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 Viper1j
Joined: 2/6/2015
Msg: 51
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Why don't I ever find the toys full of free stuff before they get broken? (sigh)
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/23/2016 6:36:36 PM
Vannili,

never say you are desperate for a man!!!. It will lead to all sorts of trouble. lol!! Do you really want a guy in his sixties? I know I don't. lol!!

Forget any warnings about any man named or shamed on here. They can all revamp their profiles and become someone new and really it is only one side of the story we are hearing, right!!
 AussieNancy
Joined: 2/19/2015
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/23/2016 7:11:50 PM

Forget any warnings about any man named or shamed on here. They can all revamp their profiles and become someone new


Very true.
Naming and shaming used to result in posting bans but there's no one here to do that now. Yes, we do only hear one side of stories so best to ignore and find out for ones' self if they just happen to get chatting to the same person in question.

And AlieaKova? Same goes with unsubstantiated "warnings" of some posters. Just don't get involved and enjoy the forums as best we can, I say.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/24/2016 6:17:35 AM
Why is the shaming game strictly a female thing to do? I'm sure many guys have met women who seemed to be bat shyt crazy to them, but I haven't seen any posts by guys warning other guys to avoid them.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 1/24/2016 6:36:42 AM
I think the OP is having a case of sour grapes cause this guy had a 10 inch personality...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 2/2/2016 3:46:05 AM

I think the OP is having a case pf sour graped cause this guy is a 10 inch personality


cooldog , I think so too, just his Title it makes me tremble, JOY 2678, is that 2,678 hours or 2,678 minutes ?
Just between us hush,hush, Perhaps the OP worned out his 10 inches personality, for having a good time and great joy with him and she warn other women .............. Well , on my previous post I mention I am hanging 25 % on a thread but if that thread snap I will definetly go for him and I promise I will not bad mouth the dude so that other women will experience what I experience I am saying this on straight face.
 gcdeb
Joined: 4/1/2015
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Posted: 2/2/2016 6:34:44 AM

I'm sure many guys have met women who seemed to be bat shyt crazy to them, but I haven't seen any posts by guys warning other guys to avoid them.
I have. Not as often, but there have been some. Mostly the guys take the passive/aggressive approach and just whinge about "all women".
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/2/2016 8:13:18 AM
In all fairness, I feel that I should probably start a thread warning people about me. (Would that be weird?)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 59
and now the OP is joyless
Posted: 2/2/2016 8:15:56 AM
have no fear, whatsa, we warn all the newbies about you anyway :)

Just kidding, who doesn't need a little joy in their life? not saying Joy had a little one...oh heck.

besides,when us fellows meet some batschit women, we just chalk it up to hormones anyway :)

*duck and hide*
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/2/2016 8:48:49 AM
How does it take a "few" months to find out he is not working,and married?you really need to look for a nice guy,instead of looking for the nasty ones,I honestly do not understand your type of woman,I think it just boils down to being addicted to complaining about men...lots of good guys out there
 10_million
Joined: 1/28/2016
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/2/2016 2:53:09 PM
Understand that online & on POF & even the forums, there are many, many lies/liars & certainly many more half-truths...
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 2/2/2016 4:37:13 PM
There's a good reason why the 'wrong' people keep finding each other, it's because that's who they are, no one who is looking for a good relationship and all that goes with that, is going to be moving in with someone they don't know, who has just as many issues as they do and what better result of all this drama than to get to call out the other person and play victim?
 10_million
Joined: 1/28/2016
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/2/2016 5:00:29 PM

There's a good reason why the 'wrong' people keep finding each other, it's because that's who they are, no one who is looking for a good relationship and all that goes with that, is going to be moving in with someone they don't know, who has just as many issues as they do and what better result of all this drama than to get to call out the other person and play victim?


Correct, IMO. My S.O. & I knew each other through my last job. The distance was waaaay further than I would have considered had I been doing OLD, but the IRL connection overrode all else.

After a certain age, we really should know better.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 2/2/2016 5:29:49 PM
GCDEB

You are right, the men just generalise when they have had a few bad experiences and tar all women with the same brush, i.e. "all women on POF" lol!
 marrakech7
Joined: 1/13/2016
Msg: 65
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Posted: 2/2/2016 5:34:16 PM
^^^ You do the same, you tar every man with same brush in all of your posts. All of them ALL of the time you post.
 coffeetogo127
Joined: 5/16/2015
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/2/2016 6:47:42 PM
My dad's tougher than your dad
 showboatsupreme
Joined: 1/25/2016
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/3/2016 6:19:28 AM
My dad has bigger testicles.



Now he had his cake and ate it too...but YOU BAKED THE CAKE and served it on a silver platter.


I suspect he glazed the cake before it got baked...
 032greg561
Joined: 6/18/2012
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Posted: 2/3/2016 7:56:43 PM
Yeah i understand that HAHA!
 ddawson60
Joined: 1/28/2016
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/3/2016 11:11:43 PM
Seek a secular progressive partner and you'll end up with a liar a thief a deceiver who lives by their rules their values for the wicked shall find no rest all their days, always pursuing for selfishness and pleasures. How people live with out Gods perimeters as a guide in their lives, tend to be disillusion in their belief system that they are more powerful than the father of lies and all his spiritual army who comes against you through other people to destroy. People usually seek like minded people... so one only has themselves to blame for such choices. You know people today seek a way to reduce their expenses, increase their wealth, or fulfill their sin nature. Nothing different when they seek a partner. Be careful what you ask for for you might just get it. Most people also just grow old and never seem to grow up! Just saying...
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/3/2016 11:35:21 PM
I spose when it comes down to it, we all believe what we need to believe. Everyone is just trying to survive, really. I'm thinking that includes subscribing to whatever belief system eleviates our anxiety the most.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/4/2016 4:38:09 AM
I believe in whiskey.

That, and the possibility that one day I will catch the right one. I just got to hit the right river, at the right time, with my belly only half full of the sweet nectar. After that, I know there isn't even a chance, no matter how much faith I have.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/4/2016 5:44:45 AM

Msg 74: Be careful what you ask for for you might just get it.


I sure hope so. I never wish for things I don't want.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 2/8/2016 4:43:41 PM

The job, the dui, the license, all happened during the course of our relationship.

If him losing his job, getting a dui+license suspension happened during the course of your relationship -- there was nothing he was being a FAKE about. Becoming a bad (or worse) catch? OK. But your first post is "fake" if this sentence here in your 3rd post isn't a typo.

Obviously if he was "nothing like his profile," why would you even go on a 2nd date with him? After all, one of the big things is the Pictures. And if you started dating him, definitely the surface personality of him at least (along with looks) were accurate.

Also -- him being separated -- he never said he WAS divorced. He was separated. No lying there.

I think the main thing is is that he went into a tail spin when losing his job & getting a dui, which broke down the relationship at least to some degree. And all that led him to start cheating on you, which he was probably indulging a bit behind the scenes before everything totally fell apart.

In the end, no, he wasn't some total Fake -- more like a total Flake. Big difference. :)
 mapleleaf12
Joined: 10/4/2014
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Posted: 2/11/2016 9:25:30 AM
well i have a job, drivers license is current and no points removed and i am divorced...pick me pick me..damn i live in ontario canada
 dreamyvisions
Joined: 4/1/2011
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Posted: 2/18/2016 12:15:35 AM
Curious if you were over em because he was such burden--why did you look for em on here the day you both broke up?
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