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 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 226
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As I said before about the winking thing....Just...ewwwwwww.....

Seems kinds ....smarmy, to me.... LOL ;-)

As for RT, he is entitled to his opinions and I already said what I had to say TO and about him....

Nice to see him being SO vehemently defended....Be equally nice to see that the next time someone calls me a 'fvcking idiot and a moron' because I DARED to disagree with their POV and approach....
Only ONE person said anything as I recall...thanks Sunshine! ;-)

Or is THAT ok, because I 'asked for it'?

Or because I am capable of defending myself?
Last I checked...so is RT....MORE than adequately....

Let's face it, I believe this has more to do with personal feelings than much else....towards the parties involved....
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 227
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 4:27:57 AM


we have a collection of animals here, a gorilla, a pig and a dog.
I dont like it when a woman opens her mouth and nothing else is going on
do you like younger men?


What the f*ck? I don't even understand your point here. The first comment I once said about having three forumites here who had animals in their usernames. InnerGorilla, Cooldog, and myself. (Pig) What the hell that has to do with YOU, I don't know.

The second one I believe was in reference to kissing, which I also fail to see how it has ANYTHING to do with you.

The third one, I did say to you. So what???


Secondly, hes a young man, early 30's, why would you say that to a young man?


Oh, please. Don't be so melodramatic. He's not an impressionable adolescent. If you say stupid shit at age 30, you deserve the verbal backlash.



Really? Well someone who apologises and then changes there behaviour or adapts what they are doing is generally someone who is learning and changing IMO, so good for him.


I guess you just conveniently MISSED my and others saying he did *not* apologize.


Pigs on the other hand are prodominately one liners that add not much to a discussion and are often insulting or attacking other forumites.


Really? If any other forumite has been unjustifiably "attacked" by me before, please speak now. I am seriously starting to question your sanity.
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 228
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Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 4:40:13 AM

Not really. Its very common in groups. Most people follow only a few lead. Get a bully in the mix and people will either stay out of it, pretend they didnt notice it or run with the bully IME. Not many will stand up to them.


And some of us actually think for ourselves and have no need to continue in a pointless discussion....where the person being 'attacked' has NO interest in addressing any but the most inflammatory posters, and ignores the people that he's complaining about, namely women....

Really don't see as he was interested in 'discussing' anything...and refused to even consider ANY other explanations....

Just a platform to spread his misogynistic views around....based on ONLY his own, personal experience with, if I remember correctly, ONE woman....who said that she was 'busy' as opposed to whatever he felt she SHOULD have said....

Any way....you , as RT, are entitled to your own opinion....frankly, I think that you are placing too much importance on whatever pig has/had to say...His is only ONE opinion....

I also feel that is mostly because you obviously don't like him....as well as the 'injustice' that you feel RT has suffered...

And I do thank you for acknowledging the thing about defending people...
 GattoMonstrosis
Joined: 4/4/2013
Msg: 229
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Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 4:46:13 AM

Maybe we should get back to the kissing.... much more fun
Just don't wink. Seriously I think if a guy winked at me while having sex he'd find himself on the floor PDQ


How about if he did a Popeye face? Or would that make you think he's having a stroke?

Okokok... seizure then. :)
 coffeetogo127
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 230
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Posted: 5/28/2015 6:22:40 AM
Vickie, I am sure you don't trust my judgement. But RT did not apologize. Nor has he made any changes.

I don't see pig baiting anyone, just responding.

What I don't understand, Vickie, is why you seem to have a tendency to jump to the defense of men who make misogamist statements. You were like that with vector also, I remember. I'm curious why a woman would try to minimize or deny such blatant sexism and abuse.
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 231
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Posted: 5/28/2015 6:45:45 AM


Yeah I thought you would say that. Its interesting that the comment come when my view wasnt the popular view though.


I have no idea what you're even referring to at this point. This is like a "Twilight Zone" episode, frankly.



Yeah I thought you would say that. Its interesting that the comment come after my comment when I laughed at you because you said you could take any woman away from a younger man.


That is *not* what I said. I said from *him". Did you happen to see WHY I responded to him in that manner?



Because I explained how I felt it was offensive, another forumite pointed out how you were trying to belittle me (though I would add RT into that as well), and yet you carried on doing it. You havent made any attempt to apologise


I haven't attempted to because I'm not *going* to. You can hurl all the melodramatic terms your heart desires, but I have nothing to apologize for in questioning why you would support his disturbing beliefs.
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 232
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Posted: 5/28/2015 7:12:47 AM

Yes we are entitled to our opinion, though he may feel embarrassed now having had the constant implication that we should be an item dont you think? As for Pigs being only ONE opinion, not according to Charm, apparently he is speaking for ALL.


