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 azbumkin
Joined: 3/28/2011
Msg: 201
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Here's another point of view......the older I get (52 now) the less I think about that to begin with. Having said that, my stuff doesn't run on autopilot like it used to. I have to feel like I really want to be with a particular woman, and if that happens, then all systems are go, the difference though is that - that connection has to be there, unlike when I was 20 and was willing to hump a brick wall. Nowadays there really has to be a connection, otherwise.......yeah, whatever.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 202
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 4/5/2017 8:31:37 AM
Everybody knows that men's libido goes downhill starting at 19.... that's just biology 101. This thread would be unnecessary if people were educated and aware of Viagra. There is a need for it, and it works. Quit complaining and get some, and your problems will be solved.
 GoodLord1
Joined: 2/21/2017
Msg: 203
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Posted: 4/5/2017 4:28:56 PM
being an open communicator I would say ASK if it can rise after the third or fourth date or when you feel it's appropriate. but ask BEFORE you disrobe.

if he cannot then maybe the next question should be about his oral, digital or mechanical skills ie, BOBs.


vvv Clooney you look ...different than I remember.vvvv
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 204
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Posted: 4/5/2017 4:30:14 PM
Hey, if he can't stir the gravy, he can always lick the spoon!

You can get Cialis and Viagra on Craigslist pretty cheap

I've gotta local dealer that helps me stay hard.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 205
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Posted: 4/10/2017 3:37:59 AM
If you're hot, I can get it up...If you're not, sorry.
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 206
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 4/10/2017 6:50:25 PM
If I found out that a man couldn't have sex without the use of pharmaceuticals, I'd lose interest in him. That's usually indicative of health and/or emotional issues---including cardiac-related conditions, medications, an unhealthy lifestyle, substance abuse, etc. However, I'd likely take a pass on someone with any of those, even if he could have sex unaided.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 207
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 4/10/2017 7:57:28 PM
Fvck, the temperature of this thread just dropped 40 degrees

Brrrrrrr
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 208
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Posted: 4/10/2017 9:27:55 PM
Gee, I wonder why that is?

Perhaps it's because someone full of hot air tends to find normal temperature to be uncomfortable. ;-)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 209
honesty regarding sexual capability
Posted: 4/10/2017 9:36:58 PM
on the one hand, I agree with cooldog. I've tried dating women I wasn't physically attracted to, but I liked their personality, and have to say, that isn't enough to hang a condom on. don't know if the Pfizer riser changes that, it didn't exist back then. maybe now that it does, and considering my age, if I went to bed with someone who didn't raise my flag and had HS's attitude, she'd make the decision for us that it would be the last time. And I guess she'd be doing a favor for both of us, in terms of the big picture. Though if she was guessing it was something to do with me, i'd have to be a gent and keep my mouth shut :)

my 3rd gf was honest about the fact I obviously was more interested in her, than she was with me. Which hurt, but it was also good, b/c I knew a breakup was inevitable and when I saw the signs, we broke up rather than run the relationship into the ground trying to pretend it still had a chance.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 210
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Posted: 4/10/2017 10:25:43 PM

That's usually indicative of health and/or emotional issues---including cardiac-related conditions, medications, an unhealthy lifestyle, substance abuse, etc.

I think you're going too far with that one. :) I think there's legit criticism that it's given out too much like candy corn, but also to have a "helper pill" on ready-5 isn't an indication of any notable medical or emotional conditions -- much less as to what was thought/assumed before. A guy being pistol-shy, sure, is emotional, but hardly emotional-problems relating to a childhood trauma. I could see if a guy is taking a daily low-dose of the stuff as more an indicator, but I'd be slapped in the face if I was with a gal and was assuming she had some medical issues because she was too dry.

For some healthy guys, they can be just fine hard and go on for a long time, but to get the lawn mower started can get into a rut sometimes -- without being 80+ years old. A small dose to take handy on a weekend to-cover-the-bases, especially when some drinks would be had (without getting drunk), nervousness, and by no means a guarantee the foreplay will great -- hey, you'd be surprised how many guys could use that. It's not like they're going into the closet to put a strap on over Mr Happy over anything, sheesh! :)
 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 6/7/2016
Msg: 211
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Posted: 4/11/2017 7:03:11 AM
I tried viagra on a flight home once. Just curious. Thought it would get me rearing to go with the old man on touch down. Gave me one of the worst headaches I've ever experienced. Could have been the altitude but not experimenting with it again.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 212
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Posted: 4/11/2017 7:33:52 AM
I would think a high mileage gal with VIP status in the mile high club would have experience with younger pilots.

