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 hotmerlot
Joined: 3/25/2016
Msg: 66
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When he breaks things then leave them lay on the floor for him to pick up. It's his mess and it's his problem.

Record him when he calls you names and play that recording back on Facebook for everyone to hear.

And dump him! He has no respect for you and this will escalate in violence if you don't leave.

Get some pride.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 67
He throws and says mean things when he is mad
Posted: 4/6/2016 8:37:49 AM

The gun because a cop on the phone and piece of paper in your hand are no good when a raving lunatic is in front of you.


Totally disagree with this statement. Statistics say that such gun more often than not was then used by the man on the woman. Many a times these cases of domestic violence end up in homicide simply because when tempers flared, there was a gun available, and a gun was used.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 68
He throws and says mean things when he is mad
Posted: 4/6/2016 8:53:08 AM
Before someone asks for proof of ^^^^

http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/hicrc/firearms-research/gun-threats-and-self-defense-gun-use-2/
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 69
He throws and says mean things when he is mad
Posted: 4/6/2016 10:31:09 AM
^^^^

That is awesome GTO. Here's another article. I condensed it, and gave the source so our fellow forumnites can read it.

Firearms have been touted as a great equalizer between the sexes. But in cases where self-defense matters most, women tend to find their own weapons turned against them.

“Just putting a weapon in the woman’s hand is not going to reduce the number of fatalities or gunshot victims that we have. Too many times, their male counterpart or spouse will be able to overpower them and take that gun away.”

And within American borders, women die at higher rates from suicide, homicide, and accidental firearm deaths in states where guns are more widely available. This is true even after controlling for factors such as urbanization, alcohol use, education, poverty, and divorce rates.

What’s more surprising is how many of these deaths occur in the home, at the hands of a male partner. In a study in the Journal of Trauma, A.L. Kellermann, director of the RAND Institute of health, and his coauthor J.A. Mercy concluded: “More than twice as many women are killed with a gun used by their husbands or intimate acquaintances than are murdered by strangers using guns, knives, or any other means.”

Another large case-control study compared women who were murdered by their intimate partner with a control group of battered women. Only 16 percent of the women who had been abused, but not murdered, had guns in their homes, whereas 51 percent of the murder victims did. In fact, not a single study to date has shown that the risk of any crime including burglary, robbery, home invasion, or spousal abuse against a female is decreased through gun ownership. Though there are examples of women using a gun to defend themselves, they are few and far between, and not statistically significant.

The Atlantic article by • Evan DeFilippis

http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/02/having-a-gun-in-the-house-doesnt-make-a-woman-safer/284022/
 BadResponseGuy
Joined: 3/26/2013
Msg: 70
He throws and says mean things when he is mad
Posted: 4/6/2016 11:33:26 AM
If there's ever a moment you feel abused, scared or in harm's way in a relationship. Then it's not one you need to be in.
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