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 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 601
The Birthday Cheer, like the Bronx onePage 25 of 40    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40)
Hmm. In an arbitration both parties have to give a little in order to reach a place where neither is happy, but both can live with. Sounds like my dating experiences.
 nataly66687
Joined: 5/18/2016
Msg: 602
The Birthday Cheer, like the Bronx one
Posted: 9/17/2016 11:42:40 AM
Your just a picky person that has to pick on EVERYTHING about me. I bet if I put a picture of me with make up without my glasses you would have stuff to pick at and complain about.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 603
The Birthday Cheer, like the Bronx one
Posted: 9/17/2016 12:20:04 PM
^^^ well then put a pic of you with make up and no glasses......
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 604
The Birthday Cheer, like the Bronx one
Posted: 9/17/2016 5:13:53 PM
Smiling like a donut might increase views...
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 605
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 5:22:05 AM
what kind of donut? Crème filled?
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 606
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The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 5:39:38 AM

Maybe her profile is hidden that way the only people who can view are people who see her posts in the forum or those who have already interacted with her.


Nope; it isn't.


Your just a picky person that has to pick on EVERYTHING about me. I bet if I put a picture of me with make up without my glasses you would have stuff to pick at and complain about.


You've worn different glasses in your videos; they looked OK. These are Roz glasses. Gru's mum glasses. Mary Whitehouse glasses. Dame Edna Everage glasses.

http://www.digitalmediafx.com/Monsters/Gallery/Roz01..jpg
http://statici.behindthevoiceactors.com/behindthevoiceactors/_img/chars/grus-mom-despicable-me-2.02.jpg
https://mrsmarywhitehouse.files.wordpress.com/2013/12/mary-in-the-60s.jpg
http://www1.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/Dame+Edna+Live+Zumba+Class+5-usas5IuzLl.jpg

In short, they rarely good good on anyone. Especially with thick lenses. I'm trying to do you a favour but hey, your choice. Just don't moan about people saying that you look unattractive when there's something you could easily change.
 nataly66687
Joined: 5/18/2016
Msg: 607
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 1:07:36 PM
Just screw off. I will find someone that accepts me for me. I know if I got ANOTHER pair of glasses you will just complain about those. Even if I wore contact lenses you will complain.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 608
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The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 2:59:47 PM
Actually, you don't know that at all.
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 609
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 6:20:13 PM
^^^^
Of course, she knows that.

It's her story; she's the hero and we're all the bad guys.
Read from your script, please, and don't improvise.
 GreatGal1977
Joined: 8/25/2016
Msg: 610
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 7:06:56 PM
How did your date go Natalie?
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 611
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 7:14:12 PM
^ ^ ^ ^ LOL, WE are all the "bad guys"?
Now looky here. (She says, as she stands and stomps her foot, her lower lip stickin' out)
No, no, no. We is not. I'd feel bad, if'n we was the bad guys!

So there!
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 612
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 7:44:03 PM
^^^^

Ok, let me see what other tropes I have here....

Bridezilla... that's reserved for a future episode.

Fake Ultimate Hero (takes credit for someone else's heroics). No, that doesn't seem like you.
Tough Love Mother .. How well can you pull off the sub-trope 'mama bear'? Beat up a ninja with a broomstick?
Damsel in Distress... I don't think you could carry that one off.
Unstoppable Mail Carrier... neither rain, nor snow nor nuclear rains stays this courier from....
Stepford Smiler... No, just please no.
 PlutoLover68
Joined: 7/28/2016
Msg: 613
The Birthday Blews
Posted: 9/18/2016 9:14:04 PM
I think he stood her up. I don't see it now, but I saw a post where she was asking about getting canceled in after getting ready to go out.
 tizzabelle
Joined: 8/20/2010
Msg: 614
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Posted: 9/18/2016 9:40:35 PM
lol someone was feeling a little feisty earlier! Nataly just ignore orange tiger's opinion/advice if it it does not apply.

That is all anyone can do when seeking advice on the forums and, pretty much all advice is based on personal opinions here. It's really hard to give any real credible advice when we only hear parts of one side of any situation presented.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 615
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Life According to Nataly!
Posted: 9/19/2016 3:51:47 AM

... just ignore orange tiger's opinion/advice if it it does not apply.


