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 caballerosiempre
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OK , I do understand the anger, as many people prefer not to accept responsibility, but prefer to ascribe problems to a "conspiracy" of Big Food, Big Pharma , or whatever. Although even in the USA there remain as well as the obese, many fit healthy people as well?

It is just a coincidence that obesity rates are so much higher in countries where a large percentage of people would rather get in their car and drive 2 blocks rather than ( GOD FORBID!) Walk it..

And a high percentage choose to eat crap processed and fast food, often while sitting in their car.

You can eat 3 meals a day, all without leaving your car..drive-throughs so convenient.

Yes..gotta be it..coincidence!..

Not speaking about specific individuals..but trends..probability..
 Maleman999
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Posted: 2/13/2016 8:07:27 AM

You can eat 3 meals a day, all without leaving your car..drive-throughs so convenient.


I rarely go to a fast food place, but it makes me wonder when I go to one that has a long line up at the drive-thru, why people would rather sit in their car/truck, wasting gas, for 15, 20 minutes or however long than taking the drastic step of getting out their vehicle and walking 20 feet to the door and go inside. I always go inside to order, and I always check to see if I have what I ordered. It's easier to fix a wrong order when inside than while in a vehicle and about to drive away.

Bur I guess it's part of the current culture that teaches people it's a horrible sin to have to get off your butt to do anything, and that's why our homes are filled with remote control gadgets and people have 5 or 6 remotes lying around. Pretty soon, everybody is going to have a crane in their home that's hung from the ceiling, that will pick up and transport people to go from room to room, which will also be remote controlled.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 2/13/2016 8:44:46 AM

So what do you base your assertion on that the majority of obese people do not have a medical condition? Anything factual or just a gut feeling?


My viewpoint is not a gut feeling. It is based on things that I have read and seen.

See what I wrote on msg 93. The percentage of Americans that are obese have increased in recent years. About a third of Americans are now considered to be obese. Like another poster said, most other advanced countries have a lower percentage of people that are obese. I don't think medical conditions have suddenly become much more common in the past 20-30 years in just the US and maybe a few other countries. If anything, there might be improved and better treatment for some ( not all ) medical conditions compared to the past.

Do an internet search for reasons for obesity. Yes there are other reasons such as lack of sleep, age, medical conditions, quitting smoking etc that can contribute to weight gain. But the biggest reasons that are often mentioned for weight gain and obesity are poor diet and exercise habits.

http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Obesity/pages/causes.aspx
http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obesity/basics/causes/con-20014834
 TrvstInKarma
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Posted: 2/13/2016 10:08:45 AM
I agree, most obese people are not obese because of medical reasons, but due to poor lifestyle choices. YOu can gain a little weight from lack of sleep (I put on a few pounds if I'm sleep deprived), but you don't become obese. I have a dear friend who is obese, and the reason she is obese is because she eats crap and doesn't move. Simple as that.
 SunshineGirl__
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Posted: 2/13/2016 2:26:00 PM
What do people blame their azzholeness on I wonder.
 marrakech2
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Posted: 2/13/2016 4:12:43 PM
^^^ The same thing we all blame our azzholeness or b1tchiness or whatever on - someone or something else. Hell, some are totally blind to it.
 rockstartrucker82
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Posted: 2/13/2016 4:58:10 PM

I think all those plus size people are just lovely and clearly they are in no way responsible for their awful state of porkiness. Absolutely not their fault. It's always a genetic/thyroid/medical problem. Always.


Thank you! Finally, someone believes me. I actually have a medical disorder that makes me eat way too much cake and pudding, especially when it's cake with pudding between the layers. :)
 revoskeepnus
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Posted: 2/14/2016 3:37:43 PM
the soils are depleted. You actually have to consume more calories to get the vitamins you need, which are damn near non existent in toxic fast food.
we're eating crap food, the animals we eat are fed crap food...
sometimes it's a mental problem, sometimes physical.
generally speaking though, the govt. tells us the food is safe, and we believe, when in reality it is pure poison.

Sedentary lifestyles of course contribute to it, but there's also plenty of gym freaks that drop dead as well,and thin girls with heart problems from not eating enough. actually, in Israel anorexia/bulimia are the #1 killers of girls age 18-25, surpassing accidents,etc. So, we kinda have an unhealthy relationship with weight all over the world... whether it's too much or too little.

Also, as a lot of people have probably noticed... the northern US tends to be skinnier than the south. I have a bit of a theory on that: it takes more calories to stay warm (so they burn more just existing)... and southerners generally don't go outside on the 100+ days, which is a good portion of the good weather time we ought to be outside.

