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 shandogy
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 26
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wher are all these women who love it in there as$ when im getting laid.that sucks get to read about it all the time but the women i date are all scared.
 Bigg Jon
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/10/2005 11:39:03 AM
To the first poster: maybe you intimidated him!!! As for hot Monkey...bare it & we'll share it!!
 mattboy05
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 8/10/2005 11:46:27 AM
You can cum in the ass with out penetration...
 tim49250
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 8/10/2005 11:59:14 AM
I will cum inside and feel just find about it in the morning, if you have had a hysterectomy.
 mattboy05
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/10/2005 12:05:11 PM
LOL...yeah!
Let him fuk your mouth and let him cum in there...
 yourbrowneyedgirl?
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/10/2005 12:10:13 PM
tim4925:

the feeling is even better since the hysterectomy for both persons involved- have been told that it is really tight....lots of benefits to the hysterectomy other than just worrying about getting pregnant - don't have to worry about taking time off during the month either - sex every day of the month.....
 Bigg Jon
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:31:42 PM
Um,,...tight?! Hi ! I'm Jon,....
 yourbrowneyedgirl?
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:44:27 PM
Um,,...tight?! Hi ! I'm Jon,....


Hi - I have actually been asked if it was my first or second time because it was so tight....I guess that's a good thing. Never heard any complaints before surgery.
 belezura
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/10/2005 4:57:52 PM
I woundnt mind if it just happen once in a while...but I am talking about every single time...and it is like it always...it isnt about me...He told me....it is like that with every woman....you can have him if you want...cause I am not with him anymore...and you all know the reason...
 PrinceBaron
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/10/2005 6:28:47 PM
it may be due to lack of sensitivity in the penis. many women would like the fact that the orgasm lasys longer.
 yourbrowneyedgirl?
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:05:41 PM
He told me....it is like that with every woman

Its sad to think there are more women out there that is possibly going through such disappointment...

I wonder if they and still have sexual tension/frustration after sex?
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:35:37 PM
farg.. its the other way around for me.. i have to wacth my self... think about changing tires, or bills and stuff.. LOL..
 MikeJ
Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:49:45 PM
I'll never cum inside a woman... even my wife... at least not without a condom.

I already had one girl stop the pill while telling me she was still on it. She figured if she had a baby with me I'd look at her as more than a piece of ass. Where do women get these ridiculous notions from?
 yourbrowneyedgirl?
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:00:08 PM
jimi

I don't think u would have to worry about thinking about all that stuff w/the right woman....u would be so into the sex u wouldn't be able to even think straight about anything - that is if it were with me....though I am a bit biased so I would need a second opinion. roflmao
 larrydp
Joined: 4/18/2004
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:24:22 PM
after loking at your picture,your boy friend was gay,sorry to be thje one to tell.I would never have that problem and have never.
 pagan327
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 41
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Cant cum inside...
Posted: 8/18/2005 10:56:36 AM
Im Like british railways, always pull out on time! (when needed)
 fluffbust
Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:05:27 AM
That's actually apparently a common enough thing for it to have a medical name: According to Sue Johannsan, it's called 'retarded ejaculate' and usually has to do with some sort of repressed fear that the guy has.

Here are Sue's suggestions about what the guy might be fearing:
-Getting the girl pregnant
-Going against some religious morals that have been imprinted into him as a child
-Disease
-Not being able to please the girl

etc., etc.

Sue told the guy calling in that if it's only been going on for a few months not to worry. If, however, you've tried everything and the faucet still isn't running when/where it should, the guy could always try sex therapy to figure out what exactly it is he fears (it can't be a medical problem if he can orgasm at all). Best of luck! It really is a problem with him, not you (in case you were worried!)
 nuttyrat
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:14:48 AM
also it could be just a basic problem ... either his penis is too thin or your vagina is not tight enough ... when you give a guy a BlowJob or a Handjob there is generally more pressure ... which causes more friction ...
 kingkong899
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:17:26 AM
im love cumming in side **** but to be honest i,ve never cum inside a girl when they have been on top
 Northstar*
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:27:55 AM
Belezura, I am so sorry. Men are a funny bread and they have all kinds of ideas and problems but do not give up. Nothing better then a hot man dumping his load in you, it makes me cum feeling him cum in me. You are single now so you will find a man who will do as you wish and he will love it. I have always had the opposite happen to me, they always want to cum inside and sometimes I want it pulled out and cum on my ass or on my tits or face or tummy. I love to play in the cum after a hot sex act... Hehehehe...I am a bad girl.
 Kiba26
Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:35:24 AM
It was most likely your ex's comfort level. Whether it have been due to religion, fear of getting you pregnant, or whatever. That type of stuff needs to be worked through by a couple and even sex therapy if necessary. I had that problem with my last girlfriend. We'd do it for 2-4 hours before I'd finally cum or oftentimes we'd just quit. It made for good sex in my mind but she was often dissapointed so I can understand, (a good partner wants to give as much pleasure as possible). We talked about it and as we grew closer the problem went away.
 klasno
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:46:19 PM
im trying not to until i know im done....cause im going to be eating after...i know its mine...but its principle.
i dont think thats what is being talked about here but....,**** it.
 J to the D
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 8/18/2005 6:44:36 PM
My guess about your ex is it was mental/emotional issue not a physical one. He was probably afraid of getting your prego!!! Oh wait a minute that's a spaghetti sauce I meant to say pregnant.
 wbrooks835
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 1/19/2006 11:44:33 AM
i cant stand not to cum inside ****.
 mr playful
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 1/19/2006 11:57:38 AM
Savage Love did an article on this years ago, can't find it, basically stating that if you (as a male) although it could very well be the female as well, masterbate the same way (he was using the term "deathgrip" that in the end it can affect you in the sense that you can only cum that way....

And I know that if something is taking to long or too short for me.... it's somebody else's fault!!!!

LOL
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