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Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 233
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vectors condition and life history had a lot of similarities to my own two children and he gave me great insight into them.

I'm going to jump here in the defense of Vector. Yes he had issues, and yes, he could get super angry and throw his anger at people. But and I say but not to justify his bad behavior, but to point out that besides is issues, he had a self deprecating side and a compassionate side. So I really liked the kid. Where ever he is, I hope he is taking care of himself. I have a character in a novel I am writing that I am modeling a little bit after him.

As for RT, all I've heard him do is complaint, and complaint. He doesn't even sees himself as flawed, but as if the world owed him something. So I can't defend his POV.
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 234
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Posted: 5/28/2015 8:34:11 AM
Vicki, are you not understanding that half the shit you're commenting on and formulating opinions about are based on things you DIDN'T see??

How many times have I asked if you saw something, and your response has been "no" or "I didn't see that"?

Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 235
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Posted: 5/28/2015 8:59:22 AM
Young angry Men don't need defending.
I do get weary of people not owning what they say/do.. like if they ran over your foot they'd be all " no I didn't"
followed by " your fault you have a foot"
then " your foot damaged my tire"
and they would gun it again to run over your OTHER foot.
But back to kissing - I remember my first " real " kiss. Must have been good because I had nothing to compare it to.
Did anyone else practice kissing with their hand? See, beauty of getting old, you don't mind if you sound a bit weird.
Joined: 4/16/2015
Msg: 236
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Posted: 5/28/2015 9:37:25 AM

I have spoken out as that is what I tend to do, Ive done it for others, different ages, men and women. Thats what I do. The fact people only notice it when I do it to young men is probably more to do with there views not mine.

Yes, that's what you do, and it's tiresome and attention seeking. It' s one thing to side with the underdog when he or she has a point. You jumped to defend RT just for the sake of being devil's advocate, and in so doing have managed to make yourself seem as out-of-touch as he is.
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 237
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 9:40:24 AM
Maybe someone should create a head to practice kissing with?

Ya know, some sort of mannequin's head that provided feedback to the kisser?
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 238
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 11:02:11 AM

I'm going to jump here in the defense of Vector.

I have to agree with you, IG. Vector presented his discussion logically and with passion. He could get angry, but he always stated what had made him angry. He was never boring or bitter. He explained WHY he thought what he thought and would occasionally admit to being wrong or thoughtless.

Most of the time I have no clue what RT is ranting about -- something to do with women and how they deserve what they get and how dare they express preferences. The one time I saw him explaining his thoughts logically was early in the beached whale thread and that went downhill fast. RT seems far too arrogant to believe he owes anyone an apology or explanation.

And, just to keep it on track, I bet Vector is a better kisser.
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 239
Off the rails once again
Posted: 5/28/2015 11:26:06 AM

I am really looking forward to seeing how RT behaves from here on in. Are you? ;-)

In all honesty , I really couldn’t give a f uck .

The topic is “ Bad kissing skills “


“ As The World of RT Turns “

Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 240
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Posted: 5/28/2015 12:17:45 PM

astly, dear undecided neutral, you may be glad or sad to know that this is my last post on the subject. No matter how provocative future responses may be. It has all got a little petty and I admit I have contributed to that. Also, I am in danger of falling out with people I mostly like over someone I don't really know. But I will say I am really looking forward to seeing how RT behaves from here on in. Are you? ;-)

LIES--- I will get you back here! Yeah, reading between the lines that is what I would say is a half ass- sorry excuse for an apology. One that attempts to change the subject though (not necessarily a bad thing)

But to be frank (and you can be RT?lol), he said other stuff (Sunshine agrees ) that was actually MUCH more combative and pretty inclusive of a larger number of members. Seems he doesn't like being told anything and lashes out indiscriminately when provoked!

I can see why you defend him though. Back when he was arguing with that Canadian girl about her attitude of guys being de balled and forgetting multiple millennials of human history and natural behavior of men(rolls eyes) approaching women in public, I rooted for him!

She was wrong! Heck , even many women on here didn't agree with her( just because they don't post it, didn't stop the rolling eye PM's from coming in). Some women on here even complained that they wish men would approach more often and she was wrong to talk for her gender as their international spokeswomen!

So sure I could see a RT camp /cult existing...but lately his posts have attacked common sense! and the others that DISAGREED with his views of right vs wrong!

Moral of story: worry /change ones own behavior NOT that of others.

ps- Pig seems to only attack him when he GENERALIZES as all inclusive what he deems to be right or wrong!
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 241
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Off the rails once again
Posted: 5/28/2015 4:41:10 PM
^^^They are the ones who KISS good!(smoochie)

I think mr. Neesan said it best:

what I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long dating career. Skills that make me a Casanova for people like you. If we kiss now, that'll be the end of it.
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 242
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Posted: 5/28/2015 5:13:31 PM

Ill trust my own judgement thank you and Ill make my decisions based on what I see and not what you are telling me.