I'm the sure the pilots needed all the help they could get...
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 213
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Posted: 4/11/2017 7:44:58 AM
Cool dog - and there is an issue. So if a man over a certain age can't get erect it is the woman's fault for not being hot enough.
* eye roll*
Guess some men have damn sexy hands :p
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 214
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Posted: 4/11/2017 9:21:43 AM

I would think a high mileage gal with VIP status in the mile high club would have experience with younger pilots.

I'm the sure the pilots needed all the help they could get...


The FAA has very strict guidelines for pilots in terms of drug and alcohol use. A pilot can't take Viagra within 6 hours of flying, so that pretty much rules it out for airline pilots. I've never been with a man younger than myself, but none of the older men I've dated over the years have needed any help.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 215
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Posted: 4/11/2017 9:36:30 AM

I tried viagra on a flight home once. Just curious. Thought it would get me rearing to go with the old man on touch down. Gave me one of the worst headaches I've ever experienced. Could have been the altitude but not experimenting with it again.


LoL, I think Viagra is for men.
 SilverWings2017
Joined: 12/14/2016
Msg: 216
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Posted: 4/11/2017 10:19:23 PM
Ahh yes, the dreaded ED discussion.

No, they usually won't tell you ANYTHING until they pop out a Rx bottle and a Cpap machine (or other physical anomalies that come to light) that you discover this is not the man of your dreams.
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
Msg: 217
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Posted: 4/11/2017 10:34:31 PM

No, they usually won't tell you ANYTHING until they pop out a Rx bottle and a Cpap machine (or other physical anomalies that come to light) that you discover this is not the man of your dreams.


So when they remove the shoe lifts, take off the toupee, remove the prosthetic limb, then they say, just a minute while I get my inflatable penile prosthesis pumped rigid, you mean ….

You mean that isn’t a turn on?
 SLAFFA
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 218
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Posted: 4/12/2017 2:16:17 AM
An intelligent/enterprising woman need not even "ask" a man about his capabilities. There are numerous things she could do or say "on the sligh" to see if she gets a rise out of him.

People can/will/obviously do come up with all kinds of excuses. But just like weight, the ability to perform (at any age) is largely under our control. It's not real complicated. It's both well studied and well understood.
 PennyAnte
Joined: 4/17/2016
Msg: 219
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Posted: 4/12/2017 5:45:08 AM
What the hell is the " mile high club" this has come up before. I imagine I could Google it. Am I missing something? Should I join?
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 220
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Posted: 4/12/2017 6:29:22 AM
C'mon! This phrase dates from the advent of jet planes. Means making it while up in the air.
 PennyAnte
Joined: 4/17/2016
Msg: 221
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Posted: 4/12/2017 6:34:20 AM
Never mind. I Googled It. WTF? Sounds like having sex in a portable potty. That's so gross. Having sex where everyone else on the plane is taking a chit? Ick, yuck, just digusting.
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 222
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Posted: 4/12/2017 8:16:16 AM
Who says the plane has to be an airliner with a potty?
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 223
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Posted: 4/12/2017 8:18:17 AM
Yeah, I always wondered about the pleasures of getting it on in an airliner toilet, but there are also those who savored the pleasures under a blanket in a semi-reclined seat. You got to realize that back in the day passengers actually had leg room and seats that reclined quite a bit. There was also the up against the wall crowd in the galley areas and of course, the first class cabins.

Air travel used to be a pleasant experience, not only because of the Mile High Club.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 224
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Posted: 4/12/2017 8:30:34 AM
"Air travel used to be a pleasant experience, not only because of the Mile High Club."

Air travel used to be pleasurable before airlines had the authority to yank paying customers out of their seat and drag them off of the plane because the airline overbooked.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 225
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Posted: 4/12/2017 8:35:04 AM
I never found air travel to be a pleasant experience AT ALL

That being said, if I ever found out about a passenger being dragged off a plane I'd BOYCOTT that airline FOREVER
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