Back up Sissy, ... correction

msg 200

Do you realize that when I say ALL, I am referring to ALL that feel he says exactly what we think or want to say beautifully??





What I don't understand, Vickie, is why you seem to have a tendency to jump to the defense of men who make misogamist statements. You were like that with vector also, I remember. I'm curious why a woman would try to minimize or deny such blatant sexism and abuse.


Interesting that she has this tendency isn't it? She has said that she's found RT and Vector attractive.
A connection for the tendency perhaps? We all know she loves to play devil's advocate. Put the two together and there you have it, a possible answer.


Although, it's nice that someone is in RT's corner and good points were raised but bottom line, if a person open it's mouth and stupid crap comes out, no matter how much backpedalling there is, there's going to be backlash. Especially if the person keeps opening the mouth spewing stupid crap.
Just because it sounds intelligent doesn't necessarily mean it is.


As for the winking incidents. Those guys thought they had me hook, link and sinker, had dated a few months. One was even talking of marriage. After that one thing, I was gone.
Stupid move, thier loss.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 233
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Posted: 5/28/2015 8:12:32 AM

vectors condition and life history had a lot of similarities to my own two children and he gave me great insight into them.


I'm going to jump here in the defense of Vector. Yes he had issues, and yes, he could get super angry and throw his anger at people. But and I say but not to justify his bad behavior, but to point out that besides is issues, he had a self deprecating side and a compassionate side. So I really liked the kid. Where ever he is, I hope he is taking care of himself. I have a character in a novel I am writing that I am modeling a little bit after him.

As for RT, all I've heard him do is complaint, and complaint. He doesn't even sees himself as flawed, but as if the world owed him something. So I can't defend his POV.
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 234
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Posted: 5/28/2015 8:34:11 AM
Vicki, are you not understanding that half the shit you're commenting on and formulating opinions about are based on things you DIDN'T see??

How many times have I asked if you saw something, and your response has been "no" or "I didn't see that"?

Unreal.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 235
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 8:59:22 AM
Young angry Men don't need defending.
I do get weary of people not owning what they say/do.. like if they ran over your foot they'd be all " no I didn't"
followed by " your fault you have a foot"
then " your foot damaged my tire"
and they would gun it again to run over your OTHER foot.
But back to kissing - I remember my first " real " kiss. Must have been good because I had nothing to compare it to.
Did anyone else practice kissing with their hand? See, beauty of getting old, you don't mind if you sound a bit weird.
 newoldgirl
Joined: 4/16/2015
Msg: 236
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Posted: 5/28/2015 9:37:25 AM

I have spoken out as that is what I tend to do, Ive done it for others, different ages, men and women. Thats what I do. The fact people only notice it when I do it to young men is probably more to do with there views not mine.



Yes, that's what you do, and it's tiresome and attention seeking. It' s one thing to side with the underdog when he or she has a point. You jumped to defend RT just for the sake of being devil's advocate, and in so doing have managed to make yourself seem as out-of-touch as he is.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 237
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 9:40:24 AM
Maybe someone should create a head to practice kissing with?

Ya know, some sort of mannequin's head that provided feedback to the kisser?
 2ufo
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 238
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Posted: 5/28/2015 11:02:11 AM

I'm going to jump here in the defense of Vector.


I have to agree with you, IG. Vector presented his discussion logically and with passion. He could get angry, but he always stated what had made him angry. He was never boring or bitter. He explained WHY he thought what he thought and would occasionally admit to being wrong or thoughtless.

Most of the time I have no clue what RT is ranting about -- something to do with women and how they deserve what they get and how dare they express preferences. The one time I saw him explaining his thoughts logically was early in the beached whale thread and that went downhill fast. RT seems far too arrogant to believe he owes anyone an apology or explanation.

And, just to keep it on track, I bet Vector is a better kisser.
 DeepakChoprahWinfrey
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 239
Off the rails once again
Posted: 5/28/2015 11:26:06 AM

I am really looking forward to seeing how RT behaves from here on in. Are you? ;-)


In all honesty , I really couldn’t give a f uck .

The topic is “ Bad kissing skills “

NOT

“ As The World of RT Turns “

lol
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 240
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FOR THE NEUTRALS
Posted: 5/28/2015 12:17:45 PM

astly, dear undecided neutral, you may be glad or sad to know that this is my last post on the subject. No matter how provocative future responses may be. It has all got a little petty and I admit I have contributed to that. Also, I am in danger of falling out with people I mostly like over someone I don't really know. But I will say I am really looking forward to seeing how RT behaves from here on in. Are you? ;-)


LIES--- I will get you back here! Yeah, reading between the lines that is what I would say is a half ass- sorry excuse for an apology. One that attempts to change the subject though (not necessarily a bad thing)

But to be frank (and you can be RT?lol), he said other stuff (Sunshine agrees ) that was actually MUCH more combative and pretty inclusive of a larger number of members. Seems he doesn't like being told anything and lashes out indiscriminately when provoked!

