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 gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo
Joined: 9/21/2016
Msg: 951
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Ummm ... your cousin has CHILDREN with her husband.

Natalie NEVER wants children, but wants a husband to support her, while she cleans the house. You know, like Merry Maids, only you don't have to marry them, it just costs $162 every two weeks.


He doesn't look down at her just because she doesn't contribute to the household or to him.



They have 4 years old twins.


Pre-school Twins?? What about when they were in diapers? Did the Poo Fairy take care of that?

You may want to rethink how you define "contribute to the household."

 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 952
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Posted: 10/17/2016 1:45:37 PM

He doesn't look down at her just because she doesn't contribute to the household or to him.

Do you have a house fairy that keeps your house? That cooks your meals? That cleans your clothes? That plans your vacations? That balances your checkbook? Mops your floors, washes dishes, shops, makes your medical appointments?


As far as I can tell, she is happy cleaning, cooking, looking after hear husband, her kids, etc

"Etc" is a d*mn lot of work, not to mention the cleaning, cooking and looking after her family.

I have a lot of respect for stay at home moms.
I have no respect for anyone who won't pull her weight in some way or another.

 Nancybythebay
Joined: 4/5/2016
Msg: 953
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Posted: 10/17/2016 4:13:40 PM
...To Natalie....

I'm liking your new photos. Very natural. :)

I still believe you're underestimating yourself regarding work. You DO work; in a journalist and photographer role, so keep it up and keep updating your resume.

Your profile states you're Catholic. If you attend church regularly, you could write little articles in the church newsletter as I do. Every bit of experience in different styles of writing all helps to land a permanent job....even if it's part time....even one day a week at the beginning to ease you into more regular work.

Much earlier on in your thread you stated you didn't want volunteering work. Believe it or not, Employers look favourably upon those who are willing to give up some of their time for free. It shows initiative and drive. Plus you get to meet people of the same interests and mind set as yourself. I bet you anything, Community organisations are crying out for helpers and your help will be very much appreciated.

The thanks isn't in the way of money, no, but even better, in the way of self satisfaction in the knowledge that you've made a difference to someone's life that day.
 Nancybythebay
Joined: 4/5/2016
Msg: 954
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Posted: 10/17/2016 4:39:22 PM
At the very end of a motivational speech I heard some years ago, it was the tale of a man feeling hopeless and useless as he kicked his way along a beach. Not too far away he saw something. Running up to it, he saw a large group of starfish washed up on the shore dying in the hot sun. He picked one starfish up and threw it back into the sea.

Another man came along and saw what he did.
"I couldn't save them all." said the first man. "I don't think I made any difference really."
"Well you may not think so," said the second man. "But it made a hell of a difference to him."
 GlassArmonica
Joined: 7/28/2013
Msg: 955
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Posted: 10/17/2016 5:55:18 PM
How could the second man possibly know that the thrown starfish was a male?

It is nigh impossible to tell the sex of a starfish based on external features. SMH..
 Nancybythebay
Joined: 4/5/2016
Msg: 956
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Posted: 10/17/2016 6:26:09 PM
Lol Glass. I don't know. Maybe whoever wrote the script for the speech should have changed it to the starfish yelling out..."well it made a hell of a difference to me..." But then starfish can't talk the way we do. :) :)
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 957
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Posted: 10/17/2016 9:47:06 PM
Whatsmattababy.
I do understand I'm not everyone good guy. Everyone has there own idea what a good guy is or is not. I'm o.k for not being a good guy for everyone, nor do I try to be one. My GF thinks I'm the best she ever met and that's all that counts really. Got home from work after 9 hours . Made dinner and washed all the dishes too.
Why cause she still had work to do. That's what a good guy does. Never ever said I were a nice guy.. I sure as hell am not one of the nice guys. maybe that's answers your question.

I do tend to say what I think and I don't talk behind peoples back. For work I deal with people lots of people. I seen what some do that if I tell you, You wont believe me. I see people like Nataly and had to deal with them. Sometimes they will hit bottom before they start thinking about what has to be done. Many times its not what they were thinking but why weren't they thinking in the first place period.