But it does apply; Nataly has brought it up herself and been given the same advice. As always, she chooses to ignore if it doesn't fall in line with her own self validation: https://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts16548436.aspx

I note that another of her threads has been deleted (and for good reason). People will stop taking her seriously if she carries on as she is.
 Shewymacfee
Joined: 4/2/2016
Msg: 616
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 7:01:53 AM
Happy Birthday Nataly
Hmmmmm!! Sh*t late again
 nataly66687
Joined: 5/18/2016
Msg: 617
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 3:34:06 PM
I just give up on everything in life.
 Mz_Dressup
Joined: 11/15/2014
Msg: 618
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 3:51:11 PM
Okey doke, poke.







Until you post again...
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 619
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 4:40:55 PM
well, its easier when your parents carry the load. Then you can just pick up where you left off. Don't worry Natster, life'll be fun and amazing again, its like a roller coaster.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
Msg: 620
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The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 7:44:18 PM

I just give up on everything in life.

I don't believe that for a second. As long as you're in here posting, you've got HOPE. Even though you're reluctant to change, over the course of many weeks, you've made some changes both to your profile, and sometimes to your attitude. You keep coming back - not for abuse, but for more advice. Sooner or later, some of the things people tell you will make sense. Sooner or later, you will begin to see the light of how the changes you make can create options for you to choose from instead of being at the mercy of some guy who isn't reliable.

Most people who don't care or can't change make one post and never come back to talk to the people who reply.
You come back frequently and talk to the people who try to give you good advice. Even though you resist the suggestions, you keep coming back, and I have seen some changes over the long-term.

I believe there is hope for you, Nataly. So don't give up on Life or Love. Come back as often as you feel is necessary. There will always be people who are willing to help. Take care.
 Escape2bfree
Joined: 1/7/2016
Msg: 621
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The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/19/2016 8:09:42 PM
Nataly your hairstyle is great. Some of the posts on here are unnecessary and cruel but some are also good advice. 582 is very positive and I agree with the above. Sidestep the nasty ones and take what you can from the rest. At least you create posts that are interesting and people want to respond, that's more than most can do.
 nataly66687
Joined: 5/18/2016
Msg: 622
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/20/2016 6:17:26 PM
Well I do give up on life and love because there isn't a guy for me. The guy I have been dating hasn't been talking to me much, and his communication skills suck and not sure where it will lead. Another guy I am also talking too he just reads my messages and rarely replies back. But he likes me and keeps talking to me, he just doesn't know what to say I guess. Besides those 2 guys, I know no other guy will accept me for me. No man wants to date a girl thats a virgin, that wants marriage, and doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs. Thats all guys want in women nowadays. I am not like the average girl. I am different but being different sucks because no one wants you. All people do to the different is bully and be cruel to them.
 VikingHoosier
Joined: 5/8/2015
Msg: 623
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/20/2016 6:36:47 PM
Wrong. Many of us *require* a girl who doesn't smoke and who doesn't do drugs. I'm one of many who considers not drinking ideal. A virgin is the ultimate catch in the eyes of many guys. Many would like to find a gal worth marrying.

In some parts of the world, all 5 would be requirements.

You will probably meet one or more new guys soon. Try not to think of someone as a "loser" if he doesn't have a car, job, lots of money, etc.
 redshoestoo
Joined: 9/14/2016
Msg: 624
The Birthday Bluez
Posted: 9/20/2016 6:46:03 PM
This person can't be real. This person is punking everyone. Or some university kid taking a psych course and y'all are the subject matter. Or you/we are the lab rats. Or some trans boy trying out his/her new persona. This is just too damn odd. I hear the music from that show the Twilight Zone.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
Msg: 625
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Posted: 9/20/2016 7:14:17 PM
...very strange...I've always been an outsider....military brat, moved all over the country every three years and had to start from scratch finding friends again. I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs. I have a beard, which 70%++ women do not like. Never had a lot of money or a fancy job. Didn't know anyone famous or rich. I did not want kids or to get married, which most women want. Somehow...I got laid a few times, without telling lies, being violent, or paying $$$.

Being nice can work. What doesn't work is GIVING UP. Life & Love is not simple, even for the rich and famous. Everyone has different conditions and stressors that they must deal with, and have to make room in their heart for someone else.

What's difficult for everyone is learning to adapt to your specific circumstances. Men usually have to learn to wash more often, wear clean clothes & after shave, cut down on the cursing. Women usually have to learn to respond to men who flirt with them, how to sort nice guys from dirtbags, idiots, and criminals. It's not easy for anyone, and some people NEVER learn.

I've had enough good experiences over the years that I don't feel cheated or resentful if no woman wants to hug me ever again. Thing is, I've learned to be nice to nice people, and nice people give hugs! :)
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