I can see why you defend him though. Back when he was arguing with that Canadian girl about her attitude of guys being de balled and forgetting multiple millennials of human history and natural behavior of men(rolls eyes) approaching women in public, I rooted for him!

She was wrong! Heck , even many women on here didn't agree with her( just because they don't post it, didn't stop the rolling eye PM's from coming in). Some women on here even complained that they wish men would approach more often and she was wrong to talk for her gender as their international spokeswomen!

So sure I could see a RT camp /cult existing...but lately his posts have attacked common sense! and the others that DISAGREED with his views of right vs wrong!


Moral of story: worry /change ones own behavior NOT that of others.


ps- Pig seems to only attack him when he GENERALIZES as all inclusive what he deems to be right or wrong!
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 241
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Off the rails once again
Posted: 5/28/2015 4:41:10 PM
^^^They are the ones who KISS good!(smoochie)

I think mr. Neesan said it best:


what I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long dating career. Skills that make me a Casanova for people like you. If we kiss now, that'll be the end of it.
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 242
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Posted: 5/28/2015 5:13:31 PM

Ill trust my own judgement thank you and Ill make my decisions based on what I see and not what you are telling me.


Please extend that same courtesy to others of us who make our decisions based on what we see…not what you tell us.

Apparently you haven’t seen much but sure as heck aren’t letting that stop you from posting like you know it all.


What???? firstly he isnt physically unattractive, Id say he was very attractive. Secondly, hes a young man, early 30's, why would you say that to a young man?


That’s what HE says about HIMself.

I have no intention of providing you with the content of forum threads, if you can’t be arsed to read it yourself, so just skip responding to me, okay?


OMG! A danger to women???? for giving them hes honest up front (possibly) not very nice opinion. Er, dont think so.


I don’t care what you think, Vicki. You haven’t read his posts, so how can you offer a valid opinion?

Your fake overreactions to perceived injustice, while comical, are clearly pandering to young men (ie: Vector ring a bell?) and alleviating your boredom, which you’ve admitted to several times on many threads.

Have a vodka (or three) and hit the forums, eh?
 Whatsamatterbaby
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 243
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Posted: 5/28/2015 5:36:14 PM

Maybe someone should create a head to practice kissing with?


You might be on to something here. Except why not make it a whole body? But it would be awkward to transport... Wait! It could be inflatable...
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 244
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Posted: 5/28/2015 6:20:48 PM

Nice to see him being SO vehemently defended....Be equally nice to see that the next time someone calls me a 'fvcking idiot and a moron' because I DARED to disagree with their POV and approach....
Only ONE person said anything as I recall...thanks Sunshine! ;-)


You are welcome, Dee!

And kudos to you for having what seemed on other threads to be limitless patience with the clearly obtuse male pandering which is gross and creepy. :/

She’s got a two-fer going on in this thread….chumming up to RT while holding Pig’s attention with blathering BS.
 DeepakChoprahWinfrey
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 245
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Posted: 5/29/2015 8:27:32 AM
Kissing is at it's best when you're at the point of being so completely synchronized that you lose all sense of time and it feels like you are one person. When this happens, you literally pull apart, look at each other and either give eachother a high five or good ol fashioned WINK !

Edit to below :

HAHA !

I was wondering if you'd catch that ....well, you know what they say about imitation

; )
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 246
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Posted: 5/29/2015 8:42:15 AM

Kissing is at it's best when you're at the point of being so completely synchronized that you lose all sense of time and it feels like you are one person. When this happens, you literally pull apart, look at each other and either give eachother a ......



Heyyyyyyyyy
Plagiarist !
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 247
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Posted: 5/29/2015 11:28:16 AM

; )


Dude, Charmin is just going to dumb you a sss.

Hehehe.

What if the woman winks AT the guy during oral. What would that mean?
 Whatsamatterbaby
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 248
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Posted: 5/29/2015 4:54:34 PM
Those winking phenomena seem to come in twos. On two occasions when I was interviewing for jobs the applicants winked at me. WTF?? Neither one was hired :/
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 249
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Posted: 5/29/2015 5:05:27 PM
Mr Gorilla
Prolly a pube in the eye. Just saying as of course I've never had sex. I'm just here for the free nachos.
No one has ever winked at me. I'm winkless. Sniffle
I guess I need a bigger stick to poke them in the eye
 ThePig0fYourDreams
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 250
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Posted: 5/29/2015 5:57:27 PM
I've seen a few complaints about drooling/slobbering, etc., but actually, I would take that over a mouth as dry as the Sahara desert any day.
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