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 forever_live_and_die
Joined: 6/6/2017
Msg: 1351
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I'm old fashioned and always pay. I make more money then any woman I've ever dated except one so why not follow societies rules of the past. After all the only rules in dating are the ones you make yourself.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/17/2017 10:43:57 PM
Cooldog, this girl is not wearing a bikini. She's basically naked. She's wearing a g-string and pasties. Do they charge more? Some do offer "touching" and "shows". Some of them have been charged with lewd behavior and prostitution.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 7/18/2017 4:48:17 AM
^^^^^^^^ So? Oh gosh!! Boobs and butt! The horror.

These women are earning a living. Apparently there is a demand or there wouldn't be a supply.

By your own admission if a line is crossed it is handled. No one is forcing you to patronize these establishments.

Calling women who get up and go to work a job whores because you don't approve says a lot about you.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/18/2017 6:10:43 AM
That's right, I don't want whores degrading my neighborhood. I don't care if it's an enjoyment for men. I don't want topless places in my neighborhood either. Seedy places attracting seedy men. Why should a parent have to explain why a woman is naked while serving coffee? This work is degrading to women. We're supposed to be worth more than just our bodies. I can't believe you don't get that.
 spot4username
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Posted: 7/18/2017 6:15:39 AM
^
You have more issues than Readers Digest.
 from site to sight
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 1356
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Posted: 7/18/2017 7:30:38 AM

This work is degrading to women. We're supposed to be worth more than just our bodies.


Tell that to women who won't date a guy unless he's tall and in good shape. Do you find guys who work as Chippendales to be just as degrading and disgusting, because guys are worth more than just their bodies?
 spot4username
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Posted: 7/18/2017 8:07:18 AM
I am wondering if all the talented women who perform in the topless shows in places like Vegas are also whores? A lot of work goes into those revues. The auditioning process is brutal. The weight of those headdresses alone is daunting.

Oh and I was really a whore when at 19 I wore a teeny tiny bikini and sold ice cream and hotdogs from a cart in downtown Charleston. Parents ran away disgust! All those professionals on Broad Street buying their lunch from me. So seedy.

In fact I must still be a whore since I sometimes do promos and brand ambassador gigs. I mean those bookings are all about looks. No looks = no job. Thank goodness for them though. I would be living in my car if it weren't for them right now.

And talk about a SUPER whore!! I am topless at the beach. *gasp*
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 1358
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Posted: 7/18/2017 9:17:19 AM
^^^^

When I was a teen I used to dream about " Superwhore " coming to rescue me - she had a red cape and everything !
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 1359
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Posted: 7/18/2017 9:53:53 AM
ok, trying to get topless beaches out of my mind right now...we used to have a nudist beach (sorry no photos)

http://www.sunclad.com/pilgrim/moonstone.shtml

and young boys would be shocked to finally go and see...women their mother's age. Naked.

:)

I'm neither here to praise nor bury Caesar, but I do get the point about property values. We have two major casinos in my tiny state, and want to throw up a third, and there's always questions about the customer base they'll attract. we've had TT bars run by outlaw biker gangs as laundrymats, and these locations seemed to be in the newspaper once a month about a shooting or a fight or a knifing or something. Porn does have an effect on those who would likely take things too far anyway. I think there's a long distance between Times Square 1978 and the Hooters I ate dinner at last night, tho.

the distance might be called, simply, "Taste".
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/18/2017 10:37:47 AM

That's right, I don't want whores degrading my neighborhood. I don't care if it's an enjoyment for men. I don't want topless places in my neighborhood either. Seedy places attracting seedy men.


I know there's a Dreamgirls (Gentlemen's Club) by the airport. I may have to check out the talent there. For my birthday back in February, I got lap dances from dancers who were 30 years younger than me.

If I'm seedy, I'm seedy. I'm enjoying life!
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:23:54 AM
Butterchuck, a cape, and only a cape☺?

Mustang guy, we have a lot of casinos in WA state. I think the bars here close at 12, I don't know if there are some that are open till 2 a.m. so it is nice to have the casinos that are open 24/7. An inlaw of mine finished some wood flooring at Foxwoods.

Cooldog, if you want to avail yourself of whores, you're an adult and single to do what you want. I would not be proud of using women that are drug addicted, or victims of sexual abuse or down on their luck, but that's your choice.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:25:57 AM

I am wondering if all the talented women who perform in the topless shows in places like Vegas are also whores? A lot of work goes into those revues. The auditioning process is brutal. The weight of those headdresses alone is daunting.

Yeah, that's a whole other ball-game, and is respectable. That's not going to be in anyone's neighborhood, although NY I'm sure scoffs at that notion anyway. That said though, I can understand not at all wanting bikini coffee huts to be in an actual neighborhood competing with 25 cent lemonade stands run by little Tommy & Sally, of course. Not only will one's kids have a lemonade stand business that'd surely fail ("Why is grandpa always over at That one? He doesn't even buy coffee!") -- but obviously having "whoo whoo!" sexy stands like that isn't kosher Within an Actual neighborhood. But it shouldn't be hissed at by folks in open/commercial areas where wearing bikinis Is kosher. Gals wear bikinis the same reason guys wear tight tshirts and gals wear short skirts even to work -- Attraction.

