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 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 51
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This thread must stay alive....

But yeah, I've done a lot of things, and I don't have a facebook account. After I kinda blew myself up on facebook drinking 240 dollars of booze in 3 days. Damn my ability to type while im black out drunk.

But that doesn't mean I don't like to watch Jerry Springers midget fighting episode on youtube. And that doesn't mean I don't think its interesting to hear about guys who never liked to receive head.

Head can be great though, you know... especially if the girl is a freak.

Whats the point of all ^ that nonsense?

I don't know, bumpin the thread for shits I guess
 Demidar
Joined: 10/22/2014
Msg: 52
never gotten head
Posted: 1/15/2015 2:43:49 PM
I remember back in the binge days , we used to drink Mad Dog 20/20 . Reason it was called that is because , that was what you became after imbibing that liquid .
 nocrapzone
Joined: 1/10/2015
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/15/2015 3:04:02 PM
Has he ever given head..to a woman? Or has that topic come up in your discussions?
give a little bit..
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/15/2015 6:18:06 PM

So, I didn't read alot of the responses because:

A: I don't care.

2: They seemed pretty...mean.


Uhhh.... maybe you should care. Because the only other option is that someone will care, that you don't care. And fill you in despite your not caring.

The point is your questions are all answered throughout the thread. This day in age its good to read, its always been good to read.


I guess I just see this conversation about head, between a straight male and a straight female, as...odd.


That's because you're insecure.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 1/15/2015 6:34:00 PM
Yeah, thats sounds too much like porno town to be real. Actually, I talk to my female friend about sex as well. It isn't that odd if you understand and know yalls boundaries as platonic friends. In fact I was planning to bring this thread subject up with her when I see her again. It is always nice to have a female perspective that you know IRL.
 CuriousInDB
Joined: 7/12/2014
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/15/2015 7:37:00 PM

So, I didn't read alot of the responses because:

A: I don't care.

2: They seemed pretty...mean.


Uhhh.... maybe you should care. Because the only other option is that someone will care, that you don't care. And fill you in despite your not caring.

The point is your questions are all answered throughout the thread. This day in age its good to read, its always been good to read.


I guess I just see this conversation about head, between a straight male and a straight female, as...odd.


That's because you're insecure.

I'm worried. This all makes sense to me. Even the picture changes tonight make sense to me.

Either what you said ^^^ or a very low libido for some reason.

Can't believe I'm posting to this thread. RX drugs didn't work for me, vector.
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 57
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Posted: 1/15/2015 8:21:01 PM
Mike -

I'll give you a really odd example of what I mean.

In basic training there were guys who would make a "tent" and jerk themselves off in their bunk. It was obvious what they were doing, but they didn't care. They were secure with doing that, I however was not secure with doing that. So I never tented.

But I can talk to women about sex and sexuality because im secure with the topic. So, not saying insecurity is a bad thing. I don't think being insecure about jerking off in a bay with 40 other guys is something I really want to be secure about.

Curious - You mean my picture changes? And yeah RX drugs are a rare occasion. I can get strong painkillers prescribed to me for my back pain, but I don't like getting addicted so I just stay off em. I like Adderall for some reason, its just better than coffee. Plus it raises my libido lol
 OtisGreening
Joined: 12/8/2014
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/15/2015 10:42:12 PM

So, I didn't read alot of the responses because:

A: I don't care.

2: They seemed pretty...mean.


That's dumb. Followed by:


I guess I just see this conversation about head, between a straight male and a straight female, as...odd. It seems like the response he might've expected was: "Oh, really? You should try it! Here let me show you!"


If you had bothered to read through the thread, you'll see how this topic came about. And anyone who knows & respects me would not expect a response like that. They'd know better.

And to whomever who asked a few posts ago, he says he loves going down on women - or that one woman he's been intimate with :P That girl refused to give head when they were f*cking. But they were younger and she is 30 now too. With her current boyfriend of 3+ years, she's a lot more experimental and comfortable with her sexuality.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/16/2015 10:19:16 AM
"I'm worried. This all makes sense to me. Even the picture changes tonight make sense to me.

Either what you said ^^^ or a very low libido for some reason.

Can't believe I'm posting to this thread. RX drugs didn't work for me, vector."-CuriousinDB

Lol CuriousinDB, thats pretty funny.


I am thinking OP took down pictures for 1 or 2 reasons.

1) Since she is young and really pretty, she was getting unwanted attention.
2) She was afraid someone on here would recognize her.

