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 Charmedlife1
Joined: 6/7/2012
Msg: 50
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There should be a forum we can post about the bad ones, I'm sure I'd be listed as "crazy" - always the go to when THEY screw you over - oh she was the crazy ex, no douche she was crazy for ever dating you 😂
 a88ie100
Joined: 8/26/2017
Msg: 51
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Posted: 9/27/2017 4:08:45 AM
Bit like Sparks888 from reading, uk. He is really 42 not 39, an abusive alcoholic with 4 kids he pays nothing for with various women. He drives round no tax/insurance/ mot pissed out of his head. tried to get women to get pregant and move in with him. Classic class A abuser

Funny thing is. He lists on his profile he can provide for women, Provide a heart attack maybe LOL. This bloke blows off work drunk and rips people off LOL.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/27/2017 5:38:17 AM
^ Naming and shaming is not allowed on the forums, for good reason. This username equates to someone from Australia.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 53
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Posted: 9/27/2017 8:25:01 AM
More proof women choose bad guys to shag with
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/28/2017 10:45:05 AM

He is really 42 not 39

That part is meaningless. Many women do the same thing, and there's really no age difference for dating. There's more of a problem with someone saying "I'd date 39 -- but 42? Oh hell no!" You mine as well say that he gained a mere 5lbs since his picture. :) The problems are his other stuff...

an abusive alcoholic with 4 kids he pays nothing for ..... He drives round no tax/insurance/ mot pissed out of his head. tried to get women to get pregant and move in with him

So why did you shag up with him? We can't search by user name anymore, so I'm assuming he's Hot, and that's why you wanted him? Or maybe not Hot, but attractive, and his "swagger" got you reeling, because he wasn't yet-another-chump throwing himself at you, but instead would razz you while liking you -- and it worked?
 mad68
Joined: 10/16/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/10/2017 11:09:22 PM
Ladies just remember men write here too....and I have been informed that the men write nasty comments about women. Tonight I was told by a male profile that in here are messages that I'm easy and have herpes, so it doesn't matter what you do to protect yourself all it takes is one person to start spreading slander and it grows. They say women are bitter ****es ...well nothing like a man who is rejected, ignored or whatever the reason you may not want to see them again ...all they have to use is one word and your rep is done! POF sets rules and regulations for us but it doesn't seem like they enforce those rules and regulations to protect against people slandering other people on their own website!!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 10/11/2017 5:44:58 AM
^^^and that's why reporting users is frowned upon. It cuts both ways.
 howell1000
Joined: 8/2/2017
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/24/2018 8:39:00 AM
A black man in spokane with painter in his username has gonorea with complications from being untreated
He cheated on me on POF an refuses to deal with having an std. Hes " looking for love" but says he never will use a condom
 Naturalselection53
Joined: 1/13/2016
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/24/2018 8:53:57 AM
Well OP, some of these guys are good. I sorta, kinda , got caught up in someone who was running a good game. Until he got caught, No one really knows for sure how many of us he had on the go at once. Kind of had a sense there was something not quite right, thought maybe he was married. No, turns out there was at least 10 of us that we know of.
He made the stupid mistake of having us all on his Facebook at once. Telling each one of us that the rest were just friends. Then I got smart and made a fake profile with a fake pic and caught him on a dating site. Well, when he met all of us on the big coffee date, the expression on his face was priceless.

People always say nothing is real until you meet. Sometimes it still isnt real then. He is still on this site, running his scam. BUT, you can't warn everyone.
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 59
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Posted: 3/14/2018 3:00:24 AM
Duuh!.....think it's prevalent on most sights and goes both ways.....how bout the woman who are on here for the longest and oh yeah...say they found the love of their life and still have a profile....weird-eh?.......doesn't pertain to one sex....and no I advertise for non committal without ties and if your smart would read between the lines and see I'm looking for that elusive FWB....
 from site to sight
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 3/14/2018 5:39:55 AM
And there are fake profiles by women who justify it like in msg 59:
"Then I got smart and made a fake profile with a fake pic and caught him on a dating site."
How many of these women immediately delete their fake profile the minute they catch their SO on a dating site?
And how many of these women are flattered with the responses they're getting with the fake profile, so they don't bother deleting it, even though they're in a relationship, or dealing with a relationship that's on shaky grounds?
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 3/14/2018 8:58:27 AM

how bout the woman who are on here for the longest and oh yeah...say they found the love of their life and still have a profile....weird-eh?


Many of them are here for the forums only. A profile is required for that.
 Brookie_48150
Joined: 6/28/2017
Msg: 62
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Posted: 3/14/2018 7:58:08 PM
Most of the guys on here are married especially this one.. I found it out unfortunately for myself.
He is Cuteone51
Lot of them are married here or from spamming from other countries.
 Brookie_48150
Joined: 6/28/2017
Msg: 63
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Posted: 3/14/2018 7:58:35 PM
Cuteone51 is married
 Brookie_48150
Joined: 6/28/2017
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Posted: 3/14/2018 8:02:33 PM
I have been on this site for years and the only reason to come here is if you are bored with absolutely nothing to do and want a good laugh. The men on here are losers. Many of them are married, liars, looking for money or a place to live, or if they have anything going on they are so worried that you are going to rip them off and take advantage of them they treat you like a criminal out the gate LOL its totally crazy. And this is cool I never knew this blog existed before tonight.. Never go involved in this site except to look at my messages.
Also Ladies, cuteone51: Cute guy is MARRIED .. OK just saying!
 Broccoli_4_Dinner
Joined: 1/31/2018
Msg: 65
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Posted: 3/14/2018 8:23:33 PM
Just out of curiosity, Brookie_48150, is cuteone51 married or nah?
 NameAreadyTaken0
Joined: 1/2/2018
Msg: 66
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Posted: 3/16/2018 12:21:08 PM
This is hilarious..... and sad. Think I'll stay single and settle for the cat. Think she's seeing others too :(
 MsSkeezix
Joined: 7/1/2017
Msg: 67
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Posted: 3/16/2018 1:11:52 PM
^^^
Think I'll stay single and settle for the cat. Think she's seeing others too :(


I wouldn't doubt it!
And don't even get me started on those darn 'Toms'~
hahahaha

;-0
 30yoBlkM4Older
Joined: 3/13/2018
Msg: 68
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Posted: 3/16/2018 2:04:05 PM
POF has an age cap.. It used to be open and the users would have to select an age bracket of their potential suitors.. now it does it automatically, but still has the gaul to give you an unlimited age bracket when you search for suitors.... This forces people to have to create accounts with false ages to find what they are looking for..
Although if he was not upfront and truth telling about his age, then that is blatently dishonest. I am always upfront.
also.. wanting sex doesn't make you a con artist. the only thing it seems he conned you out of was your time, but he didn't profit off of you..
There are literal Escorts on POF asking for money once you get to know them, or BOTS that lead you to other websites with pretty faces and robotic teasing emails. You should always be careful regardless of your gender and follow POF's safety guidelines. Its pretty clear how to watch after yourself on here..
 str8ballinf247
Joined: 4/2/2015
Msg: 69
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Posted: 3/17/2018 5:38:02 AM
We don't play games. we say what mean n mean what we say. Our balls are bigger n wear them proudly on our chest. More then a man but wo man
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
Msg: 70
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Posted: 3/17/2018 5:59:00 AM
your balls are on your chest? All this time, I thought I was playing with breasts and instead I was putting someone's balls on my tongue?

man....learn something new, every damn day.
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