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 jrhskh
Joined: 2/6/2017
Msg: 226
Why are guys online so biased against black womenPage 10 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
LOL So funny. Yea I mentioned in a previous post that I deleted my profile and created this one because a catfish experience. I wanted some advice. SHAME ON ME for forgetting I just selected whatever when I created this profile. LOL the responses though are funny. So I guess this was an alter ego profile, I'm just a private persona and needed advice
 Maria11418
Joined: 12/15/2016
Msg: 227
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 2/25/2017 7:24:48 AM

So I guess this was an alter ego profile, I'm just a private persona and needed advice

Whatever is your best way of entertaining yourself. On a dating site.
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 228
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 2/26/2017 6:15:27 AM
"Why be a Liar with your profile?" (Page: 1, 2, 3 )

Dontcha just hate it when a response is posted on the wrong thread? LOL
 LucilleDixon
Joined: 12/18/2016
Msg: 229
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/1/2017 5:25:07 PM

My theory is more to do with the attitude, than skin color.

If you're the "catch an attitude" type black woman, you may be intimidating men vs them not finding you attractive.

I know a lot of black men that date white girls exclusively, as they're more fun to be around, for that very reason.

I can only speak from my experience with black women. Physical attraction, was never an issue. It always boiled down the the person, itself. Their aura, attitude, etc.

Again, just experience. I've dated a handful of black women, and from experience, many had chips on their shoulders. I grew up with a chip on mine, and made peace with life as a teen. So to me, its highly unattractive.

For me, its not the intimidation however, as I'd just put someone in their place. Its just the level of how unattractive certain attitudes are, to begin with.

And no -- not all black women are attitude catching, chip on their shoulders having, type of people.

However, if you are -- you can only look at you, not your skin color.


You're pathetic and ignorant. Maybe the BW had an attitude towards you because of your attitude towards us. Check yourself before you try checking someone else. You may not have gotten the memo but you're still a black man in America. The odds aren't exactly in your favor, neither. Change your outlook, your view is clearly clouded (biased).
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 230
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/2/2017 6:53:31 AM

You're pathetic and ignorant. Maybe the BW had an attitude towards you because of your attitude towards us. Check yourself before you try checking someone else. You may not have gotten the memo but you're still a black man in America. The odds aren't exactly in your favor, neither. Change your outlook, your view is clearly clouded (biased).


I get your overall point. But the person you responded to lives in Canada.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 231
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Posted: 3/2/2017 8:27:29 AM
^^^^^Perhaps we can say he's in North America. Close enough?
 ebolakitty
Joined: 3/19/2016
Msg: 232
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/2/2017 10:09:00 AM

You're pathetic and ignorant. Maybe the BW had an attitude towards you because of your attitude towards us. Check yourself before you try checking someone else. You may not have gotten the memo but you're still a black man in America. The odds aren't exactly in your favor, neither. Change your outlook, your view is clearly clouded (biased).


Hogwash! Pretty much everyone is sick of putting up with BW. People in jobs that involve public contact dread seeing an obese black queen, complete with hair helmet and a train of malnourished urchins, waddle in the door. Say what you will about black men but law abiding black men DENOUNCE criminal black men. Black women approve of and endorse the antics of noxious hoodrats. Yes, black men labor under enormous handicaps in this society. It has long been proven that their mothers burdened them with those disadvantages and not their fathers.
 NoxzemaWA
Joined: 2/19/2017
Msg: 233
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/2/2017 4:33:56 PM

I get your overall point. But the person you responded to lives in Canada.


Black people's odds aren't much better there, either. Whether or not he lives in Canada or the U.S. is not the point.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 234
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/3/2017 6:58:58 AM

Black people's odds aren't much better there, either. Whether or not he lives in Canada or the U.S. is not the point.


I'm not agreeing with his generalization of black women. It was just a comment on 1 particular sentence on msg 241. Since I'm not sure of the racial climate in Canada relative to the US.
 LucilleDixon
Joined: 12/18/2016
Msg: 235
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/15/2017 9:14:06 PM

I get your overall point. But the person you responded to lives in Canada.

