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 Szaszaspasz
Joined: 11/13/2012
Msg: 312
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I truly hate skinny men who give dieting advice and have no clue.


Based on my experience and having a twin brother that is skinnier than a prison ****, they are the biggest eaters of all.

I remember following a very skinny jump master out the door while static-line parachuting in 2003 in the military.
I was a lot slimmer then, but not as slim as this guy. I jumped out after him, he has twists in his suspension lines (causing him to descend at a faster rate, until they untwist),
I still had to pull slips on my parachute to avoid him in the air because I caught up to him. To top it all, I later heard his wife complain about the grocery bill because he ate so much. His piled food tray in the mess hall even had young men, who were combat arms (and at an age where they usually need the most food) staring in awe.
He was smart enough never to complain that he was too thin. I would have been disgusted if I wasn't so jealous.

I'm glad I'm healthy, I admit I am not fussy on skinny guys because they want me to lose weight... As I I haven't been trying!
I wouldn't want to date a guy whose weight I can bench-press.
 kayla_58
Joined: 5/23/2015
Msg: 313
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 8:56:51 AM
Again with the unsolicited dieting advice?


Well for what it is worth, you are very pretty. Yes you have some extra weight, but it is very possible to lose the weight with the right attitude, and if you did so, you would likely be considered raging hot. Buying a fitbit or other activity tracker, walking a minimum of 15K steps a day, and eating well . . . NEVER ALLOWING YOURSELF TO GO HUNGRY, is the not so secret success to a diet. Cutting out excess sugar and fried foods, replacing it with nuts, beans, fruit, fish, chicken, etc. and the weight will pour off.


Now you sound like the deleted user: ClemTuckerofcourse, in the thread "How do I get over my doubts"

What I am going to say is far easier than many people make it out to be. You are too young to carry the extra weight you are carrying, so you need to do something about it. If you take care of the weight you will take care of the confidence problem (1) take time away from this board and put dating out of your mind for now. (2) Buy a good book on nutrition and hunger. Learn how to eat properly. NEVER allow yourself to go hungry. Eat foods that are nutritious but also satiating, peanuts, etc. (3) Eat an apple a day . . . really . . . you will be amazed at how it will help with hunger and the fiber, and nutrients are good too. (4) Invest in an activity tracker, fitbit, etc. to keep track of your activity, calories in and out, etc (5) Walk at least 15,000 steps per day, much of that walking should be in the evening so you are not home vegging out in front of the television. (6) Join a Gym and make sure you do some lifting and intense cardio. (7) Bottom line, eat healthier (not necessarily less) through educating yourself . . . learn the proper way to be active and exercise. Lose up to but no more than two pounds per week . . .(don't starve yourself, you will kill your metabolism which will kill your efforts).

I did it, and I am nothing but a simple hillbilly. But I learned to read and write and then read and read until I learned what I needed to know. The Internet is your guide, but be selective because there is a lot of garbage advice out there. Good luck.


I happen to think you are the reincarnated version of Krebby2001, just a "simple hillbilly."
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 314
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 8:58:32 AM
but see.. first he had no way to contact her but by POF, then suddenly he could text!
But the big Q is, which Chanel perfume? Not like there is only one. I can hear Coco spinning in her grave :/
" buy a fitbit" ???!!!
lordy, prolly wears short shorts like Richard Simons
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 315
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:05:10 AM
Do FitBits measure milliseconds?

I don't see this thing going the distance....
 Szaszaspasz
Joined: 11/13/2012
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i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:07:45 AM
From Eternal Realist 2015 (who, in my opinion, does not need to lose weight):

Well for what it is worth, you are very pretty. Yes you have some extra weight, but it is very possible to lose the weight with the right attitude, and if you did so, you would likely be considered raging hot. Buying a fitbit or other activity tracker, walking a minimum of 15K steps a day, and eating well . . . NEVER ALLOWING YOURSELF TO GO HUNGRY, is the not so secret success to a diet. Cutting out excess sugar and fried foods, replacing it with nuts, beans, fruit, fish, chicken, etc. and the weight will pour off.