I've been methhead skinny and pleasantly plump. I exercise as much as possible, and don't really worry about my size or the number on the scale.
My sugar is always perfect and so is my cholesterol/blood pressure, etc.
 south_city
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:44:41 AM

Sedentary lifestyles of course contribute to it, but there's also plenty of gym freaks that drop dead as well,and thin girls with heart problems from not eating enough. actually, in Israel anorexia/bulimia are the #1 killers of girls age 18-25, surpassing accidents,etc. So, we kinda have an unhealthy relationship with weight all over the world... whether it's too much or too little.


Of course, being extremely thin isn't healthy either and yes even fit people can have health problems. But it's the percentages or odds though. Clearly being obese increases the chances of having various health problems. BTW interesting theory about why you think people in South are more overweight in general.
 caballerosiempre
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:51:14 AM
Don't see many obese people in Panama City..it does get quite hot and humid. .nor in other countries and places where it's often well over 35 C. Or 95 F..

besides arguing about longevity, being a good weight, not obese, feels better, less sweating, likely more choice in partners, easier to keep clean,etc, etc.
Standard economy class airline seats can't be too comfy if your waist exceeds 40" or so..for example. .
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/15/2016 9:23:54 AM

the soils are depleted. You actually have to consume more calories to get the vitamins you need, which are damn near non existent in toxic fast food.
we're eating crap food, the animals we eat are fed crap food...

That's not at all a reason why so many people are obese - LOL. People who get warm fuzzies over "wholesome", "whole", "organic" like a 13 year old kid watching porn always makes my eyes roll. Even in a variety of most food out there having a lack of pound for pound Efficient nutrition isn't the reason people get fat. Only a fool would use that as an excuse to over-eat on yummie steaks & pies to "get my 100% Vitamin C and Zinc for the day", fooling themselves as their "method". Or blaming their obesity on a lack of vitamins and a daily vitamin or purposely added vitamins on some of the foods they eat being the reason that they're 200lbs instead of 145lbs. Completely ridiculous.

Sedentary lifestyles of course contribute to it,

For all practical purposes, that is NOT the reason for obesity in 'Merica. Genetic issues (like some brand of native americans due to their metabolism) or genetic deficiencies or uber-sensitivities (like an allergy in some sense) to certain things they do eat is a small % -- sure. But that's not the obesity problem.

Grandmaw's "home cooked meals" (insert wholesomeness warm-fuzzies here!) will get one FAT just as much, too. In our culture, we have McDonalds down every block and high-calorie yummy foods at every corner, etc. It's a culture thing to gorge. To eat well would be saying no to much of grandmaw's "home cooking". But like other things in American culture, we love to Consume A Lot of what's good. It's the American way. That being coupled with what's easily obtainable (and gorging on it) is the cause of obesity.

It boils down to calories in, calories out -- and a non WAY out of wack balance of carbs, fats, and protein. It's not hard to do that, even in 'Merica.

One male teacher as an experiment (who was overweight) ate at McDonalds every day -- but just counted his calories of what he was supposed to eat, and STOPPED at 2k or so calories every day. He lost weight. Cholesterol and blood pressure went down. Although not the OPTIMAL diet I'm sure (they do offer some stuff that's decent, but that's limited) -- the cause of obesity is over-eating. Nom nom nom nom nom -- 'Merica! ;)
 caballerosiempre
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Posted: 2/15/2016 9:28:39 AM
The bonus of the internet..it offers endless excuses as to why one is a certain way or has failed in some aspect.

but sitting on your butt on the Internet burns a lot fewer calories than the physical work of yesteryear..
 revoskeepnus
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Posted: 2/15/2016 10:39:00 AM
I didn't say it was an excuse... But to obtain trace minerals you really do have to eat more.
For instance... Magnesiuu! Deficiency is rampant and causes heart disease... People could subconsciously be eatinmore to get that mineral and heart disease gets blamed on the weight. Ju doesn't make sense to blame it all on the fat.

Gee.. I wonder why ppl livinnext to a beach are thinner?? I'm talking about city ppl with minimal greenspace /unsafe neighborhoods etc. Fact is it takes more energy to keep warm in colder climates and not sweating in the summer is really bad for you. I'm sure we have all been to a heavy persons home in the summer and felt like we were freezing to death.
NYC has lots of thin ppl too cuz you have to walk a lot. When you live in rural areas its juat different. The culture has become motorized (4 wheelers,trucks vs horses and hiking). And... Although gardening is becoming more popular... The older ways of doimg things have been abandoned while the recipes stay te same.

Sorry for typos kindle typing isnt at great.