So I don't cuddle her or try to give her the pep talk how good and smart she is. Cause I don't think she is.
I know of a guy just a little younger then her that would be a great fit for her life style. except I'm sure even he would want to have sex if he dates someone. I really thought of her when I talked to him. They don't even live that far from each other lol.
Well that's a thought, come to think of it she might ruin his life even more .
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 958
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Posted: 10/17/2016 10:36:52 PM
Even ppl with disabilities can find work....my son was born at 1lb 11oz and has learning problems. He holds down a full time job. He doesn't drive which I as a mom still help. He lives at home not as my 19 year old living off his mom, but as my roommate. Cost of living in the Okanagan is tough enough for a single person. So I can see how some may choose this way of living. But to be successful in life one needs to have a plan. At least the drive for a better future. I do believe even if most think it's impossible....there is a man that would be happy to have a stay at home wife. I just don't think Nat will have an easy go of it for I feel men like this are far and few inbetween.
 geekgrrrl
Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 959
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Posted: 10/17/2016 10:49:53 PM
LAgoodguy said

Nataly what are you doing back on here again. Are you off your medication??
Didn't you get it yet that the guy you would want to meet would not want to date you. You got nothing zero zilch to offer anyone. Your only bet is to meet another loser who has nothing what so ever to offer you in return for your nothing for him. Can anyone say it more plain and to the point.


What are you doing back on here again pulling your pud and tormenting Nataly? Did your blow up doll spring a leak?
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 960
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Posted: 10/18/2016 3:27:30 AM
geeky girl I never left in the first place. I just check in every once in a while. Hey I do that poor blow up girl so much I have to plug the leak every night.
I sure hope you are getting your leaks get plugged as often. Nothing better then some hot guys in there 30's do to the plugging for you. If you come over here I bet you could get some of the guys that dump our girl Nataly . I heard she wont put out as easy. You could always tag team together she clean the house and you clean the guy if you know what I mean. After all both of you go after the same guy but offer different things.
Just a thought on how you can get some.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 961
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Posted: 10/18/2016 4:18:54 AM

My GF thinks I'm the best she ever met and that's all that counts really. Got home from work after 9 hours . Made dinner and washed all the dishes too.
Why cause she still had work to do.


And if she still has work to do, maybe she won't notice that you have an active dating profile...
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 962
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Posted: 10/18/2016 12:23:51 PM

My goal is to get married and find a man that will accept me for me.

That's not the best mantra to have, though. It's too sweeping. As an author about dating once wrote (a woman, btw) said: "In order to find the right person, you need to be the right person." So what you said is correct After one has their ducks in a row.

Whether I work or don't work, or drive or don't drive. They will be accepting of that.

But if they Can work where work would give the relationship financial stability (essential), and drive where they can learn to drive decently -- no, they shouldn't be accepting of that. That's the key. Now, if one Can't work and/or Can't drive -- yes, then one should look for someone accepting of that.

When putting one's foot out in the dating waters, one has to realize you're not At All in an established relationship. It's going to be hard even if one Truly IS Incapable of working or driving. Now, if one IS capable of either but doesn't feel comfortable getting themselves in position to do so and just wants others to accept them for how they roll -- others won't have any sympathy for their dating frustrations. There will be no "woe is me" accepted.

A good thing to do to test oneself is this: If someone gave me $10 million (post-tax), could I do X/Y/Z? So in Nataly's case... if someone gave you $10 million IF you were able to get a job and put yourself in position to be able to get similar-level work in a decent amount of time if/when one falls thru -- that could make you at least living on your own (even just pretty much scraping by) -- would you say "Nope, it's impossible. Couldn't be done. You mine as well be offering me a $10 million prize if I could Literally build a rocket out of my parents' garage, and fly to the moon."? Heck, throw in with the $10 million that in 5 years, you'd be also given your Dream Job that would feel more like a hobby, following bands and writing about & interviewing them, along with hot guys who accepted you-for-you. Still so impossible? :)

A similar thing can be said about those Very Much out of shape, that's collected over the years. It'd take a lifestyle change -- and not a temporary one -- to change that. Some people just aren't willing to, which is fine if they're happy how & where they are, etc. But if they're not... then it comes down to what causes more pain? The pain of not being able to find someone and feeling "uggh" about how they look, etc -- or the pain of a lifestyle change that feels like hell for a good while to get out of that rut that their Self is so used to?
 geekgrrrl
Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 963
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Posted: 10/18/2016 3:27:53 PM
LAgoodguy said
My GF thinks I'm the best she ever met and that's all that counts really. Got home from work after 9 hours . Made dinner and washed all the dishes too. Why cause she still had work to do.


imanorangetiger said
And if she still has work to do, maybe she won't notice that you have an active dating profile...


