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 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 76
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I got carpet bombed with messages from loving christian men with degrees in architecture who had lost their wives


Well, I get crop dusted by Russian 28 year olds with porcelain skin. Go figure.

I'm sure if Match had forums, they'd be filled with the same content as PoF.
 motowncowgirl
Joined: 3/24/2015
Msg: 77
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 10:25:25 AM
thank god for POF, right? where you'll never pay a dime to meet your soul mate. remember that. otherwise we'd all be running the gauntlet with shredded pants and empty wallets.

I know some of those other sites have forums but they aren't as entertaining as this one for some reason.
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 78
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 11:55:58 AM
Msg. 57:
I tried to "spread some love" but very few people "get it".


Msg. 51:
Most (ah what the hell.... ALL) single men (over 50) are "throw-aways"...they've been given to us older (over 50) girls by other women who, for one reason or another, didn't want them anymore.


You’re spreading something, but it don’t sound like “love.”


Here is my challenge to you: PROVE MY MOTHER WRONG. PROVE ME WRONG. If there are some really loving and wonderful men reading this... start sending messages..


This sad ploy is nothing new. It’s usually coming from the poor little “nice guys,” who never had a date (said with whiney voice and stomping feet): “Women just want bad boys and criminals, guys who treat them like crap, not nice guys like me. PROVE ME WRONG.”

Good luck sorting through the scammers who offer to prove you and your mother wrong, as you’ve opened the door and invited in the wolf…..if you get any messages at all.



P.S. I’m in agreement with whoever said this is a bored kid on spring break.
 BlondeCinderella
Joined: 12/2/2013
Msg: 79
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 12:25:58 PM
My "well-intentioned" idea of spreading some love back-fired.

Girls, I did my best for you trying to get men to be more loving, affectionate, attentive, kind, understanding, empathetic and giving of their hearts.

My work here is done. This site has no genuine and authentic love to give so I'm waving good-bye to POF

I am not sure, once I delete my profile, if my FORUM TOPIC will still be available for viewing but I hope it is in hopes that maybe, just MAYBE, a little more love can find it's way into someone's heart.

Marcella
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 80
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 12:35:24 PM
Well, I do appreciate all of your hard work OP.

I'm sending a bottle of wine, reefer and some flaming red hot Cheetos to Hawthorne.

Farewell and never forget your roots here:)
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 81
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 12:38:57 PM

Farewell and never forget your roots here:)

hahahaha!

Yeah, and remember us when you become famous...hahaha!

I think she may have started off with good intentions, but then she
went flying off the rails.
*rummages through Mr. Clooney's sock drawer looking for the wine
cellar key*
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 82
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 12:59:13 PM
She must be off spreading Love and Joy elsewhere.
Wine? Why yes I would :/
Soon, it will be wine thirty soon
 stormy2728weather
Joined: 4/3/2015
Msg: 83
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:00:57 PM
Wine o'clock, did someone say it was wine o'clock ?? I'm in.

And the OP was't spreading joy, it was another bytch post about "all men are _______" or "all women are _________". No new thoughts, no new ideas, no new answers. Yes, sometimes it seems like all folks do is complain about the opposite sex but I think anyone with half a brain knows it's venting for the most part. And I'm sure he vast majority of us are out and about spreading love and joy every day, we all have folks in our lives we love and that love us...friends and family, short time lovers, long time lovers, pets, etc. I don't think any of us are truly alone.

Wine. Yup. Good plan.
 pelthor
Joined: 10/13/2012
Msg: 84
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The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:06:33 PM
drama queen your being just as judgemental did you realize this.

what if a man has experiences such as

being abondoned?
being cheated on?
being used?
being mentally abused?
having his buttons constantly pushed?

why are you messing with older men in the first place?
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 85
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:16:51 PM

what if a man has experiences such as

being abondoned?
being cheated on?
being used?
being mentally abused?
having his buttons constantly pushed?


What if he does have those experiences?
He should bring them into his new relationship and have someone
new suffer the punishment for something she had nothing to do with?

