Not hating, as if you can get a full return on investment for something you've worn for a couple years or more--all the power to you! That's business savvy, at its finest. Do it with your vagina, and you madam, are a genius.

The significant other who marries you however, is a sucker, considering thongs are probably 60% off and brand new elsewhere.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 2/11/2017
Msg: 141
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:01:40 PM

I have my morals and my values.


You should only kiss when you're ready for it. If you're holding back for "morals", you're essentially saying a woman who kisses on the first date, is of low morals.

Has nothing to do with morals, and is more about preference.

I've dated women who didn't kiss until later than a 3rd date. If the chemistry is there, its irrelevant, and you'll slow yourself to her pace, and let her take her time.

It really shouldn't matter, if he likes you.

However, looking down on someone because you're doing so, is silly.

Good on you for following morals, but this is not something you brag about. That's like bragging about paying your bills, or showering, daily.
 IMayBeCrazy_But
Joined: 12/28/2016
Msg: 142
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:05:54 PM
Ummm. Take a look at OP's profile....I think she may have changed her tune...just a little.


I love cops, firemen, & military guys. Not looking to get married. Just want fun, and male companionship.
 SLAFFA
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 143
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:11:12 PM
OP, last active 5 months ago but the answer still applies. Using any rule/X number of times before ... (other than ALWAYS meet in a "safe" place the 1st time) is not a good plan. That attitude is just as bad as not understanding the importance of "quality/accurate/believable" pics and the REAL importance of that number we all have that indicates the year we were born.

It works exactly the same for OLD as it does in the RW. The ONLY way to accurately gauge atractiveness/"age" is F2F with someone when/where ALL our senses come into play.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 144
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:11:25 PM
^^^^


Not necessarily cray cray, ya ever heard of the ol bait n switch ?


Reel em in with motorboatin fantasy inciting pix and BAM !









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 IMayBeCrazy_But
Joined: 12/28/2016
Msg: 145
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:17:38 PM
^^^^Oh yeah, Chuck...but look at them pillows. They've been fluffed. She's probably attracting a "certain" type o' guy with that profile...probably enjoying it, too. You know what they say about women reaching their sexual peak at around 40. Just saying.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 146
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:21:03 PM
You may be right cray but I may be right too

We may never know.....


Try not to let it keep you up at night





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 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 147
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/13/2017 3:36:47 PM
Looks like someone has some issues and could use counseling.
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
Msg: 148
I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/14/2017 11:07:09 AM
Okay so it's breakfast date at Tiffani's, lunch date at Wimpy's, and dinner date Casey's kissing before 9 o clock and I can have 2 more dates and be in your pants at 2am at that progress I move fast you really shouldn't make those kinds of rules or a smart ass like me will take full advantage.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/14/2017 6:21:04 PM
whatever makes you feel comfortable. I would not have a hard and fast rule on it. If a guy is interested he will stick around I guess but really a kiss or two is hardly immoral, on the first or second date.. Your religious views are your own and we all do what we feel is right. However your profile sends out mixed messages and you will attract the guys looking for a fast lay..
 LetitiaLeGrande
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I don't kiss till the third date
Posted: 3/14/2017 6:24:19 PM
oh yes!!! we know you guys that count a first meet as a first date and the first date as a second date.....etc.. As for taking advantage? It is up to the girl to set the pace and you know it.
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