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 ytubftjfdhd2
Joined: 9/18/2016
Msg: 126
What's the Worst Date You Ever Had ?Page 6 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)

He asks me out on a date, says he will plan it. I'm think great, man who takes initiative, what a change!


of course, because it is the very rare guy who plans what to do for a first date


He calls me 45 minutes before we are expected to meet up, says his car isn't working and can I come get him. I go, he invites me in. His apartment is an absolute pig sty with comic books stacked literally floor to ceiling. Like something off one of those hoarder addiction shows.


Yep . . . first date, but this supposedly educated woman decides to drive to this guys apartment, a guy she apparently barely knows given what she claims happened during the date, and then goes into his apartment, where of course it is clear from the mess that he is suffering from a mental disorder, but still she goes forward with the date.


He tells me the place he wants to eat is a steak house over an hour away. I drive, he talks the WHOLE time about his pornography comic book collection.


Sure, he talks about Pornography the entire time . . . all guys do that on a first date, but she keeps right on driving rather than turning the car around with an explanation that this is not going to work out.


We get to place, he has steak and lobster, I have salad. I watch in horror as he continues to talk about his porn collection, with his mouth completely full, food sputtering onto me several times. Check comes, he pats one of his pant pockets then declares he lost his wallet. It was an obvious lie, people who lost their wallet are patting all their pockets, they are looking with more than a half hearted single attempt. But I pay, telling myself once we get home at least this night mare will be over.


Of course, this story would not be nearly complete unless the guy was a total pig who then would not pay for the date, forcing her to pay for dinner.


Start driving home and I'm completely silent with my thoughts about what a clown this guy is. Look over cause I hear a sound. He took his c*ck out of his pants and is wanking it. My eyes widen in horror, he looks at me smiling while pulling on his chode all proud of his display, and asks for a blow job. I literally begin to KICK him out of my car with my right foot as I begin to break with my left. Kicking at him with all my might repeatedly while furiously shrieking: "GET OUT, GET OUT!!" He flings open the door to escape my kicking legs while complaining "Why are you so damn serious!???" I leave him on the side of the road 30 minutes from town.


Finally, a bell rings in this author’s head and she decides that maybe this date is not going to work out anyway, so she kicks him out of her car.


F*ck you, Scott, where ever you are....


Nice touch here. Personalize the story. Makes it more believable.

To me this is shades of Literate Hiker all over again. . . but even she did not take such outlandish liberties in concocting stories to show her hatred of men. This woman, BB, takes it to a whole new level.

The real question is, if this guy was such a despicable man, who she knew . . . why the heck did she agree to go out with him to begin with? Did he simply hide his discableness?

Do guys who know woman before hand possibly act like this on a first date, or do they atleast try to hide their despicable character in the hopes of a second date?

And if she did not know him . . . why the heck did she agree to go to His apartment in her car on the very first date . . . a supposedly educated, intelligent woman as she holds herself out to be?

BB, there is nothing in the OP’s thread that indicates this was meant to be a creative writing endeavor. This was supposed to be a serious matter. But in the creative writing department, I give you a B minus. You could have done a better job. . . maybe developed the character of your date a little more, kept us in suspense until the end, that sort of thing. Better luck next time.
 trinity818
Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 127
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Posted: 9/21/2016 4:06:31 PM
^^^

Yeah well, I didn't get that from her post. But I do get the OVERWELMING sense that you are a woman-hater through and through.
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 128
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Posted: 9/21/2016 4:30:24 PM
It's interesting. He is just desperately trying to start a fight with someone, and actually believes his profiles are really being actively deleted by person or persons unknown.

When nobody cares. He just doesn't even rate nuisance classification.
 ffyturbftjfdhd232yz
Joined: 9/18/2016
Msg: 129
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Posted: 9/21/2016 4:45:38 PM
Trinity you poor thing, you really need to find yourself a man..get away from your bitterness. Halftime, for a guy who doesn't care, you sure spend a lot of time trying to insult me :-)
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 9/21/2016 10:49:49 PM
I found her story doubtful. Read like the combination of two or three dates or pure fiction I didn't care enough to post my doubts.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 7/1/2016
Msg: 131
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Posted: 9/22/2016 8:45:09 AM
I think a lot of stuff in these threads is made up.
But it doesn't matter to me. They are sometimes
interesting and keep me entertained..not unlike
reading an interesting fiction book.

I think a lot of the feel good stories you find on
facebook are total bullshit as well, but they make
people happy...so who cares?

I thought they were funny stories...although I would
agree...if they started out so bad...why did they
continue?

*shrug*
 tyutrytr
Joined: 9/18/2016
Msg: 132
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Posted: 9/22/2016 9:04:56 AM
I only brought up the BB issues because we tangled in Off-topics and she held herself out as superior and a man hater. Generally, I don't care what stories people tell, and as stories go, BB's was entertaining enough.

