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 LetitiaLeGrande
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the thing is the players are the most attractive men often. So naturally a hottie will go for them. If she is wise she will move on when these guys start to treat her badly. Putting all that dont want this and dont want that, is just a red rag to a bull and is totally useless.
 LetitiaLeGrande
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Posted: 11/3/2016 9:22:49 PM
prettybrowneyed

Why dont you agree to meet a few of these guys, at least the ones that look a bit interesting. Just out of curiosity. You know, one day when you are a bit bored lol!

I would turn up and be somewhere to observe them arriving and see how many actually show and have told the truth about themselves. My bet is very few..
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 11/4/2016 5:11:11 AM
"I myselfs find it extremely appealing when youse guys send mes messages telling me all the things youse want to do to me"

>>>Yo, I feels a New Yawk minute coming on :) Seriously, I can only imagine how annoying it probably is. And yes, attractive men can make the best players, b/c they can easily "act" like they aren't too invested, can find someone better and have a woman chase as a result. It isn't an act when you really do have a ton of choices out there, you're just operating normally. Still, its amazing when you meet these incredibly sexy human beings (women who are 10's with a porn star body a surgeon couldn't make look any better than it does naturally) and find out they too make bad choices in partners. Its like a wealthy person who lets money burn a hole in their pocket.
 InnerGorilla2
Joined: 8/1/2016
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Posted: 11/4/2016 11:25:51 AM

It isn't an act when you really do have a ton of choices out there, you're just operating normally.


There was this time when I started dating his woman that looked like Michelle Phyffer. But... she was really messed up. We went from having sex, to being friends, to having sex, to being friends. So during that time I also dated other women. But my attitude was like I didn't give a sh it. So I would have a date with some other super hot girl, show up after one of my rides still sweaty and in cargo shorts and a T-shirt. I let her pay for the drinks, tell her that I had to cut lose early since I was riding in the mountains early in the morning and still she wanted to sleep with me. It's something amazing what happens when you really don't really give a crap.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
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Posted: 11/4/2016 11:35:03 AM
^ I think some people might not use this approach because they're hung up on... being kind.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 11/4/2016 3:52:28 PM

I would turn up and be somewhere to observe them arriving and see how many actually show and have told the truth about themselves. My bet is very few..


So, there you are in hiding behind a fern, or in a store staring out the window at a designated bench, or sitting outside in a disguise, or maybe your who profile was a LIE to lure a guy and stand him up on purpose.

...wait a minute, WHAT was this test all about? Oh, yeah....TELLING THE TRUTH.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 11/4/2016 7:19:16 PM
My first gf was a rockstar's dream--pretty face, long blonde hair, model skinny, member of the high school drama club. I'm attracted to curvy ladies instead, and this friend of my next door neighbor wasn't the smartest knife in the deck, and was a bit tightly-wound to boot. I wasn't interested while guys who like a model skinny woman were. She came from a broken home, wanted only guys she could win over, so without even trying, I was attractive to her while the other guys trying to get her attention got nowhere. She even begged me to ask her out. I wasn't trying to be a jerk, but it "Worked" on her until she cheated with a guy who really played the game.
 Dili_gent
Joined: 1/8/2011
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Posted: 11/20/2016 12:26:44 PM

it is also extremely creepy to message someone just because they commented on one of your posts.But don't feel too special, you are probably the 10th person I have blocked today...but the night is still young.


It is equally creepy to publicly post this message only in an attempt to get attention and not communicate with the person you blocked. You could have sent him a private message and then blocked him without the public comment.
 moonbeamlover1
Joined: 11/10/2016
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:10:14 PM
and the entertainment continues. love this thread. It is nice seeing a bunch of familiar faces.

ok.. killer dating turn offs..

People addicted to text and allergic to phone... need voice thank you...
People who are told you are in three fantasy football leagues, still feel the need to ask if you ever watch football..
and People claiming to be single who very much aren't.
Oh yeah... one more... the one who claims to be a light smoker who turns out to smoke 3-4 packs a day... inside.
 Robyn143
Joined: 7/19/2016
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:14:35 PM
No, not really..its just me not caring..but you sure did since you posted on it as well..lol.and I doubt you know anything about harassment..sometimes they NEED to be shut down in public...go pay attention to your mom...you really shouldnt let swallow co ck for nickles..loser
 youwinhere
Joined: 1/8/2009
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Posted: 11/21/2016 5:27:08 AM
Hi. Please know it is not all women. Keep trying and be sincere. You will hit pay dirt if your heart is good. Don't get negative because you will think wrong things. Good luck.
 youwinhere
Joined: 1/8/2009
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Posted: 11/21/2016 5:30:13 AM
Yes but if you try to act like what you are not, need tat y seems to not work also.Hang in.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 113
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Posted: 11/21/2016 7:37:02 AM

^ I think some people might not use this approach because they're hung up on... being kind.


Well, that seems silly with the examples that we are given, daily it seems. You know,all those people bragging about how "successful" they are, which includes a trail of destruction, elimination, and the snubbed behind them.

Do what ya gotta do to get what you think you want.


Yeahhhhhhhhh,

that's the ticket!!!!!!!!
 Tempered_Soul
Joined: 10/18/2013
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Posted: 11/27/2016 9:32:14 AM
"Why are most women so quick and so defensive and want to blame all men for their insecure or bad past experiences."

