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 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 951
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Arrogant + ignorant = RACISTPage 39 of 41    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41)

The personal attacks are all youve got, and every time you post you just prove me correct.
when I counter...you pule and caterwaul

Hahaha two idiots..one whose a liar and the other who is stupid.


The turd does irony. Hilarious!
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 952
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/21/2017 2:59:22 PM
I personally would like all: xenephopes (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xenophobia), people who fail to understand cultural relativity, or are ethnocentric to type that in large capitol letters in their profile. I do not find stereotypes or prejudice attractive, i am not offended by C U N T as I have read the book, t wat, c ock, mewling, etc. any discourse where offense is taken by certain words rather than attempting to understand the idea being expressed fails the test of honest discourse..

I: myself :do not enjoy taking the time to answer letters that seemingly show interest but are pretty basic and non communicative, despite my encouragement and interest, then exchange numbers and have an extremely uncomfortable phone conversation, first verbal contact, whereupon scads of xenophobic and yes religious ideology is being rammed down my throat much as undesired fellatio. Please identify your prejudices right in your profile. i plead please. mewling.

Sometimes regardless of the statements in profiles, blunt honesty of beliefs, ideological philosophies, radical religious philosophies etc. and desires stated in a profile, reduces these uncomfortable first contacts and no wasted time. Many profiles I read have nothing stated in what they are looking for in a partner. When you ask in a message or a letter, its just i am a good guy, man etc looking for a good, gal woman etc! or honest. I am honest but two people can be honest for sure but have nothing else in common. Get me on the phone and then reveal their "honest" incendiary, judgements and prejudices exposing my judgment of them. lol and i do not like judging people.. However, at least they broached it before a miserable first date: As a Jewish friend of mine experienced from a anti semetic, christian- who threatened her with hellfire in the 1.5 hour drive home from their dinner date. . More to be said for a public meet up driving separate cars not sharing a ride on first date. I am wondering now ? many men have wanted to meet then drive in their cars, wow thank god my physical safety is first and foremost in my mind, when meeting. lol...what a darn waste, of my time and theirs too. what is the point of this style of communication. that is my question??
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 953
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/21/2017 4:07:32 PM

any discourse where offense is taken by certain words rather than attempting to understand the idea being expressed fails the test of honest discourse..

Agreed!
I soundly admit to RETORTING offensive banter, but REPEATEDLY attempt discourse to no avail...as you can witness by looking no further than the post preceding yours.

Although not EXACTLY on TOPIC... xenophobia is yet another form of discrimination, and, as such, is far better to add to the conversation than personal snides and accusations. It IS indeed...well...a waste of time to become interested in someone to only find they are a bigot. It might not be POCs or foreigners... but it IS a waste of ones time to find these things out later than sooner. To expect people to wear their biases on their sleeves? I dunno about that, as nice as that sounds.

Just add it to the list of things to watch for, I guess.

I dunno... otherwise.. all I can suggest further, in light of your 'mewling'...is have some set rules and procedures that first and foremost ensure your safety and convenience.

Ive been on a number of POF dates where the woman brought a friend, or meet at a local POF gathering.
ALWAYS be safe, no matter what.
If theres ONE thing Ive learned about this site?
There are some creepy men in here. And some mean nasty people.
Sigh...just like anywhere else these days.

Your last sentence...Im not really sure what your question is. I'd rather ask than assume
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 954
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/21/2017 4:45:50 PM
The problem, Inicia, is that most people don't recognize themselves as zealots or bigots or arrogant, ignorant azzes. This is their identity and their beliefs so, of course they must be right. The words which flow from their lips are pearls of wisdom dispensed into the intellectual void for our benefit.

