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 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 51
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Well since these "fat" and "crazy" women "aren't very smart" I'm so sure it must be their problem and not at all yours...
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/1/2016 10:59:32 AM

I got offended because a guy, who stated in his profile that he is into BBWs contacted me. Made me wonder....like WTF, now I look like a BBW?

A guy who states in his profile that he's into BBWs is calling out to BBWs. Online is a great spot to find them. No shortage. But that doesn't mean that's ALL he's into. He's MUCH more likely to want to meet up with pretty (and non-bone-skinny) gal, than a guy who's looking for women in shape but jumps in bed with a BBW.
 geekgrrrl
Joined: 1/28/2009
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Do men with REALLY small penises get offended when women tell them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/1/2016 7:35:38 PM
Well? Remember weight can be lost. If we're going to be superficial lets cover all the bases...lol

Most BBW's I know a pickier then you think.
 koaladropbearsrule
Joined: 1/29/2016
Msg: 54
Do men with REALLY small penises get offended when women tell them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/1/2016 7:46:54 PM
As I am a FAT, OLD woman.
I can say, without doubt, that fat women do not get anywhere near as offended as men do when we laugh at them naked.
Or what we imagine they look like naked.
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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 2/2/2016 3:03:29 AM
Msg. #! :

NOoooo, I will not be offended, if a man said he is not enterested of my sexual advances, but if I meet him eye to eye personaly and I greeted him a good day or saw his POF profile and notice something that is enteresting on the background of his photos, and mention it to him and his reply is I am not enterested , I am still not offended but he can not blame me of what my impression of him as a brain dead person..

If a man said I am a hot SEXY Babe . when I know that I am skin and bones I will be very,very very very offended.
 coffeetogo127
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 56
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/2/2016 6:53:36 PM
Oh Vannili I gotta say I love you and have missed you!


If a guy told me I was too fat to be relationship material then I would know what he considered a relationship was someone who would help to give him higher status- anyone who would only consider a relationship based on the perceived value of someone's appearance ( instead of his attraction to her- which is quite a different thing) is incredibly superficial AND not looking for an ACTUAL relationship.

Now if a guy wasn't attracted to me because I was fat, no worries we all like what we like. Although I would wager we don't always know what we like.

I've gone out with and married fairly attractive men- even men who would be termed "hot"- and I have never started out thinking they were attractive ( not ugly just not hot) until I got to know them and then chemistry kicked in. Every guy I have gone out with has been my 'type' until the next one lol. Yes, there are a few things which are common to all, but also vast differences.

Well I am an old fat woman, what do I know?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 2/4/2016 3:54:51 AM

Oh Vannili I gotta say I love you and missed you ! [/quote}


I love you too coffetogo11127 , It has been a while I haven't visited the forums, I am glad that you still remember me..
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/6/2016 10:34:28 PM
Oh fat schmat. Fat. Fat fat fat. FAT!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXFgNhyP4-A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APfccqpw8A4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Euw3Km4ESns

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoTQ3aOEz54
 HyperDrifterRay
Joined: 10/31/2015
Msg: 59
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/9/2016 9:44:28 PM
Firstly, I don't like the term "Fat" and would rather use "Body positive" Secondly, you do understand they are human beings just as you? As in "they have emotions"? Of course it's normal that they would be offended as much as any person. I do commend you for replying to them and not ignoring them cruelly. Thirdly, let me ask a simple question. If you would meet a person that would be completely perfect... let's say almost perfect, would you turn her down just because of not your preferable body size? You can't judge someone solely on their body type.
 LetitiaLeGrande
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Posted: 2/9/2016 11:32:47 PM
hyperdrifterray

call it whatever you like, but fat is fat. Looks are important and of course people are judged, at least initially, on their appearances. We have our preferences and so be it. How is anyone perfect or almost perfect if they are not a preferred body size?
 a_djentleman
Joined: 1/24/2016
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/10/2016 12:03:02 AM

call it whatever you like, but fat is fat. Looks are important and of course people are judged, at least initially, on their appearances. We have our preferences and so be it. How is anyone perfect or almost perfect if they are not a preferred body size?


Let's see a pic of you, miss "Le Grande". Let's judge how perfect YOU are, tough talker. I can't imagine anyone at 58 who's rocking the mantras of a beauty-first world. This guy has multitudes the articulation, multitudes the depth, multitudes the balls your "forums only" shill profile could ever have. Let's see the appearances you got that shame this guy.
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
Msg: 62
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Posted: 2/10/2016 12:46:06 AM

call it whatever you like, but fat is fat. Looks are important and of course people are judged, at least initially, on their appearances. We have our preferences and so be it. How is anyone perfect or almost perfect if they are not a preferred body size?