To paraphrase from Spaceballs, "Women, pshaw. You mean girls". A woman doesn't blame men or the male gender for all of her problems, girls tend to do that. A woman would simply figure out her bad experiences You need to stop putting up with girls and try to find a woman. Look deep into your heart and ask yourself "Why do I attract girls? What would make me attract a woman?"

When you only smell flowers grown by a sewer, you'll tend to think all flowers smell like... well, you know.

When you ask yourself those questions, post your results here. :)
 Tempered_Soul
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Posted: 11/27/2016 9:36:30 AM
" Still, its amazing when you meet these incredibly sexy human beings (women who are 10's with a porn star body a surgeon couldn't make look any better than it does naturally) and find out they too make bad choices in partners. Its like a wealthy person who lets money burn a hole in their pocket."

There are also good looking women who make good and healthy choices in partners. It's because they have substance.

It's not about the looks, it's about a person's character. If the 10s are 0s when it comes to character, well guess what they'll end up with?
 flman2015
Joined: 10/3/2015
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Posted: 11/27/2016 8:23:35 PM


Oh yeah... one more... the one who claims to be a light smoker who turns out to smoke 3-4 packs a day... inside.
The claim is correct. He smokes inside with the lights on, therefore he is a light smoker.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
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Posted: 11/27/2016 8:41:12 PM
^ That's something funny, actually. I'm Whatsamattababy, and I'm a smoker. ("Hi, Whatsamattababy.") But I couldn't be around someone who smokes indoors. (Does anyone actually do that anymore, though?)
 moonbeamlover1
Joined: 11/10/2016
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Posted: 11/28/2016 4:10:07 PM
lol at flman and whatsamatter yes. there is. ( I didn't know there were either till after starting to date him). and he lives in a majorly smoky house in chanhassen with three cats, who I fear for their lives.

you can smell the smoke THROUGH the closed front door
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 11/28/2016 4:41:39 PM
Hopefully the smoke rises high enough. I knew someone long ago who did smoke inside, and while I never sniffed her...cat fur, I suspect it was low enough to floor, like crawling out of a burning home. I know I ticked off a lot of smokers last time, but...boy, a heavy smoker gets the smell everywhere. I bought some die cast car toys at a flea market, and could still smell it. Washed the toy cars off, and it wasn't clear water that went down the drain. And i'm one of those who normally loves the smell of freshly printed magazines or musty books.

or you pull up next to their real car in a parking lot, and the windshield is covered inside with a soapy film you can write your name in...

stepping off the soap box now.
 aintnodeal
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Posted: 11/28/2016 8:09:44 PM
^^^ My car has that kind of film. It's fast-food grease. Don't sit in the front passenger seat.

Heh! I had a buddy I went to clubs with for a couple of years...we just hung out on the weekends to go dancing. He would insist on driving half the time...but his car was a cigar smoke room. He never cleaned the seats BEFORE he picked me up....he'd always clear away butts and ashes after I pointed it out. I started to just fold my jacket and sit on it....his apartment was the same way, you couldn't even sit on the couch!!!
 bucsgirl
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Posted: 11/29/2016 5:16:22 PM
"women should not date a guy who can't afford a comma............"

Thanks to whoever posted that, it was a laugh I really needed.

As to the OP, perhaps some type of tutorial on how to title threads might be a help......just saying. I've learned, not from being on this site, that when someone says "when men, when women....blah blah" that's really all I need to know. IMO what it reveals is a recurring issue that ONE individual person continues to have with the opposite (or same) sex and hasn't seen the common factor IE not learned a darned thing from all that experience.
 pcflsweetie
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Posted: 12/22/2016 11:24:50 PM
LOL! You really got me laughing at.. "3-4 packs a day....inside". We all try to put our best foot forward, or at least present our"best selves", but where in the world does' light smoker' translate into 'fire breathing dragon, AND in your face'! Some people are just too much! LOL! It's no laughing matter when it comes to the big deceptions, but I have to admit that people like that really make me laugh, because they try so hard to hide their insecurities about themselves.
I really try hard to just be me with all my lumps and warts and awkwardnesses (that's not a word), but you get my drift. Let's admit it, we're all a little bit f..ked up, but that is a part of our uniqueness. It's finding that other, slightly damaged, unique package, that you can be completely yourself with, and that you find you just can't live without, that makes this all so worth while and exciting! IMO ;)
Good luck to all you little birds out there, may you find the perfect partner to build your next nest with! : )
Oh P.S....because I'm so short winded ; b....I'm still looking for my little bird : ) JTLYK
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
Msg: 124
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Posted: 12/23/2016 4:54:57 AM
Any mention of a boyfriend past or present. Answering Cell phones unless it's an emergency and your pet is not in that classification unless it is dying and extremely sick. Discussions of finances I despise that topic regardless of how much I make I will end a date faster than you can bat an eye. Gossip about neighbors, ex's, or anyone in general unless it is directly linked to date is not something I want to hear, I honestly dont care if a cousin's, sister's, brother, is cheating on his girlfriend. Or what Boney Bob's opinion of me is lastly interest if a woman cant show some sort of interest in me I will make a date short.
 LetitiaLeGrande
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Posted: 12/23/2016 4:51:01 PM
nestaron

I agree totally and I will pay my share and leave. Blcok any messages coming in from that person...forever.
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