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 Whatsamatterbaby
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 173
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^ Same. There's a guy outside fixing my car right now. There is no attraction between us whatsoever.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 10/14/2015
Msg: 174
What does a rub and tug mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 1:36:41 PM


There's a guy outside fixing my car right now.


Is he checking under the hood?

I'm gonna get my floppy formatted soon...
 Whatsamatterbaby
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 175
What does a rub and tug mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 1:42:00 PM
^ Lucky you. (I think?)
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 176
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 2:02:34 PM
"Men have done nice things and helped me all my life because they're gentlemen, not because there was a chance they could get some p***. "

The difference between a gentelman and a brute, is that a gentelman awaits invitation....a brute takes liberties and makes advances.

When we are both checking you out we are thinking the same thing.

*nice ass*

The gentleman wont say it.....while the brute does and gets your attention.

; )
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 177
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 2:29:05 PM
Say that to the married mechanic who fixed my car and refused the cash I was handing to him. We never met before and never saw each other after. My ass was covered with the long coat.
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 178
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 2:41:24 PM
I'd bet you even money.....that if you are even half way attractive....odds are there is a guy somewhere in your shere who is interested in you but you dont even see him that way....but he wont say anything.

I wasnt saying every man lusts for you :)
 ThatGirlNamedAlli
Joined: 12/28/2013
Msg: 179
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 2:53:04 PM


Doesn't anyone read between the lines? If a guy is eager to rub your back, he likes you. You have to expect the guy is going to try to take things further if you're asking a guy that does nice things because he's attracted to you.


For sure. I would never ever ask someone I'm not actually friends with or dating, because i know it's misconstrued. Plus I'd feel creeped out.
Plus I'm more comfortable tell them to bugger off than a new date, oddly. :)
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 180
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 4:04:27 PM

When we are both checking you out we are thinking the same thing.

The gentleman wont say it.....while the brute does and gets your attention.


Right…..all men think like pigs, and all women want the bad boy brute. Gawd, get a new tune.
 crookcatcher
Joined: 9/1/2015
Msg: 181
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 5:21:02 PM

I'd bet you even money.....that if you are even half way attractive....odds are there is a guy somewhere in your shere who is interested in you but you dont even see him that way....but he wont say anything.


Seems irrelevant. If she "doesn't" see him that way, what difference does it make for him to say anything except to align himself in the proverbial "she doesn't like me because I'm a nice guy camp". Interest wasn't there to start with. ymmv


Right…..all men think like pigs, and all women want the bad boy brute. Gawd, get a new tune.


+1 ;)
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 182
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 5:25:04 PM
Gosh Paladin... here is the story: the panel was coming off my car because the clip had broken and the panel was hanging in the air. I called the number of a mechanic in my phone, thinking it was the number of the guy who had fixed my car some time ago. Turns out I was wrong, it was a whole other mechanic whose number someone had given me, and when I called him he had no idea who I was (or what I looked like). I explained what I needed help with, and sent him a picture. He told me to stop by his home the next morning (Sunday) after he got home from church and breakfast with his family. He fixed my clip (an easy job) and did not take the $40.00 in cash I was trying to give him.

Not sure how we went from me being grateful to this gentleman, and others like him, to all men lusting after me and especially to my ass.
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 183
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 5:50:39 PM
"Right…..all men think like pigs, and all women want the bad boy brute. Gawd, get a new tune. "

If the admiration of your bottocks by my wondering eye offends thee madam I shall pluck it out with thy dagger forth with....you need only command it....but first I surely bid thee....thine ass is as fine a curve as to have ever been found in gentle hills southern france.....mother nature bows at your grace and beauty M'lady....a fond adue...
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 184
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/18/2015 7:13:48 PM

"Gosh Paladin... here is the story: the panel was coming off my car because the clip had broken and the panel was hanging in the air. I called the number of a mechanic in my phone, thinking it was the number of the guy who had fixed my car some time ago. Turns out I was wrong, it was a whole other mechanic whose number someone had given me, and when I called him he had no idea who I was (or what I looked like). I explained what I needed help with, and sent him a picture. He told me to stop by his home the next morning (Sunday) after he got home from church and breakfast with his family. He fixed my clip (an easy job) and did not take the $40.00 in cash I was trying to give him.

