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 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 51
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Damaged goofs can only refer to commodities not people.
Interesting Clooney considers widows damaged. A cranky widow might make a joke about Vettes and porcupines. :p
Arnie looks good. Not T1 good but still good.
I'll take Walken as my older man crush.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 52
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 6:14:53 AM
^^^Damaged goofs-there are plenty of those too.
 quinneskimo
Joined: 2/12/2016
Msg: 53
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 6:51:36 AM
"Anyone over the age of six months, who has had social contact with another human being, is "damaged goods." "

This remark from page 1 is slightly disturbing. Kind along the lines of we have sins from birth on. Weird.

As for damaged goods, yes, anyone that has been in a relationship whether living together/now apart or married/divorced or married/widowed could have some damage or pain or healing left to do or is healed and moved on. Being in a partnership and now you're not does not automatically mean you are "damaged", I don't think.

Arnold has always been homely as far as I'm concerned. He was homely as hell at 25 and still is at 65. Yuk.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 54
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 10:35:16 AM
The first time I saw that huge nipple...

I was traumatized.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 55
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 10:39:42 AM
I seem to have walked in at an awkward moment.

I'm damaged goods. Normal sized nipples, though.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 56
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 11:25:37 AM
Welcome back, Baby!!
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 57
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 11:51:14 AM
^ Hey, thanks!

You know what I take issue with about you, though? We're both of Russian descent, right? But you're all elegant, and I look more... like this. Or, I would if I could afford hand embroidered blouses. Sigh...
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 58
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 11:54:50 AM
Do you sh!t Faberge eggs?
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 59
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 11:55:05 AM
You're kidding Baby, right? I had no clue! Your new picture reminds of the joke about an Uzbek who married a Ukrainian, and he gave her a tutorial:
"If I come home with my hat on straight, I'm in a good mood. If it's to the right, I'm in a slightly annoyed mood. If it's to the left, I'm pissed off."
She said, "Okay, but you need to know something too: If my hands are down, I'm in a good mood. If I have one hand on my hip, I'm in an annoyed mood. And if I have both hands on my hips, I don't care how you're wearing your hat!"
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 60
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 12:00:52 PM
^ Kay, now you've really pissed me off ;)

Clooney: I seem to be constipated of late.

They're giving away land in Siberia. For real.










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 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 61
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 12:10:26 PM
Baby and NJ, LOL, My hands are down.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 62
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 12:55:59 PM
Hey WMB...you need a ushanka...then I would have recognized the Russian stance.
My dad was born in Russia.....
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 63
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/7/2016 1:50:17 PM
Pssst Drinks, "Damaged goods", are located in the back row, and they are cheaper. They have dents and/or scratches. You take them, "As is". LOL
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
Msg: 64
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Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/8/2016 1:10:25 PM
The guys with the rubber truck are on there way!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 65
what are damaged goods good for, anyway?
Posted: 5/8/2016 2:26:47 PM
aw, NJ has a profile pic with her daughter for mother's day. that's cute.

Rubber trucks are great around here. you should see our potholes. we used to have to wait for enough VW Beetles to fall in and fill them up.
 2ufo
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 66
what are damaged goods good for, anyway?
Posted: 5/8/2016 5:56:34 PM
Damaged good = experience.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 67
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/10/2016 9:57:24 AM
There are good apples and bad apples in every tree, town, and dating site.

It's possible there are a few more bad apples here, but there are good ones too, and you only need one.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 68
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Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/10/2016 5:41:04 PM
Not necessarily damaged goods, but probably very picky. Any moderately attractive woman will have men interested in her. If she's here, it's more likely that she simply isn't thrilled with who's interested in her in the real world. Women are known to be way more selective than men. A documentary done a while back showed this to be true, women automatically rule out 80% of any give group of men. Men, OTOH, consider most women as potential dates. The documentary was done in Britain, but noted that similar results had shown up in the U.S.. Seems women will only date 'up'. And, as noted, usually don't even know what they want: "For every loser I've screamed at, there have been nice, normal single guys with perfectly acceptable ZIP codes and ages and jobs and habits who never did a thing wrong but for some reason were chucked after the first or second, or maybe even third, date for being boring, predictable, too nice, too normal, not successful enough, or . . . admitted to no one, perhaps not even myself: too available. The scariest of scary words."
From:
http://www.villagevoice.com/news/dear-single-women-of-nyc-its-not-them-its-you-6430067
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 69
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/10/2016 5:56:45 PM

Women are known to be way more selective than men. A documentary done a while back showed this to be true. I'll search for a link and post when I come back.


I wonder if the documentary comments on how well their selectivity has worked out for them.
Considering divorce statistics, I'm guessing not all that well.
 FlamingHotCheetos3
Joined: 5/6/2016
Msg: 70
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/10/2016 6:51:13 PM
Sounds like the OP isn't the most well-adjusted either. Having sex with supposedly damaged women doesn't paint you in the best light. Men who accept the pvssy just because it's offered to them (even though they have no intention of ever dating the woman) are undesirables too.
 Dinno76
Joined: 2/11/2016
Msg: 71
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Posted: 5/18/2016 11:29:05 AM
Most people acquire baggage as we age . Some of it is good some of it is bad. You either unload it or keep it . That is up to each person.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 4/24/2016
Msg: 72
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/21/2016 2:45:44 PM
Personally, I've dated women my age, to almost 50 years of age.

I think it depends on the age, but obviously, the issues or "damage" tends to be a lot worse, the older they are.

That said, I've met happy go lucky 45 year old's and bitter 30 year old's. To me, I look at her outlook. If its negative, I avoid the woman. I think its more in how she responds to adversity, than anything, really.
 kalasmontreal
Joined: 2/26/2016
Msg: 73
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/21/2016 4:04:10 PM
You pretty much nailed it TC, no need to say more
 Strider324
Joined: 2/17/2016
Msg: 74
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/21/2016 6:13:52 PM
Everyone on this planet is damaged goods. Judging others like you're sorry ass is somehow superior is the clearest evidence of how damaged you are. Shared empathy and living in the real world with rational expectations of others both go a long way to mitigating your damage.
 chinook1111
Joined: 4/1/2016
Msg: 75
Do most men consider women who are on pof to be damaged goods?
Posted: 5/22/2016 7:35:30 AM
^^^
Yeah,well there is damaged and then there is a write off.Avoid the write offs.If somebody was really desperate they could turn it into a project.Dont waste your time.
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