I was considered "obese" when I was fit enough to complete the Basic Paracutist Course. Some infantry guys younger than me found the course tough (so did I !!!)
This is the reason why I don't date men who would want me to be smaller than them, when they are smaller than me to start with.

As for Clitherheroe, thanks for the laughs, enjoy the porn, lotion and box of Kleenex while you do the five-knuckle shuffle with the Rosy Palm Twins!
Keep us posted with your postings!
 DeepakChoprahWinfrey
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 317
The Adventures of Clit Hero
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:09:22 AM
Btw, do you have a comic book available too ?
 eternalrealist2015
Joined: 4/23/2015
Msg: 318
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:10:21 AM

Well, for what it's worth, you should shut your f*cking face. No one asked you for dieting tips, Richard Simmons.


LOL. I mean, literally OL.

People who give me unsolicited advice to 'solve' a problem that I'm not asking about are a dime a dozen.

My point wasn't related to that - it was more related to how women are discussed on here - f*ck me and shut the f*ck up, we phuck the 'attractive enough' (even as jokes) and now it mirrors some of the attitudes I've encountered from men in my life. As if our ONLY worth is f*ckability (which varies from person to person).

I get more than enough 'attention' of that sort in real life - don't need to attempt to become 'raging hot' to make it worse, I suspect.
 Oldmanhome
Joined: 5/21/2015
Msg: 319
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:28:00 AM
Well my advice was good intentioned, sorry you did not receive it so well. I thought you were lamenting your weight in a thread up above . . if not, if you are perfectly happy, then ignore my advice.

As for those who did not like my advice, get over yourselves. Geeze, as I messaged somebody on here, no wonder some of you are single and looking and looking and looking and looking.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 320
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:28:02 AM
so, the poor woman read all this, then was "convinced" to ignore the people behind the curtain, and supposedly didn't come back to read the bragging about turning her around....I suspect she's got some plans for the date. to borrow a yank term, she might be more interested in fcking you up than in actually shagging you.

the only people who ever gave me unsolicited advice were those who thought I still had something to offer. the rest didn't even notice me enough to bother. but that's searching for a silver lining in the tornado cloud.
 motowncowgirl
Joined: 3/24/2015
Msg: 321
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:32:26 AM

As for those who did not like my advice, get over yourselves. Geeze, as I messaged somebody on here, no wonder some of you are single and looking and looking and looking and looking.

no, it's you who need to get over yourself.

and stop blaming people for being single as if it were a character flaw. are you fukking 12?
 eternalrealist2015
Joined: 4/23/2015
Msg: 324
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:36:37 AM

if not, if you are perfectly happy, then ignore my advice.


I am pretty d*mn happy with my health, my appearance, my physical abilities/fitness level. Heck, I already do much of what you propose (vs the fitbit, again those seem sort of inconsequential to someone who trains at the level I have in order to do the races I run).

I'm not always d*mn happy about the way women are ... dismissed/joked about as they are.

I have 2 (pretty and thin! does that mean they 'count'???) young adult daughters and I hate that it's so common it's funny that a man may simply view them through the 'attractive enough' to phuck lens.

And I stood up (not that it was acknowledged, because we only like conflict on here, maybe?) for "American men" earlier and I don't even have any sons.

I suppose it's the lack of respect, the painting everyone with such a broad brush, that gets to me.

Which I admit IS STUPID because .... these forumites are essentially all strangers to me (ok, there are a few exceptions, happily)

The best advice anyone could give me is get the h*ll off of here... Why hasn't anyone offered that along with the weight tips? WHY?
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 325
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:38:23 AM
I'm not whining about women viewing me as phuckable.

Oy vey. The double standards :(
 DeepakChoprahWinfrey
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 326
All about weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:39:03 AM
Wait a minute .... did this thread get hijacked ?