Not sure how we went from me being grateful to this gentleman, and others like him, to all men lusting after me and especially to my ass.


How do you get that out of the text I posted?

I dont understand why anology and lame attempts at humor goe over some peoples head into literalism....

I will try to keep it simple.....

A guy.....

You know....

Likes you....

But you dont notice....

cuz you arent looking for him.

Get it?....

lol
 Coma_White
Joined: 9/15/2013
Msg: 185
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What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/20/2015 11:54:14 AM

Not sure how we went from me being grateful to this gentleman, and others like him, to all men lusting after me and especially to my ass.


I think there's a difference between being nice to people/helping people and rubbing people. Some people may disagree but that's what I believe.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 186
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Posted: 10/20/2015 5:54:44 PM

I think there's a difference between being nice to people/helping people and rubbing people. Some people may disagree but that's what I believe.

Yes, that's common sense. Others want to believe rubbing/massaging someone's body is just 100% platonic. Two litmus tests to that:

Action: Ask to give a straight guy you know a nice backrub
Reaction to Negative Response: Hey, I like being nice to people and helping people out!

Action: Go to the bar with your GF, and when you both are mingling with people, give a gal a nice backrub
Reaction to Negative GF Response: Hey, I like being nice to people and helping people out!

Most who defend it as a harmless platonic endeavor will it like "OH geez, I'm not a horn dog -- I'm not trying to get in her pants when I do it," as if that solves the problem, but trying to turn the tables. It's not platonic unless certain particular circumstances apply.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 187
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/20/2015 8:29:50 PM
Okay Norwegian Guy, I have a question. If my partner suggests swinging when we're in bed (and who the hell knows if he's just talking trash in bed or actually wants to do it?), does it mean he likes guys, at least a little? Why else would he want to be in a room with another guy who is naked? Thanks for your feedback.
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 188
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/20/2015 9:05:19 PM
I can answer this one.....

First off.....I'm not sword fighting.....I dont even want another man in the same building when I'm making love to a woman....LOL....and dont touch my butt either...

But I have friends into this....From what I am told....the orgasms for the girl are intense during double penetration....

Not my cup of tea though...I dont like sharing.
 Whatsamatterbaby
Joined: 5/6/2015
Msg: 189
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/20/2015 9:21:01 PM

But I have friends into this....


Are your friends porn stars?
 Paladin2015
Joined: 5/29/2015
Msg: 190
What does a front rub mean to you?
Posted: 10/20/2015 10:10:48 PM
Hrm.....no....not that I know of....and I only know this cuz they asked us ( me and the wife) to swing with them years back.....

EW....F no....I dont share.

Why in the the hell would you share your spouce with someone sexually?

I dont get it.......besides double penetration doesnt require another man in the room.....just her favorite toy.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 191
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Posted: 10/20/2015 10:12:10 PM

If my partner suggests swinging when we're in bed .... does it mean he likes guys, at least a little?

No, not at all. Swinging is wife/partner swapping! :)

Why else would he want to be in a room with another guy who is naked?

Oh, like swap wifes/gfs Live, in the same room and go at it? No. Just because a guy's comfortable being in a Men's locker room, where other men are very visibly naked, doesn't mean he likes guys a little. It means that part doesn't bother him. I'll take this further than you ask -- not just naked. Seeing another guy plow into a girl? No.

Every guy who watches porn (so, like, Every guy) does not have homosexual tendencies because there's a guy naked on screen porking a gal or two. Like first getting used to a locker room where guys are visibly naked, notably more near the shower area, guys seeing that live-action instead of on-screen does not indicate homosexual tendencies because there's a naked guy to connect the sexual dots so-to-speak.

So having a "Fargo moment" as I call it (see bad guys in movie Fargo, in hotel room) where each guy is plowing into a girl on each of their beds but in the same room, doesn't indicate homosexual tendencies. Wanting to physically engage with the other guy does. Not the girl he's porking. :)
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