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 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 25
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Hmm... If I were this woman I'd offer you weekly reviews so you would have the opportunity to improve your performance.
 Heffelump
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 26
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 6:58:33 PM
^^^This is clearly a woman who saw the movie Secretary recently. And she's got her red pens lined up in a row.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 27
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:08:18 PM
^ I don't watch Hollywood movies. Sigh... The ways in which I could improve you...
 Heffelump
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 28
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:12:18 PM
Hush you. I'm busy checking to see if there is any news about trouble in Maggie Gyllenhaal 's marriage

 LittleDreamGirl
Joined: 4/27/2016
Msg: 29
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Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 9:03:16 PM
Wow, this woman sounds like the female version of the last guy I dated (see one of my other recent posts for the sordid tale). We dated for about a month and then when we finally had sex he dumped me. Less than 2 months later he came back, we went out a couple of times, he made it clear he wanted to start dating again, but then nope - dumped me AGAIN. Has not asked for a third chance but has recently been messaging me again. Not sure why. I would think he wouldn't be so stupid as to ask for a THIRD chance, but if he ever did there is no way I would date him again.

We need to set this guy up with your girl - they can take turns dumping each other every other week! LMAO!!!
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 30
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 9:16:35 PM
^^^
Yeah, but you don't consider them to be your boyfriend for at least 4 months. Even after being intimate.

Treat someone like they're on probation; what do you expect?

Pot calling kettle black.

Hahahhahaha
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 31
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Posted: 9/1/2016 10:49:58 PM
That you went back again after the way she treated you, taught her she could just pick up and dump you whenever.
If she is bored she can find some other poor sucker to play with. Who cares about the ex husband or her history?
Have some self respect and dignity and cut her off. YOu are hardly splitting up as you are not a couple.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 33
Won't give me tail for 3 months
Posted: 9/2/2016 6:00:45 AM
And you were quite the gentleman, huh? Agreed with her request.

Pathetic.
 Cdan1957
Joined: 9/17/2013
Msg: 34
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Won't give me tail for 3 months
Posted: 9/2/2016 6:33:31 AM
3 month trial...seriously? So after getting your ass dumped twice you are actually thinking about going out with this person on a trial basis? Even if you make it pass your "probation" period what kind of relationship do you think you will have? She will always call all the shots and you better be exactly who she wants you to be or it is back to the dump. You really need to have some self-respect. I don't get it. The last girl I dumped was because I asked her out she told me she was busy and couldn't give me an alternate date, we were going out for a couple of months. I knew there was someone out there where I would be a priority and I was right.
 loveisatemple
Joined: 3/28/2014
Msg: 36
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/3/2016 3:24:43 AM
Thanks for reminding me. Gotta cancel a 3 month trial. Mine was a service, not a man, cannot imagine treating a person like so. This "service me " attitude should tell you:run.

Op, that you ask says you are kinda masochistic, and or optionless and do not know: do not date anybody recently broken up or with a lurking ex, or you will get flakyass behavior.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 37
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/3/2016 7:18:11 AM
You have got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything
Comes to mind here...
Never let anyone take advantage of your good nature or patience or desperation(?)
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 38
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/3/2016 7:25:16 AM
3 month trials are the norm for places of employment. What happens when YOU decide within that time period that this lady friend is basically batshiat crazy????? I know some of past employers didn't take kindly to my discovery that their companies sucked shiat and I didn't think they were worth the paycheque they were giving me.
 BlasphemousBombshell
Joined: 11/19/2013
Msg: 39
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/3/2016 6:11:20 PM
"Thank you for reaching out to me and attempting to try again. I am complimented, sincerely, but I must be honest: I dont believe you are not ready for the vulnerability dating requires.

I know you dealt with some horrible issues involving your ex and I can see completely where it destroyed your ability to trust. I dont fault you for that, but its something that has to be fixed if you hope to find love again.

Everyone has dealt with pain that leaves us frightened to open ourselves back up. I have my own experience with that too. Which is why i know you arent ready, nor am i able to invest someone who could pull the rug out from under me at any time.

I wish you the best"
 HippyDippyWeatherman
Joined: 3/20/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 9/3/2016 10:24:46 PM
No thanks, I don't want to be on the Trail in early December.
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
Msg: 41
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Posted: 9/4/2016 7:24:20 AM
LOL, Ya got to be kidding. Tell her ya got stuff to do.

now,,, if ya just want to shag, that may be an option, but tell her up front its FWB/NSA
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 42
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/4/2016 7:42:15 AM
Maybe the OP can turn this around. Have a casual / FWB relationship with her for 3 months with no serious expectations. Then move on when the time is up or if he finds another woman that he likes better.
 HippyDippyWeatherman
Joined: 3/20/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/6/2016 12:08:48 AM
Tell her you only want a two week time share instead. Now all you have to do is find twenty-five more women to fill out your calendar year.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 44
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Posted: 9/6/2016 4:17:08 AM
A few years ago, I dated someone who would start every renewed interest in me with "I have decided that I will see you on ..."

It took me over a year to work out that she had a real control thing going on. She played me off another guy she'd previously lived with and yes, during one of our breaks, she said that she wanted to give him a trial period to make up her mind.

Some people mess with your head. Don't let them.
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 45
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/6/2016 5:31:35 PM

No thanks, I don't want to be on the Trail in early December.


Me neither. Not even if LH was in the lead. I have too much shoppin' to do.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
Msg: 46
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Posted: 9/6/2016 7:10:49 PM
Learning womens' coded talk is next to impossible for men. Another guy has to explain the codes to newbies so they can save themselves time and trouble. It took me a long time to learn that "washing my hair on Wednesday" didn't mean that.
 _Cinnamon__Girl_
Joined: 3/28/2016
Msg: 47
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Posted: 9/7/2016 7:16:48 PM
Lol, this thread is a riot!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/8/2016 10:29:04 AM
Maybe she's a time waster. Who knows?
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 49
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/8/2016 11:09:06 AM
Does the guy get a diploma if he passes the 3 month trial run? What would it take to be on the dean's honor roll?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 50
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/8/2016 11:18:20 AM
"Lol, this thread is a riot!"




PLEASE don't encourage those who are here solely for an " lol " reaction with their annoying little quips aka attempts at humour.

Those people don't belong here IMO

This forum should be for serious discussion ONLY !

The longer , more analayzed to death posts the better I say !

Ole !
 Drezzal
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 51
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Posted: 10/31/2016 1:11:59 PM
How's that trial working out for you? lol
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