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 browneyesboo
Joined: 7/1/2016
Msg: 351
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Too bad most women on this site think sex is something they used to do when they were younger but have no need to do it now, and the men that date them just have to put up with it.


If most of the women you're coming in contact with aren't interested in sex, maybe it's something you're doing...or not doing.
Try being more attractive or interesting.
Most of the women (and men) I know are still interested in sex.
The trick is to find someone interested in sex with you....hopefully you're some sort of magician, otherwise,
I guess you'll just have to save your breath for your blow up doll.
*shrug*
 BBEisBack
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 352
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Posted: 9/30/2016 2:51:23 PM

They are not tired of sex
Just don't want to have sex with you :) Not something you have to mine to discover
right
all women a certain age stop being interested in sex LOL
I could stop your heart :)

OMG, that's it.... I'm jumping on a Plane......

You do know CPR, don't you? Have 911 on speed dial?

LOL......

vvvvv Paddle? Kinky, for Me, You, or will we take turns?

Now I'm ROFL......
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 353
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Posted: 9/30/2016 3:02:01 PM
Ha! Paddle at the ready
I just dislike when I read " all women"
Women prolly like sex MORE than men imo
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 354
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Posted: 10/2/2016 11:54:48 AM

They are not tired of sex. Just don't want to have sex with you :)


I'd agree. Though it works for both sexes of course.
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 10/2/2016 6:53:11 PM

Women prolly like sex MORE than men imo


They must if they continued to have sex after pregnancy and childbirth. I would be done after pregnancy and childbirth.
 deetristate
Joined: 12/4/2014
Msg: 356
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Posted: 10/4/2016 7:33:42 AM
Except for the doll comment, I agree with browneyedboo .

Three dates? Ha. No. Not enough time to know you and whether I even want you around.
 OneInAQuadrillion
Joined: 10/1/2017
Msg: 357
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Posted: 10/22/2017 1:00:06 PM
This is a joke, right? If you don't know after 3 dates, it's over. There is no chemistry. Move on.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 358
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Posted: 10/22/2017 3:01:16 PM
LOL. Yeah, if you don't know by the third date if you want to have sex with someone...what a line that is.
 4Lky
Joined: 9/12/2017
Msg: 359
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Posted: 10/22/2017 5:06:00 PM
rules are made to be broken...
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 360
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Posted: 10/22/2017 5:08:54 PM
Unwritten rules were invented for sheep.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 361
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Posted: 10/22/2017 6:47:12 PM
Ladyinred0407- "Unwritten rules were invented for sheep."

Bah, bah black sheep, have you any wool, yes sire, yes sir.......... :D

He wears his sunglasses at night, cause that is what people stuck in the 80's do.

The sheep and their routines, poor things, that's why they can't avoid the Shepard and his intentions. ;)
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
Msg: 362
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Posted: 10/22/2017 7:25:23 PM
Well this thread is a blast from the past!
LOLOLOLOL at the same old disagreements.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 363
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Posted: 10/23/2017 8:43:45 AM
I pay 3 dates

We can go Dutch afterwards if we’re not exclusive by date 4

No blazers either til we’re exclusive

YMMV
 CampSeed
Joined: 11/9/2017
Msg: 364
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Posted: 12/14/2017 8:13:23 PM
I don't follow the 3rd date rule. I have to feel safe with a man before I even think about sleeping with them. I don't care who he is. I go with my gut and when I'm ready to then I may. But at this age of my life, I can choose to wait and be picky. IF I don't feel safe then I'm not going to invest in it.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 365
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Posted: 12/15/2017 5:13:48 AM
Ah, so men are assumed dangerous until proven safe, but we men better not DARE harbor any preconceived notions about women. Got it.


