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 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
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Has little to do with how much they care and everything to do with how hot they are,few men chase a woman because of her sparkling or not so much personality.....its because they are fine and they want some.I know in my younger days I never gave a second thought to whether a woman cared a damn about me,i knew what I wanted....of course I paid the price for it.
 deetristate
Joined: 12/4/2014
Msg: 162
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 2/21/2015 2:15:46 PM
str 2015


"Boys only want love if it's torture"
----Taylor Swift
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
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Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 2/21/2015 6:54:51 PM
Women are no better at picking men than men are at picking women,both are lured and drawn in by their own weaknesses and desires,it has been in the news lately that Charles Manson has a new bride or bride wannabe and women are going to the middle east to join Isis.The news report said it was for adventure and romance.....perhaps they will keep their heads when those around them are losing theirs....women love to talk about what "boys" do but the girls are not doing much better....come to think of it being in love with Taylor Swift for any decent man probably is torture so she knows of what she speaks.
 robert1652
Joined: 2/18/2015
Msg: 164
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/11/2015 11:08:15 PM
Q: Why do so many men end up with unkind women?

A: When women in pass the age of 46 Hormones play havoc. It is called (Men)opause. It is believed to be the fault of men.

Passed that then the issue of age creeps in. At this stage a woman who has missed all her opportunities waiting for the "right guy" believing no one was good enough for her realizes that time is running out. At this desperate stage they try to clutch into any one who will give them a child. You see the notion of a child in the mind of this woman is the symbol of the youth that she has wasted. By the time the child is a teenager the man has left her due to unreasonable demands such as "walking in to the sunset" or "living the life to the fullest" or "long walks on the beach" " love of travel to exotic places" forgetting to mention at the man's expense ...etc you are getting the drift. By now she is approaching 60 and children have left home and there is no man around either. Now is the time when this species is branded as........................................................The Menopausal Geriatric which is a bitter, convoluted, relentless menace who is prepared to even pick a find with her own shadow. I am sure you can relate to at least one creature with these characteristics. Cant you?
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 165
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 1:25:32 PM

Q: Why do so many men end up with unkind women?

A: When women in pass the age of 46 Hormones play havoc. It is called (Men)opause. It is believed to be the fault of men.

Passed that then the issue of age creeps in. At this stage a woman who has missed all her opportunities waiting for the "right guy" believing no one was good enough for her realizes that time is running out. At this desperate stage they try to clutch into any one who will give them a child. You see the notion of a child in the mind of this woman is the symbol of the youth that she has wasted. By the time the child is a teenager the man has left her due to unreasonable demands such as "walking in to the sunset" or "living the life to the fullest" or "long walks on the beach" " love of travel to exotic places" forgetting to mention at the man's expense ...etc you are getting the drift. By now she is approaching 60 and children have left home and there is no man around either. Now is the time when this species is branded as........................................................The Menopausal Geriatric which is a bitter, convoluted, relentless menace who is prepared to even pick a find with her own shadow. I am sure you can relate to at least one creature with these characteristics. Cant you?


I'm sure you can understand the frustration of these menopausal geriatrics.
I mean you get to be my age and the above typing and profile is an example of what I can look forward to while
hunting for a SO.

Serously, I don't know what I find more disturbing...your post, your profile or the fact you're my age.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 166
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 1:29:45 PM
^^^ Amen.
Oh, and this from a Poster who announced his photos are all older.
Lucky he can avoid the MGs and focus his attention on the young hotties
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 167
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Posted: 3/12/2015 2:44:45 PM
^^^^^Yep. If that's an "average" body type, I'm the Queen of England.
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 168
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 2:57:19 PM
Now, now girlfriends. Have pity on the poor thing. The youngest he can reach out to is... drum roll, please... 48. Yup, she'll be passed her pull date.
 bluemoon24_7
Joined: 4/18/2014
Msg: 169
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 3:26:35 PM
Geez Robert1652, have you met Demidar and Deeristate...I think you are three peas in a pod.

And Robert, I can see why your longest relationship has bee 6 years, what a putz. Your whole post was just plain nasty. You're just a chubby old guy long past his prime that is whining because no woman pays you any mind. Woman are unkind only when they run across azzholes like you and Demidar.

Thank goodness the majority of women approaching 60 or all ready have passed that age know that ALL men aren't like you. Many of us have wonderful men in our lives whether they have fond memories of a man they buried, a man they spent a part of their life with, a man they are currently spending time with, as well as friends, lovers, brothers, fathers and sons. I know what a "real" man is and sorry darlin, you don't measure up.
 Silverhawk_tkn
Joined: 12/3/2010
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Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 3:55:16 PM

When women in pass the age of 46 Hormones play havoc




Yea no, I don't think so. I find the exact opposite and same for the unkind women. I find that as I get older the women I meet that are closer to my age are much nicer and don't seem to have the drama that younger ones often do. I find young single moms in their early 30s to be the worst. As they get older they get progressively nicer and more mellow.

Don't get me wrong, I love to pick a good gender fight when I can (and I have.....lol!) but on this one I just can't throw my weight behind these guys.............

Older women are awesome (and sexy as hell!!).