His stupid a** is still a Black man and regardless of his location, he's still going to be a Black man. Racism doesn't stop at the U.S. border. He isn't special just because he's Black and in Canada.

Why do I feel like border is spelled wrong, though...... =/
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 236
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Posted: 3/16/2017 9:21:41 AM
^^^^^Border is spelled correct. Are you thinking "boarder"?

I reread his post. Full of the typical generalizations. No wonder you're upset.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 237
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/16/2017 9:41:23 AM
I admit, I do have biases against green or purple women. I'll work on overcoming that.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 238
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Posted: 3/16/2017 10:25:22 AM
A race does not have an attitude, and to even suggest as much is foolish. Most of the black women I have met in my life have been down-to-earth and wonderful human beings. Unfortunately, I have to admit that race is a big part of the U.S. I don't like it. I hate it to the core. Why can't we all just see people as they are? Most people are beautiful in one way or the other. Race gives that beauty an accent and nothing more. I care more about finding a woman that has the same interests as mine. I don't care what her color is. If she likes anime, is as perverted as me, and can hold a good intellectual conversation, then she is a winner in my book.
 LucilleDixon
Joined: 12/18/2016
Msg: 239
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 3/17/2017 5:17:52 PM

^^^^^Border is spelled correct. Are you thinking "boarder"?

I reread his post. Full of the typical generalizations. No wonder you're upset


Lol, yeah I was thinking there was supposed to be an A in it. You know how you sometimes look at words and they just don't look right? That's how I felt when I typed that. And yes, his statement is full of generalizations that basically put down black women but he's sitting there uplifting white women. How incredibly idiotic.
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 240
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 6/19/2017 4:15:45 PM
I'm not against black women at all, but never see, any single black women in my area? I'm not sure if I would, date them or not? Never had the choice to...maybe they might have better attitudes, than some of the damaged goods, I see on this site? Surely they can't be any worse...I don't want a single mother...so that rules out 99% of women in my search area...I don't want baggage, unresolved issues, mentally scared and women with a victim mentality...What happened to strong minded women, who like and respect men, see men as more , than just a pay packet, want to love a man and spend time with a man? They must have moved to another planet or they are hiding?
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 241
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 6/19/2017 4:54:06 PM
Laidbackguy1964- Look, your attitude is what is hurting you more than anything anyone else is doing.
Which is more likely?
The majority of women are damaged goods, the same thing happens to you, over and over again, or that YOU are the problem?
If you are waiting for someone with no baggage, I assure you, you WILL wind up alone.
We all have some baggage, even you, as evidenced by your posts.
The key is finding baggage you can accept. They accept your's as well.
Whoever told you there are people out there with NO issues at all, go find them and slap them, they lied to you!
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 242
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 6/19/2017 5:39:34 PM

Laidbackguy1964- Look, your attitude is what is hurting you more than anything anyone else is doing.
Which is more likely?
The majority of women are damaged goods, the same thing happens to you, over and over again, or that YOU are the problem?
If you are waiting for someone with no baggage, I assure you, you WILL wind up alone.
We all have some baggage, even you, as evidenced by your posts.
The key is finding baggage you can accept. They accept your's as well.
Whoever told you there are people out there with NO issues at all, go find them and slap them, they lied to you!


Not my attitude...I'm just being honest....both my previous exes had major issues....One was previously raped by her ex husband and had a lot of unresolved issues....the one before her was a gold digger, manipulator, bully and user, with bi-polar disorder...so I can safely say, that I was not the problem...I want a mentally sound woman and see very little evidence, that many are on this site...I can spot a woman with issues, a mile away and that's why I keep posting my links..in hope that some women get help to resolve, those issues and improve dating as a whole, for both men and women...

I get rather sick of seeing women playing the victim card and harping on about how bad, the man treated them, but never looking at themselves and the way they may have neglected the man, used the man and took the man for granted...They never seem to take any responsibility at all, for their choices and blame everything on the man...

Some women have never had positive role models in their lives and never understood how good man can be...they learn at a very young age, that men are not dependable, because a single mother teaches them, to have that mindset and they become toxic towards men...All they have to do is get counselling and resolve those issues and they could be happy in life, but they don't and continue to hate on men instead...it's very sad to see this happen and I do wish, that they would wake up and get that help...

