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 Justanotherchap
Joined: 12/4/2013
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No one stops by unless they are grabbed by your first photo, well OK, there are a few who look at profiles anyway but they are going to be in the minority. So anyone who is on Pof or another dating site, get someone to check your photos for you.
 Roger More
Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 9/15/2016 6:02:09 PM
"I studied Anthropology for my degree - I'm fascinated by people "

...and learnt nothing about people?

...or is this the PhD???
 OPeningdoors87
Joined: 11/6/2012
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Posted: 9/22/2016 4:01:47 PM
its mostly about looks, nobody ever reads your profile.

Numbers game best to send a fair few messages and hope for the best.
 Lorri55
Joined: 10/5/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2016 7:24:51 AM
...................you and me both, Duracell
remember the good old days and how heated things used to get on the forums.....or should that be fora or fori??? Now I am really showing my age
amo, amas................
 billybonds
Joined: 8/8/2014
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Posted: 10/17/2016 2:27:40 PM
Donald Trump would get a response. There he is trailing in the polls out there bare bottomed on the precipice of humiliation...and is he shrivelling up into a tiny Donald ? Noope. Women love him, men want to be him, little boys want to grow up and be him and little girls want to be molested by him. It all comes down to confidence, op you are not in the nuckleheaded top 5-10% of guys, for you are in the 1%. Only my lovely Self , bunny, and chap are above you, yes you are much more attractive to woman than jo and the entire male cast on pof , numbered in millions.

A man of your sensational quixotic beefcakey charm should never linger on the often mentioned shallowness in woman of outrageous discrimination. For you live in the rarefied atmosphere of the 1% , welcome op, and never ever consort, ever again with shallow women. You are so lovely op. A response is only an uncouth sign of being dead common . Ordinary. Average. Mediocre. Square. Indeed Leftist. Don't soil yourself again op.
 Justanotherchap
Joined: 12/4/2013
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Posted: 10/18/2016 6:28:41 AM
Thanks for the ad Billy but I may now be spoken for, will let you avid listeners know when I know.

Back on subject - some good advice from the girls above OP. I don't know cos I'm not a girlie but you look like a pretty averagely good looking bloke to me and as the human race doesn't seem to have died out, I reckon average is absolutely fine.

Tip - find out where all the good looking women hang out in your area, go down there and just ask them out for a coffee, dinner, cinema etc. Don't bother with too much chat, just go for it. Downside - there are none. Try it enough and you'll get a date. Guaranteed (terms and conditions apply).
 _gardengirl_
Joined: 7/26/2016
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Posted: 10/18/2016 7:34:19 AM
hehe having just read the "your last date" thread, i think those not receiving a response should count themselves lucky.
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 10/22/2016 6:30:45 AM


Donald Trump would get a response. There he is trailing in the polls out there bare bottomed on the precipice of humiliation...and is he shrivelling up into a tiny Donald ? Noope. Women love him, men want to be him, little boys want to grow up and be him and little girls want to be molested by him. It all comes down to confidence,

Actually, "it" all comes down to money.

Trump is a buffoon, who believes (like so many other "celebrities",) that being rich and/or famous somehow "entitles" them to avail themselves of other people's bodies, at their whims.

Socialists think otherwise.

op you are not in the nuckleheaded top 5-10% of guys, for you are in the 1%. Only my lovely Self , bunny, and chap are above you, yes you are much more attractive to woman than jo and the entire male cast on pof , numbered in millions.

There's "confidence", and then, there's delusion.

A man of your sensational quixotic beefcakey charm should never linger on the often mentioned shallowness in woman of outrageous discrimination. For you live in the rarefied atmosphere of the 1% , welcome op, and never ever consort, ever again with shallow women. You are so lovely op. A response is only an uncouth sign of being dead common . Ordinary. Average. Mediocre. Square. Indeed Leftist. Don't soil yourself again op.

As you seem to think that the central banks are a "socialist" plot, at best, I think your "advice" is of dubious merit.

Back OT:
Try holding some fish.
Have a pleasant weekend.
 Cerulean666
Joined: 8/2/2010
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Posted: 11/24/2016 11:23:49 AM
took her to the local spoons for an all day brunch and free tea with the meal ....

