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Joined: 10/25/2014
Msg: 24
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Ah yeah SinOfGreed, I want pretty much the same thing in a man that you describe wanting in a woman.

Girls I find are too serious, they make me feel like an outsider. I kinda am XD

I have the exact same issue with men.
Not only that, most men that go for me are older.
So it's like older AND serious. Wow, I am probably more immature and fun loving, I don't think they would like it and/or be able to keep up.
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 25
Posted: 2/28/2015 7:09:17 AM
Belle Vintage said:

1. She is initially lying down on the bed (knees up),

you got to the hardest part first!!!! getting her on the bed with her knees up!!!!

we don't need instruction after that!!!

Joined: 8/25/2013
Msg: 26
Posted: 2/28/2015 11:39:21 AM
Generally speaking, I can't see this as being an issue.

I mean, IK there are women out there that don't enjoy oral at all, but I've only ran into one or two in my entire life. Most women, IMO, or maybe just a lot of them, won't stop you if just put yourself in whatever position you want to eat from.

The only objections I've ever really had were against lifting 'em up in the air. (bad disaster if you underestimate her weight because no woman likes to be dropped...well, maybe I should say MOST women...)

Anyway, my advice is to avoid the awkward conversation and just try it out. If she doesn't like it, she'll stop you.
Joined: 1/18/2014
Msg: 27
Posted: 3/13/2015 7:42:15 AM
As with anything sexual don't bring it up when you are meeting Starbucks for a Latte or when you are just starting to date. Nothing is wrong with liking face sitting and it does not mean in any way you are going to be construed as a 'Sub' or submissive by nature. Things that are a little different don't need to be brought up. If you have good communication and click sexually the heat of the moment usually is the best time to just bring it up. It takes out the awkwardness and feeling like someone is being put on the spot. Sometimes it's not what someone is asking but rather the way that they ask. Creepiness is not cool, nor enticing.
Keep in mind some people are just conditioned to say "NO" to anything they haven't done for a litany of reasons even after you have been dating. I've never had a problem with something like this. I can't speak for anyone else but it's just a variation of oral sex and you aren't asking her to do it to you, but rather doing something that is mutually satisfying . IMO it's a win-win for her. Sexual compatibility is an important aspect , but only a part of a good relationship. If the other aspects are weak or non existent then it's just satisfying curiosity and one's libido. Nothing more and nothing less.
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 28
Posted: 3/25/2015 9:31:54 PM
How this girl brought it up.. when she was leaving my car I made a joke and she said joking be quiet mike so I asked her how she was going to do that, and she said she was going to sit on my face.. I think 2 days later she indeed did sit on my face.. I'm trying to get her to do it again
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 29
Posted: 3/26/2015 8:15:49 AM

How this girl brought it up.. when she was leaving my car I made a joke and she said joking be quiet mike so I asked her how she was going to do that, and she said she was going to sit on my face.. I think 2 days later she indeed did sit on my face.. I'm trying to get her to do it again

Just ask her to reciprocate and you sit on her face.
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 30
Posted: 3/27/2015 12:04:00 PM
Ha that might work
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/13/2018 4:02:49 AM
I'm not a control freak nor do I want to be controlled sexually but I love when a woman gets on top of my face with her vagina and rides my face climaxing the way she likes in the time it takes and her movements....BUT in saying that most woman are afraid also of getting what they want and lack the imagination skills to do just
Joined: 12/2/2017
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/13/2018 11:47:49 AM
When you're doing foreplay be like oh I have something you may like I want to try. Then lay down and tell her to sit on your face. I don't think they would be against it really
Posted: 6/15/2018 4:40:37 PM
Well...this thread title couldn't help but catch my eye...

...I am crazy for a face-sit. Not just giving cunnilingus, but a position wherein I'm not giving but instead she is taking. Her facing me (instead of backwards), on her knees with those wonderful thighs against my face, some luscious perfume overwhelming my nostrils, and specifically me not doing anything...she can't rely on me; She has to / gets to do whatever she needs and wants to do. And not ever stopping as long as she's liking it. Holy cow, if there was a sexual thing that would almost guarantee that a woman could have me, this would be it.
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