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 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 51
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Full GFE. ? LOL! A bit of a misnomer?

BUT...don't forget we're talking "high caliber attractive" women now...where "regular" women aren't worth a date on a weekend.
So f'd up......imo.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 52
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Posted: 4/26/2016 12:33:10 PM
^^
Yes, we are talking about a polished pretty looking prostitute who hopefully, maybe could make other men feel attraction/jealousy if they see her with the paying guy..and don't know she's a paid professional. ?
The true motivation for some people ? Make others feel jealousy?
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 53
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Posted: 4/26/2016 1:24:01 PM
Someone's been rewatching Pretty Woman. Sure CT.. honest some of the stuff you type I go huh?
$400 here might get you a pepsi head and then a few trips to the STD clinic
Plus side guess when you pay for it they don't make that disappointed face :/
High caliber slays me
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 54
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Posted: 4/26/2016 1:37:34 PM
Somebody got the going rates for the GFE in Pahrump?

I'll do a GFE to 4 date OLD conversion.

vvv

What if I fall in love?
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 55
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Posted: 4/26/2016 1:45:54 PM
Should it include an expected value factoring in the probability of being ripped off, her slipping you a knock-out drug in your drink and taking all your stuff, money, watch, etc., jacked by her pimp, etc.?
And a factor for the probability X cost of needing treatment for STDs, head trauma or stab wounds?
Google says probably around $1, 000 per your question, GFE..says they use models in websites and flyers, who will likely NOT be the actual women you'd meet.
Yes falling in love could be a potential risk I suppose.
 Cdan1957
Joined: 9/17/2013
Msg: 56
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Posted: 4/26/2016 2:34:48 PM
I also did a google search and found basically the same thing. For high priced "escorts" it looks like a $1000 an hour and up. 5 dinners? maybe. A nice restaurant, bottle of wine, couple of drinks could run that much. I would think the top shelf would probably save you from waking up in a bathtub missing a kidney.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 57
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Posted: 4/26/2016 2:52:14 PM

Should it include an expected value factoring in the probability of being ripped off, her slipping you a knock-out drug in your drink and taking all your stuff, money, watch, etc., jacked by her pimp, etc.?

For a legit $1,000 escort, you're not going to get a street-side pimp who's managing hookers who go in and out of a cheap motel in a bad part of town. Of course, you're paying for that big time.

Going back to the 5 dinners to get a 10 -- well, if you can get a 10 to go out with you 5 times at the drop of a hat, them you're in the very top tier. And certainly with many of the 10s, it would be more than just the sex that would be fruitful -- it would go for more deeper successes.

As far as the "cost of getting sex" -- I would figure a well reviewed but not super-fancy escort in one's area (they have forums for that with hilarious stories) -- costing around $300 at say a 7 in looks, would be worth it for some, if just-sex was what they were looking for anyway (as in not even FWB or higher). An average Joe being a '5' could easily burn thru $300 on dates and such over weeks of time before he could park a '7' in his bed to pork. And a lot more time in the dog & pony show going out on umpteen dates to do so - lol.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/26/2016 3:16:53 PM
Y'all should read about the "high class" strippers in high end clubs in NYC who put a Ketamine and Ecstasy mix into the drinks of customers then got their credit and debit cards and maxed then out..Google Roselyn Keo or Samantha Barbash.
One guy they burned for $135, 000 in one night.
The E made them happy, the K made them forget, or not remember anything.
Burned mostly Wall Street type douches, they were afraid to go to the cops because of embarrassment in the business. Or with their wives.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/26/2016 4:21:22 PM
You kidding? Think that $1000 woman going to spring for a fancy hotel room?
* checks calendar.. yes it is 2016*
Some of you must think bread still costs a $1.50
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 60
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Posted: 4/26/2016 4:40:21 PM

Some of you must think bread still costs a $1.50


$1.50?

I paid 39 cents for a whole loaf of wheat bread last night.
On the markdown rack.
It doesn't automatically go stale 1 minute after midnight.


For high priced "escorts" it looks like a $1000 an hour and up.


