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 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 176
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You know what. I don't think I can bet against it since I think it will be Thanksgiving. Hehehe.


Thanksgiving is exactly 32 days from now so the official over/under is 32 days.

I'm taking the "under".
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 177
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Posted: 10/26/2015 2:43:15 PM
well since he shot his mouth about banging her first night ( can't remember if that was before or after the chicken :P) And then she read all his posts and laughed and laughed at all our silly comments
I bet before Gobble Day.
 o0BrownEyedGirl0o
Joined: 11/12/2014
Msg: 178
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Posted: 10/26/2015 2:52:47 PM
well, he *poofed* but I bet he's still reading....

Hi Paladin!!!!!!

(or will be next time he has to watch paint dry at work....)
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 179
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Posted: 10/26/2015 3:23:44 PM
I'm disappointed. I was waiting for details of the romantic prelude with Ann that leads up to the climatic point of profile deletion. I was thinking he would have red rose petals around the computer, while they are sipping on wine and eating very expensive chocolates in front of the computer, with romantic music playing, and then tap on the keyboard like a concert pianist, getting to his POF profile. Then have a moment of silence before the death of the profile, and say to his new sweetheart: "There's one more thing I have to do before final deletion. I have to let the people on the POF chat board know this is the end, as well as a new beginning", then party like there's no tomorrow when the deed is done.
 sealady111
Joined: 5/31/2015
Msg: 180
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Posted: 10/26/2015 3:29:26 PM
This place is a great place to be whilst watching paint dry.
Or for the phone to ring.
Or just to learn a lot about human beings.

Good luck Paladin.
 CallaLily004
Joined: 6/27/2015
Msg: 181
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Posted: 10/26/2015 3:59:24 PM
Maleman… You are Funny!!!

CrookCatcher…. Are we talking about returning to the Forums, or the dating site too? Mark my word, he is already setting up another account, under a new username, which will be hidden. I say this, why? ….


Since his very first post I did not find him to be genuine with all the “repeatedness” of him being an honest man and needing to prove it. I can understand to her (because of her past,) but why to those on this forum? Who does that???? One with guilt??? One who is a Liar???

He claims that he finally found the one that he was looking for; i.e., Gorgeous, Smart, Funny, and let’s not forget… VERY Compatible [if ya know what I mean] ;-) Why heck… he even tried to prove it to her by committing on the “ first date” and telling her they are officially an “Item”. Wooo Hooo!!

That being said, can someone explain to me why he continued to log into the “dating” site (not the forums) after his “undying commitment” to her? You see, one of the advantages of being an Upgraded Member, you get to see the last time they were logged on. Yeppers, it was 7:05pm last night (I checked before I made my earlier post .) I wonder how many times he has logged in since that Bang’in night?? ;-) That poor woman… he’s no better than all the rest she had. {{{ Sigh }}}
 irishgirl772
Joined: 6/3/2013
Msg: 182
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Posted: 10/26/2015 4:11:41 PM
Am I the only one that thinks his whole story was bs? I doubt any of it actually happened.
 o0BrownEyedGirl0o
Joined: 11/12/2014
Msg: 183
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Posted: 10/26/2015 4:11:52 PM
Calla,

A lot of us have probably thought the same things but you have come out and said them. I am all for giving the guy a break and wishing him well without reservations. Stranger things have been known to happen. It may just work out.

Logging into the dating site is just that: we don't know why he did it, only that he did (as you say).

Kinda nice having a ringside seat in the theater of life and love.
 crookcatcher
Joined: 9/1/2015
Msg: 184
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Posted: 10/26/2015 4:27:06 PM

Are we talking about returning to the Forums, or the dating site too?


I was referring to the forums.

I thought his posting binge throughout the forums trumpeting his supposed good guy image a little...well more than a little contradictory.

You have Ann a godsend according to him going to his house on the first date after hastily deciding it was time to go from the club.

He shows her the thread supposedly and she think's it hilarious...maybe. But then he posts about the hot sex that the perfect Ann threw on him and then qualifies it with "at least it wasn't coyote sex" I did'nt have to chew my arm off to avoid waking her. hmm bet good ol' Ann didn't read that part.

I just don't believe a man with any integrity or character would post that in an open forum like it's locker room talk. Doesn't make sense unless you realize the rest of his numerous "look how good I am posts" were bs. Just my opinion though. I wish him luck. :/
 CallaLily004
Joined: 6/27/2015
Msg: 185
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Posted: 10/26/2015 4:58:38 PM
BrownEyedGirl,

I appreciate your words. I am not one who usually makes a snap judgement and I do try to give the benefit of doubt, but the more he spoke on here, the "fishier" he sounded and thus why I made the decision to check out his profile. And by your quote in parenthesis, you have your doubts as to "IF" I am telling the truth. What do I have to gain by lying? lol.

True, we don't know why he logged in to the dating site, but if you deduct the fact that he made no changes to his profile regarding his new intent, not hiding it, not deleting his pictures, etc... then what other purpose would there be a need to log on? You may not agree with my analysis, and I respect your opinion, I was just giving my view.