Women should have love, respect and a positive attitude towards men, but some can't, because of the bad men they chose...they keep on picking the bad men and keep on allowing themselves to be the victim, because they think that is all they are worth, but some have got the intelligence to bag a good man and I notice that in their attitudes...it's easy to spot really...good women have the right attitude and don't have a problem with defending a man or aggreeing with a man...but other type will just disagree regardless, without any valid reason or valid argument...I see this on this site all the time

I know how to spot a gold digger, I know how to spot a woman, who has previously been a victim of rape, I know how to spot a man hater, I know how to spot a loose woman, I know how to spot a liar, a manipulator and a mentally scared woman...because I have known them or dated them...I don't want to date another damaged woman, who won't ever get help and counselling to resolve those issues...it's just not worth it...I can be friends with a woman with, unresolved mental problems, but would never again date them...but plenty of guys who would...good luck to them
 Dan6308
Joined: 10/23/2013
Msg: 243
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 6/21/2017 10:34:48 PM
I like black women, find many of them very attractive (I'm white) but perhaps the guys you're thinking about OP are either a bit prejudiced or just have a fantasy about blacks...

I know the OP is gone by the way...:p

But as many say, we all (most) have different tastes...the rest are douches! lol
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
Msg: 244
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Posted: 6/22/2017 9:03:53 PM
LAID BACK GUY writes,,,,
"I know how to spot a gold digger, I know how to spot a woman, who has previously been a victim of rape, I know how to spot a man hater, I know how to spot a loose woman, I know how to spot a liar, a manipulator and a mentally scared woman...because I have known them or dated them...I don't want to date another damaged woman, who won't ever get help and counselling to resolve those issues...it's just not worth it...I can be friends with a woman with, unresolved mental problems, but would never again date them...but plenty of guys who would...good luck to them"

Dude your picker is broke.
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 245
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 6/23/2017 12:12:02 PM

Dude your picker is broke.
Not anymore, because I have a radar and know the signs to look for...chatted to a few online and I knew they had been previously been abused, without even asking them and they admitted it to me, after carefully crafted questioning...My picker is fine
 yourstillhere
Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 246
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Posted: 7/14/2017 6:25:46 PM

Why is the black girl considered "average" in the face to white guys whereas the white girl is hot and pretty to guys?
Personally, I think the black girl is much more attractive and it's not close--not saying the white one isn't attractive though


This is Mother Nature at work. Evolution, and you`re not going to like me anymore after this.

Many white women, look like attractive, loving, goddesses.

Take a look at the census~ blacks represent only 12% of the population in the Western Hemisphere.
Black men are very attractive to many of the white women.
Many black women, look like angry men on here.

Do you see where Mother Nature is taking this?
Literally breeding the black population out of the Hemisphere.

Now myself, I find many Black women quite attractive, but I will never date nor breed with them, because I do not want to contribute to this annihilation of an entire race via selective breeding.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 247
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Posted: 7/14/2017 7:08:44 PM

Many white women, look like attractive, loving, goddesses.


Diana Ross is my goddess...


Many black women, look like angry men on here.


I've seen plenty of white women that look this way >>>
 U21984
Joined: 2/17/2017
Msg: 248
Why are guys online so biased against black women
Posted: 7/16/2017 5:07:16 PM
You guys want to swirl.

Let me invite you to my FAVES list.

NINETY Percent Black women.

Not even kidding!
 pofman666
Joined: 10/5/2016
Msg: 249
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Posted: 7/18/2017 11:38:49 AM
I'm white. I find black and Asian women more attractive. White women all seem quite samey in terms of what they want, and how much time of yours they'll waste.
 ken333
Joined: 12/12/2009
Msg: 250
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Posted: 8/4/2017 6:17:38 PM
I think black women are more attractive as well. However, the ones I've dated recently all have some sort of issue. They are already married, or a drug addict, or they'll need a babysitter and ask me for money. Not being racist but it's unfortunate I haven't found any with their act together.
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