They can KMA.
There's a sucker born every minute.
 VikingHoosier
Joined: 5/8/2015
Msg: 61
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Posted: 4/26/2016 5:45:38 PM
The receipt from my most recent trip to the grocery store shows I paid $1.39 (American) for a loaf of bread.

My record at the bread outlet store was 2 loaves for $1 and they threw in a third one for free. These were 3 different fancy types, for example 18 grains. Put the bread in a cooler because the dogs were with me. Returned from the next errand to find the dogs had somehow opened the cooler, torn open multiple layers of plastic, and eaten an entire loaf! Still, $1 for 2 loaves for me and one for the pups.
 choppermonkie
Joined: 4/26/2014
Msg: 62
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Posted: 4/26/2016 6:39:19 PM
In my experience, this site works just find in finding women for long term stuff. No different than IRL, just that the volume (number of people) available is larger. If your picker is properly tuned up and you have you own life a little more than half-together, it's pretty easy to find quality women on POF. Simple mis-matched chemistry can eliminate a lot which can be frustrating, but overall there's plenty of good women around.

Guys complain about not having a million bucks in their pocket, or a Ferrari in the garage, or Brad Pitt looks, but those things mean next to nothing if you have a piss-poor attitude about life or come across as desperate. So much of life (relationships, work, etc) is about our own attitudes and outlook. Blaming your situation in life on other people or the government or society or 'them', changes nothing because they're not responsible for you. They can't change your life for you. Only you can because you're the only one responsible for it.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 63
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Posted: 4/26/2016 6:51:42 PM


Only you can because you're the only one responsible for it.


I can't solve your problems, sir, only you can.

- The Big Lebowsi to The Dude
 choppermonkie
Joined: 4/26/2014
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/26/2016 9:11:59 PM

"government or society"
government= the one group that controls wheats prlces
and society follow the rules
usa wheat ls planned from start to cause downfall
then as lf passed off to society ln a gentle move whlch they control
from flrst move anyway


If enough people do something about it, it can be changed. Governments have fallen for far less.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 65
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Posted: 4/26/2016 9:46:18 PM
Sir, folks come here to get laid and hopefully find a LTR.

I appreciate your mental prowess.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 66
Does this site actually work for a guy that wants to find a woman to spend his life with
Posted: 4/27/2016 7:49:19 AM
ya know, chuckie, as I typed that, I figured I should put in a "mr. or missus" but figured that would be too much and who the heck reads my stuff anyway? :) besides, the broads here say there are no mr. rights around here, everyone's here to get laid. i'm sure they can't be wrong. wait, people come here to get laid and find LTR? I thought it was just the cookies.

meanwhile, that's a lot of money for handjob and the last few seconds, PIV sex and getting charged for the night. I guess i'll stick to the five knuckle shuckle. thankfully a ton of ladies here take cleavage shots.:)

back to what ChopperMonkie was saying, having your life together impresses those who have their own together. So chasing the hot messes makes one a step behind. a densely populated area likely increases a searcher's odds.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/27/2016 9:59:07 AM
"ya know, chuckie, as I typed that, I figured I should put in a "mr. or missus" but figured that would be too much and who the heck reads my stuff anyway?"





Hey, I don't judge. What someone does in their bedroom is their own biz.


; )


Btw....have I made my point that the Forums are dead these days ?
 ndm147
Joined: 8/1/2013
Msg: 68
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Posted: 4/27/2016 12:02:12 PM
The forums are not dead. You just posted and are still alive!
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 69
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Posted: 4/27/2016 12:41:21 PM
No, actually CT, I was not baiting you. I had always assumed that I knew what you meant, lilydreams assumed something entirely different, and the reality turned out to be something different than what either of us had assumed. Which should teach us something about making assumptions.

Ohenryx assumed paying $400 or so to a very good looking call girl.

Lilydreams assumed that you could score with a 10 by buying her more dinners.

What CT actually meant by his statement was:

I'll find and invite a hot mama out for the weekend and stay home a month afterwards to recover the costs of the excursion.


Yep, I have most definitely done that as well. A weekend at a bread and breakfast in the Hill Country will set me back about $400 or $500 (including meals, with wine, and a little entertainment). And I can most definitely entice a woman who would not ordinarily go out with me (too old, too ugly, too fat, too ….).