I used to have my pictures on here too, but I took them off because I felt too overexposed...I am sensitive obviously lol.
 CuriousInDB
Joined: 7/12/2014
Msg: 60
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Posted: 1/16/2015 10:25:10 AM

I am thinking OP took down pictures for 1 or 2 reasons.

I was talking about vector's pictures yesterday.
And thanks, yeah. I try to keep it real.
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 61
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Posted: 1/16/2015 1:58:37 PM

I am thinking OP took down pictures for 1 or 2 reasons.

1) Since she is young and really pretty, she was getting unwanted attention.
2) She was afraid someone on here would recognize her.

.... or 3) She's seeing a guy (who she's happily giving head to), and takes down her photos because she's stepping aside from reaching out to the dating scene.
 OtisGreening
Joined: 12/8/2014
Msg: 62
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Posted: 1/16/2015 2:40:43 PM
4) who tf cares? what a deranged turn this thread has taken. Now I actually agree with CuriousinDB, LOL!
 CuriousInDB
Joined: 7/12/2014
Msg: 63
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Posted: 1/16/2015 2:42:26 PM

who tf cares? what a deranged turn this thread has taken. Now I actually agree with CuriousinDB, LOL!

It happens when people least expect it, Otis.

Much talk around forums today with the guys wondering what's up with your pic. Me? I'm thinking you and vector.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/16/2015 3:14:25 PM
^^^^Aaawww that would be so adorable!
Lol Otis, it's all in harmless fun and shenanigans ( also because I like the word "shenanigans").
 OtisGreening
Joined: 12/8/2014
Msg: 65
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Posted: 1/16/2015 9:37:45 PM
Sorry about the crankiness ^^ :P


I almost got the most awesome head this morning, as it turns out I just got a sore neck from trying.


Just saw this. LOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 1/16/2015 10:01:13 PM
Nothing like a good head thread
 Eric_Summit
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 67
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Posted: 1/16/2015 10:36:08 PM

Posted by TuMuchFun:
"Nothing like a good head thread"

Hey, that rhymed!
 PirateJohn09
Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 1/16/2015 10:41:20 PM
Stop rhyming now! I mean it!
 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Posted: 1/17/2015 7:58:53 PM
How about a haiku

We have a head thread
Some poor soul went thirty years
Without oral sex
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/17/2015 8:23:24 PM
Thirty years has come
Still no oral sex for him
Time to wank it more
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/18/2015 6:47:51 PM
An interesting update. I was talking to my female friend about this thread and this was her input.

She says that men who have such low success with sex tend to have an underlying emotional/psychological problem that is easy to pick up on. This problem tends to make them less attractive.

No shit huh lol. All I can say about it is my life experience pretty much corroborates her story to a point. I never had a good social life, and I get hurt by others easily. I don't seek the spotlight or fame or fortune. To others I have no drive or ambition, but to me I can find beauty in almost anything, and I rather enjoy life for life's sake. This tends to be pretty unnattractive for most women I have found.

Oh btw, My haiku was better ;P
 OtisGreening
Joined: 12/8/2014
Msg: 72
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Posted: 1/18/2015 9:58:46 PM

She says that men who have such low success with sex tend to have an underlying emotional/psychological problem that is easy to pick up on. This problem tends to make them less attractive.


This is pretty spot-on. My friend, for example, is a good-looking man of 6' and has many attractive female friends but a lack of sex appeal. He has the basic tools to attract women (height, good looks) but the way he carries himself does not ignite sexual desire in women. And with women, it's more about what they HEAR as opposed to what they SEE that makes a man sexually desirable.

On the flipside, I knew a guy who was short and not that attractive and he would bed women pretty regularly. He was probably aware that he couldn't rely on his exterior to attract women so he had to develop other skills in order to do so, or just be overlooked and on the bench.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 1/19/2015 4:29:31 AM
^^^^^^ So which one of your "friends" has a "problem" and which one doesn't??????


She says that men who have such low success with sex tend to have an underlying emotional/psychological problem that is easy to pick up on.


Funny shiat.

I mean really.

Where do people come up with it?????
 nocrapzone
Joined: 1/10/2015
Msg: 74
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Posted: 1/19/2015 8:03:51 AM
so in essence.. bullsh1t (c0ckiness with no reason) baffles brains..sounds just like politics :)

which came first, the chicken or the egg?

lack of success with women, or low self-esteem..or one feeds off the other?
 nocrapzone
Joined: 1/10/2015
Msg: 75
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Posted: 1/19/2015 8:51:53 AM
^^

also you seem to be a fan of the finger in the a$$? never got into either, really..
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