D*mn. I have to stop reading Wms. Shakespeare and Blake before bedtime.
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 955
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/21/2017 5:33:45 PM
I put the wikki definition of xenophobe up because it contains the greek meaning: "unreasonable fear of the unfamiliar"
I never risk unsafe meetings, yet my friend does have a more casual attitude, and she was subjected to a horrible date and had to ride, to her home, 1.5 hours away, being lectured by an anti-semetic Christian.. I however have been subjected to the obnoxious testing in phone conversations about my true christan nature, and my liberal political views. i have not dated or continued conversing with any that attempt this for first conversation. I have however; over the years dated men who claim to be diverse, enlightened, respectful of women and all ethnicities, and they revealed, over time, their true selves. I actually found out about someone, i lived with for several years, by accessing his face book page and finding a private group he started: oin which he was bashing, socialist, immigrants, liberals; it was quite a shock needless to say. luckily none of his friends or family cared to participate.
Which confirmed his careful and innocuous, expressed bigotry- it often came up like a social unawareness, that he may of actually had an honest misunderstanding , often a source of our arguments, and in addition, explained his consistent disdain and disrespect for me. People can be excellent deceivers.
People who find bigotry and prejudice appealing are definitely a turn off for me, and i wish they would state it as their desire in a partner. Yet because they know intrinsically, they are not ignorant to the fact that it is a huge turn off and unacceptable for most people who are alive today, they slither around insidiously.
So that being said as a relationship is not going to work with these types of core foundational oppositions, why do people try and date people that clearly do not share core foundational beliefs when reading a profile, as a strategy for dating ?
I just do not know WTF DO they expect or experience?{ Probably a naive person, as i was, that will ignore RED FLAGS AND STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A DAMN PIG.} Or maybe they see themselves as the all knowing brilliant genuis out to persuade all these dumb women or men, who they feel are confused ? Maybe this scenario is not frequent for others. Maybe i am presenting myself incorrectly. because i get this kind of frequently/proportionally to those i actually talk to or have dated.
Have any other possible reasons for this? that was my question.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 956
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Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 7:06:22 AM

I soundly admit to RETORTING offensive banter, but REPEATEDLY attempt discourse to no avail...as you can witness by looking no further than the post preceding yours.


Yet more irony from someone with somewhat selective subjectivity. No wonder women bring a friend along for safety.
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 957
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 9:36:24 AM
Well i chose to update my profile, with what i hope were explicit clarifications of my social and political views and with a conversation starter: "explain your political, religious, and social ideas in letters".. probably greatly reduce interest and options lol, but not looking for options. Hope it does not encourage trolls and haters.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 958
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 10:03:34 AM
^^^^MSG#969
Nothing constructive to the discussion but instead, more personal attacks.
Yeah, its all you have.

Inicia
Whether its racism, bigotry, religious or political views... there are many things people keep hidden about themselves.
I dated someone thru here who had 'non-smoker' on their profile.
Over time I found out that they were a 'light' smoker... about a pack every few days.

Also, as 2ufo2 says...many are in self denial. You can look here for prime examples of people who will flat out claim they arent something...but are.
Sexist is a common one Im sure you can relate to.
Nice bedtime readin BTW 2ufo2 lol.
Sounds exactly like some of my old reading lists for school

Backtrack to NY58:
Msg#962
You'd 'bet' wrong. I indeed know whaat 'cracker;' means, and it has nada to do with the cracking of a whip. I use it in a...Scottish context.
No one has ever accused any living white person of having any responsibility or blame for SLAVERY.
Its a common mistake, made from sheer ignorance, to assume this, and its usually, almost exclusively, a misconception made by ignorant (leading to the source of their racism) whites...who confuse (and thereby interject)slavery with racism.

Blacks arent cheesed with todays whites over slavery, but the still existing racist system that initially justified slavery, and resent whites who reap the benefits from a society built on forced labour, to which no restitution has been made. America...NORTH America wouldnt be what it is without POCs who still get the shit end of the bounty, and when whites fail to recognize and admit they have benefits from this system, whether they like it or not... it makes them, in our eyes... pieces of shit. As Louis CK said in one of the clips I posted that no one has addressed... youre an a-hole if you cant admit its better to be white. Which isnt to say that white is better.
Just to clarify that.

