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 TucsonPug
Joined: 6/17/2015
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^^^^^^
Lol well something needs to x
Misandry my arse I have two sons who I adore.
I managed to stay married to one bloke for 27 years, we may have parted but still have a lot of time for each other.
Been apart 10 years and I still think he's a thoroughly decent bloke and a great dad.
I also have as many male friends as female.
So I conclude Wonky has had a few tbh.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 8/6/2016 12:23:43 PM
"someone 50+ with bigger tits than me, a barrel for a belly and looking like they've had a really hard life."

'"heads like bowling balls"

"better conversations with my dogs than the men on here"

"some overweight bloke thinking he's doing me a favour"

"My top 10 prospects haven't got a hope in hell of a date"

"my grossly overweight so called matches"

"What do I know being female but truly sick of reading men's opinions of why women do this or that from blokes who can't get a date."'

Not stalkerish at all! lol
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 8/8/2016 3:30:23 PM
So I don't reply to 'you are sexy' then?... Lol.
 Justanotherchap
Joined: 12/4/2013
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Posted: 8/9/2016 1:55:58 AM
Finally got there!

Next thread - Why don't people reply?
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
Msg: 80
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Posted: 8/9/2016 3:11:13 AM
Nice cross Dave!

2-0.

TBH., None of it makes any sense to me.
Men and women? Together?
That's like cats and dolphins.
Your optimism is admirable, and touching.


OT I usually say: "You have very peculiar taste"
Carry on
 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 6/7/2016
Msg: 81
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Posted: 8/17/2016 9:55:21 AM

Hes horrible :-( had some dealings with him years ago .........and hes still using the same photo ! Lol gee wonky its an amazing miracle you haven't aged !


bit spiteful there
I do chuckle, well not so much chuckle but more 'oh fcvk off with that shit' when someone with NO pics comments on someone with pics

JoBabe

None of it makes any sense to me.
Men and women? Together?

you think because you have it down its the right way?
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
Msg: 82
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Posted: 8/17/2016 12:08:47 PM

you think because you have it down its the right way?

Only for me, Roxbabe, only for me.
WB.

But I did say I found their optimism admirable, and I ll add: charming, to boot.
However,
I can't help noticing the irony that it's them (the hopeful and charming optimists) who are doing all the complaining, about no replies, poor messages, and faulty profiles, not me.
I'm as happy as Larry.
(Whoever he was )
<----- See?

On-topics:
I usually say:-
"Yes, thank you, but I already knew that".
 Hostess68
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Posted: 8/17/2016 2:46:13 PM
Forgive me but I wasn't complaining initially with post. I hoped for general consensus as to how to deal with it and the majority vote is to ignore. I have taken on board this majority vote and will ignore. I am plainly aware that all online dating leads to filtering through the married, drunk, addicted, low lifes of this world which; as I have said before is why I no longer online date but hey! Tis interesting sometimes apart from the apparel of online who think they are forum famous or something other. God bless them! Delusional misfits x
 duracell_bunny_one
Joined: 1/21/2015
Msg: 84
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Posted: 8/18/2016 12:36:32 PM
Umm - is anyone supposed to give a flying fvck?
......bored now........

 Shewymacfee
Joined: 4/2/2016
Msg: 85
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Posted: 9/8/2016 11:05:40 AM
3 messages stating I have won the lottery, 1 message saying I have a business proposition especially for you.2 messages saying I will have 1 million dollars placed into my bank account and one asking me to send money for the members air fares to fly to london to meet me.
I'm feeling left out here: please send me messages asking my tit size etc I need to finally feel wanted.
 Hostess68
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Posted: 9/8/2016 2:51:39 PM
duracell_bunny_one... 5 pages and over 3 and a half thousand views... I'm guessing quite a few. Be nice x
 Roger More
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 9/15/2016 6:09:13 PM
I agree!

this message is apparently too short to post....nut succint,and accurate
 GeordieColin
Joined: 10/18/2012
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Posted: 9/17/2016 8:14:52 PM
It is very encouraging to read when you have not visited here for a year or so and have no pic up.
Nice to see so many familiar faces still here. Or is that the wrong thing to say?
 Shewymacfee
Joined: 4/2/2016
Msg: 89
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Posted: 9/19/2016 10:44:45 AM
After 5 Jack Daniels and 4 Oreos you write back, hell yes I'm sexy, get your Knic**rs off


quote: It is very encouraging to read when you have not visited here for a year or so and have no pic up