And if I up the ante to $1,500 for a weekend getaway to New Orleans, complete with air fare, hotel room, and some great entertainment), then a 10 is definitely within my reach.


dragonbytes
I think to pay a professional hottie for the total GF experience, it's going to cost more like a grand in the USA.

Must be regional differences. Here in houston, it runs from $250 to $500, depending. One of the places that I go with my Meetup group, there are some “working girls” who hang out there. Being the curious sort, I talked with several of them, heard their stories (including war stories). And, of course, was quoted a price. A 7 will run you about $250, a 9 about $400. This for the evening, not one hour.

Interestingly enough, I was out one night with the same meetup group at a very high class, ritzy night club. Located in the glamorous part of town, inside a very expensive hotel. The organizer for the meetup group likes to do that occasionally, as it gives the women a chance to really dress up. The men don’t like it as much, but we go along with the whole bit.

So, one night at the high class club, I encounter one of the working girls that I had met before at the more average establishment. We talked for a bit, and she explained to me that she preferred working the high class joint because she could get away with charging twice as much. But she couldn’t go there very often, as management would spot her and throw her out.

Life can be very interesting, and you can learn a lot just by talking (and listening).
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 70
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Posted: 4/27/2016 12:49:38 PM
*shaking my head*, I totally f*cked up in life, I could have been getting money to act like a girlfriend for a night, but no......................................I did the predictable go to college sh*t, and then the dumbest thing ever.....go to a prestigious grad school, and acquire more debt that I make in a year.

Where the heck were the girls that do this for a living or the pimps that got them into it, when I got out of high school? This is bullsh*t :-(

Totally failed at this game called life, lmao
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 71
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Posted: 4/27/2016 12:52:41 PM
Some of those "ladies" like to use chloral hydrate, Scopolamine, Ketamine, Rohypnol, or other substances, as a knockout drug, then rob the john. it's claimed that Visine eye drops in a drink will work..Google it if you don't believe me, at least in NYC, I assume elsewhere too.
A bit risky to one's health, not being trained medical professionals they may err on the side of a high dose.
Some guys go to Asia for cheaper poon, can be risky, a Canadian businessman was recently executed in the Philippines by a Muslim extortionist/kidnapping gang, Abu Sayyaf. Decapitated. Or Latin America. ? One recently robbed & killed in Dominican Republic with his "girlfriend", 1/3 his age..she was OK, wouldn't be surprised if the killers were her relatives. In Colombia, Scopolamina is widely available, it grows in a flower there, especially in the higher altitudes around Bogota, it's known as Burundanga, called Devil's Breath.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 72
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Posted: 4/27/2016 1:15:46 PM

Life can be very interesting, and you can learn a lot just by talking (and listening).

LOL...yeah, I'm sure that's all you do is talk and listen....if one talks like a duck....

A weekend at a bread and breakfast in the Hill Country will set me back about $400 or $500 (including meals, with wine, and a little entertainment). And I can most definitely entice a woman who would not ordinarily go out with me (too old, too ugly, too fat, too …

Just getting over your desperation...I gather...lol.
@Belle

I could have been getting money to act like a girlfriend for a night, but no.................

I know you're likely kidding.....you couldn't pay me enough!
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 73
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Posted: 4/27/2016 1:18:34 PM
"I had me a sweet girlfriend for an hour for only $400, last weekend. "?
Can't see myself saying that, ever.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 74
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Posted: 4/27/2016 1:28:09 PM

I know you're likely kidding.....you couldn't pay me enough!


What can I say? I sort of did the same thing while dating, I let them provide all the entertainment and pay for it, and I went home without so much as the obligation of a kiss. It was fun until I met my now boyfriend. My boyfriend was not about to let me get away with that, he worked around any and every wall I put up, until he tore them down and got to me.

The only turning tricks I'm doing now is being a professional student as I don't have to pay my student loans as long as I'm a student. So I'm churning out a new degree every 1.5-3 years, lmao.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 75
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Posted: 4/27/2016 1:52:58 PM
I know cam girls making over a $1000 a week and they can do it couple of minutes here and there. And they don't have to bang creepy guy
Oh to be young
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