Which...incidentally...cheeses many whites of...the latent, diet racists who often dont realize what they are. They get cheesed when their privileges are revoked or ignored...because they are used to things being a certain way. They carry preconceived notions that they just naturally pick up because thats just how it is: POCs are below whites, and we better not act, talk to, or treat you in certain ways.

Ive used this to piss many off here...by doing nothing more than talking to them like they are nothings and no bodys. They arent used to that...esp coming from a smart lipped nigg3r...which I assure you...they are too cowardly to say, but sure as hell have thought. Its just...what they are used to, and when someone speaks to them...someone black...in any way they arent conditioned to being used to...it sets them off. Gasp! How dare a black guy kick off to ME!

I will admit...I often speak to people in ways I know they arent used to. I want them to see and feel what its like.
I fully expect them to not like it... but note they dont see thats exactly how we too feel when its done to us.
They dont like being spoken to like they are dog shit? Why wouldnt we as well?

I mean... I too would rather be talkin about ribs!
You KNOW I love food!

But to answer your other question...no. Bob actually lived three yards over in Trenchtown from my dad and would kick ball with my dads younger brother Junior. My dad did a song when Marley was just 14 years old. UP to that point reggae..and rasta influence in our music...didnt exist. My dad put out a song that was different than anything ever heard muchless recorded, and that single is where the original roots or reggae music trace back to.

Ive had a few a-holes tell me Im a liar and call me all kinds of shit, but they fell silent on those accusations after they did their homework, and at best now claim its some coincidence or shared name coincidence because they cant admit they were WRONG in their name calling accusations and all the personal attacks they made. I had initially mentioned who my dad was when I was talking about some car shit, for a lot of the funds for building my car came from working for my dad when he started his publishing company to handle all the royalties that were coming in. So thats a lot of the story behind some of the bickering you see..LOLTrump aka Frank actually followed me here, from other threads, to harass me some more and didnt come here to have ANY discussion about racism, so thats what a lot of my shots at HIM have been over.

YOU... however, are another matter.
As Ricky said,"LUUUUCY! You have some explaining to dooooo!"
You called me a racist earlier?
Bullshit.
prove it.
Copy and paste where I said something racist, and post with it a definition of racism and show me how Ive said anything racist.
Explain to me how its even POSSIBLE for me to.
Explain how IF I was a racist, how my thoughts or racist beliefs are replicated out there, are a part of a mainstream ideology, and has any direct or indirect affect on a white persons life and liberty.
If I was to call someone a cracker, lets say. How does that actually demean a white person? How does it subject them to a reminder of their second rate status, their oppression, personal experiences or their history? How does that put them LOWER or even on par with a black being called a nigg3r? Do any of you look at your ID and see a whitee face with a black name attached to it?

I'll stop right there.
You can deal with each sentence above that ends with a question mark in bullet or point form, if you like.

To the shit talker below:
Looks like someone didnt wait for the 15 minute time lapse for me to EDIT and correct my INCONSEQUENTIAL typos.
A failed grammar nazi.
Do note he wont address ANYTHING to do with the topic or come clean on the multiple burns.
So dont none of you finger waggers point your digits in my direction when this shit goes off the rails and off track with this personal attack shit. Look no farther than the dick below to see what Im talking about
To ensure a-hole doesnt go and edit HIS SHIT?
(because hes a weasel like that)

Posted: 8/22/2017 1:09:18 PM


Now one has ever accused any living white person of having any responsibility or blame for SLAVERY.
Its a common mistake, made from sheer ignorance, to assume this, and its usually, almost exclusively, a misconception made by ignorant (leading to the source of their racism) whites...who confuse (and thereby interject)slavery with racism.



"Now one have ever..."

