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 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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any where between hours to minutes, BEFORE sex,

I'm a big fan of the big build up.. so days in advance. I need to hear how much you miss me, how much you want me, what you want to do to me, what you want me to do to you, how you can't wait... unf. But the other thing I need is for you to follow through on those things. That's the difference from OMGSEX and mehsex.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/30/2015 7:27:48 AM

I couldn't help but laugh at the preposterousness of your comment when you said, "...however, the need of foreplay applies only at the beginning of the relationship or the first few times we have sex." I actually had to tell my girl about that because it was just so freakin' off the chain ridiculous.


I have to agree here with BigDaddyJinx.

Also I believe saying that foreplay only applies to the beginning of a relationship is totally backwards. In the beginning of the relationship, when you are all passion and craziness, you can't wait to get it on and on, and on. But as the relationship evolves, and let's say that you have A LOT of sex. Then the sex needs to be spiced up. It requires new forms of stimulation, of as BDJ said, passion, intimacy, connection and VARIETY.

Sex is not just the process by which a woman services a man and allows him to ejaculate. Sex is sharing your body and having that other person explore YOUR body. Sometimes I want my woman to caress me as I lay there doing nothing, to slowly turn me on and play with me. Then I do the same thing to her, and play with having her in different positions, on her stomach, on her back, crouching and pointing her innermost up in the air, and simply caress all of it, from the nape to her toes. Even better is the foreplay that takes it out of the bedroom into the world. To where in public, or before you are going out to dinner, you do something spontaneous like the woman playing with the guys package, or the man touching or kissing or smelling the woman's neck. Or whispering to each other what the other would love to do. You built it up. You tease it. You take it to another level.

The reality is that couples after a while start seeing sex more as a routine. Life and responsibility take over. If you do that, then you are missing the part of sex that allows the couple to connect at an erotic yet spiritual level. So you have as I think was mister Church said, make sex a habit, and to keep that habit fresh, exciting and relevant. So you continue to redefine foreplay in any and every way possible.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/31/2015 7:29:11 PM
In general, the women had a serious relationship with wanted foreplay ( not just at the beginning ) besides an occasional quickie when time was limited.
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 9/15/2018 6:03:41 AM
lol there are the times where we have ripped clothes off but most generally I find women appreciate foreplay and if don't right with tons of kissing and touching when the times right she's primed and giving all the signs to keep going!....
 grover14
Joined: 2/14/2014
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Posted: 9/15/2018 10:53:01 AM
I was in a relationship a few years ago, and love making was at least a 2 hour activity. The foreplay was absolutely the best part for both of us, culminating in intercourse. Also the cuddling afterward generated some great conversation. I really miss that intimacy.
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 9/15/2018 12:43:38 PM
Intimacy is important, has to include atleast some foreplay. I just use lube pretty much always because Cbf to risk tearing lol and like once the damage is done it's too late and can't rectify it. Basically a preventative.
Kinda need to though because we have long sessions.
 Don56789
Joined: 11/19/2017
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Posted: 9/16/2018 9:09:00 PM
If there was only penetration, sex would be boring. It's what I hate about xxx porn. I want to caress, touch, bond etc with my partner, not just penetrate her.
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2018 5:33:57 PM
I agree with Igor's post. Foreplay is 3/4 of the fun. I just can't get into sex unless there's a little rubbing, massaging, teasing, etc.
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 9/20/2018 3:46:01 AM
To each their own.....have heard the same but it's been my experience women would rather be pampered and foreplayed to the hilt beforehand....lol
 aremeself
Joined: 12/31/2008
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Posted: 10/1/2018 8:53:49 AM
Sex was not meant to be a recreational sport.

Marry young.

Evolve together.

Ladies be there for your husband.

Men be kind to your wife.


But,

That's not going to happen in the big world with today's homemade rules.
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