.... 2 posts later....

Yup, we got a hijack goin on here ....
 Oldmanhome
Joined: 5/21/2015
Msg: 327
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:40:02 AM
^^^^ I am not blaming anybody for anything Madam. Motown. What I am suggesting is that some people need to work on having more pleasant personalities if they want to have any real chance at having a successful relationship. And more than anything stop with this victim mentality and getting so easily offended at everything and everyone. Not doing you any good whatsoever.
 eternalrealist2015
Joined: 4/23/2015
Msg: 328
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:40:22 AM
^^

I know Clooney, you do say this a lot. Double standards indeed.

I suspect you don't have daughters?

And it seems to me you HAVE whined about women viewing you as phuckable but not 'good enough' for a relationship because you don't ... (what was it?) line dance or golf?
 clooneystutor
Joined: 3/8/2015
Msg: 329
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:42:30 AM
Ok.

We're both whiners...

Grabbing some Cheetos now
 DeepakChoprahWinfrey
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 330
i think she may be massive
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:42:49 AM
It's FRIDAY people

RELAX !
 Oldmanhome
Joined: 5/21/2015
Msg: 331
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:44:01 AM
I do happen to have daughters madam Eternal. I also have sisters, and I have nieces. I am well aware of the issues women face. You can be a victim or you can choose not to be a victim. Its really all very simple. If you are not happy with yourself, than change yourself. If you are happy with yourself, than don't change yourself, or change only what you think needs fixing. Getting so upset over good faith but unsolicited advice is really unbecoming.
 Moderate_Recall
Joined: 3/1/2015
Msg: 332
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:44:52 AM

The best advice anyone could give me is get the h*ll off of here... Why hasn't anyone offered that along with the weight tips? WHY?


Been done before, you keep coming back and engaging with the few obvious trolls stuck on here.

Get the heck outside and log those running miles now!

Mr oldman will stay here forever, keeps re-incarnating and whining about his long-lost high school love.

Enjoy your real life instead of keep feeding him and the other one.
 motowncowgirl
Joined: 3/24/2015
Msg: 333
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:45:26 AM

I am not blaming anybody for anything Madam. Motown. What I am suggesting is that some people need to work on having more pleasant personalities if they want to have any real chance at having a successful relationship. And more than anything stop with this victim mentality and getting so easily offended at everything and everyone. Not doing you any good whatsoever.

again with the circular logic..... because women who disagree with you are unpleasant, because they disagreed with you.
 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 334
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:51:18 AM
Ms. Ouija...that is the big question! And I can hear the ethereal Mademoiselle Coco delicately shifting in her grave also! :)

Another question Mr. Clitheroe.....Do you still plan to go sans nick naks yourself? And what olfactory enhancement might you be wearing, sir?

Details....it's all about the details! Be a luv...and do tell us more. ;)


Sometimes Ms. Eternal it is time to take a break...I often have times where I need to step back in order to restore my hope and faith in humanity. But I like posts like the Op's because it gives us a chance to see the unique responses of other posters. I see some I like and some I don't...but I do not try to change the ones I don't like. I express my opinion and I try not to take anything said in these forums personally. I do wish we could all be a little kinder and tease out of fun rather than meanness. So I am going to go work on this myself....right now! :)
 Oldmanhome
Joined: 5/21/2015
Msg: 335
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:54:55 AM

again with the circular logic..... because women who disagree with you are unpleasant, because they disagreed with you.


Are you playing with me now? You don't see the difference between disagreement and rude, offensive behavior? Really, you do need my advice. Let me know if I can help. I am pretty good at this stuff.
 motowncowgirl
Joined: 3/24/2015
Msg: 336
i think she may me over weight
Posted: 5/29/2015 9:57:46 AM
^^^ your behavior here is consistently rude and offensive and trollish, so yeah I totally see the difference. and given the number of times you've been kicked off this site for the same behavior, i'm not sure why hasn't sunk into that skull of yours yet.

wait for it.
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