Looks like someone is making common mistakes rooted in sheer ignorance.
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 959
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 10:09:18 AM

Now one has ever accused any living white person of having any responsibility or blame for SLAVERY.
Its a common mistake, made from sheer ignorance, to assume this, and its usually, almost exclusively, a misconception made by ignorant (leading to the source of their racism) whites...who confuse (and thereby interject)slavery with racism.


"Now one have ever..."

Looks like someone is making common mistakes rooted in sheer ignorance.
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 960
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 10:23:37 AM

Do note he wont address ANYTHING to do with the topic or come clean on the multiple burns.


Speaking of coming clean, will you finally admit you scammed people with your GoFundMe or maybe come clean with regards to putting a NHL star player in the Critical Care Unit?

How about your claim that you get Top Secret Information from your sister?





So dont none of you finger waggers point your digits in my direction when this shit goes off the rails and off track with this personal attack shit.


Oh no, looks like someone needs a wambulance.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 961
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 10:51:38 AM
You first Frank
Come clean about your errors regarding:
-Bola
-Christopher Columbus
-My sister
-My dad
-Why you were looking me up so hard you found my old Go Fund me
-Explain this so called scam you keep accusing me of
-The fact is that you cant confirm OR thereby deny what happened between me and Kirk didnt go down, so show me the CCU records for whichever of the two hospitals he would have been taken to
-Tell me why you havent called to the people who live STILL in the house where this all happened.
-Show me exactly where I said I GET TOP SECRET INFO from my sister. Saying she has top secret clearance isnt saying she told me top secret shit, idiot. What did I say she said? "America is behind Russia in their military". Thats not "top secret" Frank...just because it goes against your preconceived CNN driven beliefs does it mean its false or secret. I asked you a million times if khibny is top secret, or if the S500 is top secret, and asked what America has to counter these. All I got from you is your usual insults and name calling shit youd expect from a 12 year old.

Hahaha at least you just showed youve finally conceded as to who my sister is, whether you meant to or realized it or not. Youve called me a liar on that, like everything else, and like everything else, youre not only proven wrong, but run and deflect when you discover the truth and find out Im not lying. Now ya wanna twist my words...again. with straw man shit. By all means, show me where I said I GET top secret info from ANYONE.

Do you know what you are Frank?
A racist.
Yeah...thats why you deflect and come here to high jack and further railroad this discussion...because you wanna shift focus off this topic, because you know thats exactly what you are.
A racist goof.

Ive asked you repeatedly to address the points Ive AGAIN listed above... but youll find some excuse. Maybe itll be another typo. And ya wanna talk about who needs a waaambulance?
Lil sniveler Frankie, thats who hahahaha Seriously...you ...You...I mean YOU actually call people 'retard'?
hahaha for shame!


Do note he wont address ANYTHING to do with the topic or come clean on the multiple burns.


Speaking of coming clean

Ok, we HAVE spoken about coming clean. Many times, and you still wont.
So we have now addressed the one.
Now, how about "Speaking of the topic..."?
The "Do note" was two-part. You dealt with the second part by deflecting. You still have NOT YET touched the first part.
You know...the TOPIC.
But never mind you have fuk all to say on that and its not why youre here anyways, so why would you address it and not continue to ignore it.
Its...what trolls do yep
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 962
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Calling out the Selective Hypocrite
Posted: 8/22/2017 11:15:15 AM

Nothing constructive to the discussion but instead, more personal attacks.
Yeah, its all you have.


Yep, indeed you do, looking at the above. Can't help yourself.
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 963
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 11:36:29 AM

Why you were looking me up so hard you found my old Go Fund me


Because you were making tons of claims and kept telling people to check you out, so in the process of validating them it came up, so basically you asked for it.

So time to stop playing the victim and grow up.





Explain this so called scam you keep accusing me of


For the 100th time.

You claimed you where loaded with cash and yet them had to beg people online for $.

You claimed you bought a $10K bike but then you locked it up outside.

None of this adds up and is a clear indication that you scammed people.





