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 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 26
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Two burly firemen with hoses and tools ready to save the damsel sleeping naked? I think I saw that video...all 15 minutes of it. personally I sleep in the all together. our fire dept's motto is, "we haven't lost a foundation yet!"
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 27
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/5/2016 2:25:56 PM

In my VAST dating experience, I feel more vulnerable with my panties down than when kissing. :-)

(wait... some people here won't get the humor)


I am sorry to tell that I did not get the humor, but I did enjoy the visual image that would entail.

Hehehehe.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 28
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/5/2016 5:34:33 PM
The humor was just the word "vast", I could have gotten heartfelt advice to get some self esteem and stop sleeping around.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 29
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/5/2016 6:16:48 PM
goodness, you drink too much and you sleep with everyone? and I always thought you were one of the boring forum members.

:)
 xlr8ingme
Joined: 4/29/2016
Msg: 30
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/5/2016 8:01:34 PM
Shoot I have officially become a boring forum member.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 31
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/5/2016 9:07:19 PM

you drink too much

I absolutely don't. I'm one week into the challenge, and as my one challenge-mate put it, it's "embarassingly easy."
My drink of choice at the moment is:

Bitters
Half Ginger Ale
Half Soda WAter
Roses Lime Juice
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 32
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/6/2016 7:59:27 AM
ah, don't feel bad xl8, I've been in the boring forum member club so long, I bought the company. what was it marx said about clubs who want you?

NJ, you mix all that together? its likely good, but sounds a tad bitter to me. but I have an impossible sweet tooth.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 33
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/7/2016 7:58:44 AM
Some people are literally just about the sex. For some people, it could depend on how well they know and/or like the other person. They might kiss someone that they have an occasional booty call with. But not a 1 night stand. The majority of time in my experience, it starts off with kissing and leads to other things.
 ginghamgal
Joined: 2/13/2016
Msg: 34
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/7/2016 10:28:39 AM
Yes I do. Kissing can be just as enjoyable as anything else during a hook up / casual sex. It's odd to me that some people are willing to have intercourse and oral sex with another person. But not kiss that person. To each their own.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/7/2016 10:58:25 AM

The humor was just the word "vast", I could have gotten heartfelt advice to get some self esteem and stop sleeping around.

I didn't see 'vast experience' as an indicator of sleeping with different people -- I figured it was the vast experience with each BF every time you're "caught with your pants down", feeling insecure/vulnerable when that happens. Kind of like some people have a dog who humps their female owner every time she bends over -- except, it would be overly horny, volatile, and not-gentle-at-all BFs.

The least he could do is kiss ya first! ;)

Some people are literally just about the sex.

I agree there not being some drawn out makeout session on the couch, but no kissing at all? I would see that on occasions of a BF/GF doing spur-of-the-moment truck-stop quickie.

But not a 1 night stand.

I can see it Not happening given the right circumstances for a 1-night stand, but as a rule/trend? I don't see that at all. How do you land the girl you just met hours ago for a one-night stand, if you're not even going to exchange a kiss, ya know? We all hear stories of a friend leaving the bar with another girl... you find out sometimes they have sex, they fooled around but no sex, and even sometimes nothing at all happens. If a friend was leaving a bar for the umpteenth time with another girl, but gets no-dice for the umpteenth time and is frustrated -- if I were to find out he has never even gone in to kiss any one of them -- Ding Ding Ding, there's your answer why you're not getting action! :)

I more see it as not wanting to enjoy the experience of an 8th-grade-makeout-jam-session, in and of itself. Not that there wouldn't be ANY kissing at all between the two newly meeting folk that night, going from point A (meet n greet) to point X (sex).

It's odd to me that some people are willing to have intercourse and oral sex with another person. But not kiss that person

I would see that as a rarity due to understandably odd circumstances or something, not a trend with anyone. I'm starting to believe it's just referring to kissing Literally During the act of sex alone. THAT I can understand no kissing occurring more commonly with someone you just met, enjoying the porn-style sex, much the same as with someone you're dating for a quick nooner.
 LJane_6
Joined: 6/10/2015
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Posted: 5/7/2016 11:42:01 PM

There's nothing to feel guilty about if on a date or spending time with a guy you're not that into, and you don't push him away when he goes in for a kiss. I think the main thing is not to "kiss back" and start any making out, but to end the kiss at just that, and quite swiftly. At that point though, I think it's best to thank him for the kiss, but to let him know you're not that into him.


The trouble is that most of these weren’t dates – they were drunk guys in bars, and after talking for like, a few minutes (in most cases) they just went in for a kiss. And then as soon as I didn’t push them away (I mean instantly, even before I had the chance to “kiss back” or not), they tried to slip in the tongue. At that point I usually just pull away. A quick kiss isn’t a huge deal to me, but they don’t even see how I respond before going into make-out mode. I’ve found that alcohol just makes them really shameless and sloppy. On the contrary, I’ve never had a sober guy even try to kiss me on the first date.


If she wanted to get in my pants, she is going to have to do some kissing and better have some skills. Otherwise is hasta la vista baby.


That sounds pretty arrogant.


I was dating a guy who was sort of aspie. He was good looking as hell, very impressive the way he dressed and carried himself and he was very intelligent…Never kissed me and never kissed her either. He told me that kissing is for mama boys, but I think with his aspie traits he had some issues dealing with tactile issues such as touching in certain ways.


Wow, that sounds similar to the guy I dated whom I’m pretty sure was Aspie, especially the first part (good-looking, intelligent etc.) However, he did kiss me, but didn’t seem to enjoy it that much, and I don’t think he particularly liked being touched either. We never had sex, and he never tried for anything or seemed eager to do it.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 37
do you kiss during hook ups?
Posted: 5/8/2016 7:18:59 AM

I can see it Not happening given the right circumstances for a 1-night stand, but as a rule/trend? I don't see that at all. How do you land the girl you just met hours ago for a one-night stand, if you're not even going to exchange a kiss, ya know?


I wasn't implying not kissing during a 1 night stand is a general trend / pattern. But it has happened to me a few times. I have heard occasional stories about it happening to other people.
 oneday57
Joined: 10/17/2015
Msg: 38
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Posted: 5/13/2016 4:47:35 AM
I would find it hard IF I were to hook up with a woman to not kiss as I enjoy it totally but with all the diseases would be worried about it so I pretty much stay to myself talking to those who want to converse....
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 12/8/2018 4:17:02 AM
While I don't really do hook-ups....I like to kiss to much and it is foreplay just as massages, nipple play, etc......
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 12/16/2018 4:34:30 AM
HELL ya I make out...it's the start of good foreplay....massage....touch every part of their physic till they squirm....course I don't do it until or if we chat before...like to feel them out and see who they are specially in these days....fatal attractions all over ….lol
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