 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 171
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 4:17:41 PM
^^^
Agreed.

Too much nonsense with the younger ones. Pass.

The older gals are easier......to talk to:)
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 172
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Posted: 3/12/2015 5:08:45 PM
Good catch there Clooney. And, yes, you were missed. You and Silverhawk are such smooth talkers.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 173
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/12/2015 10:05:43 PM
^^^
Thank you!

Lots of us 45+ folk can relax and hopefully celebrate our differences rather gender bash.

I've met some incredible women that respected me and didn't judge me for having a past.

I've always felt the older women provided more shrewd commentary then the men :)
 Never_in_Life
Joined: 1/13/2015
Msg: 174
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/14/2015 5:01:08 AM

Ladies my advice is to date younger men...the women I know around your age say men slightly younger are refreshingly positive and much more pleasant to date.


And my advice to you is to stop billboarding for once and accept the fact people generally tend to gravitate towards their own age group.

Good Lord your posturing is sounding like a broken record. (Google "record", little girl - it might help you with the reference)
 Never_in_Life
Joined: 1/13/2015
Msg: 175
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/14/2015 6:22:22 AM

Your whole post was just plain nasty. You're just a chubby old guy long past his prime that is whining because no woman pays you any mind.


I chuckled. That was a good shot and yet somewhat endearing at the same time.
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2015 7:07:44 AM

You're just a chubby old guy long past his prime that is whining because no woman pays you any mind


this^, in combination with the profile rant about grammar, usage etc., make this specimen particularly alluring.

and about the grammar thing? where do i start? maybe a course in remedial english would help, followed by a rigorous fitness program, anger management and intense therapy.
 CrookCatcher
Joined: 7/14/2014
Msg: 177
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/14/2015 7:24:46 AM
Well Robert.....

What have we learned here?

That your mouth wrote checks your looks and profile could'nt cash.....mmm...mmm..mmm...a grave error my friend.

You have now experienced a pof cyber castration. These forumites are tactically trained in that precision movement. Starts off subtle but before you know it....bam....you look like a tele tubbie.

But fear not.... there's always the off topic forum. :)
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 178
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/14/2015 8:23:11 AM

around 50-55 yrs, around the same age that men need viagra and buy flashy sports cars to relive their youth.


Ever since I read this, I have been running around the house and yard looking for some pills and ANYTHING that had four wheels on it. So far, sweet phuck all. I was quite upset to be quite honest.

And then, after some thought I realized that when I was younger, I really never chased the tail, and flashy was a description of my fishing lures.


Sonofabiatch!!!!!!!
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 179
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Posted: 3/14/2015 9:07:33 AM
My flashy sports car is a no wife opportunity.

The insurance and gas are expensive, and I can't go to Costco anymore. What was I thinking?!

Menopause and ED aren't as serious a problem as lacking a libido :)
 deepthoughtlighthumour
Joined: 2/15/2015
Msg: 180
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Posted: 3/14/2015 1:30:38 PM
To the topic originale: Maybe these men have very small penises.
 deepthoughtlighthumour
Joined: 2/15/2015
Msg: 181
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Posted: 3/14/2015 1:33:20 PM
Could be also that the women are from toronto, born and raised there.

Or they are overly educated, smarter, or way more muscular than the man they are with. Or have more money or make more money or their parents are made of many money.

Who knows.
 Fire_and_Ice4_You
Joined: 10/28/2014
Msg: 182
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 3/15/2015 11:04:29 PM
CC

mmm...mmm..mmm...a grave error my friend.

You have now experienced a pof cyber castration. These forumites are tactically trained in that precision movement. Starts off subtle but before you know it....bam....you look like a tele tubbie

^^^^^^OMG....Never had such a laugh out loud moment....too funny!
 yourstillhere
Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 4/5/2015 9:38:57 AM
The womans job is to take control of her man and emasculate him. The mans job is to make sure that never happens.
These women are just doing their job. These men, are not doing their job.

....the end........
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 4/5/2015 8:14:53 PM
When I first got married, my then wife was not abusive. The last five years, she changed. Had I not been in shape, and about a foot taller, I believe that she'd would have hit me. So, she started mental abuse. Not all the time, and she would apologize occasionally. Since it was during her menopause, I assumed that things would gradually change. The last two years were the worst. It seemed like she looked for ways to be upset with me, I was never right. I didn't do the things she wanted. If I tried to confront her issues, she ran away from me. A few times, she pushed me to a point where I just had to leave. Because if I stayed, I would have flattened her. The day she said she wanted a divorce, I said go.

Once out of that situation, I felt like the world had been lifted off my shoulders. It took a while, and a lot of reading to figure out that I was being mentally abused. Once I saw it, I knew I'd turned the corner, and could put that behind me. I think that men and women stay with unkind mates, because at one time, they weren't that way. And we hope that the unkind mate will have a revelation moment, and change their ways. But, the chances of that happening are almost nil.
 iamconstipated
Joined: 3/3/2015
Msg: 185
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Posted: 4/6/2015 9:26:41 AM
I find Robert funny. I'm sure by the time women reach menopause the last thing they want is anything near Robert's lack of a personality or body shape.
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