I never did say that it won't work out with them, no one can predict the unknown, and thus in my closing...I wished him luck.
 o0BrownEyedGirl0o
Joined: 11/12/2014
Msg: 186
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Posted: 10/26/2015 5:10:05 PM
Calla, you misunderstood the reason for the parentheses statement - I HAD to say it that way because I don't have the confirmation that it was so. Just qualifying my statement is all. For my money, I think he was in the grip of powerful emotions and not thinking clearly at all. Not a good way to start a relationship when the ink is not dry on his dissolution of current marriage. I don't think first date sex is a good idea, it never worked for me and caused a lot of pain.

We all think to was too much too much. As in 'protesteth'.

Crook, I think he said he was surprised SHE did not coyote herself the next morning, not that HE did, or I mean he would have had to.

BTW, I think he'll be back on the FORUMS, he's got a lot to rebut here. Maybe not the dating side. Or maybe he will stay away from us.
 CallaLily004
Joined: 6/27/2015
Msg: 187
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Posted: 10/26/2015 5:22:09 PM
Crookcatcher... I concur with your view as well.

I totally lost respect for him the minute he called Eric a Pig. There was no need for him to get so defensive and label Eric as such. When someone goes on the attack like he did, there is usually a reason behind it. In my opinion, this man has a lot of insecurities about himself and was threatened by the innocent word of "unorthodox", taking it to mean "shame or bad."

Again, in my opinion, if he truly wants things to work out with himself and this lady Ann...... I think they BOTH need to work on the issues they have, and then.... only then, will they have a chance at a truly happy and "Healthy" relationship.
 CallaLily004
Joined: 6/27/2015
Msg: 188
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Posted: 10/26/2015 5:25:36 PM
BrownEyedGirl,

Ahhh, see.... I misinterpreted your meaning, and now see where you were coming from, my apologies. Good thing I didn't label you on that!! ;-) hahaha.
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 189
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Posted: 10/26/2015 5:32:04 PM

We are gonna wait a few weeks or maybe even months for a meet…we dont even know where this is going yet.


I have a feeling this sizzle has fizzled out already.

IF she did read this thread, she couldn’t miss his posts about her emotional issues. She thought that was funny? He thinks he knows how she felt about reading her words posted here for strangers to judge???? She laughed about it? I think not.

He says she’s too “meek” to tell him the band’s too loud and she wants to leave, is “shocked” that he isn’t pissed off at her about it…..yet, she’s a wild porn star in bed with him 20 minutes later...?? Posting about the sex with her four days after meeting her…..now that she knows he posted on here, she can read it all for herself. I don’t think many women would appreciate that.

He is all about him; she’s just a prop in his fantasy. The reality is, he’s still legally married, with children….the mortgage and child support, and a million more legal bits, not to mention emotional stuff yet to be sorted; he says he still loves his wife, while making sure to repeatedly pin all the blame for their marriage failure on her…who the heck wants that.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 190
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Posted: 10/26/2015 6:09:25 PM
I stopped and got gas today
A Man 60 feet away yelled
" do you need a bug"
I had quite a few on my windshield so I declined
Guess perhaps I misheard
He might have said slug
Sigh.. the heart is a lonely hunter
 Chris_P_Bacon__
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 191
Cant do this in real life without gettting a restraining order against you
Posted: 10/26/2015 6:21:27 PM
paladin2015 may be gone but he is not forgotten.

In fact, today as I was driving past the park mall I spotted him.
Pulled out my cam and had to shoot a video and share it all with you.

If you're inpatient, jump ahead to 1:25 of my video.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=JScRqW0dUgU
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 192
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Posted: 10/26/2015 6:51:07 PM
Mr. Bacon....that video is hilarious! Ya know why?

Cause that would be me! I would decide to give free hugs and find myself at a closed and empty mall. :/
 Chris_P_Bacon__
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 193
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Posted: 10/26/2015 6:57:26 PM
Never fear kj521, I'd be there all ready to have you pork my bacon.
I'd give you all the free hugs your heart desires dear.
 ThePig0fTheOpera
Joined: 10/23/2015
Msg: 194
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Posted: 10/26/2015 6:58:04 PM

I totally lost respect for him the minute he called Eric a Pig.


Yes, how dare he.
 sun___flower
Joined: 5/8/2015
Msg: 195
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Posted: 10/26/2015 6:59:44 PM
Pig! Yay! So glad you're back!
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 10/14/2015
Msg: 196
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Posted: 10/26/2015 8:21:21 PM

And it seems to me you lived your life
Like a candle in the wind
Never knowing who to cling to
When the rain set in

Your candle burned out long before
Your legend ever did

Paladin
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
Msg: 197
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Posted: 10/26/2015 10:12:19 PM
Gazooks! Not only did he finally delete himself, but he took Sealady with him!
 Chris_P_Bacon__
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 198
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Posted: 10/26/2015 10:35:31 PM
Food for thought....
maybe Sealady is codetalk for the name "Ann".

The conspiracy continues.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 8/14/2015
Msg: 199
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Posted: 10/27/2015 7:52:36 AM
OMG...It's a crazy day at sea!
Mr. Pig is back. (yay...smooch!)
Mr. Paladin is gone to live blissfully with an idea.
Mr. Clooney is here looking cute as ever with a lovely lady.
Ms. Sealady is gone?
I'm off to buy cowboy boots today.
I've never had any and I feel it's time.
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
Msg: 200
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Posted: 10/27/2015 8:07:40 AM
Paladin, we hardly knew ye...
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