Show me exactly where I said I GET TOP SECRET INFO from my sister.


This is not the first time you have asked this question and I have answered it, but I think it is pretty clear, as your MO is to just pretend that it never happened in hope that people will forget you already got caught in that lie.

Your words, so either you do not understand English or you are claiming there are people with top secret clearance who are also giving you information.


Will President Elect Donald Trump Last The Full 4 Years?
Msg: 2134
I have sources beyond the media who have top secret clearance like Trump and they say we are ****ed.






The fact is that you cant confirm OR thereby deny what happened between me and Kirk didnt go down, so show me the CCU records for whichever of the two hospitals he would have been taken to


Extraordinary claims require some time of evidence and to date you have offered zero.

As such there is no burden for me to prove a negative.

So the least you could do is explain how a super star NHL player gets admitted to a Critical Care Unit and no one hears a peep about it.





Do you know what you are Frank?
A racist.
Yeah...thats why you deflect and come here to high jack and further railroad this discussion...because you wanna shift focus off this topic, because you know thats exactly what you are.
A racist goof.


Well Bob it is clear you are trying to deflect away from the fact I called you out on your lies.

As it is clear you are a scammer / liar / narcissistic bully.

So best of luck with all of that.
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 964
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 11:37:42 AM
Many people do not understand entitlements and refuse to see their benefit from such entitlements. And most often it is patriarchal, white dominant, christian ideology that promotes ignorance and refuses the fact of their entitlements:wealth, property control, freedoms, power, etc, carried into our current institutions: education, health, employment, law- penal and justice systems. if laws, philosophies, or government enacts to correct a few of these entitlements, an outrage of ignorance, denial of entitlement, bordering on illiterate, blind and deaf with only a mouth available for spouting nonsense., the information is available so why is it ignorance amok?

I suppose if society status quo allows one power and success, they desire to keep it.. Those that benefit from status quo, view any change vile and vehemently, sometimes violently negate and oppose such. I have heard so many ignoramuses say Obama was a president there is no more racism.. wow---can not even address it. or they point to celebrity sport persona, or music claim: that proves no minority can say racism is real Let me say i know there is only one race, human- however many ethnicities and as it is our current term for differences i utilize it here..
FFS a man supposedly interested in dating me: actually said seriously, referring to immigrants from mexico "There are more of them then us" needless to say i had no desire to join him in us` dumb white man' talk.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 965
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/22/2017 7:52:49 PM

Many people do not understand entitlements and refuse to see their benefit from such entitlements.

Agreed. We have a whole generation that seems to feel'entitled'...none moreso than, as usual... whites.
With this ignorance comes an undertone of arrogance, which stems from this whole premise of 'white male superiority' thats carried out in a plethora of ways and enacted on many different levels.


I suppose if society status quo allows one power and success, they desire to keep it..


Poor whites will argue a seemingly valid point by stating that they have neither. True...individually they dont, but they still are part of a collective that does. Many of the benefits are not immediate, obvious, or easy to realize...and for most this never changes as they go thru life unaware of the benefits they reap.

I have heard so many ignoramuses say Obama was a president there is no more racism..

Its was pretty clear to me already that YOU are not a racist, and when you make comments like this... you assert my assessment.
individual black success stories do NOT indicate whether racism is 'over' or not. If so, racim would have been declared over in the early 1900's.

Let me say i know there is only one race, human- however many ethnicities and as it is our current term for differences i utilize it here..

Let ME say I hear you loud n clear.
I was discussing the Charlottesville shit on my FB, and during the discussion had to stop dead. Like here, I was saying "white" this and "black" that, and I realized I was doing it NOT because I wanted to identify people that way, but HAD to because of the topic and the way things just are. It actually nauseated me when I read back what I wrote and saw how many times I had to differentiate people by color.
We are NOT at the point where we can say, "I see no color", so NEVER say that to a POC! It says youre choosing to ignore their identity and culture, and not recognizing their struggles.
Black Lives Matter?
Yeah, well...we all know ALL lives matter, but we are not at a point where we can say that either, just like saying "I see no color"
We would like to, and shoyuld be saying All Lives Matter, and if we are really talking about who that reminder needs to be made for...it should really be a rally of all races, stating that POOR lives matter.