Ha ha. now that's a quality date!
 kernowmade
Joined: 12/16/2013
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Posted: 11/29/2016 11:50:03 AM
Having a photo would help. I never reply to anyone without a photo of themselves on their profile. If they can't be bothered to be seen, why bother with being on here in the first place.
 Damilovely
Joined: 12/23/2014
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Posted: 11/30/2016 7:54:46 AM

wonder if its the same lot that whine on about equality


We are equal but not the same.
3 waves of feminism. The 1st wave started in the mid 1800 and was about political and legal fairness and equality.
The 2nd wave sought proprietary and inheritance rights, economic fairness.
The 3rd wave which started in the early 1990s promoted sexual "freedom" and sameness of gender ( ie lack of femininity).
21st century - 4th wave which is mainly male bashing and promotion of lesbianism.

The human race depends on optimising the strengths of genders and appreciation for their different roles. Feminine gentleness, kindness, sensitivity, ability to risk her life to birth a new born and other things I will not type lol! These traits inspire a man to treat a woman like a lady, hold the door for her etc. This in turn inspires respect and appreciation of his manliness. Most women will tell you they're more attracted to masculine men who are kind than feminine men whether kind or unkind. "Feminism is about equal pay for equal work, owning property, access to education, right to vote and participate in the political process, it’s not about asking men out, proposing to a man, paying for dates, or being a man. Women cannot be men, romantically. A successful coupling is when both parties compliment each other.

Of course, it does not mean you will not find a woman who aligns with your school of thought but don't get frustrated if she ever insists that you drive the exact same amount of miles or keeps a tally demanding you watch tv an equal amount of hours. In short the relationship is spent keeping a tally of who owes the other having overstepped the equality equilibrium.

Aspiration for equality instead of partnership in relationships causes competition and conflict which leads to frustration and premature death of what would otherwise have been a more worthwhile journey.
 Graffiti_Poet
Joined: 1/2/2011
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Posted: 12/3/2016 3:09:20 AM
Don't Sweat The Small Stuff

Oh lordy me, what can I do
to know my call to love got through.
Did she see it, then dismiss
or think a toad she'd rather kiss,
yet maybe it's still waiting there
until she's fixed her face and hair.

Has she been busy and forgot
which older people do a lot.
Or is my message in a queue
a hundred long, or just a few,
how will I ever really know
unless she writes and tells me so....

There is only one person can answer this question and none of us are them.....
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Posted: 12/5/2016 3:48:06 PM
Go to Profile assistance review, nice people there will assist you in making positive changes to your dull profile.

ciao
 TucsonPug
Joined: 6/17/2015
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Posted: 12/6/2016 12:18:40 PM
Profile review is best avoided and they are anything but nice.
His profile is not dull, blimey give him some credit, he has a lot to say, what's wrong with that?
 duracell_bunny_one
Joined: 1/21/2015
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Posted: 12/6/2016 1:11:54 PM
She's American - it's a different mindset.......
btw - since when did roadtripping stop being a no-no?
- ah yes, when Marcus got rid of the mods - silly moi.

 AndMcFly
Joined: 1/22/2016
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Posted: 1/10/2017 2:26:35 AM
I don't think it's you, I think it comes down to the fact where we live in a world where only ladies seem to only want to date good looking big headed guys. I've write loads of messages and get the same problem, you could write loads and loads in a message and you still won't get a reply. Though if you look like Justin Bieber and just write "Hi how are you" you'll get hundreds of replies.

I put it down to how people are brought up, I don't wish to sound disrepectful to women but I think they've been brainwashed to think people will think there dull if they go for shall we say a plain guy.
 Aggers
Joined: 10/26/2012
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Posted: 1/14/2017 8:48:45 AM

Go to Profile assistance review, nice people there will assist you in making positive changes to your dull profile.


I know the OP has gone, but my advice to the everybody is NEVER do this! And....... nice people? that is a joke!

It is a character assassination thread. If you are clutching at straws and have run out of ideas, usually you would welcome a bit of help, but the reviewers (self proclaimed experts .... sorry) just bat on about how bad you are in every way and usually go on and on about your photos . It spoilt and changed my way of enjoyment of these fora and the online dating as a whole and made me feel absolutely effin worthless to ever date again. I actually received a message from one of the reviewers in the mid-west of USA actually telling me that I was not good looking enough to have what I have written in my profile? CHARMING!

So my advice is DO NOT! I learnt a valuable lesson.
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