Ack.
Suggest one pulls themselves together before diving into the dating pool.
 VolkanoKing
Joined: 8/1/2014
Msg: 86
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:19:59 PM
"My work here is done. This site has no genuine and authentic love to give so I'm waving good-bye to POF"

Well, she told us. This will reverberate for decades.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 87
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:23:23 PM
Her replacement has arrived for more PoF evisceration.
 overunity
Joined: 8/16/2014
Msg: 88
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The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 2:42:03 PM
I felt a ripple in The Force.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 89
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 3:09:06 PM

Girls, I did my best for you trying to get men to be more loving, affectionate, attentive, kind, understanding, empathetic and giving of their hearts.


Oh, is *that* what she was trying to do?? Funny, I've never felt that being called critical and judgmental would be an effective way to get me to be more loving, affectionate, attentive, kind, understanding, and empathetic. Sounded more like being insulted.
 stormy2728weather
Joined: 4/3/2015
Msg: 90
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 3:13:31 PM
Over unity....the Dorce was not strong in that one. You are correct, a small, small ripple. The Continuim will remain intact.
 tgif111
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 91
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 3:20:32 PM
axis555

In my experience older men have always been very accepting and less critical and judgmental, like the over 40s. I don't think it's the same for older women though, they get more feisty :)


for older men

I like feisty women
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 92
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 3:21:32 PM

I did my best for you trying...


Yoda: No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try. :p
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 93
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The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 3:25:23 PM
She just reminded me of a spoiled brat that wanted to hold court. Don't you just love those who know exactly how the world works, and isn't afraid to tell us that we're doing it wrong?
 VolkanoKing
Joined: 8/1/2014
Msg: 94
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 4:00:54 PM
And the best part is after they got the ol' slapdown they storm out as if we are all a lost cause.

Translation: "I am really frustrated and embarrassed...time to exit, stage right."

*laughs quietly to myself*
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 95
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The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 4:37:19 PM

Well, I get crop dusted by Russian 28 year olds with porcelain skin. Go figure.


yeah same here, often even younger, but the good news are those were my neighbors! I prefer meet ups where I only have to walk a few blocks anyway!

In reference to the OP's subject matter, I concur. As I get older I think I have gotten more critical and judgmental, but I think it is due to having less patience. It isn't because I am negative or even stressed out( my biggest stress is what to do to kill time lol).
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 96
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 5:27:16 PM
^ Well, we've all probably gotten a little more critical and judgmental... I mean:

"Look at those stupid kids, they're making all the same mistakes *I* did at that age."

"Stop texting and *talk* to each other! Setup a meet!"

... but, that comes with age. LOL.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 97
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 5:28:19 PM
I appreciate all " my" forum Men. Even the cranky ones who I sometimes want to hit gently with a 2 X 4.
You were all nice to Ms spreading the whatever.. VK you nailed it. I think she wanted us to rally and torch a few buildings or something
In the name of Love of course
Guess we proved her Mother was wrong - no one, I repeat no one is a toss away.
Even my enemies :p
 justdeb1111
Joined: 8/12/2012
Msg: 98
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 6:20:21 PM

My "well-intentioned" idea of spreading some love back-fired.

Are we talking about the same topic, "The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is...." ??


I am not sure, once I delete my profile, if my FORUM TOPIC will still be available for viewing

Nope, Demn thing is still here.


I felt a ripple in The Force.

Sorry, had Mexican food for lunch.
 Literate_Hiker
Joined: 1/1/2015
Msg: 99
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 8:53:53 PM

“Women just want bad boys and criminals, guys who treat them like crap, not nice guys like me. PROVE ME WRONG.”

I have NEVER been interested in bad boys and criminals, or guys who treat me like crap. That's nonsense.

All of my female friends and I have always wanted kind, thoughtful, compassionate and respectful men.
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 100
The older the man the more critical and judgmental he is....
Posted: 4/10/2015 9:48:20 PM

I appreciate all " my" forum Men


I enjoy being one of your peeps:)
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