Oh yeah
Thanks for teaching me something.
I didnt...cant...and never thought of what it really must be like for a GOOD non-racist white person to deal with a racist date, or the challenges you face in finding out whether they are or not. When it isnt already on your conscious check list, it must be quite a shock when you find someone youre out on a date with throws around racist comments and attitude.

I really get a good sense from your comments that bigots really turn you off.

Yeah, for anyone questioning my purpose and point of being here?
To talk with people like you and a few others.



 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 966
Arrogant + ignorant = RACIST
Posted: 8/23/2017 8:57:18 AM
Your sharing with me, and other post's on this topic, and the Op's topic of this chat and another forum topic about Political affiliation, helped me to make a decision on changing my profile and approach to the dating world, and wallaaa already those that voiced or expressed original interest loose it immediately.

I throw the hard questions or my core, fundamental beliefs out within the first two messages, so thank you for your honest interest, the OP's brave opening topic, and POF forums. I believe this strategy may and does reduce options, yet it weeds out relationships destined for disrespect, deceit, where both parties actually believe the other is an idiot. lol

I too have been guilty of the statement or similar statements, of" I do not see color or pay no attention to color"; however, through education and experience I now understand my view was/is actually, I see and acknowledge the obvious differences; however, i do not judge by color, sex, religion etc- and i can and do note that external characteristics and sometimes internal characteristics, have radically different situational effects and have response and expression effects.

I understand there is an ongoing attempt to oppress and or subjugate, based on aforementioned differences as well as forced assimilation as an attempt to devalue "minority" groups experience and expression. In my way while not an "activist" i attempt to address the negative effect such oppression has on the growth and advancement of "civil"ization on the whole.
-those external as well as internal characteristics create our diverse world of individuals with differing needs, desires and concerns.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 967
Not All White People Are Racists Like Orangetiger et al
Posted: 8/23/2017 5:40:12 PM
Well!
I must say...
Your candor, honesty, articulation, openness, humility, intelligence, understanding, motives, beliefs...and growth and changes have certainly, for me..made ALL this...
Worthwhile.
So I owe you a thanks as well.

Im more than glad to have been a part of the changes and improvements youve made to your profile.
I have yet to check it.
I kinda feel like I almost dont need to.
I hope your 'weeding out' process helps you..its something I totally understand.
I too designed my profile to weed out.

Im glad you throw out the hard questions... the need to be both asked honestly, and answered honestly.

Your understanding of 'seeing no color' also shows how open and objective you are.
I get you. You only try to hold factual, honest and moral opinions, and will stand by them...but you will not hesitate to change them the second some knowledge comes along to further enlighten and educate you, causing you to either a) cling to your now revealed as erroneous POV, or b) just dump the old for the new and feel no blame, guilt or shame for having your previous opinion..which isnt even always wrong, just sometimes incomplete.

Based on your present state of awareness...
I think youre far enough up the ladder to be considered whats called a "White Traitor".
Pretty good if ya ask me!
http://imgur.com/a/11JFE
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 968
Not All White People Are Racists Like Orangetiger et al
Posted: 8/24/2017 7:56:55 AM
Lol~ Inga Muscio, still have to read her book "blue eyed devil" Thanks for your compliments. I appreciate them.

knowledge comes along to further enlighten and educate you, causing you to either a) cling to your now revealed as erroneous POV, or b) just dump the old for the new and feel no blame, guilt or shame for having your previous opinion.

yes that is what i like about honest discourse. In college, a discussion arose about the cognitive dissonance many married white women in the upper socio economic class in the anti racist movement as "sleeping with the enemy"and the discord it created for factions in the movements, and in general, even outside the movement, often causing a negation of support for Civil rights advancements, as white women often reap or manipulate the benefits of status quo. I benefit- I had a situation with police: whereas, had i been a different gender, or an externally ascribed ethnicity~other than white i would most likely be dead. To be fair even if a white man had done what i did he too would probably be dead. Yet as a middle aged white women, i present no threat, to authority or any one.

