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 baconflavoredbacon
Joined: 9/12/2015
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The human league
 ClooneysMentor
Joined: 8/2/2015
Msg: 152
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Posted: 9/17/2015 3:54:25 PM


bush league.


Sign me up for dat one!
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 153
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Posted: 9/17/2015 6:26:22 PM
^^^^ LOL
I snort laughed ( charming I know) I have never ever understood the whole league thing.. people are who you want in your Life, matters not if they a 2 or a 10 if they make your juices flow.
If everyone here is looking for the same thing, then one league, right?
Or am I in Animal Farm?
I did enjoy the laugh Clooney, I needed to giggle. I lie, I snort
The I laugh because I snorted, a snlaugh if you will
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 154
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Posted: 9/18/2015 6:48:21 AM
It must have been a rough place to date when Jules Verne wrote about 20,000 leagues under the sea.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 9/18/2015 8:31:06 AM

adventurejoe70
And yes there are millionaires and even multi on this site and even forums.

It isn't something to advertise,and doesn't change ones lifestyle too much. One needs at least 10 million (or at least here they do) to have a lifestyle change. Lifestyles do attract women, but just keeping it in the bank and showing them your bank statement I don't think will help.

Joe, where are you speaking of when you say “or at least here they do”? Many of your posts are about your previous life in NYC, and then some are about living in Europe, and now your profile shows you in Florida.

I can easily believe the $10 million figure for NYC, but I wouldn’t think that would be true for most of Europe or Florida. Here in Houston, I think people’s lifestyles change somewhere around $3 or $4 million. Or at least that has been my experience.

A few years back, I dropped by to visit with a friend. He had two computers running, with multiple spreadsheets open on each. And printouts scattered all over the room, with more columns of numbers. I asked him what the hell he was doing, and he replied that he was running the numbers on his investments and retirement planning. “Henry, at the present rate, if I never save another dime, and I live to be 100, I’m never going to spend everything I have. And I have no kids to leave it too.”

The next day, he went out and bought a Mercedes. That summer, he took two vacations to foreign locales (Europe and the South Seas), and he invited along a female companion on both trips. A very good looking blonde, I might add. Definitely made me envious.


adventurejoe70
Lifestyles do attract women, but just keeping it in the bank and showing them your bank statement I don't think will help.

Agreed. But inviting her to go on a South Seas vacation, first class, would probably help.
 pepperstrand
Joined: 1/25/2015
Msg: 156
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Posted: 9/20/2015 9:06:19 AM
JUST NOT INTO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 ClooneysMentor
Joined: 8/2/2015
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Posted: 9/20/2015 9:06:16 PM


Agreed. But inviting her to go on a South Seas vacation, first class, would probably help.


Sometimes a 2nd date weekend getaway...works :)
 nukedking
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 158
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Posted: 9/21/2015 11:40:07 AM

So taking an average looking man who had applied himself to better his life, educated, well spoken, who had no unresolved anger issues but a good sense of humor and most women over 45 are going to see him as a prize over some handsome man with a shit personality


There is no reason to believe that good looking people have worse personalities than less good looking people. Since life is generally easier for good looking people . . . it may even help them to have nicer personalities.

We are all affected by our experiences and environment no matter what we look like of course. Both Functional and Dysfunctional families sometimes produce very well adjusted people, or severely dysfunctional people. It all seems to be the luck of the draw and I suspect genetic underpinnings have a huge amount to do with it.
 PassionateSunnyGal
Joined: 7/23/2015
Msg: 159
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Posted: 9/21/2015 1:59:06 PM
^^^ if you are going to quote me then realize that my response was based on this response


You see. Leagues do exist. And, for the most part, they are visual.


I agree with what you say cause I happen to be one of the good looking people with a stellar personality--and quite modest about it!
snicker
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
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Posted: 9/21/2015 4:02:14 PM

and he replied that he was running the numbers on his investments and retirement planning. “Henry, at the present rate, if I never save another dime, and I live to be 100, I’m never going to spend everything I have. And I have no kids to leave it too.”


I'm available for adoption.

Just sayin'.