He hasn't got a real GF. It's so obvious lol.

vvvv Cooking for a blow up doll? Too weird.

" It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again"

LA ladies beware...psycho in da house :P
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 964
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Posted: 10/18/2016 3:39:56 PM
^^^^

Isn't he referring to the blow up doll as his gf ?
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 965
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Posted: 10/18/2016 3:51:45 PM
I refer to the Google voice as my girlfriend. She tells me where to go, when to turn and how long it should take me.
 JS3344
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 966
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Posted: 10/18/2016 3:52:01 PM
^^^ nope, he still pays the doll so it doesn't feel weird.....
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 967
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Posted: 10/18/2016 5:01:39 PM
He must be busy cleaning his suit.
"I been also told that I look good in a suite. which I have more then one, have to wear for work often."
Since LAG likes to keep Nat in reality check and all
 GlassArmonica
Joined: 7/28/2013
Msg: 968
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Posted: 10/18/2016 5:23:51 PM
I like how LAgoodguy is simply giving Natalie a reality check and some tough love,

and you simpletons here all gang up together on him attacking his character and manhood.

Sounds like you losers are projecting your own inadequacies onto LAGG. So pathetic.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 969
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Posted: 10/18/2016 5:32:49 PM
Glass

Sounds like you losers are projecting your own inadequacies onto LAGG. So pathetic.

The pot calling the kettle black.
And you are any better calling ppl losers?
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 970
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Posted: 10/18/2016 5:32:55 PM
I don't know what constitutes "tough love" in your house, but saying a woman has to become a prostitute is usually seen as just mean.

Then again, I don't know how you were raised. Here I am imposing my values on someone else.
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 971
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Posted: 10/18/2016 5:38:48 PM
OMG, There are losers here? Nooooo way!!!! I wanna see some finders!!!!
(Oh crap, now where did I leave my truck keys?)
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 972
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Posted: 10/18/2016 6:16:38 PM
Orange tigre if you notice I got my profile hidden..
Geeky girl so here you are trying to make fun of me do you really think it hurts me or I care lol.. how does looking for a younger guy works for you??? You are the one who is full of your self thinking that you going to get a 20 year younger guy to use you for anything but a warm F***k doll lol .. Projecting much???
Do you think for a split sec that I care what you think??? You are the old woman who is thinking she still has it,
Not me.
You got nothing to say so you come up with ohhhhhh he has a sex doll, wow I bet you might even have even went to school to think so deep.
Come up with something out of your A$$ that has nothing to do with anything and put it out there, now you are looking in the mirror and think to your self wow I got to be smart to come up with something so smart.
Yes you are smart I give that do you. Now go and get a cookie from the jar.
 LJane_6
Joined: 6/10/2015
Msg: 973
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Posted: 10/19/2016 11:50:49 AM
This thread has become really depressing. I left it awhile ago to come back to this. Middle aged men picking on a younger woman with special needs, and adults attacking eachother like bullies on the playground. I concur with some of you who are standing up to the bullies, but many are just juvenile. (not naming names...*ahem* ^^^)
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 974
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Posted: 10/19/2016 12:17:19 PM
LAGG has left the building.
I for one think that is a good thing.
Unfortunately he will return in three days.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 7/1/2016
Msg: 975
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Posted: 10/19/2016 12:30:37 PM
^^^I've only noticed lately he seemed different?
Was he the original LAGoodguy? I honestly always
thought he was pretty nice.

But maybe I'm confusing him with someone else.
People are sometimes Jekyll and Hyde in here.
Myself included at time I guess.
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