Please extend that same courtesy to others of us who make our decisions based on what we see…not what you tell us.

Apparently you haven’t seen much but sure as heck aren’t letting that stop you from posting like you know it all.

What???? firstly he isnt physically unattractive, Id say he was very attractive. Secondly, hes a young man, early 30's, why would you say that to a young man?

That’s what HE says about HIMself.

I have no intention of providing you with the content of forum threads, if you can’t be arsed to read it yourself, so just skip responding to me, okay?

OMG! A danger to women???? for giving them hes honest up front (possibly) not very nice opinion. Er, dont think so.

I don’t care what you think, Vicki. You haven’t read his posts, so how can you offer a valid opinion?

Your fake overreactions to perceived injustice, while comical, are clearly pandering to young men (ie: Vector ring a bell?) and alleviating your boredom, which you’ve admitted to several times on many threads.

Have a vodka (or three) and hit the forums, eh?
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 243
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/28/2015 5:36:14 PM

Maybe someone should create a head to practice kissing with?

You might be on to something here. Except why not make it a whole body? But it would be awkward to transport... Wait! It could be inflatable...
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 244
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Posted: 5/28/2015 6:20:48 PM

Nice to see him being SO vehemently defended....Be equally nice to see that the next time someone calls me a 'fvcking idiot and a moron' because I DARED to disagree with their POV and approach....
Only ONE person said anything as I recall...thanks Sunshine! ;-)

You are welcome, Dee!

And kudos to you for having what seemed on other threads to be limitless patience with the clearly obtuse male pandering which is gross and creepy. :/

She’s got a two-fer going on in this thread….chumming up to RT while holding Pig’s attention with blathering BS.
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 245
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Posted: 5/29/2015 8:27:32 AM
Kissing is at it's best when you're at the point of being so completely synchronized that you lose all sense of time and it feels like you are one person. When this happens, you literally pull apart, look at each other and either give eachother a high five or good ol fashioned WINK !

Edit to below :


I was wondering if you'd catch that ....well, you know what they say about imitation

; )
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 246
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Posted: 5/29/2015 8:42:15 AM

Kissing is at it's best when you're at the point of being so completely synchronized that you lose all sense of time and it feels like you are one person. When this happens, you literally pull apart, look at each other and either give eachother a ......

Plagiarist !
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 247
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Posted: 5/29/2015 11:28:16 AM

; )

Dude, Charmin is just going to dumb you a sss.


What if the woman winks AT the guy during oral. What would that mean?
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 248
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Posted: 5/29/2015 4:54:34 PM
Those winking phenomena seem to come in twos. On two occasions when I was interviewing for jobs the applicants winked at me. WTF?? Neither one was hired :/
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 249
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Posted: 5/29/2015 5:05:27 PM
Mr Gorilla
Prolly a pube in the eye. Just saying as of course I've never had sex. I'm just here for the free nachos.
No one has ever winked at me. I'm winkless. Sniffle
I guess I need a bigger stick to poke them in the eye
Joined: 2/2/2015
Msg: 250
Bad kissing skills
Posted: 5/29/2015 5:57:27 PM
I've seen a few complaints about drooling/slobbering, etc., but actually, I would take that over a mouth as dry as the Sahara desert any day.
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 251
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Posted: 5/29/2015 7:30:36 PM
here ya go, Ouija ;)

now can I get some of those free nachos? or are they the type with cheez whiz on 'em they serve in casinos and gas stations?

its been so long since a woman went down on me, a BJ explains how she'll remove the dust, but if I remember correctly, if she winks once, she's agreeing with the pizza order you're calling in while its all going on, and if she winks twice, it means, hold the friggin' anchovies.
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 252
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Posted: 5/29/2015 10:14:10 PM
gto I thought that question meant the man was going down on the woman when she winked....
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 253
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Posted: 5/29/2015 10:15:16 PM
My eyes are closed, so I'll never know if she winked.
Joined: 5/13/2015
Msg: 254
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Posted: 5/30/2015 6:24:56 PM
I say give her one more chance. It was a first date and maybe she was just full of nerves!
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 255
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Posted: 7/16/2015 9:03:50 AM
Message 80 ...
Cause I suck at math.
That's not all you suck at.

You post threads that are big lies. You suck because you actually believe what you post.
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 256
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Posted: 7/20/2015 4:10:29 AM
I only kiss when I feel its right and dont push the issue specially if I like the woman.....and yes Ive dated those who didnt kiss good but when the time was right by the end of the night she was great!
Joined: 7/7/2015
Msg: 257
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Posted: 7/20/2015 6:30:26 AM

I would choose # 1. Not all women like to be kissed in the same way. Just like not women have the same sexual likes and desires in the bedroom. Sometimes it can get better with communication and practice.

I agree. That has happened with a few men that I have dated in the past.
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