But im nof making excuses. I eat as healthy as i can... Get tons of exercise when possible.. But im still overweight according to BMI. My blood tests are perfect though... So i dont sweat the chart. I'm thick strong, and have had cellulite since 3rd grade. The chart or some gym rats idea of perfection don't stop me from feeling beautiful.
 revoskeepnus
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Posted: 2/15/2016 10:44:17 AM
The mental part could be related to mineral deficiency... The good feelings from overeating might just be the brain saying yes... You fed me that substance. People focus a lot on being lazy.. But once u get so fat you feel like shit..are still malnourished.. And just pile on more to feel good again.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/15/2016 11:11:33 AM

The mental part could be related to mineral deficiency...

No, that's not why people eat too much. Although that can play a role in society where inefficient diets are Easy to come by and some people capitalizing on it while having sensitivities Contributing to why they're fat -- that's not The reason. It's not hard to avoid a Poor diet. It's hard to get on a Very Efficient diet. It's the easily-obtainable choice selection that drives people to get fat. It's culture -- and warm-fuzzies of grandmaw's home cooking does Not Help -- even when it has more nutrients than a run at a fast food place. You don't need an optimal diet to not be fat.

It's a game of checkers, not chess. The complexity is just will power. People don't like to consistently exercise or count their calories. Take a solidly obese person -- have them count their calories and limit to 1,800 - 2,200 a day depending on their body, while not going to Whole Foods to over-spend like crazy -- but just not the worst selection, and one with a good amount of protein which isn't hard to come by. They lose weight. A small % will have to tweak things of course, like lower sugar than others, etc. And of course, take brisk walks every day in the least to keep their juices flowing. Logically, it's SIMPLE to lose weight and requires nothing special or complex. It's just Emotionally HARD for many.
 revoskeepnus
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:07:52 PM
Okay well I guess you are missing my point

Our govt allows chemicals and processes banned in many countries.
Health does not equal skinny
When people get addicted to food in an unhealthy manner... There could be an underlyingn malnourishment CONTRIBUTING to their weight.

Its not the only part... Of course exercisenplaus a role in health, but there are a lot of other factors at play... Not just calorie intake and exercise.

In fact.. People that lose weight that way often gain it right back. A holistic approach and identifying nutritional deficiencies is the best method for losing weight permanently. Just throwing that in there... You can be muscle bound and still as deficient as a heavy person. Your body runs on elements not just fat, protein and carbs. When you only approach it from that side you are setting yourself up for disease.

so... I guess to answer the OPs question. No I don't get offended if someone thinks I'm fat... Because I know appewareances can be deceiving and weight is not the only factor to consider. My ex was a runner.. Could not keep up with me climbing the hills... Don't assume someone is unhealthy just because they are a little thick... And don't assume an aesthetically pleasing body is healthy
 drinkthesunwithmyface
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Posted: 2/15/2016 5:06:41 PM

the soils are depleted. You actually have to consume more calories to get the vitamins you need, which are damn near non existent in toxic fast food.
we're eating crap food, the animals we eat are fed crap food...

I didn't say it was an excuse... But to obtain trace minerals you really do have to eat more.

First of all, this ^ is so outrageous I think that it's a practical joke. The soils are depleted? The soils are depleted? Speaking generally, if a plant grows enough in the first place to end up in our grocery stores, then it's got the vitamins that it's supposed to have. A plant doesn't magically exist and keep on living without having some vitamins.

And second of all...trace minerals? To obtain trace minerals? What the hell are you talking about?? The way that you obtain the right minerals and vitamins is to eat the right things. Not to just stuff yourself with more and more.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:17:20 PM

Okay well I guess you are missing my point

No, you're refusing to take what I'm saying point by point and just saying the same thing again. I see what you're saying. NO, lack of optimal nutrients in the soil in certain places and chemicals allowed in certain foods is Not the reason there's great obesity in America. I said that before, I'll say it again right there. You're not coming up with some new idea to enlighten people. There's crackpots who melt with glee at the word "holistic", "whole food", "nutritional" -- will think anything that's mass produced has made the country fat, slow, less intelligent, addicted to drugs -- you name it. :) So I understand what you're saying. It's not some "hidden truth", nor true as some reason society's fat. :)

This thread is about fatness. When it comes to types of food helping to lead people to get fatter, it's about an unbalanced diet. Like eating non-filling but calorie-high foods -- you'll end up eating more. The obesity is about people eating pizzas, ding dongs, extra helpings of grandmaws wholesome lasagna, and lots of Junk Food (that pound for pound carries a lot of calories).

Combine too much of that with too little of physical activity -- you could have all that food stemming from nutrient rich soil that don't use questionable chemicals -- it'll still be junk food, and it'll still lead people to being obese. How nutrient rich the soil is in which the sugar cane and flour comes from in junk food isn't going to matter -- neither is the 100% legal but questionable-by-nutrionist chemicals. It's that it's non filling junk food -- low protein, high fat, very high sugar -- leading to the consumption of Too Many calories taken in. That is what makes 'Merica fat n "happy". :)
 geekgrrrl
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:40:59 PM
norwegianguy456 said;
This thread is about fatness.