I also highlighted the stories told by Literate Hiker because they were never ending and so ridiculous, and she too always seemed to have it in for Guys AND law enforcement. And they were so nonsensical, they were almost offensive.

Of course anybody has the right to post anything they want and others have just as much right to respond and call out thier BS.

But yes, you cannot believe anything anybody says online . . especially when the people doing the saying are anonymous. There are far too many crazies out there, and proceeding with Caution is the only way to go.

Me I use these boards for entertainment only. I believe nothing I read here from anybody. But I am not dating so I don't have to be careful. Those of you dating need to be very careful who and how you meet people from POF. I started a thread in off topics about being very careful out there, and posted a few tragedy real life stories where the people met on POF. Meet the wrong person from these baords, and your life is literally at risk, especially if you are female, but guys have met women from here and been lured to their dooms also.
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2016 9:55:12 AM

Me I use these boards for entertainment only.


Really! That is all these boards really are, entertainment. Generally I have found that just about everything I read here reflects a bizarre life experience that I have not ever noticed manifest in real life.
 trinity818
Joined: 9/1/2006
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Posted: 9/22/2016 12:07:06 PM

Trinity you poor thing, you really need to find yourself a man


Yeah... cause that will fix everything! lol


Me I use these boards for entertainment only.


Oh... so is that why you create a half dozen new profiles per day. Here I was thinking you were just another nut job.
 655774337
Joined: 9/19/2016
Msg: 135
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Posted: 9/22/2016 3:02:44 PM
^^^^ don't laugh about it Trinity. If a woman can get l^id now and then, it does wonders for her dispostion. It can only help you, and god knows you need all of the help you can get :-)
 655774337
Joined: 9/19/2016
Msg: 136
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Posted: 9/22/2016 3:08:33 PM

I have found that just about everything I read here reflects a bizarre life experience that I have not ever noticed manifest in real life.


You noticed that too :-)
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
Msg: 137
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Posted: 9/28/2016 9:36:17 AM
The two worst dates of my life ended with the woman screaming in eye-popping rage because I decided to go home instead of have sex.
First dates. In each case, I had determined that a screw was loose in their head and I wasn't going to follow through or call again.

This is what dating is about - you find out about people. I had concluded it wasn't a match. I said good evening, and before I could take a step, they exploded - expressions, curses, accusations, "what's wrong with me?!?" speech, "you ain't better than me" speech, grabbing on the arms.....I'm talking the full crazy. You can sense that someone may be upset, or may spew a few curse words --- but to swing arms, and throw a tantrum like a 2-year-old? That I did not expect, and I've seen it twice in my life. Bummer.
 modssook22
Joined: 9/26/2016
Msg: 138
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Posted: 10/2/2016 1:24:11 PM
BB, now that you are back . . . let me repeat . . . . I like your novel :-)
 BlasphemousBombshell
Joined: 9/27/2016
Msg: 139
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Posted: 10/2/2016 9:51:41 PM
Oh this is ludicrous how some angry man with multiple fake accounts now tries to make a conspiracy theory out of my date experience. Following me from thread to thread, after getting my first account deleted, all because I said I was a feminist. Its pathetic that in his paranoid mind a woman who wishes to end some systematic inequity against her kind means she hates all men and is a multiple account poster like himself. How ridiculous. Yeah, I must hate ALL men because I enjoy the right to vote and have birth control - how freaking terrible of me! I'm just like Hitler, clearly!!! *eye roll*
 675htdoazzybgfmodsajhc22
Joined: 9/25/2016
Msg: 141
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Posted: 10/3/2016 7:43:21 AM
^^^^^You still don't get it. I had nothing to do with your termination. True you show an extreme hatred for the West, for American men and for men in general. Your love of anything Muslim and hatred of anything West was very obvious in the off tops thread. . . but I personally am a big believer that your opinions should never be used to terminate you from the Board.

Apparently though you angered Witchta with your opinions, or one of the other moderators here who quash any writings they don't like. Why do you think I have created these two minute throw away profiles.... because I will not play the game these witches try to inflict on the rest of us. They are older and angry women . . .the type of people who try to control others . . . .

Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about because it is so typical of these types of people. I lived on a beach, in a condo, for a number of years and had a wonderful dog living with me, who loved to chase tennis balls. Dogs were not allowed on the beach, but early Sunday morning in the AM, when nobody would be there, I would get up and walk over the dunes to access the Ocean, throwing a ball into the ocean and watching my dog swimming through the waves to get the ball. Cops would occassionally be around, but I wasn't bothering anybody so they didn't care.

