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 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 1394
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You appear to have a bias... you think it is wrong so therefore Must be wrong
Working in those places isn't a first ( or last date) Seriously I can't fault women playing on the old guys fantasies.
More women prolly do consider it but miss the cut
Most of the women I have met do those jobs are raising a family, hard to do on minimum wage
btw, I used to be a cyber angel, the Men to fear the most aren't the ones at those places.. they are the fake " legit" guys
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/20/2017 7:40:37 PM
Having frequented strip clubs the "foot rule" (4 foot rule) isn't enforced. Who would pay for a lap dance if there's no contact? A $30 lap dance lasts about 3-4 minutes. They always tell me it's ok to touch and they reciprocate. I don't treat them badly or degrade them. It's just a good time.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 1396
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Posted: 7/21/2017 10:40:22 AM
Sweet Jesus.
It isn't a good idea for ANYONE to be short sighted and think in terms of what other people should or should not do.
Before anyone says it, I'm not talking about obvious things that need to stay illegal, but how much do we, as a society, want to make illegal?
We already imprison more people, in the US, than any other country.
What someone does or does not do with their body's is a personal decision and there is NO way I will EVER support making something illegal that people should be able to decide for themselves is right or wrong, for them.

Let's get real here. Yes, there are some nasty, low down places no one would want to work. There are also higher class places where women can make a bundle.
They are going home, with hundreds of dollars a night, that someone willingly gave them, but they feel bad about themselves/degraded?!
GIVE ME A BREAK!
Ok, maybe a few, but most of them feel pretty darn good about it.
 Sweet_Danimal
Joined: 10/31/2015
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Posted: 7/22/2017 1:57:24 PM

Before anyone says it, I'm not talking about obvious things that need to stay illegal, but how much do we, as a society, want to make illegal?

If I could make a living as a professional steel-tip lawn 'Jarts' player, I'd certainly give it a try. Cornhole is for puzzies.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 1398
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Posted: 7/22/2017 5:34:01 PM
Only real men can play Jarts
err, doesn't cornholes mean the same in the USA?
Spent too much time trying to save garage spider
He is with the big spider in the sky now
thisclose to naming him. RIP Bert
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/22/2017 6:26:05 PM
Forum, if a woman wants to sell herself, sure she's free to do that, but I don't want it in my neighborhood. What a mess 42nd Street was in NYC with residents and tourists not being able to go anywhere near there until one mayor finally decided to clean it up and get the strip joints out of there, and then the drugs and the prostitution went along with it.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/24/2017 8:55:59 AM
A stand that is a few miles from me (Pink Sugar Espresso) also has several more stands around the region and they have an instagram page. Lots of pasties...*smiles*
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 1401
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Posted: 7/24/2017 9:02:18 AM
Lots of gals at them Coney Island hot dog stands too...
 sun___flower
Joined: 5/8/2015
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Posted: 7/24/2017 1:00:32 PM
Ouija
err, doesn't cornholes mean the same in the USA?

Yes, it does. The game is called 'bean bag toss' in CA and OR. Midwesterners hilariously call it 'cornhole.' I laughed myself silly at a woman who had '1st prize in cornhole' listed as an Interest on her profile, and made it my profile headline for awhile.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
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Posted: 7/24/2017 4:58:42 PM
^^^^ We call it that in Pittsburgh, too. Seems as if every outside function has this game set up, complete with these itty bitty babushka wearing ladies telling little Luke to go play cornhole with his cousins. A head-shaker, every time.
 Mister0Independent
Joined: 7/2/2017
Msg: 1404
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Posted: 7/25/2017 5:41:02 PM

How many dates should a man pay for before the woman contributes?


I’m a gentleman so I would not dare to insult a woman by insinuating that in this 21st century, she can’t be responsible enough to assume the price of her consumption... that would be sexism.
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
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Posted: 7/26/2017 8:12:43 PM

Who would pay for a lap dance if there's no contact? A $30 lap dance lasts about 3-4 minutes. They always tell me it's ok to touch and they reciprocate. I don't treat them badly or degrade them. It's just a good time.


A guy I know spent $400 one recent evening at a strip club ....only on drinks, table dances, lap dances, private room dances........The same guy says "I would NEVER pay for pu**y." I mean, does that even make sense?!?! Who's the bigger loser....? A guy who will spend $400 for basically a hangover and a right hand workout, vs. a guy who will spend the same $400 on doin' the wild thang with the real thang?
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 7/26/2017 8:30:25 PM

A guy I know spent $400 one recent evening at a strip club ....only on drinks, table dances, lap dances, private room dances........The same guy says "I would NEVER pay for pu**y." I mean, does that even make sense?!?! Who's the bigger loser....? A guy who will spend $400 for basically a hangover and a right hand workout, vs. a guy who will spend the same $400 on doin' the wild thang with the real thang?

If he actually paid for all of those activities $400 is dirt cheap. I have to question his math or his memory in general.
 SS4544Spd
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Posted: 7/26/2017 8:41:06 PM

If he actually paid for all of those activities $400 is dirt cheap. I have to question his math or his memory in general.


Well....$400 sounds about right for a few lap dances, table dances, a privave room dance, and some drinks... The drinks at this place are dirt cheap. Don't think it is unreasonable at all. Cooldog says lap dances are $30....IIRC table dances are $10, +/-....and those are split among the guys at the table. He paid $100 for a room dance, 30 minutes....for the life of me I can't figure out what the h*ll you're going to do with a stripper for 30 minutes...alone.....if you don't "do the dirty" with her......he said she ...just....danced....and he got a little boob feel action....whoopee bleep......he is a sucker that got ripped off, in my view.

He paid $100 for basically nuttin' yet he "would never pay for ......the real thang?!."

$400 sounds about right, IMO.

Maybe you're used to Chippendale scale expenditures.
 spot4username
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Posted: 7/26/2017 8:54:25 PM

Maybe you're used to Chippendale scale expenditures.

No. I worked in a club over 20 years ago and the activities you are tallying would have been more than $400 even back then. I guess I was lucky enough to work in a "nice" club.
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