No it's not. It's about offending others with ones need to shove their personal preferences in the faces of others. If you're going to hijack this thread at least know what it was originally about.

revoskeepnus said:
Okay well I guess you are missing my point


Why bother trying to explain it? They don't want to get it, they aren't going to get it. Have you read the profiles of those you are trying to convince? They aren't worth the effort. Why would you want to maintain a barbie like figure for men who only see you as a wet place to park a dyck? They don't want relationships, they don't want to pay for your coffee, they are emotionally bankrupt, they don't want to do anything for you. But you need to be perfect for using or they'll try and demean you finding any imperfection they can.

I dunno about you but I find it laughable. Personally I have no need for them...lol
 revoskeepnus
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:46:21 PM
Look buddy. I'm not fat... I'm just not some perfectly toned gymrat...
The moral of the story is anyone can lose weight... But shallow people can't be given depth. It only comes from experience and time.
America might be the biggest country, but others are catching up fast.
And... Its not all caloric intake exercise. Go ahead and believe that if you want. I didn't say a dang thing about organic. Perhaps you should google the term holistic before using it.

I just spent 32 days in jail eating "portions". I lost weight, hair, muscle tone, had ticks and spasms etc... Sure the calories were less but it was a terrible diet. Losing weight the wrong way is never a good idea. Granted... There's a point people get at when they have to lose for health problems, but its not just simple calories. It has to include top quality nutrition or your body isn't going to get any better.

Honestly Americans are dumb and trust brands/govt approval. Our govt is nought and paid for USDA stamp doesn't mean safety anymore.

NO GEEKGIRL. didn't even look at their profiles. Just debating... Sorta
Sapiosexual...

And to the other guy on the next page... Fit and trim doesn't equal healthy. Quite certain both men aren't readinmy posts... CONTRINUTING FACTOR.. We are freaking sick... Have unhealthy relationships with food... And being thin doesn't mean you are well.
My mom has been bigger than her sister for quite some time...guess which one has the pacemaker and which one works like a mule all day. Anyways... I'm done with this. Books R your friend ppl. You can't just look at a body and call it healthy


Read magnificent magnesium

Listen to dead doctors don't lie on internet

And honestly..OP ... That chick was just crazy.. Had nothing to do with Herr weight. But instead of insulting a woman.. Block and go on.
 caballerosiempre
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:51:14 PM
If it's the soil how to explain the tens of millions in the USA who are still fit and slim?
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:54:12 PM
""Why bother trying to explain it? They don't want to get it, they aren't going to get it. Have you read the profiles of those you are trying to convince? They aren't worth the effort. Why would you want to maintain a barbie like figure for men who only see you as a wet place to park a dyck? They don't want relationships, they don't want to pay for your coffee, they are emotionally bankrupt, they don't want to do anything for you. But you need to be perfect for using or they'll try and demean you finding any imperfection they can.""
_________

Someone didn't get chocolates or roses for Valentines Day?? Lol
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:08:38 PM
Sundownertoo said:
Someone didn't get chocolates or roses for Valentines Day?? Lol


I got a dozen yellow roses. Your point is?
 sundownertoo
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:42:49 PM
You must have bought them yourself. I like a woman that can look after her own needs as opposed to being "used" as you described in your comments.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:48:43 PM

No it's not. It's about offending others with ones need to shove their personal preferences in the faces of others. If you're going to hijack this thread at least know what it was originally about.

Pot calling the kettle what on hijacking? You got someone preaching soil & chemicals being the main source of obesity in 'Merica. It's simple. It's not. And yes, it is about fatness. Read the OP. :)

Look buddy. I'm not fat... I'm just not some perfectly toned gymrat...

Dunno if you're talking about me -- I wasn't talking about you or your body. If you were referring to me, it's evidence you're not reading what I write.

The moral of the story is anyone can lose weight...

Yes, true. And I also agree non-obesity doesn't mean uber-healthy. But that's aside from the topic of fatness here...

And... Its not all caloric intake exercise. Go ahead and believe that if you want.

It's massively that. My point is it's NOT about how good the quality of soil it is and levels of 100% legal but sometimes questionable chemicals in some foods are used. That's what you've been espousing. It's calories in, calories out + exercise. One can be more efficient at the calorie in / calorie out depending on their level of simple carbs & proteins, etc. One's mileage may vary and not be too affected, but in general, it can definitely help over the long run.

But when it comes to obesity in 'Merica -- people eat too much and move too little. It's as simple as that when it comes to obesity. 'Merica isn't "fat" because people are eating only 2k-2.5k calories a day and getting out and moving (even without a gym membership). It's because they eat too many calories and move too little. No soil or chemicals, are a factor in the grand scheme of things.
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