Pass it along.
 Drmlvr
Joined: 10/20/2015
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Posted: 12/23/2015 9:01:10 PM
Because beards can be shaved! Maybe the guy has pics with no beard! You never really know if that person is a match or not unless you at least look at their damn profile! It's really COLD to just delete anyone's message without even reading it or at least looking over their profile! I am looking for only thin/athletic types and get many messages from very overweight and older women all the time! I have NEVER once unread/deleted any of them! As a matter of fact I always REPLY to every message as well. Tell them thanks for the message, good luck with your search. It is a quick and easy thing to do. No one gets their feelings hurt! Even if you have hundreds of messages. Ever heard of copy and paste? It's just that women are pretty cold and heartless on dating sites because they are anonymous! I'm willing to bet at least 98% of guys aren't as cold to women as women are to men!
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
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Posted: 12/23/2015 10:54:55 PM
They reside in a beautiful ivory tower and put themselves out
of reach from everyone.You don't even see em'!
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
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Posted: 12/24/2015 3:49:47 AM
Good-looking people aren't always treated well. If they're perceived to have privilege (which they do, from certain point of view) and seem to have it easy, it makes them a mark for marginalization and violence. If they're open about their sexuality, free with the choices they make in dress, or don't seem to work hard for getting a date, they're crapped on. So, no, they don't always have a steady disposition, particularly if they're constantly harassed and marginalized by envious/jealous people.
 Cutepid
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 164
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Posted: 1/26/2016 5:41:43 PM
Queens of the famous unread/deleted
carmloco
RIGRL68
BabylonBabe10
blondebombshel01
Womanworkout
prvtdancr
onlyu1517
toribug
Rired2031
josie2243
Talia316
comedytime
cosmoladey
redhot1378
luvy298
nicole 123
irisheyes_00
sugar_spice_evrythin_nice
keri04
parisismyplace
Susan_C67
alybri
NBA_77
rosehips123
Jalisa18
ItalianLioness1
MissyJ41
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
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Posted: 1/26/2016 7:18:44 PM
^ I looked up a few of their profiles... I'm stumped.
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
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Posted: 1/26/2016 7:52:45 PM
I looked at all those profiles. :) I wonder what the poster thought they had in common, maybe one to two was a possibility.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 167
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Posted: 1/26/2016 8:12:38 PM
^ Ouch. I wasn't meaning to dis the gentleman. I was just confused because I've never seen anyone quite that attractive in real life. Maybe it's not safe for a woman who looks like that to leave her home?
 Razorwire1
Joined: 1/19/2016
Msg: 168
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Posted: 1/27/2016 3:14:46 AM

cutepid


I looked at some of those profiles you listed. You certainly have an eye for attractive women or at least the ones I looked at were. However when you look at the BIG picture perhaps you might be over reaching just a tad...smidge...itty bit? Also how in the world do you keep track of all those? Or better question...why? I feel your pain though, Christie B. and Heather L. both unread deleted me. :/
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
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Posted: 1/27/2016 5:07:23 AM

Ouch. I wasn't meaning to dis the gentleman. I was just confused because I've never seen anyone quite that attractive in real life. Maybe it's not safe for a woman who looks like that to leave her home?


No dis intended, cutie looks like a sweet, romantic man, just wondering how he will get along with the gym rat who like to dance and travel? Or the biker rocker chick with the soft side who likes tats? Maybe he has a few hidden tats?
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 170
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Posted: 1/27/2016 10:02:51 AM

Queens of the famous unread/deleted
carmloco
RIGRL68
BabylonBabe10
blondebombshel01
Womanworkout
prvtdancr
onlyu1517
toribug
Rired2031
josie2243
Talia316
comedytime
cosmoladey
redhot1378
luvy298
nicole 123
irisheyes_00
sugar_spice_evrythin_nice
keri04
parisismyplace
Susan_C67
alybri
NBA_77
rosehips123
Jalisa18
ItalianLioness1
MissyJ41


Violating those women's privacy by exposing their usernames in the forums was a nasty, vindictive thing to do.

They definitely dodged a bullet.
 SLAFFA
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 171
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Posted: 1/27/2016 11:07:02 AM
It's always apparent that a lot of the whining over U/D occurs because of the "she/he never even bothered to look at my profile" attitude.

Oh really?

Take the time to learn/figure out how the site actually works and you might not be so mad.
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
Msg: 172
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Posted: 1/27/2016 11:27:09 AM

Queens of the famous unread/deleted


...what an epic whiner.
 CardiffLiving
Joined: 11/9/2015
Msg: 173
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Posted: 1/27/2016 2:14:14 PM
^^truer words have never been spoken, LOL!^^
 irishgirl772
Joined: 6/3/2013
Msg: 174
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Posted: 1/27/2016 3:09:49 PM
^^Obviously, they took one look at his main photo and knew there wasnt any attraction.
 PassionateSunnyGal
Joined: 7/23/2015
Msg: 175
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Posted: 1/28/2016 12:55:32 AM
The very fact that he made and maintain a list ...my mind is blown--why focus on the negative...just fuel the hate and bitterness!
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