On this morning... the beach was totally empty for miles with the exception of two older women walking by. I was playing with the dog. The two older women, rather than remarking what a beautiful dog, like the young women would usually do, had to scowl at me, and advise me that I was breaking the law by having the dog on the beach. Guys would usually just pass us by with no work at all, maybe just a Hi.

Those women, to this day, are the exemplar of what i think is wrong with older women generally. Mean, nasty, intolerant, angry that I am violating the rules.

You are the victim of these types of women sweetheart . . . not me.

Rather than fuming about it and getting angry ... roll with the punches like most here do. My rolling with the punches is creating profiles, two minutes effort each, and this is how I will roll here as long as I choose to keep posting. You on the other hand seem to be losing it everytime you post. That's not good for your health.
 675htdoazzybgfmodsajhc22
Joined: 9/25/2016
Msg: 142
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Posted: 10/3/2016 7:50:14 AM
and yes, wait for trinity or some other angry woman to make some crass remark. Who knows, maybe volkano is back or Motown with new profiles, and they will chime in too. These women were all about controlling others . .. what they could say, even how they could post.

I remember Volkano thratening me as a "short timer" and an hour later . . poof . . she was gone. . . only to then return telling the board how much this place was effed up. I laughed for an hour over that one . . literally. Yes . .. entertainment. I am easily amused :-) One of my endearing qualities, why women in real life love me so much :-)
 675htdoazzybgfmodsajhc22
Joined: 9/25/2016
Msg: 143
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Posted: 10/3/2016 7:54:04 AM
I have to also say this . . . one reason I have such a negative attitude towards so many older women . .

My mom and dad later in life moved from a large house to a condo in a retirement community. The women in that community complained endlessly. . . somebody was opening a door too loudly . . . somebody's grandchildren were to loud, a dog pooped on the grass . . even though it was cleaned up.

When my dad passed on, some of the women were wonderful to my mother. . . . but I will never forget how ****y some of those older women were. They were just not nice people. Crabby would be an understatement. Why? I don't know. You are a woman. You tell me. You are already crabby . . .and you are still relatively young, so maybe you have a good handle on it.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 144
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Posted: 10/3/2016 7:55:08 AM

You are the victim of these types of women sweetheart . . . not me.

Bullshit.....He has personally chased off any women that were interesting on here....wants to blame it on us women.
If you have an opinion he doesn't agree with ...he harrasses. Just like he's doing to you.
Friggin' nutjob!!

Talk about living in some sort of fantasy world...this guy takes the cake....lmao.
Comes across....as a woman beater to me!!
Just a wackadoodle....
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 145
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Posted: 10/3/2016 7:58:52 AM
"If you have an opinion he doesn't agree with ...he harrasses. Just like he's doing to you."

Is he related to Trump?
 675htdoazzybgfmodsajhc22
Joined: 9/25/2016
Msg: 146
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Posted: 10/3/2016 8:04:05 AM
Maleman . . . LOL

Whisky . . . yes, you older women don't like to be told how nasty and crabby you can be. And you are a classic.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 147
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Posted: 10/3/2016 8:09:10 AM
NUTJOB I could care less what you think of me.....I can tell you for certain....You sir are lacking in normalcy and rational
thinking skills.
Like who does what you do.....????

@Maleman.....a close second...sure a lot alike.
Keeps doubling down on his stupidity....time and time again.

@Below....what took you so long? Were you wacking off at the attention.....NUTJOB!!!
 675htdoazzybgfmodsajhc22
Joined: 9/25/2016
Msg: 148
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Posted: 10/3/2016 8:17:19 AM
Whiskey . . . your anger is showing. Must have hit a nerve. I predicted you crazies would come out of the woodwork to respond. I guess you see yourself in my words. Perhaps try to be less angy and less crabby in the future. Don't come here to b^tch about guys who simply point out facts.
 BlasphemousBombshell
Joined: 9/27/2016
Msg: 149
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Posted: 10/3/2016 8:56:49 AM
I think he has his panties in a bunch because i told him in another thread i'd rather fill my vagina with cement, sew my labia shut and jump off a bridge than give him a whiff. After that moment the trolling with numerous accounts started, my posts were reported, i was banned, etc. Hes a regular old Buffalo Bill type: narcissist who is enraged because the attractive women he feels entitled to arent interested. The funny part is he has that "burn the witch" mentality that created feminism in response.
 kijyvtsbicfukbgmods23
Joined: 9/26/2016
Msg: 150
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Posted: 10/3/2016 9:19:52 AM
Sweetie, even if you would go out with me, would I want to risk the fate of John Bobbitt? Afterall, if you laud those people who like to chop off the heads of their enemies...you know..that peaceful bunch, who the heck knows what you are capable of?
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