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 BLonde^j^AngeL
Joined: 1/2/2015
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kind of sexual experience, when both parties are completely into it, not someone going through the motions of a BJ as per your average porn experience, is worth far more than $500
agree but sadly some have to pay more & go all the way to Parumph, NV
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 IL_Capitano
Joined: 11/23/2012
Msg: 327
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Posted: 2/13/2015 4:33:15 PM

Random comment: A girl friend of mine gave her husband a blow job for $500.

See now this, confuses me. How can he pay her $500 when in a marriage everything would be joint? (The only way I would contemplate marriage- you're either all in or you aren't in) So in effect she's paying herself. Unless they were just acting out some little fantasy I suppose...


In any relationship I've ever been in and talking with male friends, sex is ALWAYS a currency women can take advantage of. Women know it, most take advantage of it and every man expects to pay that price, the fvcking idiots.

 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 328
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/13/2015 4:44:01 PM


Oh, and CTRL- THAT kind of sexual experience, when both parties are completely into it, not someone going through the motions of a BJ as per your average porn experience, is worth far more than $500. And as you have never experienced it, of course you have no idea


I'll take the 500 dollars over any porn actress blowjob, sex isn't worth that, I've turned it down on several occasions recently. I mean the circumstances were less than desirable. Erica couldn't keep her mouth shut so now I get emails basically asking me to prove it from women I don't know - so its not like im a player. But I will be god damned if I ever spend a penny on the act of sex. Because I am pretty damn capable of performing and could just as soon leave it as take it - so long as I'm not starved,
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 329
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Posted: 2/13/2015 4:49:07 PM
Why only $500?
She must have some special skill.
* off to complain about flowers and a smile*
$500 HAHAHA
Bet that was an interesting convo
" please pass the potatoes"
*kids do your homework"
Will you be blowing me like a clarinet?"
* For $500*
and you do the dishes
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 330
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/13/2015 5:12:58 PM
^^^ No need for the $500 if he regularly did the dishes.
 bluemoon24_7
Joined: 4/18/2014
Msg: 331
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/13/2015 6:05:24 PM
^^^ I agree, sometimes the quickest way to a blow job in the bedroom is a relatively quick stop in the kitchen.

And, sometimes couples do fun things like $500.00. My husband left a one hundred dollar bill on my nightstand one night and I once got out of bed and gave him a standing ovation. Stuff like this makes you laugh even years later. It's supposed to be fun.
 MeMeMeatlast
Joined: 1/26/2015
Msg: 332
Paying for a BLOW JOB
Posted: 2/13/2015 6:08:15 PM

No need for the $500 if he regularly did the dishes.


So does this mean if he ALSO regularly cooked SHE would have to pay HIM 500 bucks ?
 VolkanoKing
Joined: 8/1/2014
Msg: 333
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Posted: 2/13/2015 6:16:17 PM
I once knew a guy who offered to cook me dinners for free.

Thing was, he wanted to dress up as a french maid while he did it.

I think I'd rather pay $500 than entertain a "sissy" fetish, as convenient as it may have been.. :D
 bluemoon24_7
Joined: 4/18/2014
Msg: 334
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Posted: 2/13/2015 6:39:13 PM
I had one of those contact me too, wanted to wear a dress, heels and pearls and vacuum my carpets. If he had added cleaning the toilets ....I'd have thought about it.
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 335
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Posted: 2/13/2015 8:29:30 PM
^^^ You'd have thought about? There's nothing in there about him doing you. Gurl, I'd have let him do the house.

As for you, meatlast, sorry cooking doesn't get as big of an award around here.
 dragonbytes
Joined: 12/25/2014
Msg: 336
Paying for a BLOW JOB
Posted: 2/13/2015 9:36:21 PM
IMO women in the USA would be foolish to equate sex and money. Because women are going to lose doing that.

Labor is always outsourced in the USA, it only make economic sense because labor is overpriced here.

When a woman starts to equat sex and money, they either get a fool that doesn't understand the going rate worldwide for manual labor, or they will be shocked to learn a blow job is only worth about $20- $30 at most on the world market.

IMO only morons go to Parumph, NV for sex.

Here is the going rate worldwide for sex. Did you know, Switzerland has a union minimum of $100.

http://www.havocscope.com/black-market-prices/prostitution-prices/

Now if you want something really kinky, you will have to pay up.

I don't know, what do they say, location, location, location.
 RachRenee21
Joined: 11/9/2014
Msg: 337
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/13/2015 9:39:30 PM
I would DEFINITELY pay for my own food, drinks, etc because I don't like/appreciate that "you owe me" mentality that a lot of people have.
 Never_in_Life
Joined: 1/13/2015
Msg: 338
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/14/2015 3:49:49 AM

No need for the $500 if he regularly did the dishes.


Oh yeah? So....what would vacuuming and doing the laundry get me?