In otherwards not had a decent meal in a year so looking for a date, :-D
 Nottinghamfellow
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 10/10/2016 3:57:26 AM
I normally engage them in filthy talk, saying what i would like to do to them in a sexual manner. They either run or toss themselves off and voila, never hear from them again. . . Ps. . No photo this time round then Colin
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 91
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Posted: 10/11/2016 8:00:01 AM
I don't want to single you out Fierx, but you hit one of my pet peeves.

If you have a profile with provocative photos and bland, generic copy, all your messages will be sexual. There's nothing else there to craft and message around.
 duracell_bunny_one
Joined: 1/21/2015
Msg: 92
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Posted: 10/11/2016 8:53:35 AM
^ ^ ^ What he said..............

 duracell_bunny_one
Joined: 1/21/2015
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Posted: 10/11/2016 11:04:09 AM
........... and just when it was all going soooo well............

 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 6/7/2016
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/11/2016 11:36:01 AM
bad bad men
I didn't get to see la fotos provocativo

Don't give up on us babiii
We're still worth one more try
I know we put the last one by
Just for a rainy evening
When maybe stars are few
Don't give up on us I know
We can still come thruuuuu
 Kodanshi
Joined: 9/19/2015
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Posted: 10/12/2016 10:02:50 AM

I really need to get my tight trousers off



Try talcum powder... works wonders when removing leather.


Hmmm, I recall an episode of Friends based on that premise...
 Hostess68
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Posted: 10/12/2016 3:39:14 PM
I never knew that about David Soul Wonky! This place is so... Er... Educational...
 Justanotherchap
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Posted: 10/13/2016 4:03:16 AM
I can't resist making a pass Jo! Actually someone said that to me in real life just the other week, it was rather nice if dishonest.
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/13/2016 1:11:01 PM
Thanks Daver!

First of all:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
Not Feirx!
And not before I've even seen the allegedly "provocative" pictures.

I have to say I'm not really comfortable with the word "provocative", when applied to females.
It seems a bit like a pre-emptive "excuse" to me...
If you think about it:
It implies that the "blame" for anything which subsequently happens, lies entirely with the female.
It's also entirely subjective, as any child-rapist will tell you.
Not that I'm suggesting that any of that was attached to it's casual use here, or that HTD is in any way, that way inclined, because I know he's not.

It's just interesting (IMO) the way our language and it's usage has evolved, it's not really fair, because when applied to males, it usually means to provoke anger or violence, but with women, it means to provoke sexual attention/attraction, and that it always has that deliberate intention, and there's a presupposition of some 'guilt' and premeditation attached to it.
Weird huh?
-Or is that just me?

Back on topic:
Yes
 warmandwild
Joined: 9/17/2015
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Posted: 10/13/2016 6:25:22 PM
I can not agree with you enough, women are made different and have different ideas on what is appropriate and not. However that is not to say that we do not think about the same things as men do, we fully enjoy sex, being sexy with the man we care about. Or maybe some with guys they don't give a damned about! We like candle light evenings, lots of attention, intelligent conversation, for him to appreciate the way I look for him.

I personally like a guy that is a little different the average guy. I like someone that is going to take the time and make an effort to think of what it is that I like for fun, so that in return that gives me the knowledge that he is a compassionate and caring kind of guy and I automatically want to do something that he may enjoy. Although it may not be my favorite sort of thing!

It is easy to wound a guys ego, but what be the point of that unless he is totally out of line, which I am sorry to say I've had to do myself. I don't like turning a guy in for inappropriate talk or a little over zealous! So I would prefer to tell him like it is. Anyway if you don't like the talk or attitude merely don't respond, they will go away!
 Hostess68
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Posted: 10/14/2016 3:19:53 PM
The above does not apply to me in any way form or context. Sounds rather needy to me. I can cook my own dinner and buy my own flowers. Peace love and unity!
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