I went to the link, http://imgur.com/a/11JFE very interesting. I -myself have difficulty finding short succinct ideas in my head or the ability to represent my views succinctly.

Hilary Clinton did not understand her role in maintaining status quo, and supporting the man, she is an upitty "aggressive" white *insert derogatory female term of your choice here* though i voted for her had no delusions she would succeed- i did not agree with her total platform, however, she is a diplomatic, experienced- skilled politician, i had no fear she was a war monger, or an hysterically menopausal *itc*, who would push the nuke button, in an ego pissing contest.
Maybe the human race will exist long enough to actually have representative diversity present in our reported and documented history..and value and report the contributions as well as tragedies, oppression and subjugation of all, honestly
 DarkjujuEmpath
Joined: 6/22/2016
Msg: 969
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/28/2017 10:46:45 PM
I am always amazed at the number of men who state they don't want to date black women but still contact them. Let's be clear they most likely do not like the black women who approach them. And they are more than up for a little chocolate on the side. She will never be anything deep and meaningful to him but he is up for the FWB.
I am shocked this posting didn't get clipped...
I must admit I am greatly offended when the majority of white guys who contact me are at least an hour away from the city I live in. I get the feeling they are up to no good... Makes my hincky sense go up.
 forumfishonly
Joined: 8/6/2017
Msg: 970
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 6:59:02 AM
^^^^ you're a great looking lady, especially for your age, it surprised me! So you're bound to get guys wanting to sleep with you, message you, regardless of where they live...as I always say you get what you pay for on POF...enjoy the attention, most of the undateables on here aren't quite so fortunate.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 971
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Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 8:02:09 AM

I am always amazed at the number of men who state they don't want to date black women but still contact them. Let's be clear they most likely do not like the black women who approach them. And they are more than up for a little chocolate on the side. She will never be anything deep and meaningful to him but he is up for the FWB.
I am shocked this posting didn't get clipped...
I must admit I am greatly offended when the majority of white guys who contact me are at least an hour away from the city I live in. I get the feeling they are up to no good... Makes my hincky sense go up.


I'm guessing because you're in Texas (Houston...Hope things aren't too bad in your area.), interracial dating may not be as common as it is up here in the western part of Washington state.

I've only dated and been in relationships (married once) with black women since the mid 1980s. These guys could be where I was at back then and haven't taken that step yet. I took it and haven't looked back.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 972
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 8:14:15 AM
That is interesting.. do they state in their profile they won't date black women, yet contact you? Yes, you are beautiful and I would think a lot of men would be attracted to you :)
I see black men with white women here, but rarely a black woman with a white man.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 973
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 8:27:13 AM

That is interesting.. do they state in their profile they won't date black women, yet contact you? Yes, you are beautiful and I would think a lot of men would be attracted to you :)
I see black men with white women here, but rarely a black woman with a white man.


That does happen. I remember getting winks or emails from women on Match when my race wasn't included on their list of what they are looking for.
 DarkjujuEmpath
Joined: 6/22/2016
Msg: 974
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 8:29:52 AM
Ouija2025
YES they actually say it in their profile they dont date black women and still contact me. It is crazy but what can I say the world is crazy.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 975
Racism is not sexy
Posted: 8/29/2017 8:59:01 AM
True :) I'd be tempted to be all rachet on them. Certainly shallow of them - like hey they might give Rhianna a chance!
Meanwhile I am guessing Cooldog is walking to your place as I type.
You had a diff user name before, I like this one
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