I meant create an illusion of exclusivity for the people I want to get messages from, in case you missed my meaning. So that they are more likely to message me. I also don't care to receive messages from 18 year olds at 29 anyway.
Nobody missed the 'meaning'. You are missing the point. Repeatedly. But that's OK. You just keep thinking that'll work and close your eyes real tight and wish real hard. It may come true.
In the meantime, perhaps you could actually offer something compelling for them to read.