I go with my gut


Have you ever discovered you were wrong about something in your lifetime? If so, take a wild guess as to what initially told you that you were right.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 366
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Posted: 12/15/2017 7:31:49 AM
Women wait until they feel comfortable, but they may not all agree on what makes them feel comfortable. Reminds me of an old broad down the street who's lawn I used to mow. she had a long habit of "taking in strays", and I remember her lamenting once she went out in the ocean on a boat with a new guy, and she couldn't even swim if she had to. apparently her comfort level wasn't sky high :)

the more we pay attention to people, the sooner we get to know them. The more we focus on what we can get out of a date...the less we notice about the person handing it to us. so the longer it takes.
 magicstillaroundme
Joined: 10/2/2017
Msg: 367
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Posted: 12/15/2017 8:56:15 AM
Just out of an intense relationship and I sure don't like what I am seeing this time. Third date ... heck ... I'm not sure that I want to do it at all! They can all take their time getting comfortable but I do resent being regarded as a threat by a total stranger. I guess the question is now -- When they are finally comfortable will I still resent them?
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 368
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Posted: 12/16/2017 9:55:20 AM
Familiarity breeds contempt you know
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 9/29/2017
Msg: 369
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Posted: 12/16/2017 12:07:01 PM
Absinthe makes the heart grow fonder.
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 370
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Posted: 12/16/2017 3:47:11 PM
Wasn't that illegal in states at one time?

(Never sounded tasty to me)
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 371
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Posted: 12/20/2017 9:35:47 AM
Wait a minute here!

There is a post missing in this thread.

Someone had posted, after message 382, talking about when Absinthe was made legal in the USA.

Yes, definitely, if I back up and look at the “Over 45” page, I see the last post in this thread was made by CBGB77, and it is now gone.

Do we have a new mod, deleting posts?

Nah, doesn’t make sense, who would care about a post stating when Absinthe was made legal? Probably just another screw up by the world class poor software used to drive these forums.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 372
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Posted: 12/20/2017 10:11:17 AM
This site is a hunk of shit. I just got a message telling me I had reached the maximum number of times I can participate in a thread, and I didn't even have that many posts in it.

At any rate, one of my responses in it was to a post you had made about what you can do to meet younger women. My response - if you're a Dom, build a good dungeon, then attend a local munch and show off pictures of it. Your work is done.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 373
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Posted: 12/20/2017 11:06:59 AM
hey I just got that, too, for the same reason. it must be henry's fault :)

my answer is, first, you absolutely positively have to find a younger woman who is receptive. any girl who acts/dresses like a young girl, isn't going to impress her friends with an older bf, she's going to impress them by dating the hottest guy their age with status. find a young lass who isn't superficial, who is mature for her age, who wants to experience life, and as Adam Gilad would say, you as an older man offers exactly what she's looking for--maturity and experience.
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 374
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Posted: 12/20/2017 11:10:11 AM

Wait a minute here!

There is a post missing in this thread.

Someone had posted, after message 382, talking about when Absinthe was made legal in the USA.

Yes, definitely, if I back up and look at the “Over 45” page, I see the last post in this thread was made by CBGB77, and it is now gone.

Do we have a new mod, deleting posts?


There is a "Delete Post" link at the bottom of each post. You can delete your own post within the first few minutes after you post it. That's probably what CBGB77 did.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 375
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Posted: 12/20/2017 2:18:46 PM
Damn, what have I done now? That’s okay, I’ll take the heat. As the veteran of a 27 year marriage, I’m used to taking the blame, I understand my role in life. (smile)

Gto, I’m not looking for any woman that young. I never send initial messages to any woman under 49 (absolute lowest), and here on POF I’m limited to 53 and up. Heck, to me a good looking 50 something is “an attractive younger woman”. I do sometimes get messages from younger women, but that is nearly always about my pocketbook, not about me. But not always.

In my 8 year odyssey since my divorce, the youngest I had dated was 37. That is, up until this year. Back over the summer, I received a message from a 24 year old, said she wanted to meet me. She neither sounded nor looked like a money grabber, so I met with her, and went on 2 dates. A very interesting story, over all, but not for this PG rated site.

I am not very concerned with age, I just want someone that I find attractive. And as I have said before, the percentage of women who look attractive (to me) gets smaller and smaller with age. The great majority of women in their 20’s look quite attractive. By the time you hit women in their 60’s, there are damn few that you would turn around to take a second look if you passed them on the street. But there are a few!

TPOYD, I’m not much of a Dom. I have played the game a few times, just as I have played many other games. Whatever an attractive woman desires, I’m going to try and deliver.
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