The one thing I do actually think is difficult when I see a high school bikini car wash to raise money for x/y/z club at the school, which they'll do at certain parking lots in the outskirts of a neighborhood or nearby. Biology kicks in, and they're biological adults -- but off limits... and with middle aged guys rolling up (in a perfectly clean car) wanting their car washed -- ya gotta think "Would I want my 16 year old daughter doing this?"
 fullmoonguy2
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:30:01 AM

The one thing I do actually think is difficult when I see a high school bikini car wash to raise money for x/y/z club at the school, which they'll do at certain parking lots in the outskirts of a neighborhood or nearby. Biology kicks in, and they're biological adults -- but off limits... and with middle aged guys rolling up (in a perfectly clean car) wanting their car washed -- ya gotta think "Would I want my 16 year old daughter doing this?"


Whoa !

Cool Hand Luke flashback.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 1364
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:51:24 AM

Cooldog, if you want to avail yourself of whores, you're an adult and single to do what you want. I would not be proud of using women that are drug addicted, or victims of sexual abuse or down on their luck, but that's your choice.


How would you know women that work at Hooters, bikini coffee bars, Tilted Klit or some other similar establishment are drug users or sexually abused? Yes, these things might apply to some women that work at these places. But I wouldn't make broad generalizations.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 1365
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:56:41 AM
"But I wouldn't make broad generalizations."




Most women don't like to be referred to as " broads "
 hemingway234
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Posted: 7/18/2017 12:11:42 PM
You guys wanna know who should pay on a date? - buy me dinner and I'll let ya know!
 sun___flower
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Posted: 7/18/2017 12:16:55 PM

"But I wouldn't make broad generalizations."




Most women don't like to be referred to as " broads "

Haha. Nice, BCC.
 IBup4it
Joined: 6/15/2017
Msg: 1368
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Posted: 7/18/2017 12:31:21 PM

That's right, I don't want whores degrading my neighborhood. I don't care if it's an enjoyment for men. I don't want topless places in my neighborhood either. Seedy places attracting seedy men.


Then tell all those people out there who go to strip clubs, watch porn, dirty magazine it's seedy and bring huge business actually it's a billions of dollars. Nudist has nothing to do with those types they are just comfortable with their bodies your anger suggests your not jealous? Fact is they wouldn't bother me and wouldn't get a second look from me unless I found a pubic hair in my coffee then I am losing my shit. I would snap but other than that they don't bother me any more than topless parades do, I don't watch them nor do I care either way about them.



Why should a parent have to explain why a woman is naked while serving coffee? Cause telling your child she is a nudist and they have to work to pay their bills too is sooo hard to say.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/18/2017 12:53:36 PM

Cooldog, if you want to avail yourself of whores, you're an adult and single to do what you want. I would not be proud of using women that are drug addicted, or victims of sexual abuse or down on their luck, but that's your choice.


How am I using them when I have to pay for their services? Yes it is my choice and I chose to pay.

My niece was a stripper for a few years and she isn't a drug addict. Not every person who works in these professions are addicts, victims, etc...
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/18/2017 9:23:34 PM
Nest, these coffee huts, or as Noxzema calls them, "whack shacks", many a time are used for prostitution. No parent needs to explain this, and no child needs to see this. No, not jealous of a woman that stands naked serving coffee for a living while men touch themselves, lol. I feel sorry for her.

Cooldog, I'm sorry your relative chose stripping as a profession. Would she feel proud to have kids and tell them what she does? We'll see how she feels and how sober she remains in 10 years after the job beats her down mentally.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 1371
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Posted: 7/19/2017 6:27:17 AM

Cooldog, I'm sorry your relative chose stripping as a profession. Would she feel proud to have kids and tell them what she does? We'll see how she feels and how sober she remains in 10 years after the job beats her down mentally.


I knew women that were strippers to help pay off student loans. Eventually they moved to other things. But they didn't develop a drinking and/or drug problem. It's fine if you aren't a fan of these jobs. Just don't go to a strip club or Hooters. But don't generalize based on profession.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 1372
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Posted: 7/19/2017 6:32:47 AM
How much is a coffee at the Hut?
What does a lap dance cost CD?
Few women I knew would just joke about the men at the clubs.. so had problems others just paying off loans, etc.
We have " photography" studios here
 cooldog65
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Posted: 7/19/2017 7:28:07 AM
^^^Ouija...About $30US. Just under $40CA.



Cooldog, I'm sorry your relative chose stripping as a profession. Would she feel proud to have kids and tell them what she does? We'll see how she feels and how sober she remains in 10 years after the job beats her down mentally.


I said she was a stripper. She's now 35 with no kids and quit around 29-30. Very few strippers past 30 as there is always a new crop of 18 year olds every year. Keeps everything fresh...
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 7/19/2017 9:11:08 AM
""But I wouldn't make broad generalizations."




"Most women don't like to be referred to as " broads " "





"Haha. Nice, BCC."




Meh, it's called " groaner material " but hey, it's nice to know I'm not amusing JUST myself
 sun___flower
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Posted: 7/19/2017 10:34:21 AM
You can make me groan anytime, BCC.
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