"The way to a woman's loins is through the appliances." ;-D
 BLonde^j^AngeL
Joined: 1/2/2015
Msg: 339
Paying for a date
Posted: 2/14/2015 4:43:21 AM

IMO women in the USA would be foolish to equate sex and money. Because women are going to lose doing that.

Labor is always outsourced in the USA, it only make economic sense because labor is overpriced here.
sshhhhhhhh, don't tell!


When a woman starts to equat sex and money, they either get a fool that doesn't understand the going rate worldwide for manual labor, or they will be shocked to learn a blow job is only worth about $20- $30 at most on the world market.
Not much help though if they are living in the US. So they are gonna book a trip to Amsterdam to get a $30 BJ?


IMO only morons go to Parumph, NV for sex.

We weren't discussing IQ, just BJ's ;0P


Here is the going rate worldwide for sex. Did you know, Switzerland has a union minimum of $100.

Why do you think Swiss Cheese has holes in it? ;0P

http://www.havocscope.com/black-market-prices/prostitution-prices/


Now if you want something really kinky, you will have to pay up.

I don't have all them wigs & costumes for nothing ;0)


I don't know, what do they say, location, location, location.

Yes, also law of supply & demand, LoL
 Aradia96
Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 340
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Posted: 2/14/2015 7:45:27 AM
I'd not pay for a date or sex but I may consider being payed to go on a date.
There is this odd dating site that does that.
I think it would have too much expectations and the guy maaay expect sex though so.... not so appealing.
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 341
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Posted: 2/14/2015 7:50:03 AM
Yeah don't whore yourself out just yet, save that lifestyle to support a drug addiction.
 Aradia96
Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 342
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Posted: 2/14/2015 8:17:31 AM

Yeah don't whore yourself out just yet, save that lifestyle to support a drug addiction.

Well I hope that was not to me >.> (think that since my post was right before)

To OP:
I do like chivalrous men but there aren't that many left :(
So I'd like him to pay for the date's cost for food etc and pretty much insist he pays. I don't like discussing who pays, makes me uncomfortable, not necessarily because I don't want to pay but because I think he doesn't care much about me or something if he doesn't want to pay :S
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 343
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Posted: 2/14/2015 8:23:13 AM
The A team?

Ed?

Is that you?
 deetristate
Joined: 12/4/2014
Msg: 344
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Posted: 2/14/2015 9:32:31 AM
Which is worse? A woman who does it for nothing ( no relationship) or a woman who charges (no relationship)? Something to wonder about.
Changing the title is so tenth grade.
 TALL_IQ2
Joined: 12/22/2014
Msg: 345
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Posted: 2/14/2015 9:51:26 AM
Ok men, get out that wallet and get to the stores before they are sold out.
You will pay one way or another.

Or "go out of town" and get them tomorrow for half price or less...
Turn off your GPS.

S
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 2/14/2015 10:08:20 AM
I saw all of those sad sacks at the grocery store this morning buying the roses, stuffed animals, balloons, candy, and cards.

They were going to catch hell if they came home empty handed.
 deetristate
Joined: 12/4/2014
Msg: 347
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Posted: 2/14/2015 10:23:00 AM
They know where there bread is buttered (Ha!). And some men may :HORRORS!!!: enjoy making their woman ( or their sister or mother or daughter) happy.
 JoeBnD
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 348
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Posted: 2/14/2015 10:37:23 AM
Happy Valentines Day, nobody. Here - I didn't get you anything.
 VolkanoKing
Joined: 8/1/2014
Msg: 349
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Posted: 2/14/2015 10:39:14 AM
"I saw all of those sad sacks at the grocery store this morning buying the roses, stuffed animals, balloons, candy, and cards."

It would be nice to have my own sad sack today.
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 350
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Posted: 2/14/2015 10:44:51 AM

Which is worse? A woman who does it for nothing ( no relationship) or a woman who charges (no relationship)?

For sex? The woman who doesn't charge for it. You're asking what's worse -- having sexual relations and not being a hooker, or having sexual relations and being a hooker? I'll go with the "being a hooker" for $100, Bob...

The guy should pay first and then you both go half after if you still dating :0

When there's nobody asking To Take someone else out, I pretty much agree. Stipulations, though. It's a default that yeah, the guy should expect to pay the bill. If the gal, on the Date realizes she is Not interested (not by his fault) -- then she should Convincingly offer to at least contribute, if not split it, if it's not some expensive place he picked out... since she knows it's going to go nowhere.

I think the splitting, or the "you got this time, I got next time", or "I'll get dinner, you get the opera tickets" -- yeah, by default. Anything will trump that of course if he ASKS to Take her out on any spec date, which would indicate that he's (still) trying to win her over -- OR win her over to an idea that she may not be so keen about (like going to out to a neighboring city to a baseball game when she's not so much a fan of baseball), where he pays the whole thing (and her chipping in a bit on a particular thing or two if the idea warms up on her).
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