You're right, in one sense: a preference is a preference. Sometimes people shrink the size of their pool so shallowly and narrowly that they emerge, gasping for air, wondering to where all of their fantasized prospects have sailed.
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/10/2016 12:49:57 AM

Firstly, I don't like the term "Fat" and would rather use "Body positive" Secondly, you do understand they are human beings just as you?


They don't even see their preferred fish as whole human beings -- only in their physically attractive parts that appease their morbidly obese egos.
 Cycling99
Joined: 12/14/2014
Msg: 64
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Posted: 2/10/2016 3:31:28 AM
Obesity has risen to epidemic levels in the US and other places in the world. The World Health Organization has a comprehensive way to deal with childhood overweight and obesity and has sobering info about it. People need to deal pragmatically with the issue and put their defense mechanisms away. However it is noted that most people will simple rationalize their behavior to avoid change. It is sad, especially with childhood overweight and obesity situations.
 pennsylvaniasummer
Joined: 2/2/2016
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/10/2016 4:30:16 AM
It's the same as a facially ugly broke short male that believes he deserves a hot chick
 lil_poppy
Joined: 1/18/2016
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/10/2016 6:05:51 AM
Obesity IS an epidemic and putting "pretty" words to "fat" or obese like "Big and Beautiful" is not doing anyone any favors. A few extra pounds is fat, anything more than that is is obese.

That being said, I could lose 10 pounds. I don't mind a guy being a little bigger, I'm not partial to thin or bony guys. But "Big and Beautiful", fat or obese , no thanks.
 HyperDrifterRay
Joined: 10/31/2015
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/10/2016 6:37:53 AM
When i was talking about body positivity, I was not talking about morbid obesity. There's totally a difference between having belly and having severe health issues and risks. Honestly, I do acknowledge that a bit of attraction and preferences are considered when messaging someone but it shouldn't be a critical factor as some may think. Many friends I know that are in a relationship are with people outside their preferences!
 HyperDrifterRay
Joined: 10/31/2015
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/10/2016 6:49:00 AM
We do have preferences and I couldn't say otherwise but if you solely restrict yourself on them, you might miss of knowing a cool person! Dating is about the chemistry about two people wether they are of different body size, religion, nationality and even more.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/10/2016 6:57:31 AM
Self-righteousness, arrogance, smugness, and the feeling of freedom to be "Brutally honest" and judgmental, have also risen to epidemic levels in the USA and elsewhere..
 BlackOnyx48
Joined: 1/7/2016
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/10/2016 6:59:43 AM
I guess the gate swings both ways...I'm 48 years old and a Husky guy...yet most of the women that contact me are younger, and shapely...I prefer women closer to my age...I simply can start training a chick......
 FGRN83
Joined: 1/21/2016
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/10/2016 8:13:51 AM
The 4 words: Demand Full Body Shots. Caveat Emptor.
 maybeebaybee1
Joined: 1/3/2016
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/10/2016 8:47:33 AM
I wouldn't say the fat chicks get any more offended than the fat old guys when I tell them I'm not interested...especially if the need viagra lol
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 73
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Posted: 2/10/2016 1:19:24 PM
Also demand DNA analysis, right, Der Führer? Would not want touch anyone less than 100.0000% Slav..

Just imagine if there were any 'zios' or 'coloreds' or 'hispanics'' back in her family tree?

You'd get drummed put of the local Bund and Klavern if such ever came to light..right?
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 74
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Posted: 2/10/2016 1:39:28 PM

Obesity IS an epidemic and putting "pretty" words to "fat" or obese like "Big and Beautiful" is not doing anyone any favors. A few extra pounds is fat, anything more than that is is obese.


What are the “favors” you think you are doing by calling people “fat” and/or “obese?” Will fat/obese people be overwhelmed with gratitude and recognize the error of their ways, according to you, and rush to the gym?

You say you could lose ten pounds, so according to your own yardstick, “a few extra pounds is fat,” so you’re fat. There I just did you a favor. Now put down the Twinkies and get on the treadmill, pronto.


Self-righteousness, arrogance, smugness, and the feeling of freedom to be "Brutally honest" and judgmental, have also risen to epidemic levels in the USA and elsewhere..


Agree, well said.
 UnKnownNYMale
Joined: 6/24/2014
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Posted: 2/10/2016 1:50:56 PM

Self-righteousness, arrogance, smugness, and the feeling of freedom to be "Brutally honest" and judgmental, have also risen to epidemic levels in the USA and elsewhere..


Uh......what USA are YOU living in. The USA I'm living in isn't like that. The USA I live in is overly politically correct where brutal honesty is rewarded with one group or another getting you (figuratively) lynched......personally, and professionally. They will ruin your life if they can.
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