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 OldSchoolKevin
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 49
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It can be problem when wearing a condom for me, then its time to turn up the heat.

So if I'm on top, I reach my arms down and but my hands on her cheeks and squeeze, she likes that, bucks more, I feel more pressure as I pull her up onto me, off we go to the races.

On the bottom I still grab that a$$ and pull her down onto me with a little more gusto, if she knows I'm trying to come she might reach around and play with my balls and/or beyond, as easy as popping the top on a beer can.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you have to kick things up a notch and look for an assist from your honey. As an old guy I'm finding out it takes some extra effort, just crank up the volume! osk
 tonytexas25
Joined: 4/6/2008
Msg: 50
Cant cum inside...
Posted: 1/3/2009 6:59:49 PM
I have never heard about any guy with that problem. There is always a first. I have never had that trouble, but I have never heard of it.
 jamie_1968
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:26:45 PM
Maybe he just needs that tightness of your hand...just that little bit of firmer sensation might be what does it for him...depending on his age is he still thinking back when all he could do was J/O and he just needs some time to break out of that?
 crazyindian69
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:45:57 PM
I have to concentrate on the feelings because I spent so many years learning to pull out at the moment of cumming or holding back. It will take your bf a while to unlearn this.

PS Dan Savage is the shit. His mother died in the last year, I wish him the best.
 marshall900
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:48:44 PM
Maybe he just likes watching the cum come out of his penis. Makes him think "Look at me cumming, I am the man."

Maybe let him cum on your face then kiss him after, or rub it all over him if he does it anywhere else on you... If I had that problem I know I would work extra hard to cum inside.

Maybe he is really out of shape and can't get the boat rocking enough.

I personally love cumming in a womans vagina.
 KentA55
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/27/2014 10:51:07 AM
That is the only place that I can cum!
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/27/2014 3:22:42 PM
Shoot, totally misread this topic.

I thought the right answer was to grab a blanket or foam pad and head to the back yard. Oh well.
 salty_blumist
Joined: 11/26/2012
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/27/2014 9:34:51 PM
belezura,

Well then maybe he's not getting it in far enough. Perhaps he's not going balls deep. Or if he is and still is having troubles, maybe he needs to try going harder and faster...lol. But I can tell your frustrated and rightly so; that does sound very unusual. Maybe he's become conditioned to hand jobs too much. I recomend seeing a sex councillor if you haven't.
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/28/2014 8:46:52 AM
I had problems with not cumming when having sex with a woman when I went to the bathroom and my urine was full of semen.
 not_single_x
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/29/2014 4:38:34 PM

tallshyman: I had problems with not cumming when having sex with a woman when I went to the bathroom and my urine was full of semen.


Thanks for sharing.

I have no clue what you're even trying to say.
 tallshyman
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 7/29/2014 9:40:49 PM
Retrograde ejaculation
is a rarer type of ejaculation problem. It happens when sperm travels backwards and enters the bladder instead of coming out of the end of the urethra (the tube through which urine passes).
The main symptoms of retrograde ejaculation include:
producing no semen, or only a small amount, during ejaculation
producing cloudy urine (because of the semen in it) when you first go to the toilet after having sex


IS THIS BETTER????
 not_single_x
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/11/2014 3:47:58 PM
Yes, and thank you for the visual.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/11/2014 4:43:44 PM
It takes enormous trust for a woman to allow a man to penetrate an orifice not really made for penis penetration. It takes great expertise on the part of the man. If you are dating casually then probably you wont get to do that with a woman unless you pay her, know what I mean.
 thompson1919
Joined: 11/30/2014
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/14/2014 7:25:02 AM

It takes enormous trust for a woman to allow a man to penetrate an orifice not really made for penis penetration. It takes great expertise on the part of the man. If you are dating casually then probably you wont get to do that with a woman unless you pay her, know what I mean.


WTF? I like to treat my women like dirty whores and make em like it. What planet are you from?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2014 10:27:33 AM
maybe,this guy is gay....try asking her to put on a football jersey,and do doggy style.....or even better,find a nice guy your confortible with....lol
 friesbaconnekkid
Joined: 7/2/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/31/2014 8:56:47 AM
I CAN cum inside of a woman, but have done so very seldom. I was apparently circumcised in some strange way, that causes discomfort when ejaculating inside of a woman. So, I would generally pull out, and either finish myself off, or the woman would. I still lick them clean, and make sure they have an orgasm.
 not_single_x
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/31/2014 9:06:07 AM

friesbaconnekkid: So, I would generally pull out, and either finish myself off, or the woman would. I still lick them clean


You lick her clean after shooting your load on her?

That's freaking disgusting.

If you like to eat cum that much why not head over to your local gay bar and you can get yourself a lifetime supply.
 not_single_x
Joined: 8/27/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/31/2014 11:53:09 AM

Just_hereforthecookies: ^^ at worst that would loosely classify as auto-cannibalism, but needing to find a gay bar because he enjoys using his tongue on a female after sex.?

*wanders off laughing*


It's not just the cum eating, it's also that he looks like the guy from Brokeback Mountain.
 beachgirl000
Joined: 1/27/2015
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/13/2015 10:35:57 AM
you are my type of guy :)
 Aradia96
Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/14/2015 6:20:15 AM
Lay on your stomach completely flat and have him get on from above and clench your buttcheeks so it is tighter.
That may work.
Also try missionary but get him to wrap his arms under you and hold your butt and squeeze it together down a bit lower - it makes the vagina tighter.
Also get him to have a few days without coming before hand.
lol ;)
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 4/2/2015 8:07:56 PM
Single men who aren't dating masturbate a lot, and the hand feels very different than a vagina. Your BF is simply going through an adjustment period until he can ejaculate inside you. Keep up having sex, and eventually it will happen. In the meantime, remember that lots of us men had to learn how to bring our women to orgasm by other means than our penis, as many simply cannot climax during penetration alone. So you're just doing what we have to do; adjust to the situation. And just like one woman told me long ago, when it comes to orgasm, get us there and we won't care. The goal is to make each other happy, and also to be happy with one another.
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 70
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Posted: 4/3/2015 5:05:35 AM
Prob was gay....and why would we be talking bout this........Im far from a prude and as for him not talking......duh maybe he was embarassed....prob not tho alot of guys just DONT talk.....something I had to learn.....lol
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 71
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Posted: 4/3/2015 6:43:57 AM

Also try missionary but get him to wrap his arms under you and hold your butt and squeeze it together down a bit lower - it makes the vagina tighter.


I love this technique!! If you then press her whole body harder towards yourself it feels like you are fvcking the whole woman. Each time you thrust, you can feel how it impacts over her whole body on your own hands. Then spread her cheeks even more and feel your own shaft, wet and hard going in and out of her v. This is absolutely delicious.
 rodshorty
Joined: 10/10/2013
Msg: 72
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Posted: 4/16/2015 7:13:22 AM
i do have this problem some times,due to stress the DO. said wheni told him about it.
Cant cum inside...
Posted: 4/16/2015 5:19:25 PM

Single men who aren't dating masturbate a lot, and the hand feels very different than a vagina. Your BF is simply going through an adjustment period...

Heh...not me. I guarantee you, no matter what I do to myself or how well I do it, whenever I get ahold of me some of that good ole ver-gina after being single for a spell, there is no adjustment period required. It feels just fine and we do just fine. Nothing will ever beat that or mess up the experience.

I don't masturbate anyway. I exfoliate.
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